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Kyle Lanphier Obituary

YORK Kyle William Lanphier, 22, died at 10:30 a.m. Friday, March 14, 2008, at York Hospital. Born, August 12, 1985, in Elgin, Ill., he was the son of William M. and Gayle (Zbikowski) Lanphier of York. Kyle was a 2004 graduate of Central York High School and an employee of Spataro's Restaurant in York. Kyle was deeply loved by his family and friends. He lived his life to the fullest, enjoying music, video games, and NASCAR. He will be most remembered for his fun-loving spirit and devoted friendship. In addition to his parents, Kyle is survived by two sisters, Sarah Lanphier and Katelyn Lanphier, both of York; and his maternal grandparents, Robert and Grace Zbikowski of Mulberry, Fla. An informal service will be held at 7:30 p.m. Monday at the Etzweiler Funeral Home and Cremation Service, 1111 E. Market St., York, with the Rev. Dr. Bradley A. Brown, pastor of Zion United Methodist Church, officiating. A viewing will be held from 6 to 7:30 p.m. Monday at the funeral home. Contributions may be made to the American Heart Association, 2997 Cape Horn Road, Red Lion, PA 17356. www.etzweiler.com

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Published by York Daily Record on Mar. 16, 2008.

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Steve and Karen Fredericks

April 15, 2008

Billy and Gayle, it is April 15th and I just found out about Kyle. Although distance separates us, know that you will always have good friends. I can’t express enough sympathy to you and your family. Hug the girls and know that Kyle is at peace with his heavenly Father. God Bless.

Mike & Kathy Dobner

April 7, 2008

Dear Bill, Gayle, Sarah and Kate,

We are very saddened by this tragic news. May the many memories that you have help you all to heal. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Claressa Underwood

April 6, 2008

Im so sorry to hear about the loss..Kyle was such a fun person to be around...he will be missed...my thoughts and prayers are with your family...rip kyle..miss you...


Love Claressa and Elijah Underwood

ed chisamore

April 3, 2008

Even though we haven't talked in awhile. We are friends no matter what. My heart and my prayers are with kyle and sarah, katlyn , bill, gayle, forever.

Shirley Kross Kuczynski

April 1, 2008

Billy and family,
I was so sorry to hear about your loss. It is definitely a tragedy for such a young life to be lost. My prayers are with you. May God hold you in the palm of his hand and comfort you.

Kathy Pirwitz

March 27, 2008

Bill, Gayle, Sarah and Kate
We are thinking of you and will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Randy and Kathy Pirwitz and family

EDWARD SCHAEFER

March 26, 2008

DEAR BILL AND GAYLE,

ITS BEEN SUCH A LONG TIME SINCE WE HAVE HAD CONTACT --- AND I DEEPLY SADDENED TO BE RECONNECTING UNDER THESE CIRCUMSTANCES. I ONLY MET KYLE ONECE AS A TOT, I CAN SAY HE WAS CERTAINLY HAD A HIGH ENERGY LEVEL. THAT WAS A GOOD MEMORY. I AM DEEPLY SADDENED OVER YOUR LOSS.

Brian and Marlene Johnson

March 26, 2008

Dear Billy, Gayle, Sarah and Katelyn,

Our most sincere condolences. We are keeping you all in our prayers and may God hold you in the comfort of his embrace. We love you all.

Julius Matthews

March 24, 2008

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Lanphier, Sarah and Katelyn,

We were so saddened to hear the news about Kyle. Kyle was a fun loving boy! I had a great time coaching him in swimming. Our prays are with you.

Julius and Jennifer Matthews

Jan Harpole

March 23, 2008

Bill, Gayle, Sarah and Katelyn,

We were so saddened to hear the news about Kyle. We cannot begin to imagine the pain that your family is going through at this time, but know that we are praying for comfort for all of you during this most difficult hour.

Our love,
Jan and Nicole Harpole

Holly Hartman

March 22, 2008

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find peace and comfort in the love and caring of family and fiends in this time of grief.

Larry and Shari Lebbing

March 22, 2008

Bill and Gayle,
I just heard this very sad news last night. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and the girls in this time of need.
Larry and Shari

Katie Knepp

March 21, 2008

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
From all of us at Lee Myles.

