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Nicholas Charmelo Obituary
Nicholas J. Charmelo, suddenly, age 66, beloved husband of
Darlene, nee Long; loving father of Nicholas Jr., Charmaine, Alfred (Louisa) and Scott
(Jennifer); dearest grandfather of eight; dear son of the late Alfred and the late Agnes Charmelo; devoted brother and best friend to Phyllis (Frank) Maggio; fond uncle and great-uncle of many nieces and nephews and a dear cousin to many. Funeral Tuesday, 9:15 a.m. from the Montclair-Lucania Funeral Home, 6901 W. Belmont Ave., Chicago, IL to St. Pascal Church. Mass 10 a.m. Interment Acacia Park Cemetery. Visitation Monday, 3 p.m. to 9 p.m. 773-622-9300.
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Scott Charmelo
March 14, 2025
I went to visit you and the family today and i know your presence was there
I felt you when i was talking to you. 17 years later and missing you more each day. Love and Miss you Dad
Marianne
March 13, 2025
My Dear Friend
You will live in my heart forever .
Scott
March 13, 2024
16 Years and missing you more each day Dad I know you´re here with me. The comfort i have is knowing you´re watching over me and proud of what I have done. Love and Miss you Dad everyday.
Love Your Son
Scott.
Darlene
March 13, 2024
I miss you every single day. All my love to you always.
Darlene
Marianne
March 10, 2024
You will always have a place in my heart-we were true friends and I will always be grateful for that
Scott Charmelo
March 14, 2023
15 Years today and never seems to get better, The comfort i have is knowing you are with all our loved ones and looking over us .
I love and Miss you Dad and I wish I could talk to you or see you again but there will be a day we´re we will all be together. Well
Some of us.
Love you Dad.
Marianne K Mancha
March 10, 2023
You were a very beautiful part of my life-You will always live in my heart
Marianne Mancha
October 11, 2022
Happy Birthday Dear Friend-you´re spending your special day with special people.
Scott Charmelo
October 11, 2022
Happy Birthday Dad
Missing you each day I love you
Scott
Darlene
October 10, 2022
I've loved you for so long and it's still so hard to be without you. You're always in my thoughts, prayers and memories. You're in my heart always.
Marianne
October 2, 2022
I will never forget you-you we´re a very important part of my life
Scott Charmelo
March 13, 2022
Hard to Comprehend it´s been 14 years you were called Home. There is not a day or moment that you are in my thoughts. I love you Dad and miss you terribly.
Love your youngest Son
Scott
From me, with love
January 6, 2022
Now and always, you're always in my heart.
Marianne
October 18, 2021
I will always remember you-you we´re my lifelong friend-Happy Heavenly Birthday
Scott Charmelo
October 9, 2021
Happy 80th Birthday Dad .
I know you are in Heaven smiling down at me for all I and your Daughter in Law accomplished in our lives..
There is not a day that goes by that I don´t miss seeing or talking to you But I know you hear me when I talk to you. Enjoy your Birthday With All our loved ones at your table and I know you all are gonna save a seat next to you when it´s my time but till then I love you Dad and I miss you
Love your Son
Scott
Char
March 10, 2021
Thinking of you today Dad.......We miss you
Scott Charmelo
March 13, 2020
12 Years and Missing you more each day.. I miss you Dad , Continue watching over all of us, I feel your presence often.Give hugs and kisses to all our loved ones that joined you ...
Love and miss you Dad..
March 15, 2019
In Memory
Scott Charmelo
March 14, 2019
Missing you Dad on the 11th year anniversary. Please continue to watch over us..Love you and miss you everday.
Scott
September 6, 2018
You're missed every day.
March 14, 2017
In Memory of Nick
Scott Charmelo
March 14, 2017
9 Years today and missing you more each day...
Love you Dad..
Scott Charmelo
March 13, 2016
Dad,
8 long years and missing you so much,
I know you would be happy for all I accomplished and still doing and I also know that your smiling down at me and keeping me safe....
I love you dad and miss you so much..
