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Marilyn Gunkel
April 16, 2019
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Stephanie Swaney
April 18, 2018
I was reminded today that it has been 13 years since the passing of sweet Michelle. Seriously can't believe it. I remember everything from that day like it was yesterday. It makes me so sad to think how much she could have done here on Earth in the last 13 years. How many more people she could have made a difference for. But, she has been safe in the arms of Jesus. Still doesn't change the fact we all miss her so much down here. Thinking of her family,her many friends, and Ryan on this day. Michelle-you are still so loved and live on in the hearts of many. We all miss you.
Jamie
June 14, 2015
♡♡♡
Teresa Louks
June 30, 2012
My beautiful daughter ~
With so much love, so many hugs and unending kisses, I think of you every single day...
Myrna Winter
April 18, 2006
It has been a year without Michelle. It has been a difficult year. We loved her so and she will be in our thoughts and hearts forever. Love Grandpa & Grandma Winter
Andrew Horner
June 26, 2005
I loved michelle so much she was my babysitter and such a good friend. I really miss.Teresa and John i will always keep her and you in my prayers along with everybody else in the horner family.
Bill Jungbluth
April 30, 2005
John & Teresa,
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Myrna & Randy Winter
April 26, 2005
We are Michelle's grandparents, and we loved her dearly. She was our first grandchild, and she was so special. Our hearts ache for the loss and there are no words to say how much we will miss her. We cry for the loss of her and for the emptiness of what her mother and father are feeling. She was an angel on earth. Love Grandpa and Grandma Winter
Andre' Torres
April 26, 2005
Family and Friends of Michelle,
I really didn't know Michelle all that well. I attended highschool with her and was in band together and had some of the same friends. I was a senior when she was a freshmen. I remember her as always happy and smiling. After attending her memorial on Friday, I wish I would have gotten to know her better. She was such an inspiration to many and it is such a tragedy that everyone in this world didn't get to know her or experience her smile, or her loving personality. Through this tragedy, we have gained a beautiful, and wonderful angel!
Adam & Christine Miller
April 26, 2005
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of loss. Know that you and yours are always in our hearts, thougths and prayers.
Teresa Messing
April 26, 2005
To my dear michelle~o...
The emptiness I feel is so heartbreaking. I still envision your beauty, your beautiful hair, your pearly white teeth, your gorgeous smile, and the soft touch of your hand. Our last kiss and hug before you left me on that Saturday afternoon...You were so respectful towards me, always had my heart in your best interest. It's just so hard to understand why this tragedy has taken place...the anger, the sorrow, the hurt is unbearable, and my heart is missing you so much.
Your family and friends have been so kind in trying to help us cope. I'm so very proud of you, and the accomplishments that you achieved. You've touched the hearts of many people.
Please walk with us, hold our hands and help guide us as Guardian Angels do.
With love, hugs, kisses, and friendship ~ Mom.
Angela Burnes
April 25, 2005
To Michelle's Family -
Praying for all your heartache! I do not know Michelle all that well but have heard wonderful things about her ever since she was born. Joey, Maria and Anna Louks are my cousins on the Bowar side and I know their family is hurting at the loss of such a special cousin, neice, and granddaughter. Know that she will be remembered not only by those who loved her and knew her well, but by those of us who love the family she has all around her too!
Love Angela Burnes (Seykora)
Samantha Thrall
April 24, 2005
Hello Teresa,
Its Sami, if anyone reads my entry im like a little sister to Michelle. She has known me sense I was about 2 yrs. of age. And we have known each other ever sense. Me and Michelle hung out the Monday of Spring Break and we had the time of my life. I wish I could have hung out with Michelle before her last day. Teresa and John Messing are like my second parents. Teresa was my life long babysitter when I was infant moving through my elementary years. Teresa and John, Michelle is always in my prayers. Love You Always and Forever
Jean and Mick Louks
April 24, 2005
We have just returned from the service in Michigan.We all still cry at the thought that Michelle is not with us !! We were so impressed with the wonderful community support,it helped to see just how loved Michele was.John and Teresa you have some truly SPECIAL friends!! They really helped so much!Teresa and John we know you're in good hands with your beautiful friends all around you! We love you.Jean,Mick and kids
Tom & Janie Stanton
April 23, 2005
Dear John & Teresa,
Every week I "look" at the Owatonna paper on-line in an effort to keep up with old friends and home-town happenings. We were very shocked to read of this sad chapter in your lives.
We didn't know Michele, but we know the depth of the love we have for our daughters. From the news article and this guest book, we learned what a sparkle she was in the lives of your family and community members. Her life was a testament to your love and parenting.
