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Diane Platts
October 30, 2007
Dear Rachel and Hayden, Words will never express the heartfelt sympathy we feel for the both of you. We will all miss John dearly,as he has touched our lives. We love you Rachel and Hayden and always know that we will be here for you! Love, The Platts Family
The Staff at Southern Managment Rentals
October 27, 2007
Rachel,
We are so sad at your loss. We send you our prayers and thoughts every day.
Dean Brooks
October 23, 2007
Dear Charlie and Cheryl
We were deeply saddened to hear of John’s death. In these last few days our thoughts have been flooded with memories of those beautiful children and the days when they were young.
We have always been encouraged and motivated by your devotion to your children; you were good examples of parents to us. All your children are fortunate to have grown up in your house. Many times as I sat in the Junior Sunday School as nursery leader, I was touched and impressed by Charlie’s ability to relate and speak at a child’s level. I still remember the little morality stories he told from his own childhood, such as the time he used a shotgun to bring down some mistletoe. In contrast, many teachers seemed to be speaking to other adults and not to children. Maybe I was more sensitive to that issue because I was often sitting next to Lindsey, wondering how much she would remember from Sunday school.
As I think of Lindsey and John I am sadly reminded that our children are not ours to keep. They belong to themselves and to God. We enjoy them, we remember them and we say good-bye.
God bless you in this difficult time, and the difficult times that may come.
Dean Brooks
24663 E Quarto Pl, Aurora CO 80016. 303-284-6051
Paula & Bernard Ilkhanoff
October 17, 2007
Dear Dieter and Fleetwood Families,
We were so saddened to learn of the tragic loss of John. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very difficult time. We will miss his smiling face and his jovial nature. We will still delight in seeing the beautiful little boy who so resembles him. Our hearts go out to both families and especially John's beloved wife, Rachel. With Love, The Ilkhanoffs
Rachael Boyer
October 14, 2007
John, it's hard to believe that you are gone...I just passed you out on the road the day before you left us. you have always been such a great friend to everyone, even to complete strangers. It was great getting to know you better over the last year. I will never forget when you were pumping gas at getty and you saw me driving by and u just stopped what you were doing, started jumping up and down, waving at me with that huge smile on your face. If only more people could be like that. I remember 4-wheeling in that big bronco you bought, and how sorry you were when mud splashed up into my hair even after i insisted that it was no big deal. You would have given the shirt off your back for anybody..and you did. you always had so much zest about life, always getting up early to call your friends and start a new adventure. The times that i hung out with you and your friends you were always telling me how much you loved your friends and Rachel and how you were so happy that she was going to have a baby. You were one of a kind, and i feel very fortunate to have gotten to know you, even if it was only for a short time. Rachel, i am so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers...you meant the world to John, it was obvious. I know i didnt get a chance to get to know you REALLY well, but I'm still here if you need anything at all.
kimberly billet
October 13, 2007
cheryl and family. we are so sorry for your loss. our deepest sympathies go out to you. our prayers are with you.
( staff at holiday hair, shrewsbury)
Vince Dvorak
October 10, 2007
Although I only knew John for one day (4th of July Party), and also first time meeting Rachel, I could tell they both were very happy. John seemed like a good person and very polite. Rachel, if there is anything you need, please ask. Our condolences. Vince Dvorak and Family.
Michelle H
October 10, 2007
Dear Fleetwood Family,
Im so sorry about the loss of John. My prayers and thoughts will be with all of you. John touched a lot of lives and he will be remembered by many.
NIKKI HOOVER
October 10, 2007
YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. YOU WILL BE IN MY HEART FOREVER. I WILL REMEMBER BACK IN THE DAY FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE. YOU WILL BE MISSED. I LOVED YOU LIKE MY BROTHER.
Nickie Nelson
October 10, 2007
You are going to be missed so very much by so many people. John you were such a wonderful person and always happy, I can't believe you aren't here :( My deepest sympathy to Rachel, I know it is hard but with John up there watching over you everyday, you will be strong, just hold on to the little man (Hayden) and it will be okay.
Bill Held
October 9, 2007
Cheryl and Charlie, Our deepest, sincere, sympathies to you and your family for your loss. May you have strength going forward. Very Truly, The Held Family
Samantha Dawson (Dawson Family)
October 9, 2007
To Rachel and the little man. You have an amazing angel watching over you. Cant wait to tell Hayden about him dad. Always know Jason and I are here for you.
