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Mary Gillespie Obituary

GILLESPIE, Mary "Mary Kay / Impy", age 93, of Kettering, left this world to join "Big G" and many others on August 31. Mary grew up in Xenia at the Ohio Soldiers & Sailors Orphan's Home where she graduated with a license in cosmetology. She often said, "I twisted hair for 45 years;" and family was charged a kiss. Growing up in an orphanage, Mary understood the importance of family, and friends who became family. Husband, George ("Big G") was the love of her life for 47 years. Together they enjoyed: camping at Rocky Fork Lake, watching "Big G's" softball games, going to Kramer's with her family, attending grandkids' sporting events, and hosting the biggest party on Christmas Eve. Mitch Miller's Must Be Santa and the OSSO choir's Wish You Merry Christmas were always Mary's favorite sing-a-longs. Mary loved to share her Crown Royal anytime someone came to visit especially on her patio. Mary was a talented perfectionist: she won the City of Kettering Yard of the Month several times and needlepointed 60+ personalized Christmas stockings for family and friends. When she wasn't rooting for the Reds, Flyers or Buckeyes, she loved volunteering at Heartland of Springfield, where her mother Flossie lived; St. Henry and St. Albert Churches; Good Samaritan Hospital; and she received the "Volunteer of the Year Award" at Miami Valley Hospital. Mary was a devout Catholic and will be missed by many especially her children, George (Beth) Gillespie, Brad (Honey Ree) Gillespie, Kitty (Bob) Schaefer. "Nan" memories will forever be adored by her grandchildren, Erica (Jason) Golden, Chad (Colleen) Schaefer, Hus (Kristin) Gillespie, Abby (Buddy) Watkins and 12 great-grandchildren. Immediate family will have a private church service. At a later date, family and friends will gather as Mary would have liked. In Mary's memory, take a friend out for lunch or enjoy a cold beverage on a patio. In lieu of flowers, donations in Mary's memory can be sent to: OSSO Association of Ex-Pupils Museum or Chapel Fund, 650 Elliott Drive, Xenia OH 45385. Visit www.tobiasfuneralhome.com for online tributes.

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Published by Dayton Daily News on Sep. 13, 2020.

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Ruth Burns (Ryman)

March 16, 2022

My parents were friends of George & Mary K and I remember as a little girl, Mary K cutting my hair. I also got my love of Antiques and Hobnail Milk Glass from her. She was such a loving person. Rest In Peace Mary K.

Bob Cook

September 16, 2020

Mary will be missed by many, many friends in addition to her family. My kids still talk about Christmas Eve at Nan’s and the annual singing of Must be Santa. Love and prayers to the family.

Debi Fuhrman

September 15, 2020

My husband and I had the joy of talking with Mary and her longtime friend Ruth several years at our school reunion. Both ladies shared their memories of their years at the home and cosmetology. They both were lovely ladies and we truly enjoyed talking with them over the years.
We are so sorry to hear of your family's loss of such a lovely woman. I'm going to miss seeing her at our future reunions but will carry a message she gave me always. Mary told me to always be proud of who and where you came from, and pass on the joy to all you meet with a smile on your face. RIP Mary until we meet again my friend.

Mary Ellen Elam Myers

September 15, 2020

She is one of the many ladies that were in the home with my mother Charlotte Bumgardner Elam. Mary K was a wonderful lady and I loved to see all of them a reunion reminiscing about their days in the home. These group of Ladies where known as the Golden Girls at reunions. We have lost so many in the past few years of this group. I am sure they are having a reunion of their own. I will miss her dearly.

Janet Wilson

September 13, 2020

I remember Mary well, as a volunteer at Miami Valley Hospital. Always a smile and kind words.

Sarah Keating

September 13, 2020

Mary Kay was the perfect person to cut little girls' hair! She was fun and made the daunting process easier for me as one of those little girls! She also was my Mom's stylist and they had such fun together. I'm so glad that she had a long, joy-filled life! Peace to all of you.

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