Love,
Scott
Scott
October 13, 2015
Happy Belated Birthday Dad,
I know you, Aunt Phyllis , Uncle Frank, And my Grandparents were with me Sunday I felt you all....
Love you Dad...
Scott Charmelo
March 14, 2015
7 years ago today The Lord called you home . Not a moment or day goes by that I don't think of you..
You are always in my Heart , but it still aches... I Love u dad and miss you so much...
Love,
Your Son, Scott
Scott Charmelo
December 24, 2014
Merry Christmas Dad,
Another Angel has joined you and Auntie in time for Christmas. Love and miss you each day....
Love Scott
Scott Charmelo
October 10, 2014
Happy Birthday Dad...
love and miss you each and everyday. .
March 14, 2014
In Memory Of Nick Charmelo
You Are Missed
Scott Charmelo
March 13, 2014
Dad,
6 years to the day that you passed, and it seems like yesterday. You were taken away from us way too soon and your loss is felt by your family.. As I do every Year Dad I will light a candle in your memory and reflect on all the good times we shared. It will be a sorrow day Dad but the only comfort I have is knowing your In Heaven with Auntie, Grandma,& Grandpa. Happy St.Joseph Day And Ill have an extra Zeppole for you..
I love & miss you Dad...
Scott Charmelo
December 25, 2013
Another Christmas without you And Aunti Here... You are soooo missed and never once forgotten about you both this Holiday Season. I love you Dad...
Frank Maggio
October 10, 2013
Happy Birthday Brother
Char Charmelo
October 10, 2013
Happy Birthday Dad. The girls & I miss you very much.
scott charmelo
October 9, 2013
Happy Birthday Dad,
You are so missed.... I know you are enjoying your day with all our loved ones in Heaven...
I love you Dad..
Scott Charmelo
June 15, 2013
Happy Fathers Day Dad..
You are so missed everyday...
Love you...
Scott Charmelo
March 14, 2013
Dad,
It has been 5 long years and you are missed more than ever.
I know you are looking down on us and guiding us in everyhing we do... I love you dad, more and more each day....love, your son...
Scott
Scott Charmelo
December 24, 2012
Merry Christmas Dad,
Its still hard to believe you have been gone for almost 5 years, The Holidays are not the same without you and Aunt Phyllis here..
But I know you are all looking down on us and smiling.
Merry Christmas Dad, I love You....
Frank Maggio
October 11, 2012
Happy Birthday Nick
Your Brother Frank
Scott Charmelo
October 10, 2012
Happy Birthday Dad,
Love you,and miss you more each day..
Love,
Scott
Scott Charmelo
June 16, 2012
Dad,
4 years have passed since that Terrible day
Someone Called to tell me That you'd gone away.
The hurt is the same , like an opened wound, there are days I dont Utter A sound
Some days the pain is stronger, It makes me sick and weak,I cant stand this much longer I just sit here and weep.
I shut my private door, and let no one in
Locking myself in a box they try but I wont give in..
You were like a rock,Strong, Faithful and true, What worth is my life Now I dont have you..
Happy Fathers Day Dad,
I Miss you more than words will EVER, Ever Express...
love Your Son....
Scott
Frank Maggio
March 17, 2012
Nick,
It gets harder and harder to write to you and Phyllis. Phyllis and you are in my thoughts all the time. I miss you both and love you both Forever and a Day.
Your brother
Frank
Char
March 16, 2012
When sorrow comes upon you, do not keep it bottled inside. Let your tears flow freely, and receive consolation from the angelic presences who are always near you. We will never let you grieve alone, nor will we allow you to stay long in that place of sadness. Release, and be comforted.
I Miss you Dad.
Scott Charmelo
March 14, 2012
Dad,
Its hard to comprehend that its 4 years today that God took you Home..I know deep down that you and Aunt Phyllis are looking over each of us and protecting us, and that brings peace of mind knowing that you are with all our loved ones in Heaven..
I miss you Dad More than words can express..
Love,
Your devoted son,
Scott
Scott C
December 25, 2011
Merry Christmas Dad,
You and Aunt Phyllis were thought by all of us last Night..
