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Albert Santoro Obituary
AGE: 79 • Wilmington
Passed away peacefully in his sleep on Monday, September 1st. He was born in Wilmington, Delaware on June 23, 1935 to the late Peter Anthony and Alfea (Nee: Neri) Santoro. He was predeceased by his sister Alberta Camoirano and wife Barbara K. Santoro.
Prior to starting an international supply and exporting business of high temperature flame and heat resistant textiles and products in 1994, Al worked for 30 years with the manufacturing facility, Haveg Industries.
At a very early age, "Big Al," as his friends would call him, discovered a love for playing reed instruments… first the clarinet and then the saxophone. In 1951, at the age of 16, he formed his first band, The Stardusters, playing mostly at school dances around the area. He later renamed his band, Al Santoro and the Hi-Liters, and has entertained those within the Tri-State area for 63 years - at more weddings followed by anniversaries followed by second and third generation weddings to count. In addition to playing in his own band, he was a member of the 287th Army Band playing for dignitaries, politicians, and even a couple of Presidents.
Most recently, Al truly enjoyed playing with so many countless and talented musicians from across the State as well as tooting his horn as a member of several area big bands. He forged lasting friendships from playing music and he always cherished the times he spent with his fellow musicians.
He loved music dearly, but also found great joy in gardening and spending time at the beach. Al always loved travel, and over time, had visited many countries outside of the United States (with Italy taking the number one spot).
From the bandstand at Bellevue Park to the boardwalk of Rehoboth Beach, Al brought unlimited joy to so many throughout our community. Behind the scenes, he was very active with area not-for-profit organizations helping to bring funding and awareness to each cause. These groups included serving the Board of Trustees for Societi da Vinci and Italo-Americans United; Chairman Emeritas of Delaware All-State Theatre; Delaware Hospice volunteer; and one of the first presidents to lead the Board of Trustees for Delaware Children's Theatre.
Albert Santoro is survived by his brother Arthur Santoro and his wife Renee of Landenberg, PA; his daughter Deena Santoro of Wilmington, DE; his son Anthony Santoro and his wife Kristina of Newark, DE; his son Nick Santoro of Wilmington, DE; his son Jeffrey Santoro of Wilmington, DE; his grandchildren: Ryszard, Dmitrik, Anthony, and Brandon.
Al will be missed dearly by his beloved nephews, nieces, extended family, friends, and his companion Doris Emory.
Family and friends are invited to visit and pay respects to Al and family at St. Anthony's of Padua Catholic Church at 901 N. Dupont St, Wilmington, DE 19805 on Friday, September 5th in the evening from 5 to 8 pm. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Anthony's of Padua Catholic Church on Saturday, September 6th, at 10 am. There will be no morning visitation. Burial will be in All Saints Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Albert's name to Delaware Hospice, 16 Polly Drummond Shopping Center, Newark, DE 19711.
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Rosarii Farrell
July 21, 2016
I met AL through my friends Jack and Linda McDermott. I was going through some photos last evening and came across some of AL. We used to keep in contact by email but hadn't been in contact for a few years. I Google his name and was shocked that his obituary came up. From the first time I met him I knew he was a very special person, his beautiful smile, and kindness showed that he was a true gentlemen. I had the pleasure of hearing him play his sax so many times in the years I knew him. But most of all I will remember him for his kindness shown to me when my friend Jack McDermott was sick , Al picked me up at the airport when I arrived in Philadelphia to spend time with Jack at the hospital before his passing, calling in each day to see Jack and the comfort shown at Jack's funeral.
Rest easy my friend. Heaven has received the most beautiful sax player I have ever had the pleasure to hear play. Love always your Canadian friendxoxo
Jimmy Cara
September 8, 2014
Al ... It seems like we have been playing in bands together forever. We go back a long time, at least to H.S. years, (The Stardusters) and before.
