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John Heckscher Obituary

John Heckscher, 80, died peacefully on June 21, 2017 after a courageous battle with can cer. He was the loving husband for 49 years of Katharine Heckscher and devoted father of Sarah Hyche (Ashley) of Charlotte, NC and Elizabeth Jackvony (Randall) of Cranston, RI. He was the proud Grandad of Davin and Ellery Hyche and Benjamin and Adam Jackvony. John is also survived by his sister, Ellen Smith (Brad), his brother Charles Heckscher (Susan), his in-laws Ralph Dearborn (Jerrie) and Betsy Miller (Chuck), and by nieces and nephews Brad, Steven, Lela, Anne, Donald, Susan and Katherine. John was born in Philadelphia, PA in August 1936 to Marjorie and Charles Heckscher, He was commissioned a Second Lieutenant, USAF and received a Bachelor of Science degree in Electrical Engineering from Princeton University in 1958, combining studies in engineering and physics. He was awarded a Master of Science degree in EE from Johns Hopkins University in 1959. John worked at Hanscom Air Force Base as a research and program manager for 42 years, where his work projects in low frequency radio waves and ionospheric research took him to Alaska, Greenland, Sweden and Denmark. He was program director for HAARP, a joint Air Force and Navy project in Alaska. John was named Outstanding Professional Employee for 1994 by the Boston Federal Executive Board, and was the recipient of the Phillips Laboratorys Technology Management Award in 1996. At his retirement in 2002, he was given the Outstanding Civilian Career Service Award by the Department of the Air Force. He was honored for his volunteer service to the community by the Wayland Council on Aging and by CareGroup Parmenter. First and foremost John loved being with his children and grandchildren and his extended family and friends. Among Johns many other interests were singing with the Golden Tones and the church choir, playing tennis, gardening, reading, solving Sudoku puzzles, bird watching and inventing solutions to fix things for his home and others. John was actively involved in the Wayland Council on Aging, driving meals-on-wheels, and being on the fix-it crew. He served on the Board of the Wayland Historical Society serving as Newsletter Editor for 11 years and was on-call handyman for Parmenter Nursing and Hospice. John will be remembered as a kind, generous, talented and loving gentleman, who thrived in service to his friends and family. A Celebration of Johns life will be held on Saturday, August 26, 2017 at 2:00 pm at the First Parish in Wayland, 50 Cochituate Road, Wayland. Interment will be private in North Cemetery, Wayland. In lieu of flowers, gifts in Johns memory may be made to the Golden Tones, Inc., 41 Cochituate Road, Wayland, MA 01778 (www.goldentones.org) or the Parmenter Foundation, 266 Cochituate Road, Wayland, MA 01778 (www.parmenterfoundation.org). For condolences and directions visit www.johncbryantfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Wayland Town Crier from Jun. 24 to Jul. 6, 2017.

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January 4, 2018

Kathy, Sarah and Elizabeth

John was one of the finest people I have ever known-interesting, honorable, intelligent, caring, deeply tolerant & always ready to understand others..as well as fun and a great tennis player. I have only now heard that you lost him in June. How much you must miss him. As I just told my Patrick, John was a truly good man and accomplished in so many interesting ways I never knew about. I remember vividly how he saved our little neighbor dog from coyotes--then drove him at midnight that Sat to the emergency vet in Waltham and plunked down his own credit card for the $500 deposit. Saved the dog's life in what may be the most neighborly Good Samaritan gesture I have ever known. I have many more memories to share. All my sympathy. Robin Wood

KELLEY

June 29, 2017

MAY THE THOUGHT OF KNOWING THAT FRIENDS AND FAMILY SHARE IN YOUR GRIEF BRING YOU A MEASURE OF COMFORT.PLEASE READ PROV 17:17

June 26, 2017

Dear Sarah, Elizabeth and Mrs. Heckscher,

It was with great sadness that I learned from Susan (Carls) Churchill today of the passing of your father/husband.

He was always very kind when I saw him when I visited the house when Sarah and I were friends. I vividly recall talking with him a couple of summers ago as Gretchen Schuler was lead a tour of some Conservation Land. We bonded as Princetonians.

May you and the extended family feel loved and supported during this difficult time.

Love, Patricia (Patty) Lin

Natalie Oxman

June 24, 2017

Dear Kathy and family, I am so sorry for your loss I will always remember John's talent and willingness to share it with others. He brought joy, laughter, and love to the Golden Tones.

June 23, 2017

Elizabeth
My heart is heavy for the loss of your dad. I know he's resting peacefully now but it doesn't make it any easier to lose a parent. You and your family are lucky to have each other and your dad was loved and admired by all he knew. Take care of your mom❤

If there is anything you need please don't hesitate to call. The coming days will be tough. Please know I am here for you. Take care,
Toni Don Jared and Jason

June 23, 2017

Dear Kathy & Family,
Please accept our deepest condolences for the passing of John. He will truly be missed by all us.

Warm Regards,
The Parmenter Foundation Staff

June 23, 2017

I am saddened to know of John's passing, and I wish to extend my sympathy to Kathy, Sarah, and Elizabeth. Together they comprised a wonderful family that I remember fondly all of these years later.
Be well!

Frank Kelley

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