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Neal Fahey Obituary

Neal J. Fahey, 71, of Middle Rd., Oneida, passed away peacefully Friday, June 20, 2025, at his home surrounded by his loving family under the care of Hospice. He was born on June 16, 1954, in Teaneck, New Jersey, the son of John A. and Mary (Doherty) Fahey Jr. He was raised in Norwood, New Jersey, and graduated from high school while he was living in Oklahoma. On September 27, 1986, Neal was united in marriage to Maureen M. Morrow in Greenwich, CT. Neal was a self-employed builder, drywaller, and tradesman for many years. In his retirement, he drove a school bus for the Oneida City School District for six years, retiring in 2021. Prior to moving to Oneida in 1999, Neal was the owner and operator of the Framework Gallery in Middleburgh, NY. Neal was a man of many passions and talents, always exploring new ways to create, discover, and give back. He found joy in the skies with his electric airplanes, and on the earth with his love for magnet fishing and metal detecting-always on the lookout for hidden treasures. A true craftsman at heart, Neal spent countless hours wood whittling, woodworking, and making beautiful, handcrafted jewelry. He generously shared his time and skills as a proud volunteer for Habitat for Humanity, helping others build not just homes, but hope. Neal also cherished life on the road, RVing alongside his beloved wife, Maureen, and their loyal German Shepherd, Scout, making memories wherever their travels took them. His curious spirit, kind heart, and creativity left a lasting impression on all who knew him. Surviving besides his loving wife, Maureen; are two children, Sarah Fahey, of Oneida, and Neal (Clara) Fahey Jr., of Irondequoit; two grandchildren, Nora Jane Fahey, and Anya Roisin Fahey; five siblings, Maureen Klein, of Harriman, NY, Kathleen (Harry) Capone, of Canastota, Eileen (Grant) Pecan, of Middleburgh, John A. Fahey III, of Vernon, and Daniel Fahey, of Greenwich, CT; his nieces and nephews, Kristine (Tim) Wagner, James (Christine) Klein, Dr. Harry (Staci) Capone, Neal (Connie) Capone, Daniel (Mikayla) Pecan, Ilana (Ben) Scharoun, Victoria Fahey, and John Fahey IV. Neal was predeceased by his parents, John and Mary; and his brother-in-law, Ronald Klein. Private services will be held at the convenience of the family. There are no calling hours. To plant a beautiful memorial tree in memory of Neal J. Fahey, please visit our Tree Store.

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Published by WKTV on Oct. 1, 2025.

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