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LOFTIN LEXINGTON - Melissa Rierson Loftin, 29, a committed wife, dedicated mother, loving daughter, sister and loyal friend, passed away unexpectedly Tuesday afternoon, March 15, 2011. Born October 20, 1981, Melissa had attended Gospel Light Christian School in Walkertown and was a member of First Christian Church in Kernersville. She was a competitive dancer with Dance Unlimited in Kernersville, a beautiful vocalist and accomplished pianist. She participated in and won numerous local and state beauty pageants, rode motorcycles, and adored shopping. A former employee of QMF Metal & Electronic Solutions in Kernersville, Melissa left the family business to pursue a career in motherhood. She had also established herself as a successful Designer Leader with Premier Jewelry. She was preceded in death by her grandmother, Carolyn Richardson; grandfather, Herman Allen "Punk" Hubbard; and a very special grandfather, Roy M. Rierson whom she affectionately called "Pop". Melissa is survived by her husband, Brian Loftin and son Carson of Lexington; mother, Tina Rierson of Kernersville; father, Clarence Rierson of Walnut Cove; grandmother, Mamie B. Rierson of Kernersville; sister, Candice Rierson McNeill, her husband Darrin and daughter, Autumn of Kernersville; brother, Brian Rierson and his partner, Jason Johnson of Winston-Salem. Known for her contagious smile, loyalty, sweet spirit, and generosity, she was adored by her family and friends, her Premier Jewelry family, the #23 Brian Loftin Racing team, and the entire NASCAR Whelen Southern Modified Racing community. As news quickly spread of her passing, Melissa's Facebook page was filled with condolences and special messages from friends, family, and even strangers. She was truly an inspiration. A Funeral Service will be held at 1:00 p.m. Saturday, March 19, 2011 at First Christian Church in Kernersville with the Dr. Pete Kunkle officiating. Burial will follow in Mt. Gur Cemetery. The family will receive friends from 6:00 to 9:00 p.m. Friday, March 18, 2011 at First Christian Church. Hayworth Miller Kernersville Chapel is assisting the Loftin family. In lieu of flowers, the family has established the Melissa Rierson Loftin Memorial Fund at First Citizens Bank to assist Carson's future education. Online condolences may be made at www.hayworth-miller.com.

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Published by Winston-Salem Journal from Mar. 18 to Mar. 19, 2011.

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Larry Larivee

March 25, 2011

Brian,
Sorry for the loss of your wife. I can't imagine how hard this must be. Hang tight brother, you're in the racing communities thoughts.
Larry Larivee
7-11 Vintage Modified

March 23, 2011

I watched Melissa grow from a teenager to a friendly, beautiful young lady while I worked for her parents. Her energy and personality were a blessing to everyone around her. We are praying for her family, especially for her parents and daughter. (Tracy Beach, Jamestown, NC)

March 21, 2011

Harley and Donna Yarbrough send their heartfelt condolences to Brian and his family during this difficult time. Brian, may God be with you, your son, and your entire family. (Lexington, NC)

Billy & Betty Middleton

March 21, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of grief and sorrow. May God
bless and comfort you.

Jamie Velazquez

March 20, 2011

My thoughts and prayers continue to be with the Rierson/Loftin family. Melissa made a lasting impression on so many people including myself. I always enjoyed reading her FaceBook updates as she always had something to tell us about Carson or the family. May you all find comfort in peace in knowing that she is now in Heaven with our God and she is your special Guardian Angel.

Leslie Murray

March 20, 2011

I my deepest sympathy and prayers go out to Brian and Carson. As well as the entire Rierson-Loftin family! She will be missed terribly! Heaven has gotten a GEM!!

Bill Taborn

March 20, 2011

For Clarence and the family of Melissa, may God's grace continue to give you comfort in this time of loss. Our heartfelt prayers are with you and the entire family. She was a flower picked too soon. God bless, Bill Taborn, assistant chaplain Winston-Salem Hog Chapter

Susan Overby Marshall

March 19, 2011

I will miss Melissa so much! She was such a beautiful person on the inside and out. My thoughts and prayers are with the Rierson/Loftin families.

Mark & Diane Sugg

March 19, 2011

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Mark Adams

March 19, 2011

God Bless you and your family during this time of need. Mark Adams,1620 Princeton Street,WS, NC 27103
Again god will help us get through!

Terri Carle

March 19, 2011

Melissa was a constant reminder of all that was right in this world. Her love for her Husband Brian, and her son Carson, was always evident in her facebook messages as well as her speaking. She inspired many including myself with her success in business. Her smile was always present and lite up the room. She will be missed greatly but will live on in our hearts and minds forever. I love you Melissa! Aunt Terri

Herb Dean

March 19, 2011

Melissa will truely be missed. Brian you and Carson will be contiually in our prayers.

