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John Iuele Obituary

IUELE John Iuele, 91, of Winston-Salem died Sunday, Jan. 27, 2008, at Wake Forest University Baptist Medical Center. John Iuele was born on Feb. 23, 1916, in Tessano, Italy, to Concetta Iaccino and Vincenzo Iuele. By the age of 8, he began playing the trumpet in a grade-school band. Interestingly, he thought that he would be learning the clarinet, but when the instruments arrived he was assigned the trumpet. This was the first step in what would take him into a lifelong career in music. In 1928, John and his family immigrated to the United States and settled in Niagara Falls, N.Y. In high school, he excelled in playing the trumpet, so much so, that his high school guidance counselor convinced him to apply to Michigan State University. He graduated from MSU with a degree in instrumental music. He studied trumpet and conducting for two summers at Tanglewood, Mass., where he met and worked with Leonard Bernstein. He was encouraged to do further study in New York City where he attended the Julliard School of Music. While at Julliard, he studied under Thor Johnson. Johnson encouraged him to pursue conducting, and he started seeking work both as a trumpet player and as a conductor. He played three seasons with the New York City Symphony, the New York City Opera, the Metropolitan Opera, a summer season with the Detroit Symphony and a special concert with the New York Philharmonic Orchestra at Carnegie Hall. He performed under the direction of the leading conductors of the time - Toscanini, Stokowski, Leinsdorf and Koussevitsky. In 1950, he moved to Atlanta, Ga., to play first trumpet with the Atlanta Symphony, and later became the assistant conductor to Henry Sopkin. In 1952, with Sopkin' s recommendation, he became the full-time conductor of the Winston-Salem Symphony. He commuted from Atlanta to Winston-Salem for three years before moving permanently to the area in 1955. Under Iuele' s leadership, the Winston-Salem Symphony went from a modest community orchestra to a highly professional one. He started a series of in-school concerts that brought symphonic music directly to the area schools. Many Winston-Salem residents today still remember hearing these concerts from their childhood. He also started the Music at Sunset summer series to bring symphonic music to a family-friendly outdoor setting. In 1978, Iuele left the Winston-Salem Symphony to become the conductor and musical director of the Palm Beach Symphony for three years. Upon retirement from the symphony, he directed the Gilbert & Sullivan Light Opera Society for another two years. When his wife, Alice, passed away suddenly in 1987, he traveled and eventually moved back to North Carolina. He lived in Asheville for a brief time to be closer to his daughter, Kathy, and her family. In the early 1990s, he moved back to Winston-Salem and began renewing the many friendships that he had made during his tenure with the Winston-Salem Symphony. He enjoyed an active social life and was often seen in the company of his dear friend, Caroline Ebeid. John Iuele was predeceased by his wife, Alice Amsden Iuele; his parents; and brothers Ernest and Ornello Iuele. John is survived by a younger sister, Theresa Basta of Mission Viejo, Calif.; a younger brother, Orlando Iuele of Santa Barbara, Calif.; son Jim and daughter-in-law Joanne Iuele of Bedford, Texas; daughter Kathy and son-in-law Jay Banks of Winston-Salem; grandson John Banks of Brooklyn, N.Y.; granddaughter Alice and her husband, Kevin Littlewood, of Raleigh; and granddaughter Theresa Banks of Boone. Services will be held at 2 p.m. today, Jan. 30, at St Paul' s Episcopal Church, Summit Street, Winston-Salem (please note the change in location of services). Burial services will be held a later date in East Lansing. Online condolences may be made at www.Salemfh.com. The family requests that, in lieu of flowers, donations be made to the Music School of Michigan State University, East Lansing, Mich.; the Winston-Salem Symphony; or a charity of the donor' s choice. The family wishes to thank the residents and staff of Independence Village for their wonderful support and many acts of kindness during John Iuele' s stay with them. (Salem Funeral Home)

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Published by Winston-Salem Journal from Jan. 29 to Jan. 30, 2008.

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Martha Vance-Low

January 31, 2008

Dear Family,
Your father was such an inspiration
to young musicians in Winston-Salem. I will never forget his
statuesque presence as he conducted
the WS Symphony. I attended NCSA and heard his name praised by so many musicians there. I am so sorry
for this great loss. God Bless.

margo majette

January 30, 2008

your father was the most kind and gentle man I ever knew. he will be missed by so many

Dan Ashe

January 30, 2008

A wise man said to me in my earlier years as a very young musician, "There will always be fine instrumentalists and performers in the world of music, but, no matter how crowded that field becomes, there will always be room for a fine musician." John Iuele said that to me as I became a member of the Winston-Salem Symphony. At the time, it seemed like just words, but he saw something in me that no one else had seen. We are all better having known "The Maestro" and his presence in Heaven has made that a better place too! Thank You John! I Love You
Dan Ashe

KAREN DUBOSE

January 30, 2008

I REMEMBER MR. IUELE AND THE SYMPHONY @ KIMBERLY PARK ELEM SCHOOL BACK IN THE 60'S. I WAS ONE OF THE FORTUNATE ONES TO BE BACK STAGE TO HELP SERVE REFRESHMENTS, ETC. I WAS SO IN AWE @ HIS PRESENCE. MAY GOD COMFORT YOUR FAMILY AT THIS TIME.

debra simons

January 29, 2008

Kathy and family, I was saddened to hear of the death of your father and grandfather. The memories that so many have of him will live on and that is some consolation but of course does not make up for the loss you feel at this time. He was obviously a wonderfully talented person and your dad at the same time. He leaves behind a great legacy for many to cherish. Please know you are in my thoughts at this time. Love, Debra Simons and family

Johanna Kiricoples

January 29, 2008

An absolutely amazing gentle man. I too remember him from St. Leo's. For some reason I have never forgotten him; his dimeanor, his grace, his countenance, his presence was commanding!
I had not seen him since grammar school until i entered Independence Village one day to do therapeutic massage on a client. I saw Mr. Iuele. I asked Jerry at the desk if I was correct in my assumption. So, yes i had to go to him for a chat! Reminded him of St. Leo's and told him as well that i had never forgotten him. Whenever i attended a symphony, his impression would be so vivid to me standing and orchestrating; seeing his essence, his face. I saw him last thursday sitting in the lobby. He looked as if he were deep in thought, so i did not bother him...he looked different. I shyed away...of course, I wish I had not....

Thank you Mr. Iuele for a lifetime of 'never forgetting'. In HIS hands I know you will rest.
Johanna Kiricoples

carol markey

January 29, 2008

I have such fond memories of John Iuele that date back when I was in grade school at St. Leo Catholic School, in the 1960's. He used to visit us, talk with us and play for us. My parents always took my sister's and I to the W-S Symphony and we just loved it so.
Much later, when he moved to Hanover Arms, he became my mothers neighbor. It was such an honor to know such a good man. He gave so much of himself to others and he added such beauty to our world.
Thank you for sharing him with us. He will be missed very much, but his music and legend will live on for generations. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. carol

Kevin Littlewood

January 29, 2008

We love and miss him very much! He will be missed!

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