But the band I remember being the best, and having the most fun in, was the one we took to Wildwood and played "The Riptide" then settled in "Moores Inlet" in N. Wildwood.... "The Hi-Five".(the renamed original Stardusters)
OH those Wildwood Days, and WOW those WILDwood nights.
Reat In Peace My Brother....
Jimmy.
Vicki Knotts
September 6, 2014
Jeff and Family,
I hardly have a memory of the Nemours Italy trip without Al in it. He kept us laughing the whole trip through ... from his "lost" passport, his joining in with the band to sing on a whim to his getting us a table for 14 in a packed resturant without a reservation because he told the waitstaff (in fluent Italian) that he had "money, lots and lots of money"! He was simply a treasure and I was so blessed to have met him. He had the rare gift to make everyone, even complete strangers, SMILE through his wit with words and his breathtaking music. And, Jeff, I see a lot of his personality shine through you. He will be fondly remembered.
Anthony LaFazia
September 5, 2014
Al was such a presence when performing. You couldn't help but feel you were on stage with him. My condolences to the family.
Christine Camoirano
September 5, 2014
I was truly blessed to have a childhood filled with wonderful memories of my Uncle Al and our families together. As well as the memory of my moms insurmountable love for her dear brother. You will live on in all our hearts. I love you.
Liv H Whaples
September 5, 2014
With Sympathy for your family, and with many loving thoughts for the wonderful memories you gave to my husband, and me while dancing to the music of your band before my husband went to be with the Lord. From my heart, Liv H Whaples
September 4, 2014
Al was a great guy. I always enjoyed being in his company.
- Gary Letts ( New Castle, DE)
Kathleen Keane
September 4, 2014
"The song is ended but the melody lingers on..."
September 4, 2014
Harlem Nocturne was recorded by many artists: a slow dance tune that made you want to pull your girlfriend in close and float away. Nobody could play this sultry sax number better than AL. He will be remembered for so much more, but for me. …Thank You Al Santoro for that teenage memory and the honor of having known you.
John Ciafre'
Wilmington, DE
September 4, 2014
Rest in Peace Al...you will be missed. Always one of our favorite patients!
Michael Rosenthal & Staff
Liinda Sobieski
September 4, 2014
A lucky man who rocked! Thanks Al for so many good times!
Jack Beeson
September 4, 2014
I shall never hear the song "Harbor Lights" without thinking of Al.
Craig and Doris Russell
September 4, 2014
We had his band at out wedding almost 40 years ago and we still remeber him and his band likt it was yesterday . We are glad we got to meet him God Bless his family 1975
September 4, 2014
Nick & Jeff:
So sorry for the loss of your father! After reading his touching obituary, it is easy to see where you both inherited your love of theatre and music.
My deepest sympathies to you and your families-
Anita Rhoades McCloskey
St Mark's '86
September 4, 2014
What a great man, you will be missed by so many. Thank you for all the laughs over the years. I know you are playing great music in Heaven now and if I close my eyes I can hear the sounds of that sax. Prayers to your family may they find comfort quickly.
mary lou monsen evans
September 4, 2014
Thank you for great times at St. E's dances and lately at Delaware City on Saturday night. Play for all my friends in heaven.
Ralph & Michele Giofre
September 4, 2014
To the Santoro Family, We are sincerely sorry for your loss. We hope that through your family members, friends and many fond memories, you will find the Lord's healing strength during this difficult time. Many of us have been blessed to hear the stories and the music "Big Al" shared with us. May God Bless You All.
September 4, 2014
A great guy and a great musician. He will be missed.
Tom Wingate
September 4, 2014
Art, sorry about your brother. Rick Van Hekle
mick light
September 4, 2014
what a great guy so much fun to watch perform he played at my wedding 36 years ago im guessing he will find out now if in "heaven there is no beer" rip my friend god got a good one
Craig Laushey
September 3, 2014
I was shocked to hear of the passing of Al. He was a really great guy to talk with. Always smiling. Your all in my thoughts and prayers.