You both are truly Missed...
Love you Both,
Scott
Char
October 11, 2011
Dad;
The girls & I placed a cupcake by you, & we shared the other & sang Happy Birthday to you, I hope you heard us.
We love you & Miss you.
Scott Charmelo
October 10, 2011
Happy Birthday Dad,
You are so missed by each of us... I love You..
Scott
June 19, 2011
Dad,
Another Lonely Fathers Day....
Its hard to Comprehend that its been 3 long years since the Lord called you home.
I miss you more each day...
Happy Fathers Day Dad I love you
Scott
March 14, 2011
3 years
March 14, 2011
Dad....
3 years today you left us and not a second goes by that you are not missed. But I know in my Heart your in a better place with all our loved ones...
I love you Dad and Miss you more than words will ever express.....
Scott
December 28, 2010
Missing you during the holidays,
Love You,
Scott
Scott Charmelo
October 10, 2010
Happy Birthday Dad,
Two long years and missing you more than ever. I always hold your memory in my heart.. Happy Birthday Dad,
Love Always,
Scott
Char Charmelo
June 21, 2010
Dad,
Another lonely fathers day. I miss you very much, the girls talk of you often, and wish you were in their lives. There are still huge holes in our hearts, I'm sure some have gone on with their lives, but its difficult for those that knew you better.
I love you, and Happy Fathers Day Dad!
Char
June 20, 2010
Happy Fathers Day Dad......
Wish you were here, you are so missed...
I miss you more Each day.
Love,
Scott
Scott Charmelo
March 19, 2010
Happy St.Joseph Dad,
Today im going to the cemetary to have a St.Joseph cake in ur honor.....
I love you.....
Scott
Scott Charmelo
March 16, 2010
To your eternal memory Dad.
May this candle burn forever.....
Love,
Scott
Dad And Aunt Phyllis Christmas 2007
March 15, 2010
Scott Charmelo
January 28, 2010
Dad,
Thoughts of you and Aunt Phyllis come to my mind every minute of every day.
I know if you both where physically here everything would be perfect.... I can just imagine the expression on your face with everything that has transpired over the last two years, and I have dreamed of your face and it saddens me to know that you can not find the peace that you so well deserved......
You know what I promised you Dad a long time ago, and I have not forgotten to do it, but first thing is first, Aunt Phyllis will fill you in on the rest during your coffee.....
I love you, and miss you always...
Scott Charmelo
December 24, 2009
Dad,
Another hard Christmas without You. And now Aunt Phyllis is with you to celebrate her first Christmas In Heaven...
All my love to you, Aunti, Grandma & Grandpa.
Merry Christmas,
I love you and miss you more each day....
Scott
October 11, 2009
Hi Nick,
Happy Birthday, I'm sorry it's late but it gets harder and harder to write in these legecy books.I miss you and my sweetheart more than anyone can believe. Hold Pyhllis in your arms for me and tell her I will love her till my dying day. Hope you had a great birthday.
Love & Miss You.
Your Brother Frank
Char Charmelo
October 10, 2009
Dad,
I hope whatever you are doing, wherever you are and whomever your with, you are having a Birthday Celebration. I miss you. I hope you hear me and the girls when we talk to you. I love you Dad.
Scott Charmelo
October 10, 2009
Dad,
Happy Birthday.....
How I would give anything for you to be here. I know deep down that you are celebrating today with Aunti, Grandma and Grandpa...
I miss you more every day, you will always be in my Heart...
I love You..
Your Son,
Scott
Father and Daughter
September 16, 2009
Father and Son. How you are missed
September 5, 2009
Scott Charmelo
August 26, 2009
Dad,
I miss you so much. So much has happened over the last 17 months that your either laughing in disbelive, or giving one of your famous looks of "What the explicit is going on".I know in the dreams I have of you, that you want me to do what you would do. And As I promised you and Aunti Phyllis when you were alive and in death I will fullfil every promise I have made you both...
I love you Dad
every minute of every hour of each day....
Love your Son.
