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Charles Nelo Obituary

YORK Charles J. "Chip" Nelo III, 53, died Tuesday, March 19, 2013, at his home. He had been the husband of Diane M. (Rolka) Nelo, originally of Montdale. A visitation will be 10 a.m. until 12 p.m. Saturday at John W. Keffer Funeral Homes and Crematory, Inc., 2114 W. Market St. A memorial service will begin at 12 p.m. at the funeral home with Rev. John McCloskey OFM Cap officiating. Burial will be in Mt. Zion Cemetery. Mr. Nelo was born April 4, 1959, in Baltimore, a son of the late Charles J., Jr., and Mary J. (Bitner) Nelo. He had been employed at PHH in Hunt Valley, Md., in fleet management and was a member of St. Joseph Roman Catholic Church in Dallastown. He was a gifted athlete and a 1977 graduate of York Suburban High School where he participated in football, track, volleyball, and baseball. Chip was an avid outdoorsman; he loved hunting, fishing, and camping, and he pursued these passions in places such as Colorado and Wyoming. Cooking was another passion of Chip's, and it was not uncommon for him to spend hours at a time preparing meals for a crowd. Chip had a great sense of humor and an engaging personality. He was always the life of the party and will be greatly missed by his family and friends. Chip is survived by his children, Kathleen T. Nelo, Joseph M. Nelo, Julia E. Nelo, and Anthony J. Nelo, all of York; sisters, Dea M. Goodman and her husband George of Houston, Texas, and Julia N. Kite and her husband David of Lake Ridge, Va. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Diane Nelo at People's Bank to be used in the community and for the children.

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Published by York Daily Record on Mar. 22, 2013.

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Kathy Bartol

March 15, 2014

Dear Nelo Family Members,
I'm so sorry for this tremendous loss and that I didn't know about it until recently. (Probably because I lost two family members around the same time). I have wanted to see Chip again for a long time but didn't have the opportunity. I will always remember him as one of my favorite childhood/teenage friends from the neighborhood and Wisehaven Pool! Chip was truly a sweet and lovable person whom I always have and always will admire! I'm sure the Lord will take good care of Chip and I continue to send many prayers your way.
---With Much Love,

Judy Klovensky

April 7, 2013

To the Nelo Family,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Chip was a caring, thoughtful person who I was proud to go to school with. He will be greatly missed. I am so sorry.
Judy Weinbrom Klovensky

Bob McCarter

March 26, 2013

My heartfelt condolences and prayers go to all the members of Chip's family. It's difficult to find any memories of Chip without a smile on his face and the infectious good feelings he bestowed on anybody in his presence. I'm sure the man he became in life was accented in those he loved and left behind. Much too young for a man of his character. My prayers for healing go out to all his family & friends.

Jodi Reineberg and family

March 25, 2013

Dear Diane and family,
I just heard about your loss today and wanted to express our deepest condolences to you all. You are in our prayers during this difficult time.

Scott&Kristi Hampton

March 24, 2013

Dear Diane,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. We were blessed with Chip's friendship and happiness in high school. Very Sincerely

March 24, 2013

I remember Chip fondly. He was a protector and friend.

Kelly Stamm

March 23, 2013

Words can not even express my sorrow for you and your children. My heart aches for you.

Mike & Judy Seymore

March 23, 2013

Our deepest sympathy Diane to you & your family.You are in our thoughts & prayers.

Vicky McGonigle

March 23, 2013

To the memory of a friendly and helpful co-worker. Chip you will be truly missed

Anonymous

March 23, 2013

Chip was one of the nicest kids in the neighborhood and I can't help but smile when I think of him. He held his own surrounded by all those Nelo girls! He sure will be missed...

Andy Denenberg

March 23, 2013

My condolences to the family!
I have many fond memories of Chip from school and from the neighborhood.
May he Rest in Peace

Jim & Sabrey Dennes

March 23, 2013

I will never forget to this day of the night before the York Suburban homecoming football game riding in Chip's jeep with him and Mike Crowley preparing ourselves for our sleep over at Coach Hendershots house! Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Nelo family. RIP

March 22, 2013

Sending deep, heartfelt love and prayers to the entire family. I went to high school with Chip and have such fond memories of him. He was (and still is) a beautiful Soul. I know he will be missed.

John and Mary Beth Strowsky

March 22, 2013

Diane and children,
Our family would like to express our profound sympathy in this difficult time. Find comfort in your faith, know that we are praying and saying the rosary for your dear family.

John and Mary Beth Strowsky & Family (Jermyn) York, PA

Coach Deller

March 22, 2013

My condolences to Anthony and his family. May the love of friends and family carry you though your grief. God bless you all

Scott & Angel Wales

March 22, 2013

Words cannot express the loss we feel for you & your children Diane...God has gained another Angel.....remember "only the good die young". With deepest sympathy....

John/Ann Gudknecht

March 22, 2013

Wishing you and yours all the best. We know these are difficult times and are thinking of you.

Neville and Dianne Reynolds

March 22, 2013

So sorry to hear of Chip's passing. We both have fond memories of growing up with Chip. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Ann Connell

March 22, 2013

Chip's family, I am deeply sorry to hear of Chip's passing. Although we never met personally, we spoke to each other on the phone at work. He was always upbeat and professional.

Jeff Wisotzkey

March 22, 2013

Deepest Sympathies...

Susan Sarver

March 22, 2013

Diane,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless You!!

Dan McGreevy

March 22, 2013

My deepest condolences to Chip's family. We attended YSHS together and played EYC and Trojan football. We had quite a group of close friends who constantly tested the patience of our teachers, coaches and parents as we worked hard and played harded thru those great days of youth. My thoughts and prayers to all.

Jim Kline

March 22, 2013

To the Nelo Family,

I'm very sorry to her about the passing of Chip. I new Chip in High School. He was a great person and the world is a bit less for losing him at such a young age. My condolences to the family, you are in our prayers.

March 22, 2013

I know Chip is in heaven laughing with my son, his friend Douglas Deardorff, remerbering racing their Trans Ams on 83 to the horrow of pf parents when we found out many yrs later, God Bless his family. Janet Deardorff

Kim Drescher

March 22, 2013

So sorry for your loss. I had known Chip since grade school though have not lived in PA for 25 years. Will remember his great personality.

karen long

March 22, 2013

diane, my deepest sympathy for you and your family at this time. you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Colleen Duffy

March 22, 2013

To the Nelo
Family,
Our condolences on the loss of Chip. It is so sad to see that he has passed and at such a young age. My brother, sister and myself ran around with Chip when we were younger and had so much fun. He was such a good guy and quite the character at times. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in this sorrowful time.
The Duffy Family, Colleen

karen long

March 22, 2013

diane, my deepest sympathy to you and your family at this time. you are in my prayers and thoughts.

Cindi Jacobs Martin

March 22, 2013

Oh, Chip... I will never forget the crazy times we had and all the trouble you and Randy used to get in to. You were like a little brother to me. RIP, my dear. Heaven has found another beautiful angel.

kent moyer

March 22, 2013

To the family of chip. I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of chip. He was a good friend. I have'nt seen chip in awhile but I thought of him from time to time .I played softball with Chip and went with him and the rest of the guys to Hildebrands cabin.He was the life of the party.I will always remember Chip fondly he will be sorely missed.

John Faraone

March 22, 2013

To a great friend & fellow worker, you helped me when needed & would never ask for anything return, with your help & am who I am at work. Thank you & I will miss you dearly.

Orvin E. Reidel II

March 22, 2013

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Michael Furniere

March 22, 2013

Chip you were a GREAT co-worker and will be GREATLY missed..

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