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Steve Lawrence
October 22, 2007
Dear Susan, Elizabeth, and Ben,
I was a student and player of Coach Ruby when he was at Delone. I am deeply saddened to hear of his passing.
I had a great respect for Coach's integrity and dedication. He was a man you could count on being there, as well as, a person who would tell it like it is. I remember having some conversations with him about selecting colleges and majors and his perspective was thought provoking and practical.
Please know that your husband/father had a positive influence on many young people and we appreciate your sharing him.
Sincerely,
Steve Lawrence
Ann Krawczyk
October 20, 2007
Dear Sue, Ben, Betsy & family,
Although I never had the privilege of meeting Jeff, I always heard what a wonderful, caring man he was with a great sense of humor. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. His loving memories will live on in your hearts forever.
Fondly,
Ann & John Krawczyk
Tampa, FL
Penny Bowers
October 20, 2007
To the Family of Mr. Ruby,
So sorry to hear of Mr. Ruby's passing. I am a 1984 Graduate of York High and remember Mr. Ruby well. He was also my brother's football coach and well liked by everyone. I have moved from the city and now live in the Red Lion area and my son plays football for Red Lion. Last night we played York High and at the beginning of the game Red Lion had a moment of silence for Coach Ruby and it brought tears to my eyes just thinking about him. Needless to say York High won the football game (I am sure Coach Ruby was looking down on all of the players) I am always torn when Red Lion and York High play...who do I root for??? My son's team or York High...guess who I root for? Both teams...something I know that coach Ruby would be really proud to hear!!!
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Brian Colgan
October 20, 2007
Susan, Elizabeth & Benjamin,
My heartfelt condolences. Coach Ruby was one of the greatest men I have known in my life. I had the priviledge of playing under his and John Gastley's coaching earlier in his career at Delone. It's not surprising to see how many others who's lives he touched. I know how my fellow players at Delone feel about him. A tremendous legacy he leaves with all of us. Enjoy your reward in Paradise, Coach!
Delone class of '73
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Noreen Freeland
October 19, 2007
Dear Mrs Ruby and Family,
My heart goes out to your family during this difficult time. Coach Ruby was a wonderful influence to many York City Youth during his coaching years at York High. My son, Shawn, benefited from his push for education first, sports secondary. Coach Ruby was more than a coach to those who played for him. He will trully be missed and remains loved by all whom were so fortunated to be blessed by his company. God Bless and keep you all.
Bill & Elaine Erikson
October 18, 2007
We have just return from a Rocky Mountain trip to this sad news. Jeff, Don and I were charter members of the "Flying Pigs Club". We could always make a production out of roasting a pig at school. Each day we met in Don's office to plan the day and cheer up Don. Jeff was a good friend and caring teacher. We discuss "yard" projects he was doing, how he was doing it and making sure he was on "solid ground". We supported each other programs and students.
Two years of retirement is too short. But now he is roaming God's sideline.
Rhodes Family
October 18, 2007
Sue, Ben and Family,
We very sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always. God bless
Toby Keiser
October 18, 2007
So many great memories. My husband played football for Coach Ruby at York High,and I had the pleasure of having him as a teacher. So many times over the years his name has come up in almost every football story, when we get together with OLD HIGH SCHOOL friends. The Stories just wouldn't be the same with out him. Thanks for the memories COACH RUBE!!!! LOVE, The Keiser Family
Tiffany Miller
October 17, 2007
To the Family and Friends of Mr. Ruby,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you all. Mr. Ruby was my gym teacher and health teacher in Elizabethtown HS. I pray for God's perfect peace and love to surround you and that you will know He is with you every moment!
(Nahum 1:7)
Barbara & Frank Engel
October 17, 2007
Dear Sue & Family....We were sorry to learn of Jeff's passing. We graduated with Jeff from West York and have many fond memories of him from our high school years. It sounds like he remained a very special person and touched so many lives along the way. May you find comfort in that and all the times he made you smile!
Jayne and Bob Mitten
October 17, 2007
Dear Sue and Family,
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Jeff's passing. Please accept our sincerest sympathy. We will remember him as a good friend and terrific coach and teacher.
Ron Strickler Jr.
October 17, 2007
Dear Sue, Besty, Ben and family,
You all are in the thoughts and prayers of me and my family. You all have been wonderful neighbors and Jeff was great and very influential man in every aspect of life. I do not think there was a day I could take a trip down roselyn and not see him out in the yard or the garage doing something. Stay strong and keep your heads up, Coach Ruby is in a better place.
Love, Ronnie, Nikki and the entire Strickler Bunch
David Hake
October 17, 2007
Dear Mrs. Ruby & Family,
I am sorry for your loss. I was very lucky to have Coach Ruby as my head football coach at york high in 1977. I will never forget
him or his lessons.