Donna Ward-Doby

March 19, 2011

I will continue to keep the rierson/loftin family in my prayers now and in the many days ahead. Melissa was a special person and she will always hold a special place in my heart.

Lindsey Brewer

March 19, 2011

Melissa was a very sweet and beautiful woman. I only knew her as a regular customer at maurices, but she always had a smile on her face and was a delight to have in the store. We will all miss her. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you in this time of loss.

Robert, Serena and Aidan Koonts

Robert and Serena Koonts

March 19, 2011

Clarence & Tina and Brian,

I knew you all when we were at First Christian in Kernersville and was one of the featured soloist along with Melissa on the Praise Team in the 1990's. I remember being so impressed with Melissa's enthusiasm and how she adored you all.

I had learned of this accident from my family who live in that curve in Welcome... which is also where I grew up. Today I learned that the precious young mother involved in this tragedy was actually Melissa. My wife and I wept as we prayed for you all and her husband and son today. Words can't express our sorrow as we have been in shock all day. Our prayers go out for you and your families as we ask for God's peace and comfort in this time.you grieve this incredible loss. We are so sorry.

With great love and deepest sympathy,

Angela Bowman

March 18, 2011

Love you Melissa!

March 18, 2011

tommy stanley

Jimmy Bryan

March 18, 2011

Our Prayers are with you all
May God be with you all .Bobby,Judy take care of yourselfs we love you all.
Jimmy& Rose Bryan

Jean Rhinehart

March 18, 2011

Tina, Clarence, Candice, Brian: In my heart I know that there are no words that will help with the pain you are going through. But please, please know that I am thinking of you all and praying for you to find the strength that you will need. It's a terrible thing that has happened to your family and to sweet Melissa. I know it's really hard to understand sometimes, but "God knows what he is doing." That's what my Momma would say to me when I couldn't seem to make sense of something. God has a special reason for taking Melissa home to be with him. Please accept my deepest sympathy and remember that I am here if I can help in any way.
Love,
Jean Hubbard Rhinehart

Mel Cribbs

March 18, 2011

So very sorry. Such a sweet girl. My deepest sympathys. Believe in angels and she will always be with you.May God give you strength to get threw this terrible time of sadness.

Nancy Glessner

March 18, 2011

I was so sorry to learn of the passing of Melissa. My daughter Amanda went to school with her at GL. May the Lord comfort you and the family in the days ahead. I will be praying for all of you.

Steve Newsom

March 18, 2011

Brian and family, I am very sorry to hear about your loss. She left way too early.

Brian and Jewel McClenic

March 18, 2011

God Bless and wrap his loving arms around the Rierson and Loftin Families. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Melissa will be missed

Brad & Christin Self

March 18, 2011

We pray for you in this difficult time. Our hearts break for your loss.

Laurie, Dave & Kyle Emery

March 18, 2011

Tina, Clarence, Brian and all the family. Words cannot express the sadness we feel with Melissa's untimely passing. We know you are surrounded with love and support. We send our Love and Prayers. We miss you all very much.

Brian & Melissa Davis

March 18, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Loftins and the Riersons.

Mark Apperson

March 18, 2011

From a racing fan to Brian: I am sorry for your loss. Melissa will be surely missed. Mark Apperson

Teressa Swaim

March 18, 2011

Clarence and Tina, I would like to extend my sincere condolences to you. My heart is so heavy for you all and my prayers are with your family

Barbara Bauguess Ellis

March 18, 2011

May God Bless the Rierson family.I can't imagine the hurt you are feeling.

Angela Stokes

March 18, 2011

May God bless you and hold you close at this very difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you now and as you try to find some peace and comfort.

Angie and the Oreilly Auto parts Family

Kristen Stewart

March 18, 2011

I had the pleasure of meeting Melissa through her Premier Jewelry parties and through my friend Tabitha. Melissa was always a wonderful person to have around, she will be missed greatly by "The Burlington Crew." My heart goes out to the Loftins. May God be with you and give you strength!

March 18, 2011

May God bless you and your family and give you peace.

The Hester Family

Sheryl Brewer

March 18, 2011

My prayers are with both families. May God bless you all.

Tabitha Walker

March 18, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go out to you Brian and Carson and the entire Loftin and Rierson family! May god comfort you! Melissa was a great person and I know you are all going to miss her! I will miss her smiling face and cheerful attitude! I loved her!! RIP MRL

Van & Lisa Sinclair

March 18, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time. Words cannot express how heartbroken we are for all of you. My mom is "Mrs. Cathy", Carson's teacher at preschool. She loves him so much and her heart just aches for him. May God comfort you in the difficult days to come.

