Shirley Goco Staton, of Winston-Salem passed away Friday, Sept. 1, 2006, at Forsyth Medical Center, after an extended illness. Shirley was born in St. Louis, Mo., on Dec. 23, 1957. Shirley attended Forsyth Country Day School and the N.C. School of the Arts for high school, and the University of North Carolina at Charlotte for college. She lived for some time in Atlanta, where she was the business manager of an art gallery. She last resided at The Oaks at Forsyth, where she bravely struggled through the last few years of her young life as a quadriplegic. Shirley is survived by her parents, Dr. Ismael R. Goco and Mrs. Jane Goco; her son, Sean Smith; and Sean's father, William Smith; her daughter, Chris Northcott (Mike) Youth; and Chris's father, Bobby Northcott; her granddaughter, Summer Dare Hale-Smith; her sisters, Dr. Lori (Clark) Kellam, Amy (Joseph) Bircher and Anne (John) Kirby; her brothers, Tomas (Julie) Goco and Nicolas Goco; her aunts, Lucy Goco (David) Chambers, Elizabeth Goco Lavares and Adela Pena; her uncles, Nestor Roldan Goco, Victor Goco Caballero and Victor Rabinowitch; her cousins, Jaime Benjamin Goco Gonzales, Agnes Goco Gonzales Roach, Eva Goco Gonzales Dinion, Joseph Goco Gonzales, Dr. Eduardo Goco Gonzales, Tomas Gil Goco Gonzales, Lorna Goco Lavares Ravede, Lourdes Goco Lavares McHargue, Kolya Rabinowitch, Peter Rabinowitch and Sasha Rabinowitch; her nephews Tommy Kellam, Sam Bircher, T.J. Goco, Jordan Goco and Corey Kellam; her nieces, Shirley Bircher, Molly Kellam, Caroline Kirby and Brittany Goco; her good friend, Jeremy Lynes; and many, many more friends and relatives who loved her dearly. A visitation will be conducted at 10 a.m. Wednesday, Sept. 6, at Hayworth-Miller Silas Creek Chapel, with the Rev. Randy Hillman officiating, followed by a service at 11 a.m. in the chapel. Shirley will then be laid to rest at Forsyth Memorial Park. The family requests that memorials be made to Hospice & Palliative CareCenter, 101 Hospice Lane, Winston-Salem, NC 27103.
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Patricia (Patty) Boucher (Dunn)
September 1, 2017
I came across a 6 page letter you wrote to me back in 1976! You were full of life then .. you made me laugh !!! you made me cry!!! You will always have a special special place in my heart my dear friend. I think of you often and know you and your family are in my heart!! I miss you!!!
Eva Cherry
September 19, 2006
You will be dearly missed.I will keep the family in prayer.
Charlita Thompson
September 16, 2006
I will miss you !
Carrie Dollar
September 14, 2006
My prayers and thoughts are with you all!
Laura (Whitt) Rosenbaum
September 11, 2006
Dearest Family,
Through the years I have looked back with fond memories of the time
spent with your family. Shirley was a sweet childhood friend with a gentle smile. Her beautiful hair
shining in Church always so perfect
and her mothers smile always so warm and friendly. The days spent in your home with the wonderful art
room that was a childs dream is one of my fondest memories. Shirley was one of the few people it was fine to be quiet with and them still accept you and have a splendid time with. She was full of grace. My love to you all -Im so sorry for your pain.
Robert W. (Bobby) Northcott
September 8, 2006
Dear Goco Family,
I will always be eternally grateful to Shirley for the gift of our wonderful daughter Christine (first of the grandchildren of Ismael and Jane). She has truly brightened every day of my life, our family's life, and of many other lives around her throughout the years.
Please know that my thoughts and prayers have been with you and Shirley during these difficult years and now that Shirley is finally at rest, I continue to pray for your comfort and sweet memories.
Sarah Richards
September 8, 2006
May god be with you at this time in need,and god bless you all.
Missy Hedrick-White
September 6, 2006
Sean and Family, We are saddened of your loss. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Love,
The Hedrick's
(The Family of April and Summer)
Mary Jo (MJ) Busa
September 6, 2006
Dear All, Charlie, Mary Lou and I are saddened by your loss. You are in our thoughts. Love,
Kris and Tom Porfiris
September 6, 2006
Tom, Julie and entire Family,
We were very sad to hear of your loss. We will be thinking and praying for you in your time of need.
Sincerely,
Kris and Tom Porfiris
Melanie Redmond
September 5, 2006
Dear Goco Family~
We are deeply sorrowed by your loss and you and your family are in our prayers during this difficult time. Please let us know if you need anything as your family is our family too. Love always! Steven,Melanie,Kayla and Kody Redmond of Lewisville NC
Molly Crone Dewey
September 5, 2006
Dear Goco family,
I am so sorry for your loss of Shirley. Your family was always so fun to be with in your Plymouth Ave. days. Just this Sun., I was telling Anna's 8 year old daughter, Emma, about my days in your apple trees with Lori. Emma and I were eating green apples from the trees while in the mountains. A newspaper picture of Lori and I in a tree, hangs on the wall in my old bedroom at my Dad's. Lori was my best friend for many years!
I pray that the Lord will bless your family with the wonderful peace and strength that each of you need. Love and grace to all of you.
Carol Rothrock
September 5, 2006
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Anna Crone Montgomerie
September 4, 2006
Dear Goco Family,
I was so sorry to hear of Shirley's passing. My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. I have such fond memories of so many hours of our childhood spent in your apple trees on Plymouth Ave. Shirley was my best neighborhood playmate for several years - I always envied her because she always got to have chocolate milk! I had always thought of her as such a beautiful jewel.
My deepest sympathy,
Nancy Haynes
September 4, 2006
Dear Lori and family,
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Nancy
Betty(Northcott) Snitzer
September 4, 2006
Our deepest sympathies to all of you. Shirley is at peace at last.
Betty (Northcott) and Marc Snitzer
Dani Kirkpatrick
September 3, 2006
To The Goco Family (Doctor Lori), We are saddened to hear of your loss and are praying for your family during your time of grief. "He will swallow up death in victory; and the Lord GOD will wipe away tears from all faces." Isaiah 25:8 Our family will pray that all your tears are washed away. Connie Young, Husband Bill Young, Daughter Dani, and Grandaughters.
Doug & Mary Lib Lindley
September 3, 2006
Doctor Goco,
Our hearts go out to you in your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May GOD bless you and give you peace and strengh.
Angie Debnam
September 3, 2006
Jane,
I bow in sympathy to you and your Family for the loss of your daughter.
I know it's been a long and weary road for both you and your daughter for quite ahile now. But, I believe your daughter was exhausted and simply wanted to rest. She knew and knows you armed yourself with the ultimate weapon, A Mother's Love, to fight your best battle on her behalf. Your child is now on her peaceful journey and wanted to give you her final gift, peace of mind. Please remember, God has found her on the road you saw her last, now he leads her to His Heavenly Home.
Love
Your Friend and Spiritual Choir Sister
John & Martha Barney
September 3, 2006
Dr. Goco & Family, We were so sorry to hear of your daughter passing but now she is free. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.You have been so good to our family over the years and we appreciate all you have done.May GOD give you all the grace to see you through this trial. your friends, John & Martha Barney...
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