October 9, 2007
Your were soo loved and you will be missed by everyone
Andrew Kurilla
October 9, 2007
hey bro im gonna miss you. Im never going to forget hearing your bike go bye my house like everyother day. And seeing that great big smile on your face everytime u answered your door. Its just so hard to believe your gone but i no ill see you again up in the big world save me a seat and remember my prayers are with you. and please, watch my back. Love you always Andrew.
The Winters Family
October 9, 2007
To The Fleetwood Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Our son knew John and said what a wonderful person he was. I know that he will be greatly missed. Remember that he will always be with you, Rachael, and your son. God bless.
Valerie Gardner
October 8, 2007
Hello Fleetwoods and Grandma Lamberson, I just wanted to write you and express my deepest and most sincere condolences on John's passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. He was always good at making me laugh. I know Heavenly Father is watching over you all at this difficult time. I love and miss you all.
Lois and Pete Adamovich
October 8, 2007
Dear Cheryl and Charlie,
We were saddened to hear of John's death. We remember him from the wonderful days in the Odenton Ward [always home to us]. His sweet smile and laughter and that fly-away blonde hair. We know that Heavenly Father will send you comfort during this time as well as to his wife and son. Although we never met, we know that John chose well his companion and shared his love with her and his son...he had much love to give.
Friends for eternity,
Brenda Oxford
October 8, 2007
Brother and Sister Fleetwood & Family,
We're so sorry to hear of the passing of your son, brother, husband and father. May your hearts be at peace in the knowledge that this is but a step in our Father's plan. All is well even though you mourn. Heavenly Father is mindful of your grief and will surely comfort and sustain you at this time. You will be in our prayers. All our love.. Brenda, Emile and Gabrielle
Melissa Dean
October 8, 2007
Rachel and Hayden, and the rest of the Fleetwood Family, my deepest heartfelt sympathies go out to you. John has touched so many lives, it is hard to imagine that he is gone. But we will all remember that he always had a smile on his face. Rachel, stay strong, but if you need anything, I'm here for you. Rest in Peace, John.
niki donahue
October 8, 2007
fleetwood family,rachel and to john's little man hayden, i am so sorry for your loss. you are in my thoughts everyday, my prayers go out to you all. john was such a fun person and was always smiling. we have not been in contact since high school but he will be truly missed. rachel and hayden just remember john is watching over you both, i know as the days go by you will talk to hayden about the memories of his father and keep him alive in your hearts. he will be missed.
Coleen Sipes
October 8, 2007
To Mr. and Mrs. Fleetwood - There are no words that we can share with you which will bring you comfort right now. We know this from having lost our son a little over 2 years ago - also at the age of 23. We pray that you have a deep, abiding faith in Jesus to sustain you right now, as well as the prayers and love of family and friends - and strangers. To theirs, we add our prayers and wishes that you find comfort ... in the many memories that you can hold onto. While no parent ever expects to outlive their child, it does happen. If you ever need to talk, or cry, or vent to someone you feel might understand - my husband and I are available. It may help to talk to people you don't know. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Roy & Coleen Sipes
To Rachel (and Hayden) -
Our sweet child - if we could only wrap you and Hayden in our arms and make everything "okay". We are so sorry for your loss at what seemed to be your beginning of a life with a man you love and a child you adore. There is a reason for everything and we cannot even begin to guess why God needed to bring John home. Just know that you have the love of family and friends - and we are here if you need us, okay? Love, Aunt Col and Uncle Roy
Megan Hill
October 7, 2007
Dear Rachel,
I am so sorry to hear about John. You, your beautiful son, and both your family and John's are in my thoughts and prayers constantly.
Love, Megan and the rest of the Hill family
jon scallion
October 7, 2007
i will miss you bro. your love for life. your love for rachel and hayden. your love for your family and friends. and the love that is returned. you are a sun to a galaxy of souls. and you shine your warmth and energy on all of us. we all know you are with us in our hearts. i will miss the smell of "processed" clam chowder and you waking me up way too early to say " wakie, wakie! eggs and bacie!!" and that damn laugh and smile. you never gave up on anybody and none of us will give up for you. it might be a little while but we will all be together again. save me a seat at the bar up there man. we will have a lot to catch up on. i love you dude.
Pegyye and Ken Townsend
October 7, 2007
We were so sorry to here about John.We remember him as a little boy with that soft blond hair that stood up and was imposible to advoid touching.I can also remember home teaching your family and quickly learned that in order to teach with John present I had to have very interesting lessons. Due to John I compiled those lesssons and dedicate them to John. Our love and prayers are with you.