You are being held close in the thoughts and prayers of many people who care about you. Our deepest sympathy is extended to everyone touched by her life.
Tom & Janie Stanton
Crosby, MN
Scott & Peggy Adams
April 23, 2005
To Michelle's family:
We are deeply saddened by your loss. We have not seen Michelle for several years but have seen her grow up through pictures Bob has shown us, always proud. She sounds like an outstanding young woman and will be missed by many people. We extend our prayers to you all. May God comfort you in this difficult time.
Marilyn Gunkel
April 23, 2005
Teresa & John,
Your Aunt Arlys called today to tell us (Aunt Virgie & cousin Marilyn) about Michelle.
We are so very sorry for your loss. In reading the letters sent to you Michelle is going to be missed by many people but she will always be missed the most by her Mom & Dad's, then next her Grandpa's and Grandma's.
I am sorry you have to go through this. I don't know why I wish I did and could make it easier for you.
Love to you and all of your family, Aunt Virgie & Marilyn
Connie DeVol
April 23, 2005
Dear Bulver family
You do not know me but, My heart cries tears with you over the loss of your precious daughter, Michelle. She is such a beautiful girl. No amount of words will bring comfort to you right now because of this tragedy... but I want to let you know that I feel your pain, your despair, and share your sorrow...for I lost my son, AJ Devol in January of 2002. He was my only child and a freshman at Jenison High School. Losing a child...is devastating...and your grief will be overwhelming...you have just lost a part of yourselves...it changes your lives forever. I am sending you all my prayers...my hope...and my support. If you ever wish to talk, or need a hug, just contact me.
AJ's mom forever
Connie DeVol
"The Commpassionate Friends"
{support group for bereaved parents} We will be there for you.
Tracy Menefee
April 22, 2005
Michelle was the most amazing friend to me and to everybody else. She had the biggest personality and heart in the world.Her smile was amazing. You could never walk pass Michelle and not smile back at her. She was always happy, I don't think that I ever seen her mad at somebody. She was so pretty and to see her go this early is such a tradgey. Michelle meant the world to all of us and she will never be forgotten. I will always remember Michelle's smile and how she lended her hand to almost anybody in need. My prayers go out to Michelle's family. Michelle will always live in our hearts.
noele smith
April 22, 2005
I didnt know Michelle,but I work at the funeral home and did her hair. She was a beautiful girl and from the sound of her background..had a bright future ahead of her. My heart goes out to the family and also to Ryan. What a devastating experience to go through so young. I hope you and Ryan find Peace and leave all your doubts in Gods hands. Michelle will be a special Angel up in Heaven and you will meet her again someday. May God Bless Her and Bless the Families involved. Noele Smith
colleen leininger (anderson)
April 22, 2005
dear theresa and family, it has been a very long time since i have seen you...aunt lizzie called me with the news of michelle's death..i am shaken and hurting for you. no one knows your ache and your pain but i can only imagine how sad and empty your hearts are. mom (aunt betty) always said nothing ever hurts as much as losing a child and from all the notes i have read you had an extraordinary daughter.....may her memory and time give you and your family some comfort...i am sending you and your family hugs and prayers.....your cousin, colleen (anderson) leininger
Karen Clark
April 22, 2005
John & Teresa: We just got home from Michelle's Memorial-standing room only! We have learned a lot about our special girl. We have a lot of great memories of her from our time at Teresa's daycare and when Michelle babysat for us too. Alex will miss "chatting" with her on-line. We too will miss her smile-she has grown into such a beautiful young women. As the time goes on and people go back to Minnesota and get on with their lives, please remember that we are just down the street and are there for you next week, month and next year.We feel like we lost a family member also. We hope God will give you strength-especially these next few weeks. We love you guys. Hugs, Terry, Karen, Brian and Alex
Rachel Ford
April 22, 2005
Family and Friends of Michelle:
I heard about Michelle's passing over phone and was shocked. I thought about her for awhile and remembered all of the time I had spent with her in high school. we weren't really "friends" but I was in band with her and ran cross country with her....I remember most that she was a very friendly girl who was dedicated to band and to her friends. I also remember seeing her walking around her house with a trail of kids behind her... I pray for comfort and strength for her family and friends.
Michelle & Greg Carsrud
April 22, 2005
Our hearts go out to the entire family during this difficult time. Our love and prayers to you all. We will always remember the times we were able to spend with Michelle when she lived in Owatonna. Her smile. The times she spent with her "Nana" (Mary Jean Messing)- the two of them sitting at the dinning room table & Michelle being only 5-6 yrs old having coffee in her special coffee cup and a course she had to have her 1/2 & 1/2 with it along with cookies. And the times she would be with her Auntie Sheli & her Uncle "Pookey" - she loved to call him that along with "Goosey". We love ya & miss ya.
