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Claudia Tenney
April 27, 2025
So sorry to hear about John passing away. He was always a friendly and kind person who contributed immensely to our communities. I served on a few boards with him and really appreciated his sage advice and genuine concern for each organization to achieve a successful mission.
He was always so kind to me when I started working as a lawyer in downtown Utica in the late 1980´s. John was one of the first people to congratulate me when my son received an appointment to the US Naval Academy.
A truly great leader with an outstanding legacy. My deepest condolences to family and friends on the loss of an amazing person in every way.
Barbara Ernst
November 21, 2024
I started at Dale Engineering as an accountant and being John's secretary. I left as controller. He was the best boss I had ever had. Always had a smile, even when at Masonic Home. He is missed. Fly with Pegsy & the angels.
Dick & Shirley Bloomer
September 26, 2024
Dear Martha, John and families, Please accept our condolences on the passing of your beloved father. May the memories of him comfort you in the days ahead. Love, Dick and Shirley
Bob Almy
September 5, 2024
I first met John at Cornell. He was there, in 1964, as Dale Engineering Company, among the Boeings, Jet Propulsion Labs, U.S. Steel, and others. What a genial and convincing man. I became the first young rookie graduate engineer for his firm. He nurtured and supported me for 13 years, and, when I became self employed, he always had my back for another 40 plus years of building projects at MVCC and the Stanley Theater Stagehouse. You done me real good John Stetson, and for that I am most sincerely thankful. Rest in peace my friend.
Sara
September 1, 2024
John was such a kind and compassionate person. He always had so much to tell and so much to say.. a truly wonderful person. I'm glad I was able to know him and listen to him talk. I give my deepest condolences to his family. Thank you for your wonderful service John, you are loved and will be missed by many.
Jay Winn
August 29, 2024
When I joined Dale Engineering Co in 1964, I became part of a very small 5-man firm situated on a small partial floor of the Brock Building. When I retired in 2003 this fledgling company that John started had become an integral part of an international design powerhouse. There are few among us who can accomplish such a thing and the real wonder of it all was that John always led with humor, compassion and competence. In all of my years with the firm I never heard him utter even a minor swear word or ever say a bad word about anyone. Who among us can say that? I for one am far better for having known and worked with such a high-quality person as John Stetson. John all who have known you will miss you terribly. RIP John Jay Winn
Mark and Celia Domser
August 29, 2024
To the Stetson Family,
Both Mark and I are very sorry for your great loss. John was a true scholar, gentleman, loving family man and a true neighbor. We still remember the day we met John at Jack Millers house over 47 years ago. He and your Mom welcomed us with his great smile and open arms. There are fewer and fewer people like John Stetson. He was amazingly accomplished yet so very, very humble. I was blessed to also know him as one of the truly concerned and most dedicated members of the MVCC board of trustees when I worked there for 35 years. Loyal, is an understatement when it comes to John. His standards were high and he accomplished all he did because of persistence, knowledge, confidence, and trusting leadership which made him one in five million. Both Mark and I were very blessed to have know him.
Please accept our deep sympathy and prayers.
Mark and Celia Domser
Mike Van Strander
August 28, 2024
John created a design firm with positive, can-do leadership. Always with kindness and encouragement and a `plan of the day.´
The phenomenal growth and success was testament to his one-of-a-kind style.
Bill Bloomer
August 28, 2024
I went to work for John in 1966. It was a lo.ng and rewarding experience. What a great guy...
Greg Benincasa
August 28, 2024
John Stetson was a true gentleman in every sense of the word. His contributions to this community are immeasurable and will leave a lasting legacy for generations. He will be missed.
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