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for Brenda Loder
Judy Vance
November 24, 2009
The love and care expressed by so many friends has been greatly appreciated. It has been hard to lose my best friend and sister. She was a great example of strength and courage. I miss her greatly, but know that we will be together again someday in heaven where there is no more pain or sorrow.
Mignon Vath (Dougherty)
August 10, 2009
Dear Kyle and Amanda,
Thank you for sharing your wife and mother with me! Brenda was a very very dear friend. She loved you both so much!
My prayer for you is that your hearts will heal with the peace that she now has. I pray that the wonderful memories you have of Brenda will eventually turn from sadness to joy!
I miss Brenda so very much and think about her daily. I know this is difficult for the two of you. Please know that I would love to continue to be in your lives. I look forward to helping to keep her memory alive!
Much Love......
Kathy Brautigan
June 25, 2009
Kyle and Amanda,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. As each day passes things will be alittle easier. I will miss the times that we spent together in the barn and on the front porch of the house. I still remember all the good times that we shared living next door to you guys. Those memories will help you get thru each day that passes.
Kevin & Cindy Snyder
June 11, 2009
Kyle & Family-
Brenda's loss is certainly sad for us, however she is in a much better place now. Please count on your family and friends to help you through this difficult time. You know we are always here if you need us.
Ronda Weand
June 4, 2009
Kyle,
I am sorry to hear of Brenda's passing. Not too long ago I spoke with Darryl and asked about Brenda. He said her health was not good. I never expected this. My thoughts are with you and your family at this time. May the good memories keep you going.
Cody Snyder
May 31, 2009
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
May 30, 2009
Kyle and Family,
You are in our prayers. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Kathy and Bill Ellett
Pam Stumhofer
May 29, 2009
Kyle and family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers and thoughts our with you at this difficult time. If there is anything we can do please let us know.
Joe and Pam Stumhofer
Jerry Abbott
Jerry's Concessions Mohnton,Pa
May 29, 2009
Kyle,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. May the happy memories return soon.
Dick and Elaine Redner
Donnie Shalters
May 29, 2009
Sorry to hear of your loss. Brenda was a great lady and she will be missed. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
May 29, 2009
Dear Kyle,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Your love for Brenda and the beautiful memories you have will carry you thru. With deepest sympathy,
Barb Brickey Mengle and family
Shirley Koch
May 29, 2009
Kyle,
So sad to hear of your loss. Remeber the good times at your boarding stable?
Shirley Koch(past boarder with Patchy)
Melanie Shields
May 29, 2009
Amanda,
I'm so sorry to hear about your mom's passing. Know that I'm thinking of you during this hard time and I'm here for you.
May 28, 2009
Dear Kyle and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Kyle, I remember the conversations that we had regarding MS when I worked at the bank. Remember all the good times and hold dear to those memories. Edna and Forrest Blatt
Terry/Minnie Hassler
May 28, 2009
Kyle, So sorry to hear about your wife. Hang in there.
Whip and Lori Hussmann
May 28, 2009
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days to come.
May your memories bring you comfort.
Keeping all of you in our hearts and prayers
Lori Lebo (Moyer)
May 28, 2009
Kyle and family,
I am deeply saddened to hear about Brenda's passing.You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Scott, Robin, Cassandra Daw
May 28, 2009
AMANDA, JARRID & FAMILY:
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your Mother. You are in our Hearts and Prayers. If you need anything please let us know. Let the beautiful memories of your mother and the strength and love from your friends and family guide you through this difficult time.
Love, Scott~Robin & Cassandra
Pamela Wagner
May 28, 2009
Kyle, I am sorry to hear of your wife's passing. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Time really does heal and ease the pain.
Pam Wagner (Moyer)
Spatz Family
May 28, 2009
Kyle and Family,
We are very sorry for your lose. Brenda will be sadly missed. You are in out thoughts and prayers. You all have a strong head on your shoulders, hold your head up high.
Love Amanda, Penny, Bill Spatz
Steve Edwards and Kerri
May 28, 2009
Sorry for your loss. We always enjoyed our conversations during our evening walks.
Donna/Ray Clemens
May 28, 2009
Amanda/Jarrid and family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Beth Hennigan
May 28, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Barbara Noss
May 28, 2009
Kyle and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Barry & Gina will be sad to hear of Brenda's passing.
May 28, 2009
Amanda,
I am sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. I remember you telling me stories of her while we were in school together at Alvernia. A loss like this is hard and will take time. Be strong for your family and please take care of yourself. You are in my thoughts.
Melissa Kochinsky
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