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Ernest Graffius Obituary

YORK Ernest Graffius, 74, died at 1:55 a.m. on Sunday, April 22, 2012, at Manor Care South. He was the loving husband of Carolyn Y. (Fout) Graffius. The couple celebrated their 55th wedding anniversary on January 25, 2012. Born December 2, 1937, in Conewago Township, he was a son of the late William H. and Vergie A. (Eppley) Graffius. Ernest attended Gross's one-room Schoolhouse in Conewago Township and was a 1955 graduate of Dover High School. He retired in 2001 following 23 years of service for Manchester Township. He previously worked for Pennsylvania Farm Bureau Cooperative/ Agway. Ernest was a member of Dover Bethany U.M. Church and a life member of the National Rifle Association. He was a former member of Dover Lions Club. Ernest enjoyed hunting and fishing. He also loved spending time with his family and socializing. In addition to his wife, Ernest is survived by a son, W. Scott Graffius and wife, Karen R. (Danley) Graffius of Washington, PA; two grandchildren, Aaron S. Graffius and Ashlee L. Ware and husband, Samuel C.; two great-grandsons, A. Jarrett Ware and Westin S. Ware; three brothers, W. Dale Graffius and wife, Connie of Dover, Larry C. Graffius and wife, Charlene and Clifford M. Graffius and wife, Linda, all of York; a sister, Linda M. Hughes and husband, Robert of Jacksonville, Fla.; and numerous cousins, nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by a son, Lee E. Graffius and a brother, Randy L. Graffius. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend Ernest's funeral at 11 a.m. and the viewing from 10 to 11 a.m. on Thursday at Dover Bethany U.M. Church, 4510 Bull Rd., Dover. Burial will follow in Prospect Hill Cemetery. Officiating will be the Rev. Robert Helsel. Emig Funeral Home, Dover, is in charge of arrangements. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Dover Bethany U.M. Church, 4510 Bull Rd., Dover, PA 17315.

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Published by York Daily Record on Apr. 24, 2012.

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Joan Loonen

May 3, 2012

Dearest Carolyn, I was so very, very saddened to hear of Ernie's passing. My heart breaks for you. May God help you to find the strength. Please accept our most heartfelt condolences and will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Ernie was so very special to me and indeed gave the very best bear hugs ever, hands down. God Bless you and your family in the coming difficult days ahead.

Love you bunches,
Joannie Ejk, Mark and Caitlin Loonen, the Netherlands

Karen Graffius

April 28, 2012

Dad I will miss you so very much when I married Scott I was so Blessed you welcomed me into the family you always made me feel like I was your own Daughter and I felt like you was my Dad.I will miss your hugs there was none like yours! I will always carry you in my heart forever I Love You Dad Always and Forever!

W. Scott Graffius

April 27, 2012

Dad,
It is impossible to list the many blessings and memories you have left me with. I know you are in heaven and I will truly think of you everyday just as I have over the years. The difference being that I will no longer hear your voice, read your emails or or see you during our visits. While my unprompted smile may be seen by mortals here it is because I know somewhere in heaven you have given someone another HUG!
Love, Son

Linda Moul

April 27, 2012

Carolyn, so sorry to hear about Ernie's passing. He was the best hugger and always had a smile for everyone. He will truly be missed. You and your family are in our prayers. Love from Paul, Linda and Paula Moul and Brian, Val and Alice-lyn Gayman

The Hollands

April 27, 2012

Carolyn, We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Ernie. He was so funny and always willing to strike up a converstation. He always brought a smile to our faces. We loved his big bear hugs!! Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. If there is anything you need, please let us know.
Love, Your Neighbors - Cindy, Todd, Kara and Paige

Donna Beck

April 25, 2012

Carolyn, So sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. My sincere sympathy goes out to you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care and god bless!
Donna (former Raycom employee)

Kelly, Russ,Justin, Marshall Garrett

April 24, 2012

Love you Uncle Ernie, you were always so full of love and compassion. So kindhearted, we miss you but are blessed knowing you are with Jesus.

Kathy Graffius

April 24, 2012

Uncle Ernie gives the best bear hugs ever. You will be greatly missed my many but I am so glad to know that one day we will be together again. I know that you are looking down on us smiling that big wonderful smile.I will remember always looking into your baby blues and know that you are at peace. Love always

Eileen Rohrbaugh

April 24, 2012

Dear Carolyn and family; my sister Barbara and I were very saddened to hear of Ernie's passing. May you find comfort in God's words.

Ashley Boos

April 24, 2012

Pappy Ernie you will always be loved and truly missed! You always made me feel like I was truly one of your very own!! My heart breaks to hear of your passing. Gram Graffius thank you for always loving me and making me feel like your own grand daughter. My heart goes out to you during this terrible loss and I pray God gives you peace and healing during this time of loss. Scott, Mama K, Aaron, Ashlee and family I pray that God wraps his arms around all of and gives you the love and peace you need during this trying time.

Jason Delp

April 24, 2012

I had the pleasure of working with Ernie @ the township. He was always smiling and had something either nice or funny to say. The world could use more people like him.

Ashlee Graffius-Ware

April 24, 2012

Pappy Ernie we will miss all the hugs that you loved to give! You will always be in our hearts..We will miss you!

Carol Bemiller

April 24, 2012

Dear Carolyn, So very sorry to hear about Ernie. Please know that there are friends out here who care very much and are thinking of you.
Love Ya Carol-B.

Aaron Graffius

April 24, 2012

Pappy Ernie you will always be missed, loved and remembered for the many smiles and hugs that you generated with your cheer and compassion. May you forever be in our hearts as you are now in the heavens - Love your grandson Aaron.
Matthew 5:4 "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted."

Ken, Cindy & Jason Roach

April 24, 2012

Carolyn and Family: We are saddened to hear of the passing of Cousin Ernie. He was a kind and gentle man who loved everyone he came in contact with throughout his life, and he was a great hugger! We will miss his funny E-mails and jokes that he sent almost daily. We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers as you deal with this loss.

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