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Thomas O'Brien Obituary

Thomas Patrick O'Brien, Jr.

ATTLEBORO - Thomas Patrick O'Brien, Jr., or Tom as he was affectionately known to all, was born on December 7th, 1946 in Pawtucket, Rhode Island he was the son of the late Thomas and Mary

(Ghys) O'Brien.

On March

9th, 2024,

he quietly

passed away leaving behind a life that was marked by dedication, loyalty, and thoughtful service to his community. He was the husband of the late Helen (Kasinlewicz) O'Brien.

A longtime resident of Attleboro, Massachusetts, Thomas dedicated his life to the community as a respected police officer in the Attleboro Police Department from 1972 to 2003, earning the endearing moniker of "Officer Cupcake" due to his love for sweets. His commitment to service extended beyond his professional life, evident in his volunteer work at the Attleboro City Credit Union, his lifetime membership in the Disabled American Veterans, Elks Club, and the VFW. His dedication was also reflected in his military service during Vietnam as a proud member of the United States Marine Corps, the United States Air Force at Travis Air Force Base, and his 22 years of service as a reservist.

He is survived by his cherished grandchildren; Nickolas Ferrara and wife Stephanie of Attleboro and Natalie Ferrara also of Attleboro; great grandchildren, Deacon Ferrara, Athena Ferrara and Kensington Chapman all of Attleboro; a brother, Kevin O'Brien and wife Janice of Cape Coral, FL; sister in law, Mary Beth O'Brien of Marston Mills, MA; step sons, Gary Rogala of Cumberland, RI, James Rogala of Port Orange, FL and step daughter, Gina Promades of Barrington, RI.; Long time friends, Walter Chicoine, Ronald Dumont and Chief (Ret) Ron Churchill. As well as multiple nieces and nephews. He was the brother of the late Patrick O'Brien and Carolyn Gilbert.

Visitation will be held on Thursday, March 21, 2024 from 4:00PM - 8:00PM at Duffy-Poule Funeral and Cremation Services, 20 Peck Street, Attleboro, MA. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held the following morning, Friday, March 22, at 10:00 AM at the Saint Theresa of the Child Jesus Roman Catholic Church, 18 Baltic Street, Attleboro, MA. Interment will follow at Newell Burying Grounds Inc, 1502 West Street, Attleboro, MA. In lieu of flowers memorial gifts may be given to HopeHealth Hulitar Hospice Center, 1085 N. Main St., Providence, RI 02904 www.hopehealthco.org or Attleboro Angels 71A Allenson Ave.Attleboro, MA 02703 https://attleboroangels.com/

Tom's grandchildren would like to thank the providers at Providence VA, caregivers from Visiting Angels and the staff at Hope Health Hospice for their outstanding care.

We invite those who knew Thomas to leave their memories and upload photos to his memorial page, as a tribute to a life lived in service and dedication. May we always remember the loyal, dedicated, and thoughtful man that was Thomas O'Brien. His legacy lives on in the hearts of those he touched.

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Published by Woonsocket Call on Mar. 25, 2024.

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Ron Tracey

April 6, 2024

Tommy´s first grade picture on the lawn of the old Washington Street School in South Attleboro. (Back row...3rd from right)

Paula Johnson Merriss

March 25, 2024

My Deep & Heartfelt Sympathy to all of Toms' Family and Friends
Tom was in our Class of 66! We shared lots of laughs & good times in Art class(as we tried our best to be creative!!).
I so wished I could have seen him recently at our class breakfast...but sadly did not.
Tom will always be fondly remembered.

Peter and Diane Bushee Randazzo

March 22, 2024

Diane and I send our sincere condolences to the O' Brein family.

Shane Dowie

March 22, 2024

Truly one of nicest, and most generous men I have ever know. It was a privilege to have known you. Respected by all, you will be sadly missed, but never forgotten. RIP Uncle Tom.

Michael Leo Trombley

March 18, 2024

RIP cousin Tom ! You will surely be missed by everyone! Cousin Mike Trombley

Carol Mayer

March 17, 2024

I have known Tom or a long time He was in Ron Dumont's wedding and so was I To say he was one of the most kindest and considerate men I have ever met is an understatement He will be missed by many RIP Tom

Sara-Lynn Reynolds

March 17, 2024

I met Tom 38 years ago - he never changed. Always a bright smile and good story to tell no matter where I "bumped" into him; be it the grocery store, on the street where he might be working, or at Sandcastle Estates. He was one of the few - the kindest, gentlest, sweetest sole I ever had the pleasure of getting to know.

Bird

March 17, 2024

Tom was a great police officer and a wonderful person. He will be missed.

Ronald Dumont

March 16, 2024

Tom and I grew up together and formed some great memories. I and my family will never forget him and will miss him tremendously. No-one could ask for a better friend.

Jane (Fyfe) Barnett

March 14, 2024

Tom and I have known each other for 40 years. I moved away from Attleboro many years ago however I was just in town and we had the chance to reconnect in January on my visit. What a gentle soul . Glad we did get to have a good hug. Rest in peace.... Jane (Fyfe) Barnett

beth gledhill

March 13, 2024

I meet Tom the end of December I did not no him for long but he was the nicest guy ever,he was thought full he bought me a rose for Valentines that how thoughtful he was,Tom your going to be missed. beth g.

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