Sheli & Greg (Goose, Pookey) Carsrud
KaeMee & Darrell Jech
April 22, 2005
People never really die. They leave their bodies. They end their physical existence in order to continue their spiritual journey in another form, on another plane. A person who has entered the realm of existence that we call death is never beyond your love. The thing we call death is not a cold or a dark or a frightening and cruel existence. It is an essential part of life that teaches us to believe in what we cannot see. Once you know a person, you will always know a person. Once you have loved a person, your love will keep them alive.
Life continues after death as long as you remember the warmth of another's smile, the gentleness of their touch, the meaning they brought to your life. In your remembrance of another, death cannot overtake life. Life simply changes its form. When you spend time honoring the dreams of one who has changed, when you continue standing up for the things they believed in and doing the things you loved to do together, you are saying, "This life continues to touch my life."
Stay in touch with your loved ones. Send them your love. Use the memory of your time together as motivation to keep growing. Always remember to honor the special ways the one you know and loved touched your life. Your remembrance offers them a victory over the thing called death.
Until today, you may have misunderstood death. You may have been grieving or mourning the loss of a loved one, believing they were forever gone from your life. Just for today, be devoted to being a living reflection of the dreams and love you shared with someone that has passed on.
Today I am devoted to living my life as a demonstration of how deeply I have been touched and loved by those who have changed the form of their lives!
Darrell & KaeMee Jech
April 22, 2005
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Bob had shared many pictures with us and she was a beautiful girl. May the good times and fond memories be a constant reminder of the impact Michelle had on all the lives she touched. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Our love-
Amy D'Archangel
April 22, 2005
To the Messings, Bulvers, and Ryan:
Words cannot express how deeply shocked I was to hear of Michelle's tragedy. I knew Michelle through Student Council and I can honestly say that I have never met a more dedicated and caring individual as her. She brought a smiling face to every one of our dreaded Tuesday morning meetings. Since I was Secretary my senior year, I remember taking attendence for the meetings and every time I would call "Michelle Bulver" she would look up at me and say "here" with that bright, beautiful smile. I attended the visitation today and that is when the whole situation truly hit me. Michelle had touched the world in ways no one else can (the entries in this guestbook prove it). I have never cried with such sorrow as I did today. My heart goes out especially to Ryan, my classmate. I admired his stregth and composure during the visitation today. I absolutely cannot imagine the thoughts that run through his mind now that all of this has happened. Michelle is now an angel looking upon us and in the hands of God.
All my love and sympathy to Michelle's family and Ryan. God Bless.
Christine Ondersma
April 21, 2005
I also was shocked to hear the news of Michelle's passing. I had the honor of knowing her from playing flute in band. Although she was only a freshman when I was a senior, everyone around knew that she was destined for greatness. She never complained, and always had a smile that was contagious. Although she was taken far too early, she is now watching over us all. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
John Knudson
April 21, 2005
Dear family and friends of Michelle
Our sympathies go out for the loss of your precious daughter and friend. All though we never met her, she obviously is a person of great moral character. The strength to donate her organs is admirable. We have been and will be thinking of you often in your greatest time of need.
John, Donica & Devin
Kenyatta Palmer
April 21, 2005
To the Family of Michelle,
God Love You, And so do I. Our Deepest Sympathy and Prayers are with You All. I will missed her very much, God Bless you Family.
Kenyatta Palmer
& Family
Lauren Messing
April 21, 2005
Dear Uncle John and Aunt Teresa,
On the day before Michelle’s passing I was thousands of miles away from her and knew nothing of her accident. I was walking around my city and stumbled upon a pet shop, in which I found a little, baby bunny. A vision of her when she was first introduced to me as my new cousin appeared in my head, and I remembered her introducing me to “Easter”, her pet rabbit. The warm smile and cheerful demeanor that she displayed on that day so many years ago, is how I will always remember her. She was truly a lovely child and had matured into a great and beautiful young lady. She will be missed.
My Sincere Condolences,
Lauren Messing
Katie Stelma-Hitchens
April 21, 2005
I went to Michelle's visitation tonight. I don't think it really hit me until then just how much of a tragic loss this is. I wrote a little note about her and put it in the basket and I looked at all of her pictures realizing that we would never see that bright smile again.