Patricia Szobocsan
October 17, 2007
Dearest Mr Ruby, what can be said of a man who touched the youth he taught so deeply that his wisdom, humor and love of life will forever remain in the Health & PE classrooms. I personally know of four Health & PE educators from one graduating class whom he mentored from the teen years to adulthood. I can only imagine the number of former students who now find themselves remembering how the lessons in Health and PE are important life lessons and know that they will carry Mr Ruby's unique teaching style into thier classrooms. Sincere sympathy to those who have lost a wonderful, husband, father, friend, coach, teacher and mentor.
Kathy Graham
October 17, 2007
Dear Sue, Ben and Betsy,
My deepest sympathy, my heart goes out to all of you. Cousin Cindy said there is a huge card party going on now with Jeff, Andy, Norma Jean, Doona Lee, Pat and Kelly. All of you take care...
chantile stine
October 17, 2007
Im very sorry for your loss. Coach Ruby was great.
Donald Donley
October 17, 2007
Jeff was a true friend, an outstanding educator, a devoted husband, a loving father, and a coach who taught respect, discipline, and pride in one's self. From Pudge Hefflefinger, a "hen weigh", a "ham cost", " ...egg hunt", “fish stretching”, to the money tree in the front yard, Jeff brought humor to nearly ever aspect of life. Although the personal loss of Jeff is more than I could have ever imagined, so many people realize that the world is a better place because Jeff made such a positive impact on it. Jeff, you “touched the future” and you touched our hearts. Good bye my good friend, you will be missed.
BJ Barth
October 16, 2007
Sorry to hear about Coach Ruby. I played for Coach in Elizabethtown in 1993 and 1994. We had some rough years but Coach kept our heads up always. You will be missed.
Donley Donley
October 16, 2007
Jeff, was a true friend, an outstanding educator, a devoted husband, a loving father, and a coach who taught respect, discipline, and pride in one's self. From Pudge Hefflefinger, a "hen weigh", a "ham cost", " ...egg hunt", “fish stretching”, to the money tree in the front yard, Jeff brought humor to nearly ever aspect of life. Although the loss of Jeff is more than I could ever have imagined, so many people realize that the world is a better place because he made such a positive mark on it. Jeff, you “touched the future” and you "touched our hearts". Good bye my good friend, you will be missed.
Thomas Harmic
October 16, 2007
You are in our prayers. The Harmics (Dave's family)
Chantelle Chaudoin
October 16, 2007
Loved Ones of Mr.Ruby,
I was very sad to hear about Mr. Ruby. He was my tennis coach, teacher, and role model during my high school years at Elizabethtown Area High School. During my senior year I was awarded the scholarship he sponsored for future Health and Physical Educators. Receiving the award was such an honor that I will always cherish. I can only hope that I will be half of the teacher and coach that Mr.Ruby was. My dearest thoughts and sympathies are with you and your family during this time of grief.
Sincerely,
Chantelle Chaudoin
Bonnie (Magee) Evans
October 16, 2007
Sue, Betsy & Ben,
So sorry to hear about Jeff's passing. May your many memories give you comfort. We are thinking of you.
Bonnie, Jay, Carrie & Katie Evans
Judy Burkholder
October 16, 2007
Mrs. Ruby and Family, I'm so sorry for your loss. I got to know your husband and dad when I worked in the high school office at E-town. I was there for 17 years and retired the same year that Jeff did. He was a good teacher, not only in PE, but in teaching the students lessons of life - growing up as responsible human beings, respecting themselves and others. I'm sure his friends will miss him immensely, as will you and your family. I hope that soon all the good memories and happy times will replace the pain.
Mike Flaherty
October 16, 2007
Sue, Betsy and Ben, my condolences and prayers upon your loss. Coach Ruby was a big part of my family after coaching with my father at Delone, and coaching my brother in football and me in wrestling. Through the best and toughest times, he was a dedicated and caring person with a great sense of humor who will be remembered always.
Ann & Doug Charleston
October 15, 2007
Some of our fondest and funniest memories from junior and senior high school include Jeff. He was one of a kind--from the twinkle in his eye to the mischievous grin. Oh, what great times we shared!! Our deepest sympathies go out to his family.
Ann (Frank), WYHS '65 and Doug Charleston, YHS '65
Terry Geier
October 15, 2007
Sue and Family,
It's been a number of years since I had seen Jeff. I coached along side of and for Jeff at York High. He was always a gentleman and a pleasure to be around. He will be missed. Remember the good times, he would have wanted it that way.
BARRY YUSKO
October 15, 2007
My wife Syl was a co-worker of our dear friend at YHS.....his loss is a great one to all that knew him.
Marty Pittinger
October 15, 2007
Sue,
We are so very saddened and shocked to hear about Jeff. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time!
May God Bless You,
Marty and Francis
George Neiderer
October 15, 2007
To the Ruby Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I played for Coach Ruby at Delone Catholic and will miss him. Coach Ruby, like all the great ones, got kids to believe in themselves and convinced them they were capable of doing more than they thought possible. He taught us much about football but even more about life. I will keep you all in my prayers.
