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Patricia Fetter

1933 - 2025

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1933

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2025

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Winston Salem, North Carolina

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Oct. 19, 2025

3:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m.

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Patricia Fetter Obituary

Patricia Benbow Fetter

Jun 16, 1933 - Aug 30, 2025

Patricia Benbow Fetter, 92, of Forsyth County, passed away peacefully at Kate B. Reynolds Hospice Home on September 30, 2025. She was preceded in death by her parents, Evan Gray Benbow and Eunice Hayes Benbow, and her sister, Barbara Benbow Dekeyzer.

Patty was a wonderful homemaker and enjoyed years at Atlantic Beach and Homestead, Fla. In recent years, Patty enjoyed knitting for friends and family and especially for children in the NICU and reading, but by far her greatest pleasure was spending time with her family. She was the most gracious, loving, and supportive mother, grandmother, aunt, and cousin that we could be blessed with.

Patty is survived by her daughter, Sandra Botenus (Gene Stevens); two granddaughters, Fayre Christine Stevens and Kelsey Dolan (Eddie); two nieces, Bonnie King and Pati Clark; and special cousin, Steve Hayes. She is also survived by a host of great- and great-great-nieces and nephews. Patty loved her daughter's Frenchie dog, Otis, who misses her.

A special thank you to mom's caregiver over the past few years, Dawn Desilets; the staff of the 6th floor at Novant Palliative Care unit, and the staff at Kate B. Reynolds Hospice Home for their compassionate and loving care.

Memorial contributions can be made to Kate B. Reynolds Hospice Home, 101 Hospice Lane, Winston Salem, NC 27103, or to Forsyth Humane Society, 4881 Country Club Rd, Winston Salem, NC 27104.

A celebration of life gathering will be held on Sunday, October 19, 2025, from 3 to 5 p.m. at Vogler Funeral & Cremations at Forsyth Memorial Park.

Fond memories and online condolences may be left at www.voglerfuneralhome.com for the Fetter family.

Vogler Funeral & Cremations at Forsyth Memorial Park
Published by Winston-Salem Journal on Oct. 15, 2025.

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My aunt was such a loving beautiful person. I am missing her so much but she is now home with her family and I know she is happy. Big Pat I love you so much and always will.

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