I have worked with the band for the past three seasons and had the pleasure of meeting and talking with her on occasion. This last season when the band sang "hold that tiger" my eyes were always drawn to her. I watched her everytime, singing louder and with more excitement than anyone else and she just made me smile. I remember an article I read about how sometimes people who receive organs somehow take on a little piece of that person. I look forward to the day where I see a stranger with the same bright smile or the same giving spirit. She is still with us in so many ways and will never be forgotten.
I had never met Michelle's family but to them and Ryan I extend my deepest, most heartfelt apology for your loss. I will continue to keep you in my prayers.
Robin Scragg
April 21, 2005
Dear John and Tresa,
At a time like this the words to express my sadness just fail me. Michelle's beautiful smile will be forever the picture I carry in my heart of her. Please know that I will be praying that God will hold you both in his loving arms in this time. Thank you for sharing your beautiful daughter with me for two special Thanksgiving Holidays and now more than ever I will remember them with the warmest of memories.
In Christ,
Robin
Sherry, Clint & Clayton Shiplett
April 21, 2005
To the Bulver Family,
Our family sends our heartfelt condolences for the passing of your daughter Michelle. We only met her through band at Wyoming Park our son graduated in '04. As past band parents we have seen Michelle along with other students & peers during Marching Band. She will missed by all. May God help you through this difficult time.
Barb Hagwood
April 21, 2005
I do not know you, nor did I know your daughter, yet I do know that there are many families today that will be sharing prayers and giving thanks for what you have allowed your loved one to do for them. Six years ago, I received the gift of life and I rejoiced for me, yet I also grieved with the family that had made this possible. Often I say a silent prayer to God for the family that gave me this 2nd chance and I know that you will also have many out there for years to come saying daily prayers for you. Thank you for giving others the gift of life and a 2nd chance.
Jim, Sharri, Mark, Tom Symons
April 21, 2005
We are praying for you all. Michelle was a wonderful girl, and we will miss her.
The Symons
Kenneth Lierman
April 21, 2005
Bob, Teresa, Amy & John,
My deepest sympathy to you all. No one will ever know the depth of the sorrow you feel right now, but be encouraged that those who send their sympathy, do so with a deep love for you. Scripture tells us that God will never allow us to undergo anything that we cannot handle - In that statement is the promise that God will always be there when the burden becomes too heavy to carry alone. Trust Him. He will never let you down. Blessings to you all as you continue in this life with the hope of no more sorrow in the life to come. God's peace to you all.
Bob&Kathy Rettenmaier
April 21, 2005
Teresa, John, Bob and Amy and Family members
We are so sad to hear that Michelle is no longer with us. We only wish we could be with you during this painful time to express our love and support. We have many wonderful memories of Michelle, none more lasting then the time she road back with us to Minnesota after our visit to Michigan. Back then she was just a little girl but already we could tell that she was special with the maturity of someone much older. Even though the trip was long and often time times boring, we hardly heard a peep out of her. She sat in the back seat and entertained herself with her books, and crayons. When we asked if she was OK she would flash that special smile that said “don’t worry about me, I’m fine”. Overtime you shared pictures and stories with us about Michelle that we will treasure for ever. We hope that you can take comfort in knowing that Michelle grew into a wonderful young woman who touched many lives in so many joyous ways. The gift of life with her organ donation we hope will somehow ease your pain.
You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this time of grief and sorrow
Rich Pullen
April 21, 2005
I had the privilege of having Michelle as one of my students in Freshman English. I will never forget what a intelligent, beautiful,and delightful student she was to have in my classroom. Her great personality was a trademark that I won't forget. My thoughts and prayers are with you on this tragic loss.
Dick Haberman
April 21, 2005
Dear John and Teresa:
John, although I haven't seen you in many years, David has kept me up to date on you and your family.
I was just devestated to learn of the passing of Michelle. I can't begin to imagine the emotions one must feel at the loss of a child. My heart and prayers go out to you and Teresa and the rest of your families.
David Messing
April 21, 2005
John and Teresa,
Michelle was very special to me and I feel blessed to have had her in my life. I believe God brings certain people into our lives for a reason, sometimes to help us see something new and wonderful. Sometimes, it’s to encourage and strengthen our purpose and direction in life. And sometimes it is to remind up that we are never truly alone and that it is important to share our smiles, our dreams and even our tears with someone close. Whatever the reason God had in bringing our families together I am very glad that he did. Michelle was a real source happiness in my life and my children’s, and her memory and smile always will be with us.