Sheila Seagroves

March 18, 2011

A daughter, a sister, a wife, a mother and a friend. You will be missed but never forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with the Rierson's. My family! I love you

Wendy Baker

March 18, 2011

To the Rierson/Loftin Family. So sorry for your loss. Melissa and I went to school together. She was a year older than me but she was such a sweet person. Always had a smile on her face. So Sorry for your loss. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Amanda Fulp

March 18, 2011

Sorry for your loss! Words can't describe what y'all must be going through. My prayers are with you and her entire family

brenda ring

March 18, 2011

so sorry for your loss my prayers are with you and your son,

Paul Davis

March 18, 2011

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, Melissa will be missed and never forgotten. I pray that God comforts your hearts and know that you are all in my prayers.

Tony & Leia Nichols

March 18, 2011

Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

CAROLYN&Mark Gregory

March 18, 2011

Brian&family.I am so sorry about what happen.You&Carson are in my prayers.

Jamie Allen

March 18, 2011

My thoughts & prayers go out to Brian, Carson, and the Rierson family. It is so sad that Melissa was taken away so unexpectedly, but just know that God was ready for her to come home. There are no words that can take away your pain right now, but time will heal your hurt, and Melissa will be looking down on you every day as your Guardian Angel from Heaven above. May God Bless you & keep you in his care. She will be truly missed. She was a beautiful person in every way. Hold on to your faith, it will get you through the hard days ahead. Let God lead the way & comfort you.

Kathy and Charlie Loveland

March 18, 2011

Our family is indeed devastated by the news of Melissa's untimely death. We all will remember her as a delightful young lady. We are so very sorry.

Charlie and Kathy Loveland (Julie and Kim)

Sarah Luckey Mitchell

March 18, 2011

Brian,
I am so sorry for your loss. I remember going putt-putting with Melissa over spring break our freshman year of college. She was so sweet and so much fun to be around! My prayers are with you, Jason and the rest of your family.

Tracy & George Dick

March 18, 2011

You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

March 18, 2011

May god bless and comfort you in this time. You all will be in our thoughts and prayers.-George & Amy Snitzel(King,NC)

Brian Allen

March 18, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss, our prayers are with the family.

Mary Ann & Tom Barksdale

March 18, 2011

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Brittainy Garrison

March 18, 2011

So sorry to hear about your loss. The Loftin and Rierson family are in our thoughts and prayers. -Garrison Racing.

March 18, 2011

There are no words I can say that can ease the pain from your hearts. I can only say that always remember to keep your head up high and look up to the heavens sky and smile, for the Lord has took a angel away.. For Melissa was a friend, her smile and her caring ways. She will never be forgotten. For as time will go by but her memories will only stay on. I can only imagine the pain, the cries the hurt and broken heart for all. I know in time one day you will meet with her again in the beautiful heaven above that now she is in no pain nor sorrow. For life is so short and we tend to forget, but for her it wasnt. Her life has just started. The beautiful Angel she is! May God comfort you and watch after each and every one of you. And my heart cries with you...

Alesia Bates

Barbara Boger

March 18, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Elizabeth Knabel

March 18, 2011

We are sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rob and Elizabeth Knabel

Lia Carter

March 18, 2011

I am so very sorry for your loss. I pray for you all and for the days you have ahead of you. I didn't know her but from all that I see and hear she was such an inspiration. God be with you all!

Terry Slater

March 18, 2011

Brian, you and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers. May God be with you and watch over you during this very difficult time. Terry & Kim Slater (Long time crew member with Pack Racing)

The Ball Family

March 18, 2011

May God bless and keep each of you during this time of utter grief. We are so sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
BG Racing Fans

Chip & Lynne Harpe

March 18, 2011

Brian & Family, Our hearts are broken for you all and our prayers go out to you at this time. Please know we are here for you if you should need us.
Chip & Lynne Harpe

Dee Setzer

March 18, 2011

So sorry for your loss. My you find peace in knowing Meissa is watching over you and your son. Praying for you, Setzer Racing

March 18, 2011

So very sorry to hear about Melissa. Our prayers are with your family during this time.
Jeff and Lori McGuire-Jacob

Lori Neal

March 18, 2011

Melissa - You were the best Jewelry Mom and friend anyone could ever have. I am going to miss your smile, personality, and just being able to talk to you about anything. You will always be remembered! Brian and Carson, We love y'all very much!
Kevin, Lori, and Riley Neal

Lindsey Hooker

March 18, 2011

So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Marc & Deena Davis

March 18, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with all Melissa's family and friends.