Scott
Brother and Sister Together Again
July 14, 2009
Char Charmelo
July 13, 2009
Dad,
I know you & Aunti were with me yesterday. I felt it, & only you & I know what could have been, So thank you. I love you & know you are both Angel's looking over me.
June 21, 2009
Happy Fathers Day...
We Love You & Miss You.
Your Children
Scott Charmelo
June 18, 2009
Dad,
The upcoming second father's day without you and its still so hard to comprehend that I cannot pick up the phone and call you.
I talk to you and Aunti Phyllis everyday and I know you both know the pain in my heart of losing you both.
So Dad, Happy Fathers Day to the best dad a son could ever ask for.
I love and miss you every moment of every day....
Love,
Scott
May 25, 2009
Dear Nick,
Well you got your coffee partner back.I'm truly happy for the both of you. I have never seen a stronger love between a brother and sister than the one the two of you had for each other. It was absolutly beutiful. I think Phyllis started dying a little each day, the day you left us. I know you will take care of her in yours and your parents's arms. I only hope and pray that some day we will all be together again. But in the meantime with the help of Michael, Quinn and your beutiful and loveing children I will try to indure the worst emptyness I have ever had to confront. You are always in my thoughs and prayers. Kiss Phyllis for me.
Always your bother-in-lay (BROTHER)
Frank
Scott Charmelo
May 3, 2009
Dad,
The circle is complete.
The one person who misses you more then anyone is on the way or already there. Cherish the time that you both lost over the last year...
We love and miss you both now.
Char Charmelo
May 3, 2009
Dad,
A new Angel has joined you, Grandma & Grandpa. I know you are all having coffee & talking about the good ol times, I hope you know how much you are all missed. I feel like evryone is leaving me, but she is out of pain & exactly where she wants to be. I love you.
April 4, 2009
Dad,
Please look over A much loved one, who can use some special care from an Angel.
We all love you and miss you each minute of every passing day.
Love,
Your Children
Family
March 20, 2009
Phyllis Maggio
March 16, 2009
Nick--short and sweet. One year and you are so missed. I'm so grateful we both said what needed to be said while you were still here. I treasure every conversation and feeling you shared with me--especially the last year of your life. The connection remains--more so than before--and only you can fully understand to what degree.
Love you MeMe
Phyllis
Mary Watson
March 14, 2009
Hi Nick: The last time I saw you was at Scott's wedding. The two of you together looked so very handsome. That will be foreever the picture I have of you in my mind.
I keep you in my prayers daily along with many of my friends and family that have gone before me. May God rest your soul until we can all meet again.
Mary
Darlene Charmelo
March 14, 2009
Here’s something I read recently – “there's the expression "larger-than-life" personalities, and until you meet one of those larger-than-life personalities, you won't have a clue, but if you're very fortunate in your life, then you meet some of these people.” I know I’ve met one, and that would be you, Nick. You were a man among men. I’ve never met anyone else who exuded your presence, sense of confidence, charm, style, humor, sexiness, pride, and zest for life, with just a bit of a swagger thrown in! There has never been another like you and never will be again.
For such a complex man, you had very basic desires. You told me from the beginning that you wanted us to make a life together centered around home, love, and to enjoy our life with each other – simple values, but such important ones. Home was truly where your heart was. You used to tell me “it’s you and me against the world, kid” - just our little family of three, including the dog, of course! You felt things deeply, and few people knew that you had such a soft heart. You had walls when you needed them, and respect and compassion when you didn’t. It wasn’t always easy for you to express your emotions, but when you did, it always meant so much. The depth of your insights and perception was always fascinating to me. You never forgot how to have fun and play because you were young at heart. You loved telling your silly jokes, and I was always in awe of your unbelievably quick wit. God, how you made me laugh! You could separate fact from fiction, and you didn’t talk about doing things, you just did them. You didn’t judge, just told it like it was. You lived your life as few do, and you did it your way, yet you were willing to embrace something new and different – okay, so maybe with a little bit of grumbling!