Lorrie Danner

March 21, 2008

Bill and family, I am so sorry for your loss. May my prayers be with you.

Christine Barkdoll

March 21, 2008

Dear Gayle and Family,
Please know that you have many friends who care, and that we might be able to share just a piece of your sorrow to lessen your burden.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Chris Barkdoll (Athletic Club)

Brittany Jackson

March 20, 2008

Kyle you were such an amazing person and you will be so deeply missed! All my love, xoxoxo

Rich, Kelly, Kristyn, and Emily Funke

March 20, 2008

Gayle, Bill, Sarah, and Kate...
We were saddened when we read of Kyle's passing. We still think of him as a small boy at the YMCA and DAAC swim meets. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Lean on God for strength during this time and cherish your memories of Kyle.

Eileen (Carlson) Guzaldo

March 19, 2008

Bill and Family, am so sorry for your loss, with deepest sympathy to all of you.

Bryant, Mindy, Alexa & Taylor Wilson

March 19, 2008

Bill, Gayle, Sarah and Kate,
Our thoughts and prayers continue to stay with you. Your loss is tragic but we hope that your faith will see you through.

Mary Brickley

March 19, 2008

I was so sorry to hear about Kyle. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless.

John Purdum

March 19, 2008

Bill, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family for your tremendous loss of your son. I pray for the Lord to provide you strength and courage during the healing process. May God Bless.

Courtney Enser

March 19, 2008

I wish you continued strength and healing through the support of your loved ones. Remember to lean on those that you love, they will guide you through these hard times. My thoughts and prayers are with you, may you find comfort in knowing he will be the angel that guides you each and every day.
With sincere sympathy,

Mary Washburn (Lewis)

March 19, 2008

My prayers and thoughts are with you and I am really sorry that we could not be there. Mackinzie and I are thinking of you and send you all of our love! We miss you guys!

Lou & Mary Jackubowski

March 18, 2008

Bill & Gayle,
What stunning news that leaves us at a loss for words. Offering our thoughts and prayers doesn't seem like enough, but it is the best we can offer. Being the parents of two young children, we know the deep love that goes with having children. Experiencing the loss you have, we can only begin to imagine the sorrow you must feel. We are so, so sorry and express our deepest sympathy. If, like us, you are persons of faith, than you believe that while pre-mature, Kyle is in a much better place. Over time, may that thought give you the peace and comfort that you need.
With our deepest sympathies.

Kris

March 18, 2008

I hate that this happened. I feel selfish in saying that I didn't get to know him. When I sit down to lunch or dinner I say my prayers just like G.P. Lanphier taught us and I ask for the well being of my family and friends before I say AMEN. To love and serve the Lord and each other is what he said at the end of every mass. I trust Kyle did just that

Mary cole

March 18, 2008

I ccant express my condolences enough to all of you . your grief must be overwhelming. I'm so sorry that you are having to experience this heartbreak. My sincere prayers and thoughts are with you during this tragic time. Jays mother...Mary Cole

Dylan

March 18, 2008

To the kid who was a big brother to me, and every time i think of him I'll raise the KFK and cheer to that clown

Dave Griffiths

March 18, 2008

Bill and Family
Our thoughts & prayers are with you during this time of sadness. Please accept our sincere condolences. With deepest sympathy.

Dave Griffiths
Your friends at Review & Herald Publishing

Kim Seib

March 18, 2008

Bill and Family
Words cannot express the feelings I have. My thoughts, heart, and prayers are with you. Love you all, Kim

Jessica Snare

March 18, 2008

Sarah and family,
I am so sorry to hear the news. Mrs. Wilke told me just a few minutes ago. I just can't believe it. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Jessica (Georg) Snare
Central High School

Joe Krug

March 18, 2008

Bill and family,
I never had the honor of knowing Kyle, but I was devastated to hear the news of his untimely passing. My heart is saddened at the loss of this young man and the difficult journey ahead for you who loved him. I will keep you in my prayers at the holiest time of the year and in the days ahead. May God bless you and ultimately bring you peace and comfort.

