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John Boydston Stetson, age 95, of Barneveld, NY, died August 19, 2024. Born November 27, 1928, in Utica, NY, he was the son of Everett Halliday Stetson, of Auburn, ME, and Vinna Boydston Stetson, of Morgantown, WV. He is predeceased by his parents, his brother, Everett Halliday Stetson, Jr., his sister, Ann Weller, his wife, Margaret Tyler Stetson, and his grandson, Tyler Browne Stetson.
John graduated from New Hartford High School in 1946, and the US Naval Academy in 1950. He later earned a Bachelor of Civil Engineering from Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute and a Master of Science in Engineering from Princeton University.
After losing his father at an early age, John worked for the US Postal Service during high school. Following graduation from the US Naval Academy he participated in the Newport to Bermuda race as a crew member on Valarie, one of the Navy's participating ocean racing sailboats. Returning to Annapolis, he was airlifted to his assignment on the USS Rochester (CA-124), in the Korean region with the US Navy 7th Fleet. In 1953, following two winters in Korean waters, John was transferred into the US Naval Civil Engineering Corps where he refined his skills in management and operations of public works, construction management, and engineering planning and design in the USA and abroad. Highlights with in his Naval career included a two-year assignment in Madrid, Spain as a project manager for construction of US Naval bases in that country, duty as Design Officer and Project engineer in the Southwest Division of The Bureau of Yards and Docks in San Diego, CA, and finally assigned to independent duty as Civil Engineering Consultant to Latin American Navies from a home base with his family in the Panama Canal Zone.
In 1963, John transferred to the Naval Reserves, ultimately achieving the rank of Captain, and returned to Utica to restart Dale Engineering Company, which later became Stetson-Harza Architects, Engineers and Construction Managers. The firm executed a broad spectrum of projects including industrial plants, highways, schools, hospitals, hydroelectric power plants, military facilities, and pharmaceutical projects. During John's tenure as CEO, the firm expanded to more than 320 architects, engineers and technicians, mostly located in Utica. In 1992, Stetson-Harza was ranked #198 in Engineering News Records' list of the nation's 500 largest design firms.
After thirteen years of active duty in the US Navy and thirty years with Dale Engineering and Stetson-Harza, John transitioned from the business of engineering to various boards in the Utica area. Over a 30-year 'retirement' John was member of the Board of Trustees of Mohawk Community College, Director of Presbyterian Homes and Services and Preswick Glen, Trustee at Munson William Proctor Arts Institute, Trustee of New York State Historical Association in Cooperstown, Chairman at Commercial Travelers Mutual Insurance Company, Stanley Theater Restoration Committee Member, and Director at Partners Trust Group and Savings Bank of Utica. Other activities in which John participated include ten years as a member of the Board of Education at Holland Patent Central Schools, Commissioner with the Mohawk Valley Heritage Corridor Commission, member of NYS Business Council, and member of Zoning Board of Appeals for Town of Trenton, Oneida County.
While the Navy and Stetson-Harza provided ample activity, John knew that family and home were essential to a great life. He and Margaret Tyler (Pegsy), daughter of Roger and Margaret Tyler, were married in Boston on St. Patrick's Day 1951 while the USS Rochester was in dry dock at Mare Island Naval Shipyard in CA. The wedding trip was a drive back to Vallejo, CA, and soon south along the coast to Long Beach where the ship was temporarily home ported. That was the first of many travel adventures and many residences. While traveling and living in the US and foreign countries, John and Pegsy had three sons: John Jr., Andrew and James. A daughter, Martha, was born in Utica when the travelers returned to Barneveld. Pegsy was a great traveler and made each of the many houses, apartments and temporary living quarters real homes wherever the family was stationed. When the Navy days ended and a permanent dwelling was needed, she made the best of living in the Barneveld farmhouse as renovation proceeded, room by room, a project that took many years. It was, however, a great location and for John, the years of working with wonderful people and donating his time and skills to local organizations were times of great joy. The parents and children worked together and had lots of friends. Pegsy worked at Country Classics, boarded horses and raised golden retrievers. All enjoyed backpacking, canoeing and hiking together in the Adirondacks, and there was always time to ski at Snow Ridge or Woods Valley.
John is survived by John Jr. and Gwen Stetson, Andrew and Sue Stetson, James and Kathleen Stetson, and Martha and John Crossley, his grandchildren Blake, Daniel, Sarah, Amy, Carter, Vinna, Elena and Boyd, and his great grandchildren Wesley, Dillon, Kylee, Landon and Carson.
A memorial service is scheduled at the Bethel Baptist Church, in Prospect, NY, at 11:00 AM on Monday, September 23rd. There will be no calling hours. Arrangements are with Friedel, Williams & Edmunds Funeral and Cremation Services, New Hartford.
Memorial gifts may be made to The John B. Stetson Memorial Scholarship Award Fund, Holland Patent Central School District, 9601 Main Street, Holland Patent, NY 13354.
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Obituary published on Legacy.com by WKTV on Aug. 27, 2024.