You made my life more wonderful than I could have ever imagined. If I could, I would do it all over just knowing I could be with you again. We made it work through all the years we were together because we never forgot the most important thing - how much we loved each other. No matter what life sent our way, we just kept getting closer all the time. There are so many little rituals, routines and moments that I miss. I love that we always seemed to know what the other was thinking. You were my soul mate, lover, best friend, my hero and the love of my life. You were always appreciated, treasured, and desired. Through all of this past year, I’ve never forgotten what was in your heart, or what meant most to you and I never will. You really were the man of my dreams, and I miss you every day and always will. I wish we could have had many more years together, but I know we’ll be together again.
Nothing will ever be the same, and I’m still trying to figure out how to live my life without you. Sometimes it’s still hard to believe you’re gone. I miss your laugh, your handsome face, your smile, your kisses, the look in your eyes, the gruff exterior you exuded when you wanted to (which always made me grin), the smell of your cologne, and so very many things. I dream of the day when your arms will be around me again. But in the meantime, my memories are helping to sustain me and to find my way.
Thank you for the fun, the magic, the joy, for loving me with all of your heart, and for making me so happy. You always reminded me that I was the most important thing in your life, and you knew that you were everything to me. I was so proud of you, as I know you were of me. For many years you sent me red roses with one white one in the center of the bunch, signifying the one that was different from all of the rest. You were always my white rose, babe, and always will be.
It was a joy to watch you over the years as you found peace, contentment, a strong sense of meaning and enjoyment in your life, and I’m so thankful I was with you on your journey. I know you’re in a higher place, and I know you’re there waiting for me. Until then my love, I am so proud to be and always will be your loving wife.
All my love always and forever,
Darlene
Scott Charmelo
March 14, 2009
Dad,
A year has passed and you are missed more than ever.
Please look over us during this difficult time in our lives..
I love you and miss you more each day.
Love,
Your son,
Scott
Darlene Charmelo
March 13, 2009
Here’s something I read recently – “there's the expression "larger-than-life" personalities, and until you meet one of those larger-than-life personalities, you won't have a clue, but if you're very fortunate in your life, then you meet some of these people.” I know I’ve met one, and that would be you, Nick. You were a man among men. I’ve never met anyone else who exuded your presence, sense of confidence, charm, style, humor, sexiness, pride, and zest for life, with just a bit of a swagger thrown in! There has never been another like you and never will be again.
For such a complex man, you had very basic desires. You told me from the beginning that you wanted us to make a life together centered around home, love, and to enjoy our life with each other – simple values, but such important ones. Home was truly where your heart was. You used to tell me “it’s you and me against the world, kid” - just our little family of three, including the dog, of course!
You felt things deeply, and few people knew that you had such a soft heart. You had walls when you needed them, and respect and compassion when you didn’t. It wasn’t always easy for you to express your emotions, but when you did, it always meant so much. The depth of your insights and perception was always fascinating to me. You never forgot how to have fun and play because you were young at heart. You loved telling your silly jokes, and I was always in awe of your unbelievably quick wit. God, how you made me laugh! You could separate fact from fiction, and you didn’t talk about doing things, you just did them. You didn’t judge, just told it like it was. You lived your life as few do, and you did it your way, yet you were willing to embrace something new and different – okay, so maybe with a little bit of grumbling!
You made my life more wonderful than I could have ever imagined. If I could, I would do it all over just knowing I could be with you again. We made it work through all the years we were together because we never forgot the most important thing - how much we loved each other. No matter what life sent our way, we just kept getting closer all the time.
There are so many little rituals, routines and moments that I miss. I love that we always seemed to know what the other was thinking. You were my soul mate, lover, best friend, my hero and the love of my life. You were always appreciated, treasured, and desired. Through all of this past year, I’ve never forgotten what was in your heart, or what meant most to you and I never will. You really were the man of my dreams, and I miss you every day and always will. I wish we could have had many more years together, but I know we’ll be together again.
Nothing will ever be the same again, and I’m still trying to figure out how to live my life without you. Sometimes it’s still hard to believe you’re gone. I miss your laugh, your handsome face, your smile, your kisses, the look in your eyes, the gruff exterior you exuded when you wanted to (which always made me grin), the smell of your cologne, and so very many things. I dream of the day when your arms will be around me again. But in the meantime, my memories are helping to sustain me and to find my way.