David Messing and Family, Coral Springs, FL
Nicole Ohlman
April 21, 2005
Parents, Family, Friends of Michelle, and Ryan-
Michelle worked with me at Berger since last August, I believe that's when she started. In that time I didn't really get to know her that well, but we had our talks. She was always willing to fill-in and help out when needed. She was a great girl and I'll never forget her smile. We all miss her around here, but she is in a better place now!
In Christ
Ross and Rene' Olson
April 21, 2005
Bob & Amy - Our deepest sympathies on the loss of Michelle. May the fond memories you have of her help to soothe your spirit during this very difficult time. You're in our thoughts and prayers everyday.
Ross, Rene', Courtney, & Nicholas Olson
Tonya Doty
April 21, 2005
I have never met you or your daughter but as I was looking through the paper this morning I saw her picture and thought what a terrible tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with ALL of you.
God Bless all of you
Cheryl Hart
April 21, 2005
Tom and I so sorry for the loss of your beloved daughter. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.
Tom Becker and Cheryl Hart
Andrea Tapp
April 21, 2005
Bob and Amy-
Sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. May you know my prayers are with you through this difficult time.
Mike & Beth Johnson
April 21, 2005
Bob and Amy we express our dearest condolences from your loss of Michelle. Your last visit to our home was very pleasant because you were so proud of Michelle as a drum major with some great pictures that you had shared. Our prayers and thoughts are always with you.
Mike and Beth Johnson
Karen Hart
April 20, 2005
Teresa and John,
May you know the peace of God as you deal with the unexpected death of your daughter, Michelle, and also celebrate her life and all she was...
Charlotte Hart
April 20, 2005
Teresa and John,
My condolences on the loss of your beloved daughter, Michelle; I know how difficult this time is for the family. My prayers are with all of you--
Ryan
April 20, 2005
Words cannot express what the human mind cannot comprehend.
I was not fortunate enough to have met Michelle prior to Sunday’s accident, but I feel privileged and blessed to have been given the opportunity to try and help an individual who has done so much for others. The postings in this guest-book are a testament to a youthful angel who earned her wings much quicker than most. Unfortunately, for those who knew and loved her, this means you must learn to live without her. May your memories of her offer solace and comfort until you are reunited with her in the Kingdom of Heaven.
My deepest and most heartfelt condolences to all. All of you are, and will continue to be, in my thoughts and prayers.
Mackenzie Wanroy
April 20, 2005
I used to go to school at huntington woods with Michelle. She was my best friend throughout kindergarten and up until I moved in third grade. I'm so sorry for the loss that you, your family and friends are going through. Michelle was truely a great person and a friend in the time that I knew her well. I'm just sorry I didn't get to know her better. The last time I had the pleasure of seeing her was when we ran into you in Disney World. I can't tell you enough how sorry I am for the loss of your beautiful daughter.
Love Kenzie
Brandi Paulk
April 20, 2005
I am so sorry for your loss. I was in the band my senior year and Michelle was a freshman. The one thing that I remember about her was the fact that everyone around her was always smiling. Her smile and laughter was contagious. She will be missed by everyone who knew her. Heaven is a much better place now that she is there.
Once again, I am so sorry for your loss.
Tammy Anderson-Ecklund
April 20, 2005
Dear Teresa: I had the blessing of meeting your dear daughter once a few years ago when you were visiting my parents in Stewartville. I will never forget what a delightful polite little girl she was. My heart goes out to you and your family. Uncle Jerry and Aunt Arlene...I am thinking about you also. My family is holding you and yours near and dear in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless you all. Tammy and Gordy Ecklund
Tom, Sue, Sofia & Ethan Trout
April 20, 2005
Teresa and John,
We realize you are dealing with the deepest level of grief with losing Michelle. I just wish I could provide any kind of comfort for you now.
I only met her a couple of times, but I remember her presence as she walked into the room. She had a radiance about her and it was evident that she was truly loved and very happy. While running through the neighborhood, I would see her occassionally on her cycle and she would always give a big smile and a wave. We will be praying for your family and that the Lord would wrap His loving arms around you during this difficult time.
Yvonne Ford
April 20, 2005
To the Bulver and Messing families, and to the staff and students at the Park:
I was, like all of you, saddened to learn of Michelle's death on Monday morning. I had the privilege of getting to know Michelle when I was the band camp nurse for her first two years of band, and when she ran cross country with my daughter Rachel in the fall of 2002. In the past few days, I have been thinking about her (and all of you) quite a bit. I wanted to share a couple of very vivid memories of Michelle that I think capture her spirit and personality.