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Claudia Tenney

April 27, 2025

So sorry to hear about John passing away. He was always a friendly and kind person who contributed immensely to our communities. I served on a few boards with him and really appreciated his sage advice and genuine concern for each organization to achieve a successful mission.

He was always so kind to me when I started working as a lawyer in downtown Utica in the late 1980´s. John was one of the first people to congratulate me when my son received an appointment to the US Naval Academy.

A truly great leader with an outstanding legacy. My deepest condolences to family and friends on the loss of an amazing person in every way.

Barbara Ernst

November 21, 2024

I started at Dale Engineering as an accountant and being John's secretary. I left as controller. He was the best boss I had ever had. Always had a smile, even when at Masonic Home. He is missed. Fly with Pegsy & the angels.

Dick & Shirley Bloomer

September 26, 2024

Dear Martha, John and families, Please accept our condolences on the passing of your beloved father. May the memories of him comfort you in the days ahead. Love, Dick and Shirley

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Bob Almy

September 5, 2024

I first met John at Cornell. He was there, in 1964, as Dale Engineering Company, among the Boeings, Jet Propulsion Labs, U.S. Steel, and others. What a genial and convincing man. I became the first young rookie graduate engineer for his firm. He nurtured and supported me for 13 years, and, when I became self employed, he always had my back for another 40 plus years of building projects at MVCC and the Stanley Theater Stagehouse. You done me real good John Stetson, and for that I am most sincerely thankful. Rest in peace my friend.

Sara

September 1, 2024

John was such a kind and compassionate person. He always had so much to tell and so much to say.. a truly wonderful person. I'm glad I was able to know him and listen to him talk. I give my deepest condolences to his family. Thank you for your wonderful service John, you are loved and will be missed by many.

Jay Winn

August 29, 2024

When I joined Dale Engineering Co in 1964, I became part of a very small 5-man firm situated on a small partial floor of the Brock Building. When I retired in 2003 this fledgling company that John started had become an integral part of an international design powerhouse. There are few among us who can accomplish such a thing and the real wonder of it all was that John always led with humor, compassion and competence. In all of my years with the firm I never heard him utter even a minor swear word or ever say a bad word about anyone. Who among us can say that? I for one am far better for having known and worked with such a high-quality person as John Stetson. John all who have known you will miss you terribly. RIP John Jay Winn

Mark and Celia Domser

August 29, 2024

To the Stetson Family,
Both Mark and I are very sorry for your great loss. John was a true scholar, gentleman, loving family man and a true neighbor. We still remember the day we met John at Jack Millers house over 47 years ago. He and your Mom welcomed us with his great smile and open arms. There are fewer and fewer people like John Stetson. He was amazingly accomplished yet so very, very humble. I was blessed to also know him as one of the truly concerned and most dedicated members of the MVCC board of trustees when I worked there for 35 years. Loyal, is an understatement when it comes to John. His standards were high and he accomplished all he did because of persistence, knowledge, confidence, and trusting leadership which made him one in five million. Both Mark and I were very blessed to have know him.
Please accept our deep sympathy and prayers.
Mark and Celia Domser

Mike Van Strander

August 28, 2024

John created a design firm with positive, can-do leadership. Always with kindness and encouragement and a `plan of the day.´
The phenomenal growth and success was testament to his one-of-a-kind style.

Bill Bloomer

August 28, 2024

I went to work for John in 1966. It was a lo.ng and rewarding experience. What a great guy...

Greg Benincasa

August 28, 2024

John Stetson was a true gentleman in every sense of the word. His contributions to this community are immeasurable and will leave a lasting legacy for generations. He will be missed.

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