Mikki & Marty

March 18, 2008

Bill & family,
We continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Anita Conte-Schultz

March 18, 2008

Kate and family,

Our deepest sympathies to you and your family. We have you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Ian's Aunt Anita, Uncle Kerry, cousins, Kasey & Noah Schultz

Audrey Emig

March 18, 2008

Our sincere condolences for your loss. Kyle's memory will be cherished by us forever. We have always enjoyed the times Kyle was at our house and especially fun times we had at Rehobeth. He was a pleasure to be with.

Metro, Cody Sopp and Audrey

Jill Weikert

March 17, 2008

Kyle always made me laugh. He had a good heart and soul. My prayers are with your family.

Genna Glaser

March 17, 2008

Sarah and family,

Kyle was such an amazing person with a contagiously fun personality and phenomenal skills on the drums. He was a face I was always happy to see when I was in York, and I know everyone else from our class would agree. His memory lives on in our memories, and I offer my deepest condolences to you.

-Genna Glaser

Katie McDonald

March 17, 2008

Mr. & Mrs. Lanphier, Sarah, and Kate-
I am so sorry for your loss and that I couldn't be there today. Kyle was an amazing person and I will never forget all of the great times we have all had together over the years. I will see you all as soon as possible, and you are in my thoughts and prayers. I love you all!

David and Brenda Miller

March 17, 2008

Our thoughts and our prayers are with your family during this difficult time. We had the pleasure of knowing Kyle through our son Brian and we know he will be greatly missed by all. May you find comfort in knowing that others care.

Laura Lanphier

March 17, 2008

Bill, Gayle, Sarah, and Kate
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May strength, love, and peace surround all of you during this difficult time. I love you all!!
Laura, Zach, Zoe, and Sydney Lanphier-Hames

Grant N. Shue

March 17, 2008

Lanphier family,
my wishes and prays go out to your family. kyle was a awesome person and amazing drummer. our fun times will be missed let your memories bring smiles to your faces, god bless
grant shue

Tom and Wendy Wernoch

March 17, 2008

To Bill and Family,
We send our deepest sympathy and our prayers to your family at this difficult and painful time. Our thoughts and hearts go out to you all.

Hylton Paper Co

March 17, 2008

Bill & Family:
Our thoughts & prayers are with you during this time of sadness. Please accept our sincere condolence. With deepest sympathy, John,Maryann,Mike & all your friends at Hylton Paper

Tami Buhl

March 17, 2008

My heart goes out to you and your family during this most difficult time. May the love of friends and family carry you through.

Pat Mudd

March 17, 2008

To Bill and your family,
There are probably no words that can lessen your grief, just know that we're praying for you to help carry you through.

Ashley & Matt Smith

March 17, 2008

Please accept our deepest sympathies. We are so sorry for your loss. Kyle was such a fun-loving guy. He will be greatly missed by all of his many friends.

Susan Hopkins

March 17, 2008

Bill, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time. May you find comfort in the memories of Kyle and the word of God. God bless you all!

Sister Mary Jane Dawson, O.S.F.

March 17, 2008

Bill,Gayle, Sarah and Katelyn,
My sincere sympathy on the death
of Kyle. I will be having a Mass said
at our Motherhouse, for all your intentions.
May God comfort you during this difficult time.

March 17, 2008

The Lanphier Family,

Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at the passing of Kyle. He was such a special boy. I will always remember the childish smirks he had on his face when he would come to the house with Chad. I know that Chad will always cherish the friendship he had with Kyle.

Our Sincere Sympathy,

Zig and Kim Ziegler (Chads parents)

Doug and Karen Whitlow

March 17, 2008

We cannot express our condolences enough for your loss. May the Lord be with you and your family through this time of grieving. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Joanne McKean-Runge

March 17, 2008

Bill and family - I am so sorry to hear of your terrrible loss. Please accept my sympathy and know you are all in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Gene Shuffler

March 17, 2008

Bill, I am deeply sorry for your loss. I pray that God will comfort you and your family during this time of grief. We will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers.

Gene

Trent Graham

March 17, 2008

Lanphier Family

Please accept my most sincere condolences on the loss of Kyle. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Todd Strohm

March 17, 2008

Our family grieves with you.
In a time such as this, may the Author of Peace bless you beyond all understanding.