Shawn, Michelle & Ridge Todd with Matt Caldwell Racing

March 18, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss. Keep your faith and lean on God. We are praying for your family.

Beth Hall

March 18, 2011

So sorry to hear of Melissa's passing. I cheered with her in high school. She had a radiant personality and smile! She will be missed and our prayers are with you.

Kelly Sink

March 18, 2011

Praying for your family!

Tina Kirkpatrick

March 18, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. We are so sorry for your loss.

Charles Norman, Tina, David and Tiffany Kirkpatrick

Amy Crabtree Williams

March 18, 2011

From the time I learned of Melissa being called home to perform the highest honor of the afterlife of being an Angel my heart has wept. We would love to keep her here forever and in vigil prayer and thoughts we will. She will truly be missed in the living but will live on in the spirit. I had the beautiful oppurtunity of meeting Melissa recently as I too am in the In Home Party business and from the time I met her it was like a magnet. She was contagious with her smile and most of all her laugh and sense of humor. I most of all appreciated her conversation and humbleness about just having a good time. I remember the first thing she told me was we In Home Party girls have to stick together and support eachother which is what we did. She was very fond of her Mother Tina and when she did my Party she was able to meet and spend time with my mother and I which we talked about later how it reminded her of her and her mom. She also spoke often of her brother Brian who from the time I met her I could tell held a special place in her heart but have no doubts she without a question loved and adored all of her family. Even the people whom came to my party that she consulted loved her and were deeply saddened of her untimely passing. She was and will always be remembered as many things but the one word that comes to my mind when I reflect on her is Remarkable. I pray for the strength, guidence, peace, laughter, humbleness, beauty, and compassion that Melissa possessed to remain with the Rierson/Loftin families as she will always be with you and will live in your hearts forever. May God continue to be with you in your life and continue to allow him to carry you thru this difficult time. "Therefore since we have been justified by faith we have peace with God thru our Lord Jesus Christ"- Romans 5;1

Gail Caudle

March 18, 2011

My heart goes out to the entire family and racing community from the loss of a very special lady. God called another angel home and I pray through God's strength you will be able to continue to inspire others with your faith. Thoughts and prayers with al;l of you!

Cindy Keene Clore

March 18, 2011

To a loving Christian lady. I enjoyed knowing her and her family,

Melinda Barrick

March 18, 2011

I am so sorry to hear about Melissa. I remember teaching her in second grade. She always had a smile on her face! I am praying for your family.

Molly and Jeremy Stoltz

March 18, 2011

Keep the faith...we will miss sweet Melissa very much. We love you, Brian and Carson. Love, Molly, Jeremy, Dash and River Stoltz

Randy and Melissa Butner

March 18, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.

Tiffany Hall

March 18, 2011

Ms. Tina, Brian and Jason - Our hearts break knowing you are going through this awful time. We wish we had words to bring comfort and peace, but only that can be found knowing Melissa is with our Heavenly Father. Even though we only met her once, Brian and I remember her sweet smile and her outgoing personality. It was as though we weren't strangers to her, but someone she had known for a long time. We are praying for all of you and for Brian and sweet Carson. They were her life, and that was apparent the way her face lit up when she talked about them! May God wrap you all in His loving arms and give you comfort during this time of sadness. We love you!

Brian and Tiffany Hall

Traci DeWalt

March 18, 2011

My heart and prayers go out to the entire family! I'm truly sorry for your loss.

March 18, 2011

Dear Clarence, Tina and family I can only imagine the void this beautiful child has left behind. May you find the strength, courage, and peace to walk you through this valley. Thoughts and prayers are with you all. Madeleine Lamb

Tracy Kollman

March 18, 2011

Brian you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you all during this critical time.

Gail Beeson

March 18, 2011

Tina, Clarence, and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. I can not imagine the hurt you are feeling. My heart breaks for you all. God be with you, love, Marty and Gail Beeson

Mandy Tedder- Pittman

March 18, 2011

May God Bless and comfort you and your family at this time of sorrow. We can rejoice that our hope is not hopeless for some day we will see her again. My love goes to you Mrs. Rierson. I know how much you loved her and that she loved you. She will be missed. Give all my love to little Carson. I will be praying for strength and God's love to be wrapped around you and your family.

Love,

Regina Covington

March 18, 2011

Melissa,I am so glad I got to know you.You were always so uplifting to me,while i was so down and stressed with the memory of losing my daughter.Your calls and sweet words of admiration with always be with me.I am glad God let me talk with you before you left us.I will miss you and will one day see you again. Love, Regina Covington

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