Annette Ott
September 3, 2014
My condolences go out to his family. He was a great musician and a close, dear friend to my parents. To watch him perform, even as a little kid, was amazing. He was a legend. RIP and God Speed.
September 3, 2014
Al was such a "larger than life" person, it makes it almost impossible to accept we won't be seeing him any more. In addition to his wonderful talent as a musician, he was a most generous, caring man. Our hearts go out to Doris and his family. Jim & Susan (Lewis) Rawleigh
Barry Townsend
September 3, 2014
Thanks for the memories, big guy. You provided a lot enjoyment to a lot of people. You shared your passion and gift with all of us. We are forever thankful. RIP.
Richard Senseny
September 3, 2014
Al, I had the distinct honor to sit and play saxophone with you one time at a Steve Lewis Big Band practice in Newport in the basement of a church. I was awe struck at your talent and went to see you at Bellevue and the St. Anthony's Italian festival as often as I could. I know your in heaven now playing those great licks!
Debbie Evans Platinum Entertainment Professionals
September 3, 2014
"Big Al", my heart was broken when I heard you left us. I will miss talking with you over the phone and your upbeat personality. You were such a great musician, gentle man & heart as big as the world. Heaven's music section, just got better. You will be missed my dear friend. RIP and know you will never be forgotten. Much Love to you. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and know that they will find comfort in all the wonderful memories.
Marlene Barone
September 3, 2014
There are no words to ease the ache in your hearts. Know you have a beautiful Angel on your shoulder forever more.
September 3, 2014
Santoro family, Sorry to hear of your dad's passing. I danced many times to his music over the many years. He always made you feel like you were he best friend. Loved his playing of the sax.
Ronnie Renai
Atlanta, GA
Rosemary Orsini
September 3, 2014
Sincere condolences to Al Santoro's family. He was a very nice man. Not only did he perform at my wedding in 1989, but when we saw him performing at the grandstand in Rehoboth Beach, he dedicated our " wedding song " to us once again. Made our wedding and our 20th anniversary memorable. Thoughts and prayers to the family. John and Rosemary Orsini
Lucille Gallucio
September 3, 2014
Goodbye Al. My family will miss u very much especially Anthony. He wanted u to play a piece on another recording of his. Thank u for all the "good times" we had especially the Italy trips. Thank u for ur faithful visits to the restaurant & for being there with Jerry on his last day. Rest in Peace, Love You! Lucille, Anthony, Michael, Renee & her husband Rob.
Rich Deegan
September 3, 2014
He left us with enough fond memories to fill our hearts for lifetime. You can do no better in this life than to have the love of your family, friends and admirers. Al had that gift. For those of us who we're blessed to know him he was and always will be a cherished part of our lives. Until we meet again, Thanks Al Jan Grebe and Rich Deegan
Robert Fusco
September 3, 2014
Dear Al, Barbara & Family
Al & Barbara are in a better place now with no more suffering of any kind!! They have now the opportunity to reunite with one another after a few years of their separation due to the loss of Barbara.
They are/were both beautiful people while here!!
I did work at Prudential with Barbara for many years. What a kind,outgoing, just wonderful woman Barbara was.
Al, I also knew from St.Anthony's Church since he & my recently deceased Father Mike Fusco were Good friends there, as well as my musicly inclined Brother Rick Fusco were also friends.
Al, & Barbara will be dearly missed, however, they will visit our Parents, & all of you living Family members must remember, You Are Now Being Looked Down Upon From Your Loving Parent Angels!!
Diana Bozzo
September 3, 2014
Al was the best of the best!! loved listening to his music, reminded me of my parents dancing together to all his songs!! Always brought a tears of remembrance.... RIP Al, your legacy will live on forever...
Donna Miller
September 3, 2014
Anthony,
So sorry for your loss! Sending prayers and hugs.
My deepest sympathies.
