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1959
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2025
David O'Brien Obituary
November 11, 1959 - March 20, 2025
David Albert O 'Brien, born on Veterans Day in 1959 at Ft. Yuma Indian Hospital, often joked that the holiday was created just for him. His early years were shaped by his family 's travels due to his fathers employment, culminating in his graduation from Fernley High School in Nevada, where he excelled in track and field.
In October 1978, David answered the call to serve his country by joining the United States Navy, where he served aboard the USS Kitty Hawk until his honorable discharge in October 1982. His life of service continued through roles as a firefighter for the Bureau of Indian Affairs and later in maintenance at Paradise Casino, where he worked for 22 years before retiring.
David was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Valerie Jose O'Brien; his parents, Charles and Eunice O'Brien; his paternal grandparents, Albert and Emorie O'Brien, and his maternal grandparents, Gilbert and Veronica DePuy.
He is survived by his son, Patrick, and granddaughter, Keionna; his brother, Timothy O'Brien; his sisters, Susan Antone, Sharon Mattias, Deborah O'Brien, and Valerie Jackson; his aunts, Constance Perez, Mary O'Brien, and Carlotta Sestiaga; and numerous relatives who cherished him.
Funeral services will be held at the Quechan Big House on Saturday, April 12, 2025, from 5:00 pm to 5:00 am.
Pallbearers will consist of his family and friends, a testament to the impact he had on those around him.
Davids legacy of love, service, and dedication will forever remain in the hearts of all who knew him.
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Memories and Condolences
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6 Entries
Michelle Fairchild vanhorn
April 17, 2025
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Tony Martinez
April 11, 2025
Fair winds and following seas, shipmate. We were elementary & junior high classmates at San Pasqual Valley School. Although at different units, we both were in Navy during same time frame. May a gentle breeze forever fill your sails. May sunshine warm your face, and God's kindness always warm your soul.
Barbara A. Cachora
April 11, 2025
My heart goes out to you, Patrick. Condolences to the family. You were always "Uncle Dave" to my boys. Rest in peace.
Robin Titus
April 10, 2025
My condolences to all of David's family and friends... no matter how serious or stoic you were David when ever we crossed path's you would smile the last time we seen each other you gave me a nice hug thank you REST NOW
Vanessa Jose
April 10, 2025
Thank You Dave, for always teaching the children to tie their shoelaces and making sure their shoes had laces. Journey on...
Shari
April 10, 2025
Who is going to do magic tricks for us or protect us from lighting? I am really going to miss you. I will look in on Pat for you. I love you.
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