The first thing that came to my mind was an incident from band camp at Andrews University in what must have been the summer before Michelle's sophomore year. The parent chaperones had two way radios, and after lights out, we heard two of our students chatting on the same channel we were using. It only took us a few minutes to confiscate radios from Ryan and Michelle (after we figured out it was them!).
I also remember cheering Michelle on as she came up that last final stretch of Sparta High School's cross country course. She managed to stay in front of a runner from Kenowa Hills who was trying to gain on her, and the Park girls had a victory in a dual meet. She was clearly tired, but stuck it out. I remember her look of determination followed by the pride and sense of accomplishment that showed on her face after she crossed the finish line.
Unfortunately, Michelle has left us behind as she crossed a different finish line over the weekend. However, I believe that some of that determination and charm remains in those who have received a gift from Michelle and her families through her organ donation.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during the next few days and weeks.
Barb Dunlap
April 20, 2005
My daughter is a student at Park, and she knew your daughter.As of what my daughter has said your daughter was a remarkable young woman , she always had a smile on her face. She will dearly miss her.
The Dunlap family
Barb Dunlap
April 20, 2005
My daughter is a student at Park, and she knew your daughter.As of what my daughter has said your daughter was a remarkable young woman , she always had a smile on her face. She will dearly miss her.
The Dunlap family
Brenda Kime
April 20, 2005
Teresa,
I think the last time I saw you was a few years ago with John and Michelle at the Owatonna fair - the fair used to be one of our favorite summer destinations, remember? I'm sorry it's been so long since we've seen you, but I always looked forward to hearing from you at Christmas, as your card always included a picture of beautiful Michelle. Reading through the entries on this site, it's easy to see what a special girl Michelle was, and how much she touched those who knew her. I can't imagine what you're going through. Please know that our prayers are with you, and may your memories of your daughter and those who loved her bring you peace.
Katie Clark
April 20, 2005
I am so sorry for your loss. I did not know Michelle personally but I graduated with Ryan and I know how special she was to him and everyone else who loved her. I never saw her without a smile. She was beautiful inside and out. I wish I still lived in Michigan so I could come and give my condolences. I know in my heart that Michelle is an angel now to everyone and she will always look over us and guide us the way she did when she was here.
God Bless and all my love.
Angie Schueller
April 20, 2005
Although I did not know your daughter I would like to send all family and friends of Michelle my deepest sympathy. My family went through what you are going through about a year ago when we lost my nephew, Darin Beckholt, a classmate of Michelle's. How nice to see that you donated organs of Michelle's, Darin did the same thing. It is so nice to know that our special angels live in the lives of other people. Wyoming Park Senior class have 2 very special angels watching over them. Take each day at a time, it does get somewhat easier but you will always have that void. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time in your lives.
Cindy Aamot
April 20, 2005
Dear: Teresa & John, Bob & Amy, & Ryan
We are so very sorry for your loss of Michelle. I can't even being to express how awful we feel. We are just in total shock.
You gave her a life filled with love, and that's the best life a person can have. Our thoughts are with you now and will always be with you.
Jim, Cindy, Chris, Mike & Alyssa Aamot
Rebecca Meadley
April 20, 2005
I am so deeply sorry for what happend. I was never too close to Michelle, but I have known her since elementary school, and from the neighborhood. My thoughts and prayers are with her family, and Ryan always. I will never forget her, she was a great girl. God bless.
Ron & Barb Gallert
April 20, 2005
Dear Teresa and John
We have been your neighbors for 10 years but in the past 2 years we have gotten to know Michelle and she will be sadly missed. She was so outgoing, friendly, kind, beautiful, caring and she was always smiling. She is in heaven now and someday we will meet her again. With our deepest regrets to Teresa & John, if you need anything, I'm right across the street.
The Gallert Family
Denise Madery
April 20, 2005
I was remembering your visit to California the other day. I was remembering how we were running up and down the halls of the hotel where you guys were staying. We were having so much fun. I wish that we could have had more time together. I will never forget that memory.
Doug & Vicki Miller
April 20, 2005
Dear Teresa and John
Michelle and you have always held a special place in our hearts. The news of Michelle’s death leaves us empty. Please know we are praying for you and Michelle.
Love: Doug, Vicki, Sam, Grant & Ellen Miller
julie szarowicz
April 20, 2005
Dear Teresa & John, I am so sorry for your loss. I know you and michelle were so very close and the great memories that you shared, hopefully will be of some comfort. You will be in my thoughts and my prayers. My very deepest sympathy.