Donna (from Dr. Goldberg's office)
Frank Valentine
September 3, 2014
Although your gone my memories of our apple pie contest will always be with me. I'll miss you buddy. Frank Valentine
Rick Rossi
September 3, 2014
I am a successful saxophone musician in Los Angeles. I was originally from Wilmington and Al was one my first saxophone teachers. My Dad was a big fan of Al's saxophone playing and I remember my dad sneaking me into clubs where he was playing. Al had such a great personality, everyone liked him. I even had the pleasure of seeing him about 3 years ago at my Dad's 80th birthday party and as a surprise my sister hired Al and his band to play for the party. I had a great time talking to him after not seeing him for 30+ years and even sat in with the band on my sax. What a great guy! He will be sorely missed by my whole family!
Robert Prouse
September 3, 2014
Good Show, AL.
September 3, 2014
The Santora Family: Our sincere condolences in the loss of Your Loved One. Al was a dear Friend, and, we wii miss him terribly.
Love, Jim & Anna Brown
Etta O'connor
September 3, 2014
My sympathy to Doris all Al's family. He was a great musician and guy.
Brian Martinenza
September 3, 2014
So sorry to hear of your loss, our deepest condolences, Brian & Cheryl Martinenza
Alicia & Steve Oldham
September 3, 2014
Anthony , Deena and Family.. We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts at this time.
Lynn Turner
September 3, 2014
Doris, We were so sorry to hear of Al's passing, he was a great man. We enjoyed talking to you & him at the Den. My Mom really enjoyed listening to his music, brought back memories for her.
Lynn and Bruce Turner
September 3, 2014
al was a great person, love to dance to his music dottie collins
Cindy Millison
September 3, 2014
What I will remember most about Al is his ability to make others smile because his own smile was intoxicating. He made others feel good about themselves, without uttering a single word. He had such a kind and generous heart. Heaven is much brighter today because you are in it. Peace and blessings to the Santoro Family.
jan grebe
September 3, 2014
Al was a wonderful person and musician, the people in the room would light up when he came in. He always brought joy to people when he played. He will truly be missed by all.
Kris Fletcher
September 3, 2014
Al, my friend and mentor, I will miss you. Thank you for the fun times we shared in band, thank you for lighting up my holiday parties, thank you for sharing your gift of music with us all. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. The world is a lot dimmer today...we will all miss that big smile, big personality, big heart.
September 3, 2014
Doris, sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers. Al Riley
Jennifer Manning
September 3, 2014
Doris, Jeff, Deena, Anthony, Nicky and all the grandkids, my heart goes out to all of you. Al has been so wonderful to me and my girls through the years. A true friend and confidante. I love him and he will always hold a special place in my heart. So sad. My thoughts, prayers and sympathies to all of you.
Linda Hardy
September 3, 2014
So sorry to hear of Al's passing. He was a wonderful, talented person. He had a heart of gold. He was a wonderful friend to my father. He will be dearly missed.
Linda(Delle Donne) Hardy
Deb Johnson
September 3, 2014
Seriously ... I'm at a loss for words. You were the kind of guy who was so full of life and joy, it's hard to imagine you not being here any longer. I have so many fond, happy memories of you, but one of my favorites is when you came to my preschool music class to introduce the saxophone to my 3 & 4 year old students and them all happily dancing around you as you played "In The Mood". I remember how we laughed about that song choice! You were one of the biggest characters in my life and I loved you for your silly jokes, big bear hugs, and, most of all, your big hearty laugh. I am so grateful that I had the opportunity to know you, and call you friend. I'll never eat an Almond Joy again without thinking of you and how we used to playfully fight over them at DAST auditions. I will miss you more than you know, Sir, and I will hold your entire family close to my heart at this time.
Dmitrik Bialach
September 3, 2014
Thanks for all the love you showed us non-no through my childhood. You will be sorely missed by everyone.
susan strawbridge
September 3, 2014
Al - I know you got your biggest wish to see Barbara again! Thanks for all the music you shared. Thanks for all the heart you gave that showed how much you cared about people. Also the legacy of your children of which you are so proud will live on in the world! My prayers go to your family during this time. May you rest in peace as the angels lead you into paradise.
