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Donna James Obituary

James, Donna Marie "Lady"

At the age of 73, Donna's flesh could no longer fight a terminal illness of an aortic aneurysm. A lifetime resident of Dayton, OH passed away on Friday, March 3, 2023 at 6:47pm in Wilkesboro, NC. She attended Paul L. Dunbar HS & Sinclair Comm. College. She worked at Dayton VAMC, Wright-Patt AFB, Meijer & etc. Her occupations were nurse aide, cashier, cook, voting poll worker and other jobs that serviced the public. As a strong advocate for those around her to seek redemption, wisdom, education & her hospitality, Donna helped family, friends & strangers throughout her life. She was married to Emmett Paul Folley, Jr. - four children were born from their union. As a single mother, she managed to provide for her children, and they rarely felt the pains of poverty. She was blessed with 18 grandchildren and 24 great-grandchildren with one on the way. She was thankful for all who helped her during her times of need. Special thanks to Erica, Lisa, Tamieka, Jessika, Deja, LaNita, Xavier, Hannibal, Sojourner, Alison, Rashid, Diane, Toussaint, Mattie, Lamarr, Tracy, Mae, Michele, Jocelin, Jennifer, Jeff, Curtis, Billy, Josephine, Mark, MVH (OH), Cleveland Clinic (OH), Wake Forest BH (NC) and Medi H.H. & Hospice (NC).

She leaves to mourn Derek Folley (son); Lisa Folley & Jennifer Folley (daughters); Diane Adams, LaNita Fox & Therese James (sisters); Mattie James (step-mother); 18 grandchildren; 25 great-grandchildren, a host of family & friends. Donna was preceded in death by Mi-Chal S. Folley-Insa Israel (daughter); Lillian Higgins James (mother); Joe W. James (father); Hattie & Charles Higgins (maternal grandparents); Emma & Joseph R. James (paternal grandparents); Sherman James (brother), many other dearest relatives & friends.

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Published by Dayton Daily News on Mar. 26, 2023.

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Jennifer Folley

March 20, 2025

I keep a candle lit for you mom. <3

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March 20, 2024

There isn´t a day that goes by where I don´t think about you.

erica

October 23, 2023

Grandmother, I misssssss youuuuuuu sooooo much.

Marzette Jane

September 21, 2023

I'm so glad that I had the pleasure of knowing Ms. Donna, for many years. She was a dear friend of the family. My condolences and Prayers to the family.

Irma Bryant

March 27, 2023

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. We went to school together.

LaNita Jo Fox

March 26, 2023

My sister my oldest sister . I´m going to truly miss you. I can remember so many things as children we did . Some I´ll keep it secret. The day you earned your wings , we talked at 10:17am , we shared how we loved each other. Love you sis .

Jeff Vaden

March 26, 2023

She will be greatly missed, she was loved beyond measure. My heart hurts but I know she is with her mother, father and daughter in heaven. My prayers are with each and everyone that was touched by Donna and miss her as much as I do.

Jennifer Folley (daughter)

March 26, 2023

Dearest Mom,

My heart is broken without the ability to hug you, hold your hands, road trips (short or long), help you with your daily needs, speak with you on any subject, watch television with you, listen to music or sit together in a comfortable silence. You are a wonderful mother who did your best, and I love you. In my heart, I know you are with me.

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