Darryl, Suezette, Riann and Payton Madery
April 20, 2005
Teresa, Jerry, and Arlene,
There is absolutely nothing I can imagine that would be more painful than the passing of such a sweet child. Her passing has sent a ripple throughout the familly that has reduced me to tears. Teresa, what a great testament Michelle is to you as a mother. All your hard work and love that you instilled into her has just made even Heaven a better place. I love you all and our prayers will be with you always.
Beverly (Hicks) and Tena West
April 20, 2005
Teresa and John,
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Even though the distance is great, the memories are forever fresh. As it seemed that it was meant to be, right from the start, Michelle was Tena's first best friend. Your home was always more than day-care to me. It was my friend's house that welcomed Tena each day. Your great capacity for love and affection showed not only in the wonderful care that you shared with other's, but also came shining through in Michelle's laughter and joy. Your angel on earth is now spreading joy in Heaven. Alway remembering with you.....
Keenan Martin
April 20, 2005
Family and friends of Michelle,
There isn't enough I can say about Michelle, other than that there will never be anyone like her, nor was there before her. She was a beautiful girl, so full of love and spirit. She set examples for living that I will do my best to follow with her guidance forever. She meant a great deal to me and the whole Wyoming Park band. I will love her always.
Kathy Schroeder
April 20, 2005
Teresa and John:
I was deeply sadden today to learn that your beautiful daughter was called to Heaven at since a young age. Although it's been awhile since I've seen all of you, I will never forget what an adorable person Michelle was.
Be strong to your faith during this difficult time. We will keep you in our prayers.
Mike Ohlman
April 20, 2005
Dear Messing and Bulver Families,
You are in my thoughts and prayers, and I know we will miss Michelle’s smiling face here at Berger. I thought I would share with you an email I received this morning from Anson a fellow employee “I knew Michelle in a way none of you did, in a way even I was unaware of. I saw Michelle outside the dealership on many occasions – and didn’t even know it.
My sons are in the high school marching band, and they compete with other high school marching bands. Among the other bands that participate at these competitions is the Wyoming Park Band. With 95 members, the Wyoming Park Band always put on a very grand show compared to smaller schools like ours.
When they would come on to the field and assemble in position the announcer would introduce “the Wyoming Park Band led by drum major Michelle Bulver. Miss Bulver, the field is yours.”
At that moment she would salute the announcer smartly, turn toward her band where all eyes were on her awaiting her command. With her shoulders square, her head held high, she would then call the team to position with a snap of her arms. Then with four sharp claps to set the cadence the band began their performance. For 15 minutes she would lead the 95-member team through their routines and music. After the applause at the end of the performance (there were usually hundreds of spectators in the stands) she would bow in the same crisp manner, salute the announcer again, and lead her band off the field. Two by Two, step by step, in full military parade fashion they followed their leader.
Michelle led her band to awards and recognition as one of the outstanding bands in their class. Is it any wonder I didn’t recognize that dynamic Drum Major as the sweet, quiet, shy receptionist I saw daily at the dealership?
As we pay our last respects to Michelle, we not only say goodbye to our friend and coworker, but also farewell to the leader of the band.
Maria Louks
April 20, 2005
Dear John, Teresa, Bob, & Amy,
My heart is broken, my face is full of tears, my mind is in shock, and my body is just numb, to the fact that my sweet little cousin is gone. I know someday, we will all be together again in Heaven, but to think we are one short here on earth is hard to take. I know time will heal my pain and I will be forever here, for all of you, to help heal your pain. I love you all & miss you tons! I’m here in Minnesota waiting for all of you with big hugs for everyone. My prayers go out to our family, Ryan, and all the friends of Michelle. It is such a wonderful feeling to know Michelle is and always will be, loved.
Sincerely,
Andrea & Jerry Jones
April 20, 2005
We are so sorry for your loss. Our daughter, Caitlin is in band at Park. We enjoyed watching Michelle as drum major for the last 2 years, she looked like she was having so much fun. She will be missed by so many. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Katie Cornish
April 20, 2005
My thoughts and condolences to the family; Michelle was a beautiful, wonderful person. I am ever glad that I had the chance to work with her in the band and watch her grow and mature through her high school years into a fabulous drum major. Even in such a short time, she has positively affected so many lives, my own to say the least. Standing on the drum major's podium, she always had a smile that lit up her whole face; and that is the picture of her that I will always carry with me in my memory.
Traci Sikkes
April 20, 2005
To Michelle's family and friends,
I had the pleasure of working with Michelle at Berger. She was a very beautiful and kind young woman. She will be greatly missed by all who had the opportunity to meet her. God bless you for donating her organs, this is a wonderful gift that will carry on. My father received a heart in 1987, and thanks to another generous family we had my dad around for several more years. God Bless you all.