Lauren (Cleary) Holladay
September 3, 2014
You were one of the few people that could effortlessly pull off being classy and goofy at the same time. You could get people from toddlers to octogenarians to dance. And you made the band feel like a big extended family. You will be sorely missed and joyfully remembered.
Audrey deyarmin
September 3, 2014
To Al's family,We will miss him, Jack Campbell said, Al's band always backed him up doing the mumbling man really good God bless Jack and Audrey
Jenn Mills
September 3, 2014
Anthony & Family,
Sorry for your loss.
Randall Huber
September 3, 2014
You entertained us all!
Rest in peace Al!
Randy Huber
Linda Sanders
September 3, 2014
To the family:
With love and sympathy for the grief you are going through now. "Big Al" was a remarkable man and will be missed by any who ever knew him. His megawatt smile and generous spirit are what I will remember and cherish about him. Great love brings great sadness when the loved one passes. Sending love and healing to all of you.
Gerri Necastro
September 3, 2014
In memory of Al. Such a great guy,with a great heart. Loved to see him all the time. Saw him at the Hunter's Den when he played or when he just popped in. He will be missed. My prayers are with the family.
A friend,
Gerri Necastro
Beverly Syed
September 3, 2014
Al was such a wonderful breath of fresh/comedic air when he visited us at Little Vinnie's. He will be missed, dearly. Our deepest sympathy.
September 3, 2014
When the Saints Go Marching In.
john kay
September 3, 2014
Al
I will miss you. we have spent many years together. You have been a very big part of my life.Thank you for everything!I think you are still playing your sax in paradise!
Joann Ignudo-Personti
September 3, 2014
My condolences to the Santoro family. I have many happy memories of listening to Al's band with my husband and mother at the Hunters Den. My mother passed away in June - so Al, sing an Italian song for her! Thank you for the many years of quality entertainment. You will never be forgotten,
Jimmy Johnston
September 3, 2014
You were an awesome musician. I got to see ya a couple of times with some friends. Rest in peace good sir
Thomas Delle Donne
September 3, 2014
A great musician, dear family friend and an incredible human being. A chance encounter with Al always brought joy and we will never forget his ebullient charm and of course that infectious smile.
Jack Campbell
September 3, 2014
Al's band the [ Hi-liters] always backed me up doing the Mumblin man at the Hunters.Den You will be missed greatly.
Mary Hassett
September 3, 2014
Rest in peace my friend. You will be truly missed. Condolences to Anthony, Nick, Jeff, Deena and Doris
joe masone
September 3, 2014
al, you will be missed...loved talking to you and hearing your stories...playing the sax was your favorite thing..you will be missed..rip my friend
Helena Burkentine
September 3, 2014
Always enjoyed your music at the Hunters Den..you were a lot of and a true gentelman. Condolences to the family. God Bless.
Ronald Brabson
September 3, 2014
Al sat in with us at the Newark Community Band often. He was a pleasure to know.
Carol Baldwin (Camoirano)
September 3, 2014
Rest in peace, Uncle Al. The memories are flooding back to me now like a tidal wave...so many good ones... Love you, and you'll be so missed.
Susan Louth
September 3, 2014
Tony and Family ~
Please know my thoughts and prayers will be with you during this difficult time. I know all too well about the pain associated with the sudden death of a parent. Stay strong and know we are all keeping you in our hearts.
Theresa Cara
September 3, 2014
My condolences to the Santoro
Family.Prayers are with you all.Al will be remembered by all who knew him, Great Guy And No.1 Musican
Linda McDermott
September 2, 2014
I will never forget you Al. Your loyalty to Jack when he was sick and your friendship to me. You stayed with him to the end. I hope you are both having a good time in heaven. You can play your sax and he can dance to the music! Love and condolences to your beautiful family. Love you always.
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