Diane Halloran

March 17, 2008

Lanphier Family,
When Kyle came to work for us at Spataro's, we knew we had truly found a gem. He always gave 110%, and no matter what we asked of him, we could depend on his help. We will surely miss him. On a personal level, I was so touched when I returned to work recently after being out for a few weeks. He gave me a big hug and asked how I was doing. I hope he knew how good that made me feel. I have a son about the same age, and I cannot even begin to imagine the devastation you are all experiencing right now. I hope you can find the strength to get through this somehow. I want you to know that I would like to help you in any way I can, so if there is anything at all that you need, I will be more than happy to oblige. Please take care and you have my sincere sympathy.

Steve Rutter

March 17, 2008

Please accept my sincere sympathies, and thoughts of peace and courage.

Tracey McGraw

March 17, 2008

Katelyn and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers. God bless you through this time.

Ms Tracey McGraw and family

Eddie Larabee

March 17, 2008

Billy, I am so sorry for your loss. I know how much I love my son and my heart is with you and your family. I pray that God comforts you and your family in this most grievous time of need and I know that HE will because he feels your pain. God bless you Bill!

Tom Breeden

March 17, 2008

Bill, my wife and I send our condolences. May God sustain you and your family during these difficult times. May God Bless.

Krystle Conrad

March 17, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Lisa Rue

March 17, 2008

Bill and family,
I know it has to be so hard deal with the loss of a child. I can't imagine the pain, but put your faith in the Lord and remember all the wonderful times that you did have with him to help you through this hard time. I pray that the Lord gives you and your family strength to get through this and to bring you, your wife and daughters closer.

Steve McPhail

March 17, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

The Rinehold Family Joyce Amber and Ian

March 17, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Kevin Brown

March 17, 2008

Sorry for your loss. If there is anything I can do, please let me know. Kyle was the best drummer Ive ever heard in my life. My jam days with him will be missed. My sincere condolences.

Kyrsa Severson

March 16, 2008

Bill, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Ken Heba

March 16, 2008

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Dennis Kopp

March 16, 2008

Lanphier family and friends, I have only known Bill for less than a year and couldn't think of a more caring and loving father. I know Kyle is in a wonderful place now and knows how much his family truly loves him. God bless and you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Melissa Klug

March 16, 2008

Lanphier family--we are sending you all of our thoughts and prayers--I cannot imagine what you are going through, and I truly hope that your pain will ease some with all your good memories of Kyle. The whole Glatfelter family in Chillicothe is praying for your family during this difficult time, and know that you are rarely far from my thoughts.

Sherri Dietz

March 16, 2008

Bill, Gayle, Sarah and Kate,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I know how difficult this time is for you as I have gone through this with loosing my sister at a young age. There is no easy way to deal with these tragedies but time eventually starts to disapate the pain. If there is anything I can do, please just ask. Take one moment at a time...

Jeffrey Lanphier

March 16, 2008

Sending our prayers and deepest sympathy. He will remain in all of our hearts forever.
Love Jeff, Alina, Audria, & Jayna Lanphier

Chris Crawford

March 16, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Robin Staub

March 16, 2008

Though it has been a very long time since we have seen you, some of our fondest memories can be found forever on video tape, Kyle and Adam jamming away in the 5th grade. Kyle was never far from our thoughts over the years, and we share in your deep loss....please accept our prayers, thoughts and love we send your way in your time of need. Trust God to guide and strengthen you, lean on those around you, and call on those you need to be with you. If there is ANYTHING we can do, email is quick. Thank you for sharing your son with us, he was an insperation. Peace be with you, Dan, Robin, Adam and Lew Staub "Bem's Blues" forever

John DeMarco

March 16, 2008

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sandy Dumanski

March 16, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I know both of my boys enjoyed Kyle's friendshiip so much.He was loved by his friends, that I know for sure. He will be remembered always and missed forever. Sandy Dumanski

Lisa (Koutiel) Gregoire

March 16, 2008

Sending thoughts of peace, prayers, and courage. My deepest condolences.

pat omara

March 16, 2008

With sincere sympathy at this time of great sorrow,we send our love. The O'Mara family. Pat,Keli and Megan.

Tom Haner

March 16, 2008

Bill, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Susan Fischer

March 16, 2008

My most heartfelt sympathy for the entire family.

Ericka Shay

March 15, 2008

Our love and prayers are with you Uncle Bill, Aunt Gayle, Sarah and Kate.

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