Emily Brooks
October 7, 2007
Dear Fleetwood Family,
I remember swimming with John at the Ft. Meade swimming pool as a child. He stands out in my memories because of his bright platinum hair and energetic play. I am sorry he died so young. You will be in my prayers.
Shane Haddaway
October 7, 2007
Fleetwood family, my condolences for your loss. John is a great guy who will forever be remembered and loved by all. Rach- keep your head up and know that John loves you and Hayden very much! John, we'll miss you, buddy!
Sandra Wenige
October 7, 2007
Rachel and Hayden. We are so sorry for your loss. John will be proud of the life that you both will continue to lead filled with love and cherished memories. We are always here for you. Love from Aunt Elaine, Sandra, John, Megan and Jordan
RAMONA PLAZA
October 7, 2007
I WILL NEVER FORGET ALL THE FUN TIMES WE HAD THAT ONE TIME THAT I DID GET TO SEE YOU FOR THE HOILDAYS IT WAS GREAT YOU MADE MANY MEMORIES FOR ME THAT X-MAS. YOU WILL BE MISSED BY EVERYONE THAT KNEW YOU. I WILL SEE YOU ONE DAY AGIAN. LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER!
Wade and Lorna Browne
October 6, 2007
Charlie and Cheryl,
We were very saddened to receive the news of John's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
With love,
Dan Stout
October 6, 2007
Fleetwood family, I am incredibly sorry to hear about your loss, May you have the strength to go on.
Peggy Ventsias Robinson
October 6, 2007
To all of the family,
Kevin called and shared the sad news with us. It is so hard when a child/ father/ husband preceeds us in death. We are so sorry for your loss. I remember John as a boy, and how very hard he worked to become the fine young man he did become. Blessings to you all in this sad time.
Teresa Chapman
October 6, 2007
Dear Charlie and Cheryl,
You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. May the Lord comfort you and bring peace to your hearts. We have many choice memories of your special family. We appreciate all you have meant to our family.
With deep love and sympathy.
Ron and Teresa Chapman
Joe and Colleen Allred
October 6, 2007
We remember John well while both he and us lived together in the Odenton area. We to offer our condolences to his family and the family of his parents.
Grandma Caroline Plaza
October 6, 2007
Fleetwood, he was alway so full of life. A smile on his face that would light up a room. From the first time my grandson, introduced you to me you always called me Grandma. You will be greatly missed by our family.
My prayers to his Wife Rachel & son, also to his parents, brothers & sisters.
Lisa and Bill Held
October 6, 2007
Our condolences go out to you and your family. We were so sorry to hear about your son. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and we are thinking about you during this difficult time. Please let us know if there is anything we can do. We are at 966 Oakwood Road if there is anything we can do. In Sympathy, Bill and Lisa Held
October 6, 2007
Only the good die young.
RIP John. You will be missed.
Rachel, be strong. You now have an angel looking over you.
Larissa and Brian Benoit
October 6, 2007
Though we did not know John long, it was with great pleasure to meet and get to know him this past July.
He was a special man who will always be with you in spirit. We are so sorry for your loss. Love, Larissa and Brian
Ruth Blanton
October 6, 2007
My deepest sympathy to the Fleetwood family. May our Father in Heaven bless you all with peace and comfort in this time of sorrow.
Bill and Dee Martin
October 6, 2007
Dear Fleetwood family, We are very sorry to hear of John's passing. There are not adequate words of comfort to ease the pain of losing one of our children. We remember seeing John when we came to your home for the Odenton Ward reunion, and were happy to see him and that he seemed very happy. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Bill and Dee Martin and family
Marianne & Jim Reynolds
October 6, 2007
Dearest Bishop...
So many years since baptism and marriage there in the Odenton Ward. If it was not for you all, our little family would never have appeared. So many memories of goodness, bless you with comfort during this time of great loss.
Your 1981 military friends,
The Reynolds Family
Anthony Shrader Jr
October 6, 2007
There wasn't a person in this world John came in contact with, that he couldn't or didn't make smile. The energy that he prjected was so strong it would make me smile even days after I spoke with him. We knew each other for a much too short 9 years. And it was a pleasure everytime we got together. I regret that we grew apart in our adult lives. But will cherish the memories I do have.
To the family of John. I never got to meet you, or know you. But you will be in my prayers. My love and support goes out to you.
Debbie Bova
October 5, 2007
Dear Rachel,Nancy,Pat and family,We are so sorry to hear of your unbelievable loss.It is so hard to have someone you love so much taken from you.You are all in our thoughts and prayer.Gods love and ours.
