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Dolores Grunwald Obituary

Grunwald, Dolores Anslinger

The Last Town Crier



It's somewhat strange to be sitting here, very much alive and well, writing my own obituary. Obviously, I left blanks for others to fill in as appropriate. So here goes: I, Dolores A. ("DL") Grunwald, died peacefully during the morning of Thursday, August 17, 2023. Shocking, I know, but once one reaches the ripe old age of 90, these things are not exactly unforeseen. I'm sure I left with a certain degree of sadness but with a much greater degree of satisfaction. It's okay to be sad for a while but please limit your grieving because I led a full life and have been very blessed.



I was born on September 4, 1932 on S. Plum St in Germantown, OH to Dan and Virginia Anslinger. I got into some trouble but not too much and eventually made my way to Miami University to major in English Literature. Somewhere along the way to graduate school for Library Science (yes, absolutely true!), I met, fell in love with and married Harry H. Grunwald, Jr., a dashing Marine Corps fighter pilot. It was Officer and a Gentleman and Top Gun all rolled into one. I was swept off my feet, out of Ohio and into the life of an officer's wife at bases across the U.S. and in Japan. Fritzi the super dachshund was our first family addition followed soon by the red MGTD convertible. Both were just barely eclipsed a few years later by the arrival of Number One Son and then Number One Daughter.



Tragedy struck, however, on May 3, 1962, when Harry was lost at sea off the U.S.S. Shangri-La in the Mediterranean. We three happened to be visiting Mother and Dad in Germantown at the time. After the shock receded enough to let me even begin to contemplate the future, I realized almost immediately that we needed to move back to the community where I grew up, to the family and friends I knew this young widow and her two toddlers could count on to help build a new life. Little did we know what would ensue.



A few years after settling into the new family home on N. Cherry St., my cousin George Kuhn called to gauge my interest in helping him save the local weekly newspaper, The Germantown Press, from financial ruin. I thought over the proposition and understood that we had to try to save the venerable community newspaper that had been in continuous publication since 1874. And with that I jumped in with both feet (and two typing hands!) to become the editor and co-publisher of The Germantown Press. Our first issue was published on March 14, 1968. Believe you me, there were not nearly enough journalism courses in the world to sufficiently prepare someone to be an effective grassroots editor of the hometown newspaper. The esteemed newspaperman, author and professor, Neale Copple put it best: "Thou shalt try like hell to be fair under the current and local circumstances, knowing all the while that to do so in the relative anonymity of a large city is much easier than in your hometown."



I had the pleasure of interviewing Woody Hayes at the local athletic banquet and the pain of coping with an outspoken Jane Fonda at Camp Miami during the height of the Vietnam War protests. We helped save the Florentine from demolition, the Rohr Mansion from becoming a gas station, fought the natural gas pipeline and landfill, helped organize the Historical Society of Germantown and cheered when the Valley View Spartans won their first state football championship. But through it all, the late-night knocks at the door by people who had nowhere else to turn, natural disasters, threats from angry readers, problems with printing presses, Number One Son painting the basset hound green, both Number Ones plastering the neighbor's new aluminum siding with mud pies, I am very proud that we never missed a single issue in our thirty years of publishing The Press.



In 1998 I put the editor-publisher moniker behind me to begin a new life of becoming a better mother-grandmother-sister-aunt and friend, cherished positions to which I had devoted too little of myself. But even after the transition to so-called "private life" (no such thing in a small town!), I remained dedicated to the motto that had appeared on the front page nameplate of The Press: "For the cause that lacks assistance; for the wrongs that need resistance; for the future in the distance, and the good that we can do." They were excellent words to live by then and are even more so today.



For many years now I have equated life with the daily route of the sun, from the predawn glow to the peace of sundown. Just think of me as going down with the sun, but never forget how much I enjoyed the sunrises on the beach and the splendor of the sunset in the hills. It was a beautiful trip and I thank you all for it.



