Thomas Reginald Alderson

MR. THOMAS "TOM" ALDERSON 75, of Charleston, West Virginia, passed away on September 11, 2025, in his hometown.
Born on September 5, 1950, in Charleston, Tom was the beloved son of the late Reginald and Alva Alderson. He spent his life rooted in the community that shaped him, building a legacy of laughter, love, and service.
Tom is survived by his devoted wife, Anne Alderson; two daughters, Kristi Silkwood (Eric) and Kara Forst (Brendan); and five cherished grandchildren, Jamison and Aiden, and Peyton, Anna Kate, and Lucy Beth -- each of whom held a special place in his heart. He is also survived by his sisters Ruth Anna Parsons and Jeane Campbell (Frank), along with many nieces and nephews who were touched by his warmth and humor. The family also wishes to acknowledge Bobby and Barbara Ellis as special friends whose bond with Tom was deeply meaningful.
A proud retiree of Mountain State Blue Cross Blue Shield, Tom dedicated many years to his professional career before turning his focus to service within his faith community. As a Deacon at First Baptist Church of Saint Albans, he found joy in giving back -- whether through spiritual leadership or hands-on efforts like filling backpacks for local children and families in need.
Tom's presence was unforgettable. Known for his quick wit and legendary pranks, especially on the golf course, he had a gift for making people laugh until they cried. His dimples were often the telltale sign that a mischievous joke had just been delivered, or was about to be. His sense of humor was matched only by the depth of love he had for his family. He was especially fond of his grandchildren and never missed an opportunity to spoil them or be wrapped around their fingers.
A man of many passions, Tom loved woodworking and could often be found tinkering with projects that showcased both skill and creativity. He also had a deep affection for riding his motorcycle -- a pastime that brought him both peace and happiness.
Music played a central role in Tom's life. He took pride in sharing what he considered "good music" with those around him; and wasn't shy about expressing disapproval when someone tried to introduce him to something new that didn't meet his standards.
Tom Alderson leaves behind a legacy rich with laughter, love, service, and unforgettable stories. May his memory bring comfort to all who knew him, and may we all remember how lucky we were to have spent time with him.
A Celebration of Life will be held at 1 p.m., Saturday, September 27, 2025 at First Baptist Church of Saint Albans.
Visitation will be held one hour prior to the service at the church.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Tom's memory to the Bob Scott Music Scholarship c/o Capital High School, 1500 Greenbrier St., Charleston, WV 25311, or to United Food Operation, P.O. Box 20441, Charleston, WV 25362, reflecting his commitment to supporting local music education and the legacy of his good friend, Bob Scott, as well as supporting his lifelong mission of service to his church and community to helping with food security initiatives.
You may visit Tom's tribute page at BartlettNichols.com to share memories and condolences with the family.
Bartlett-Nichols Funeral Home, locally owned and located 409 Sixth Ave., St. Albans, WV is honored to serve the Alderson family.