Debbie,Steve,Zach,Jessi and Aunt Isabelle
Will & Jill Rogers
October 5, 2007
Our deepest sympathies to John's family. Fleetwood brought countless smiles, lauthter and love to everyone he knew. We love him and will miss him dearly. His joyful spirit will live on inside all of us and he will never be forgotten.
Rachel, we love you very much and Hayden too. We will always be there for you , dont ever hesitate to call us for anything.
Love,
Will & Jill
Linda Wood
October 5, 2007
Cheryl and Charlie,
I was so very sorry to hear about your son, John. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Linda & Rick Wood and their sons
Annette Scallion
October 5, 2007
Fleetwood my second son, my heart is very heavy and I will miss you very very much. You were always filled with life, laughter and can always make me laugh. Rachel and Hayden I will always be there for you and be ready to tell "Fleetwood" stories to Hayden. I am going to miss the bear hugs and your beautiful smile.
Bridgett Palmer
October 5, 2007
John was such a great guy! There was not one time that I saw him where he didn't have a smile on his face. I am so sorry for the loss... he will be missed.
Erica Shipley
October 5, 2007
Rachel, You have an amazing guardian angel watching over you and your little boy. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Heidi Humphreys
October 5, 2007
I was one of the Nurses who responded before the paramedics
got there. I am truly sorry for your loss. I will never forget
Wed. night and mourn with you and
your family. Sincerely, Heidi Humphreys
Kristen Hofstetter
October 5, 2007
My deepest sympathy goes to John's family. John and I were good friend's in high school...we have grown apart since. Though it was not often, we would always talk and laugh whenever we would see each other. John is a beautiful person, and he will be greatly missed by many.
Megan Good
October 5, 2007
Rachel,
I know that we haven't talked or seen each other in a really long time but I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you and you are in my prayers.
Megan
October 5, 2007
my prays go out to john's wife,son and family. he will always live on in your hearts and in the eyes of his son. may god be with you in this time of need.
Chris & Angel The Guzman's
October 5, 2007
so many memories, so many good times. john you will be deeply missed. We'll never forget that smile that could cheer anyone up, we're all gonna miss you a lot. our hearts go out to the family for their loss.
Megan Scallion
October 5, 2007
I love and miss you Fleetwood. You were my second brother and I'll never forget that. Love from the Scallion family.
Barb McFadden
October 5, 2007
Rachel and Family, We are so sorry for your loss. He was such a special, young man with a smile that would light up the room. He will forever live through "his little man". He gave so much love and help to all...we must truly celebrate him. We are here for you. We love you... Aunt Barb, Uncle John, Sydney, Sean, and Grace.
Brian & Alison (Prueitt) Adamski
October 5, 2007
Rachel, Hayden and Family,
Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers during this sad time. We never met John, but we know he was a great father and husband through the many happy pictures I have received from the family. He will be greatly missed but will always live on in our hearts each day and as Hayden grows into the wonderful man his father was and will always be. Take care and God bless.
darlene openshaw
October 5, 2007
To John's family. Our hearts go out to each of you. May God give you overwhelming peace and comfort at this terrible time. Travis is going to miss John so very much. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you. God bless you all. Rick, Darlene and Travis Openshaw
Steve & Luci Rice
October 5, 2007
Charlie & Cheryl-
Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Jessica & Robert Rinehimer
October 5, 2007
I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with your entire family at this difficult time. God bless his soul and may he rest in peace.
Karen & Jim Thompson (Sarah Shannon's parents)
October 5, 2007
May God's loving presence comfort you, His perfect peace restore you, and His promise of eternal life sustain you now and always. We will celebrate his life because he brought us so much joy and laughter.
Josh Lynch
October 5, 2007
John will live on as positive influence in all of our lives.
Patty Grieb
October 5, 2007
Rachel, our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are so sorry for your loss.
The Grieb Family.
Carol True
October 5, 2007
Rachel and Family - I am so sorry for your loss. It doesn't seem possible that he is gone. We will miss John. He was family to us. John had such a positive attitude and always had a smile on his face. If you need us - we are here for you.
Antoinette Hiebler
October 5, 2007
The joys of Johns presence will always make everyone smile. He will never leave us for he will always be in our hearts.
Brenda Shearer
October 5, 2007
To all the Fleetwood family, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. John and Brenda Shearer & family
Katie Miller
October 5, 2007
My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to all of John's family. He has touched many lives and will be greatly missed. Rachel, I have nothing but heartfelt sorrow for you and Hayden, we don't know each other that well but if you need anything..please don't hesitate
Kathy Miller(Shawn's mom)
October 4, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May god bless you and help you thru the sorrow.
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