Thank you for the fun, the magic, the joy, for loving me with all of your heart, and for making me so happy. You always reminded me that I was the most important thing in your life, and you knew that you were everything to me. I was so proud of you, as I know you were of me. For many years you sent me red roses with one white one in the center of the bunch, signifying the one that was different from all of the rest. You were always my white rose, babe, and always will be.
It was a joy to watch you over the years as you found peace, contentment, a strong sense of meaning and enjoyment in your life, and I’m so thankful I was with you on your journey. I know you’re in a higher place, and I know you’re there waiting for me. Until then my love, I am so proud to be and always will be your loving wife.
All my love always and forever,
Darlene
March 13, 2009
March 13, 2009
Charmelo Children
March 10, 2009
Dad,
Its hard to comprehend that its been almost a year to the day that you passed away. So much has happened in each one of our lives,that you would either be laughing or shaking your head in dis belive. You are truely missed each and every day by your children, your sister, and your brother in law.
So Dad... Rest with the Angels along side Grandma and Grandpa, as for one day we will all be together as a family...We love You Dad....And Miss You... Your Children... Nick, Char, Al,& Scott
Stephanie DeLuca
February 16, 2009
Nick,
You are so missed. You were a wonderful friend and I'll never forget the kindness you showed me. It's hard to believe you're gone. You were always so full of life and love. Always thinking about you.
-Stephanie DeLuca
Phyllis Maggio
February 15, 2009
Wow, hard to believe just 4 years ago (night of Feb.14th) we were playing the $5.00 slots in Vegas till the early morning hours. You were so lucky! Every time you would hit big on a slot you would say "hey sis, come play this one" and darn if I didnt hit on it too!! We had such fun. It is like you knew you were going to be lucky. You couldnt wait to get out of the wedding attire and put on your sweats. And what about that dinner you hosted! Wow, what a meal. I know EVERYONE ate like it was going out style. Some will remember it more than others--it was enough to eat for three days! Yep, I certainly will never that that meal and I know you never did either, as you mentioned it to me so very often. You were too kind Nick and always the gentleman--but never a fool. Love you always, Sis
Diane Cohen
February 14, 2009
Dear Nick,
I hope you know how much you are missed, and how you are truly loved. Today will always be a special day because of you and Darlene. Your wedding day was one of the greatest, fondest, and most memorable days for me and my family. We were blessed to have the privilege of calling you brother, uncle, and friend. Thank you for enriching our lives. We took great pleasure in seeing you and Darlene enjoy life. You are always in our hearts.
Love, Diane
Our Wedding Day
Darlene Charmelo
February 14, 2009
My dearest husband -
Our wedding trip was incredible – another new adventure. Your surprising me with the plans you had made for the wedding was something I’ll never forget – I think you even surprised yourself! We both felt like it was a new beginning to our relationship, and we were so excited by it all. I love looking at our pictures and remembering everything. Immediately after the ceremony you looked into my eyes and told me that you had never been happier, and I felt the same way – I don’t think I ever stopped smiling that day. Later that night we thought we’d dance the night away, but instead you wanted time for just the two of us, sharing thoughts about the day and each other. It was such a special evening, and the perfect ending of a beautiful day.
I cherish the memories of our last anniversary, being together for the entire day, a day full of fun, surprises, and romance from start to finish – an anniversary to remember forever. Looking back on it now as I have with so many things, I just shake my head and wonder at the timing.
I love that you were so proud of what you brought to our relationship and your commitment to it. We both knew this was something special from the start and we were both fully committed to keeping it that way. I feel so blessed and lucky that we shared so much. No relationship is perfect, but we made sure we knew how much we loved each other. We made the most of every day. We ignored any rough moments and concentrated on creating and celebrating the good ones. I remember how you marveled at our compatibility and never thought it could be possible that two people could have so much in common. We both had our own pastimes, yet we knew that we had each other to come home to and love, appreciate, and share of ourselves. I know there are not many people in this world who can say all this, and I thank God every day that He sent you to me.