Larry, Lynn, David, Marie & Danny Lindahl
April 20, 2005
Dear Teresa, John and family,
Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers have been with you these days as you journey through this unimaginably hard time. Though we're far away, we feel close through the email and pictures you've shared. Know that you are in our hearts and prayers.
Stephanie Wright
April 20, 2005
She always had a smile and it seemed to rub off on the people she came in contact with, may her smile continue through others
Monty, Sharon and Brandon Byington
April 20, 2005
Theresa, John, and family; We are shocked and saddened by the loss of Michelle. We were over in your driveway just last Friday as Digger and Jake were chasing each other around your yard, and Michelle was heading out to go somewhere with Ryan. Although we did not get to know her very well, it was evident she was a kind, sweet young lady with a heart of gold. Our sincerest, condolences to your family.
Kristin DeYoung
April 20, 2005
I am so sorry for the loss of Michelle. I did not know her real well, but I will never forget her smile. She was a great person and a wonderful band member. She made my senior year (2002) at The Park memorable. Ryan, my heart goes out to you as well as all of those who will miss her.
Beth Maycroft
April 20, 2005
I am friends with the Gerbers family. I am so very sorry for your loss. Your family was robbed of time with Michelle but I know she's in heaven - probably grieving for YOU because she knows how sad you are. She sounds like an exceptionally generous and kind person.
Joel, Vicki, Justin, Dillon & Collin Love
April 20, 2005
Our hearts go out to the entire family during this difficult time. Teresa, especially to you who expressed your love and admiration about your daughter everytime I'd see you. Michelle had your beautiful smile. She wouldn't want you to loose site of it. You will forever hold her in
your heart. Our love and prayers to you all. The Love Family
Joan Solomon
April 20, 2005
Dear Bulver Family,
My deepest condolences on the passing of Michelle. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May her memory be a blessing.
Joan Solomon
Grandmother of Mollie Rehner
Betty Arp
April 20, 2005
God is with you during this extremely difficult time! I am so very sorry, hugs to you all.
Betty
Toni Cutler
April 20, 2005
My heart goes out to the family of Michelle. I can't imagine the loss they feel but I will keep them and her in my prayers. My husband Adam worked with Michelle at Berger and has told me many funny stories they shared. Her body may no longer be with you but her spirit lives on to touch people. She saved lives of strangers with her gift of a heart. The strength you have from her spirit will carry on into your darkest hour and all you have to do is look up and see her and she will get you through.
My heart and prayers always,
Toni Cutler
Richard Dunton
April 20, 2005
John and Teresa,
You have our deepest heartfelt condolences on the loss of Michelle. You can be very proud that you had a part in raising such a wonderful daughter. May your loving memories of her last forever.
Richard and Elizabeth Dunton
Tony, Deb and Scott Engemann
April 20, 2005
Dear Messing Family, We grieve your loss and pray for you. May God bless you at this difficult time. Our neighborhood may be one person emptier, but Heaven is one beautiful angel fuller. Tony, Deb and Scott Engemann
Jamie, Darla, Levi, Mitch and Erin Francis
April 20, 2005
We feel so blessed to have known Michelle a little bit from her frequent visits to Chippewa Lake. The Gerbers have become great friends of ours. Our minds are flooded with memories of seeing her and Ryan enjoying the lake. Michelle was so full of life! She truly was a lake girl in every sense of the word. We would laugh as Ryan would catch a big fish and Michelle would be the one taking the fish off the hook.
From what we have read here in the obituary and from the paper...we are so impressed with Michelle's contribution to our world. She had the heart of a lion and what a blessing to read that her heart lives on in another person now. The gift of life is the ultimate gift.
Our prayers go out to all who knew her and love her. We will keep you in our prayers for a long, long time.
The Francis family (next door lake neighbors to the Gerbers)
Larry and Nancy Morris
April 20, 2005
We did not know your daughter but she was a student with our Grandson Darin Beckholt who passed away in their Jr. year. (Jan.5, 2004). Our thoughts and prayers are with your family as you go though this sad time.
vicky williams
April 20, 2005
Theresa I'm as so sorry for your familys loss, in the 3 years that I have been your mail person, I can remember the small conversations michelle had with me when she and jake would meet me at the mailbox to get the mail sometimes It seemed like jake was racing her, she was so vibrant and always had a smile I will truly miss her. May god be with you and your family during this time god bless you.
Lisa
April 20, 2005
Although I have never met Michelle, I am touched by the kind things written about her. My prayers are with the Bulvers, Messings and Ryan.
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