June and Raymond Baker
October 15, 2007
Sue, Betsy, Joe, Ben and Libby, we are so very sorry to learn of this tragic news of Jeff. He is one person who we will always miss, he was just such a sweet, caring cousin in-law. He always had a smile and showed concern especially when it came to his family. He always had a twinkle in his eye. We will continue keeping all of you in our prayers and you know Raymond and I will always be there for you when needed. Love to all of you. Raymond, June and family
Andy Angel
October 15, 2007
To the Ruby Family,
I am truly sorry and stunned by your loss. I just saw Coach this summer for the first time in many years. I played for him at Delone Catholic on some very successful teams and under those circumstances had some of the best of times. Many of the other entries from other players listed here echo my sentiments of respect and admiration.
Andy Angel DCHS '73
Sue Myers
October 15, 2007
Sue, Ben, Betsy and family,
Jeff's death was a shock to many. May all of the memories, stories, trips and celebrations help you during this time of adjustment. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Sue Flaherty Myers
Gretchen (Smith) Morgan
October 15, 2007
To the Family,
So sorry for your loss. He was my Volley Ball Coach at York High and he was so patient with a bunch of girls who did not really know the game! He will be missed by many!
Carolyn Anderson- Grecco
October 15, 2007
Dear Sue, Ben, Betsy and families,
What can be said about Jeff Ruby? He, Donna Lee and his folks were a part of my life and my brother George's life for the years we all lived on Monroe St. and even after college and distance separated us. (He and my brother remained best friends until Oct. 12.) Jeff had such a tremendous gift for making people happy, making them feel good about themselves, and as a teacher, Jeff set the bar high for his students, as any good teacher would do. I hope Jeff, Andy, Norma Jean and Donna Lee are catching up and getting in a good game of cards. I can almost hear their chatter and laughter. That, and all the 8mm movies my dad took while we were kids together, are my consolation. I will forever miss his smiles and big bear hugs. My deepest sympathy. Carolyn Anderson-Grecco
October 15, 2007
Ben, Libby and the entire Ruby family,
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We hope that precious memories of your Dad will keep him alive in your hearts and minds, now and always.
Wishing you peace,
Philip Woods and Lisa Wherley
Robert Why
October 15, 2007
Ruby Family,
My condolences to your entire family, on your loss of a great husband, father and man. I played for Coach Ruby at York High from 74-78 and the lessons in life, discipline and desire to succeed he instilled in us will never be forgotten. He touched many lives throughout his life and we are all for the better of it. You have my heart felted sympathy.
MaryAnn Dellinger
October 15, 2007
Sue,
I am so sorry to hear about Jeff's death. May God be your guide in this time of grieving. Reach out to family and friends and always know that Jesus prepared the way for our soles to rest easy. I will keep you and the kids in my prayers.
Dale Mann
October 15, 2007
Dear Mrs. Ruby & Family,
I’m so sorry to read about your loss. Coach Ruby was instrumental in many of his player’s & student’s lives. My teammates and I were taught many tough, but valuable life lessons by Coach Ruby on the football field and in the classroom. We had the honor to be Coach Ruby’s first senior class as head coach at York High. You’re in our thoughts and prayers!
God Bless
Amber Rinehold
October 15, 2007
Ben
I am sorry about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
michael richards
October 15, 2007
mr.ruby sure will miss you
Terry Frederick
October 15, 2007
COACH,
you were the man thanks for teaching me respect about myself and teammates the math helped also , you will be missed enjoy that big touchdown in the sky rest in peace brother.
Lisa (Kruza) Luckenbaugh
October 15, 2007
Dear Sue, Betsy, and Ben,
I am SO sorry to hear about the loss if Jeff. What a wonderful man!! You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time!! Lisa
Tammy Eichelberger
October 15, 2007
Hi, I didn't know him, but my grandfather worked at PADE with him and I heard alot about him. So I know he must have been a great guy. My granfather is Bob Eichelberger. Im very sorry about your loss. Take care.
Stacey Shaffer
October 15, 2007
I have know the Ruby family since my little brother Brad and Ben became friends in school. Mr Ruby was always joking and happy. I remember the smiles on his face and the way he carried his positive attitude onto his family & friends. My thoughts and prayers are with Sue, Betsy, Ben and their families!
Shawn Freeland
October 15, 2007
Mrs. Ruby, Ben and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Coach ruby was one of those coaches we kids never forgets. while playing football for him at York High, he taught us that sports were secondary to education. He work hard at pushing us to further our education and taking pride in ourselves as individuals. For that I am grateful. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers as you go thru this difficult time.
Jozetta Warner
October 15, 2007
to whom this may consern,
I've very sorry for the loss of Mr Ruby. I had him as a teacher at William Penn High School. He was a very good teacher and I'm sure he will be missed.
Rod Cornwell
October 14, 2007
Rarely, does one have the opportunity to meet a man of outstanding character. I had that pleasure when I met Coach Ruby. His influence will be with me always. God Bless!
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