I wish you were still here, and I don’t think it will ever stop hurting that you’re not. I know you’re always with me - you told me to watch for the signs, and they’re all around me. Loving you has been the most wonderful thing in my life. We’ll be together again one day, and when that happens it will be for always.
Happy anniversary Nick, with all of my love.
Darlene
Char Charmelo
February 12, 2009
Dad,
I miss you singing Happy Birthday to me.
Love Always...
Char
Scott Charmelo
February 6, 2009
Dad,
There is not a minute that goes by when im not thinking of you, shedding a tear, or just talking to you knowing the pain and sorrow that lays heavy in my heart. As my father, you are and always will be the best dad a son could EVER ask for...The key to immortality is first living a life worth remembering, As you did Dad. I love you Dad and miss you more and more each day.... Scott
Stephanie Lewis
February 4, 2009
You are truly missed but never forgotten.
Darlene Charmelo
January 30, 2009
I recently needed my knight in shining armor, and I felt so alone when I couldn't reach out to you. I thank God for my friends and family, but of course it's not the same. You were always there for me, supporting me, making me laugh, looking out for me, surprising me, loving me. I did something silly yesterday and instantly pictured you giving me your "what, are you crazy?" look, and laughed for 5 minutes because it was so appropriate. You are truly the most amazing person I've ever had the pleasure and good fortune to know, and you've changed my life as a result. I'm still learning by your example, by how you lived your life, by what you've given me in so many ways. I feel your love every minute, every day, and I know that even when one is gone, love never dies and always stays with us. There are a couple of difficult anniversaries coming up, but I know you're here at my side. I love you with all my heart and soul, now and always.
Phyllis Maggio
January 2, 2009
Nick, if I could have written your epitaph on your headstone I would have included, among other things, the epitaph Dean Martin has on his:Everyone Loves Someone Sometime". This was so YOU bro. In all the years as your sister I cannot remember a time when you were not surrounded by love. Many loved you and you loved them. Although you are missed so much, I find great comfort you are now with our mother who "loved you first" and will love you throughout eternity. I also find comfort knowing you were never ever without love in your lifetime. Few people can leave this earth saying they were always loved by someone.
So, as 2009 begins without you-I know you are in a safe, loving place. In every dream I have of you, mom, or dad--there are smiles, laughter and loving gestures. You always appear to be about 25 or 30 yrs. old in these dreams-Wow! I know you are loving that! This is what gives me strength to continue in a world without the three of you in it any longer. In the end we all return to HIM--the source of pure love.
love ya,
Sis
Laughing Together
Darlene Charmelo
January 1, 2009
I'm remembering other New Years when we'd dance, sip champagne, and kiss at midnight. We'd make up silly resolutions since you didn't really like making plans. You are so missed and so loved, and I'm still having a hard time thinking of a future without you, so I just keep putting one foot in front of the other to keep moving forward knowing that you're at my side. I love you today, tomorrow, and always.
With all my heart,
Darlene
Frank Maggio
December 25, 2008
Nick,
First Christmas Eve without my "brother" was not the same. You and I worked hard to keep the traditions Mom and Dad practiced. Thank you for always making me feel welcomed and part of these traditions for 41 years! I think in 41 years I got to know you pretty well. When the "chips were down", you were there for me like no one else. I know what Family meant to you. In the end--this is what REALLY counts. As I promised you--I have, and will continue to watch over all who truly loved you. I feel blessed this Christmas to be surrounded by the love and respect of your children. As the Sicilians say: "You were here for me and you gave me respect, so too will I always respect your memory and be here for your children". Rest well Nick--Your Legacy lives on!
Love, Frank
Char
December 25, 2008
I wish I could say and feel the same as everyone else that has written in this guest book. Memories of you still make me cry Dad. Thoughts of you still bring tears to my eyes, I want to get on the phone or come & have coffee with you like I used to whenever I had "thoughts" of my father, and I just cant anymore. Holidays, like today, I have to put on my "fake" smile. Although It was comforting for the family to watch the "Family" Christmas partys at Aunti Phyllis & Uncle Frank's house and the one's at our house as far back as 25 years ago. You & Mom the 4 of us and Grandma & Grandpa, Aunti & Uncle, Its amazing how much we were all united, and united we will always be Dad, and I know thats how you would want it.
I wish I could see your face knowing I passed all the test for the K-9 unit. I know you would be proud of me and I know you helped me out for each & every test.
Merry Christmas Dad, and again today as we sit around the table, we will remember you and miss you, but hold thoughts of you close to each & everyone of our hearts.
Love; Char, Brianna & Emily
Jennifer Charmelo
December 25, 2008
Dear Father in law-
Remembering the thoughts of you at Christmas time. I always felt welcomed in your house at this time of year, and through out. Your laughter filled the house when we talked around the dinner table. This year was unbearable. When Scott and I sat down at our dinner table we missed your smile, laughter, and most of all, your presence. Seeing Scott as upset as he is broke my heart in two. I wish you were here to celebrate this time of year with us. We miss you very, very much.
Love,
your daughter-in-law,
Jennifer
Honey, I miss your hugs.
Darlene Charmelo
December 25, 2008
Nick, your romantic nature was evident 22 years ago today when you put my engagement ring on my finger. It was a time of much love, laughter, and hope, and you were so pleased to have pulled off the surprise. Throughout the years you continued to surprise me at unexpected times, and I loved how special you made me feel. You’re so missed and so loved, and I embrace our memories and shared moments - like our Christmas morning traditions and countless others - to help comfort me through the loss. Life is made up of many sorrows and I know I will never have a greater sorrow than losing you, but remembering all we had together helps me to face each day without you. I love you so very much. Your loving wife,
Darlene
Phyllis Maggio
December 22, 2008
Each person experiences grief in their own way and the length of the mourning period varies for different people, cultures, and religions. As a Catholic, I believe the words of Jesus himself on the Sermon of the Mount: "blessed are those who mourn..for they shall be comforted". Matt 5:4
So forgive me Nick if this Christmas I am not in the "spirit" of the holidays. I am still in the mourning stage and in the process of being comforted. I know you understand this as you knew my heart so well, and I remember you too mourned for our mother in the same fashion. Some souls cannot be dismissed too quickly--and you are certainly one of them. I promise you next Christmas Eve will be very different. The menu will be in place, decor will be plentiful, and all the family together like years gone by.
Loving you, missing you, and getting stronger each and every day.
Sis
Darlene Charmelo
December 21, 2008
I keep remembering how much you loved Christmas and enjoyed celebrating it, and I’m trying to honor that but my heart is aching this year. I keep hearing that it gets worse before it gets better, and I can’t imagine anything worse than not having you here for the holidays. I took out the stocking I decorated with your name, and I realized that I’ve hung that stocking every year since I first hung it in my apartment 25 years ago. I remember how every year you always peeked to see what surprises it held and whether anything had been added. And of course, the candy always managed to disappear well before Christmas. It was because of you that I enjoyed the holidays so much. I remember what you told me and I know you’re near, and always in my heart. I miss you, sweetheart.
All my love,
Darlene
Scott Charmelo
December 19, 2008
Dad,
No Lights, Tree, or Decorations this year, with the thought of you not being here. Please help me get through the next few days as they will be difficult.. Merry Christmas Dad... I LOVE YOU, AND MISS YOU MORE THAN EVER...............
Love your Son,
Scott
Phyllis Maggio
December 13, 2008
Nine months ago a good soul left this world. I was blessed to have known and loved him. I was honored to be his sister. He never let me down. He always gave me the best advice. His spirit has continued to be at my side. He is helping me to heal and to continue in a world without him. He has sent his "angels" in many forms--husband,
children and friends when I needed added strength. I'll never forget our last conversation four days before he left. It is what I draw on each and every day. Rest well in our mother's arms dear Nick. I know she is so pleased to have you back within her embrace.
Love, your sister
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