DL was preceded in death by her brother, Dan Anslinger, Jr., her sister, Phyllis Anslinger Moyer and her son-in-law Dennis Stone. She is survived by Number One Son Erik Grunwald and his wife Crystal, of Raleigh NC; Number One Daughter Katharine Grunwald Stone of Macon, NC; Number One Younger Sister Diane Anslinger Hayes of Germantown; granddaughter Katie Grunwald and her husband Ryan Kirkpatrick of San Francisco, CA; grandson Harrison Grunwald and his wife Jasmine of Cary, NC; granddaughter Eliza Farrell and her husband Shay of Surf City, NC; great grandson Levi Jameson Grunwald of Cary, NC; much loved nieces and nephews and grandnieces and grandnephews and many, many friends.



A memorial service and celebration of life will be held later this fall in Germantown, OH with final inurnment in Arlington National Cemetery in Washington, DC. In lieu of flowers, DL requested that donations be made in her memory to The Historical Society of Germantown or to the Reporters Committee for Freedom of the Press {www.rcfp.org/donate/}.

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Published by Dayton Daily News on Sep. 3, 2023.

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Sheila Bradley

October 18, 2023

DL, You came into my life 20 years ago. I became Roger Neargarder's top 1 employee at Village Flower Shop here in Germantown! You and I became very close as friends. We had so much fun just joking with each other. I have so many treasured memories of you!! I have been so blessed to have known you. You DL were always so kind to me through alot of my difficulties over the past years. Thank you for making my days so much brighter!

Kimberly Charbneau

October 18, 2023

Always upbeat with spunk, a good friend of my father's.

Mark Heaton

September 21, 2023

Erik & Katie,
Your mother was indeed one of a kind. After graduating and leaving Germantown, I was a able to keep up with you through her column in the press. Having the paper forwarded, it always made me feel attached to home somehow. Her explanations of the goings-on around town kept many of us enlightened and amused. She will be missed by the many that knew her and those that she touched. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Mat Heck

September 6, 2023

I am very sorry to learn of your Mother's passing.

Prior to my first election as Prosecuting Attorney in June, 1992, I met your Mother. She was always so supportive. The years following that election I enjoyed immensely our phone conversations, whether about a story she was covering, or just our lives in general.

I was always an avid reader of her newspaper and column. She was a pillar in the Germantown community.

You have my deepest sympathies. Your Mother and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

MAT HECK

Jodi Smith

September 4, 2023

I didn't know your Mother. I just very much enjoyed her obit. She must have been such a wonderful Mother. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Jodi, Urbana, Ohio.

Claudia Watson

September 3, 2023

So sorry to hear of D.L.'s passing but know she is with those she loved who went before her. I first met her as an intern in the mid 1970s when I was doing a historic inventory of the Gunkel Town District. After I moved to Germantown some years later, our paths crossed many times as we had shared interests in many local issues. She was such a wonderful person - so smart and so animated and so dedicated to her community. I was lucky to have known her!

Jon Randolph

September 3, 2023

Clever (and outstanding) obit!

Sheila Sutton RN,MSN

September 3, 2023

Although I did not know DL I felt I had known her for years after reading her self-penned obituary. I felt like I was reading a novel eager to get to the next paragraph. I will say that I have often thought about writing my own, but I know I can´t compete with hers. I will say this, she will be in Heaven writing the daily news. My condolences to her family and friends. I wish I had known this remarkable lady. SAS.

Gayle Hollenbaugh

September 1, 2023

Katie and Erik I’m so sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. I know your large family and her “extended family” many friends .will be a comfort for you. DL was one of a kind ! You were so lucky to have had her as your own. I would like to share with you what a friend shared with me on my own Mom’s passing. He said “take her best qualities and make them your own, she will live on through you in this way.” Blessings Gayle

Bob and Julie Smith

August 27, 2023

Oh, my goodness !! There are no words sufficient to honor "D L "GRUNWALD- in honoring someone whose "lifetime's profession" was the use of words, so eloquently, for so long. This entire community is, was, and has been affected by her- friend and foe, alike. And, only "D.L." would have had the forethought to compose her own obituary !!-which, she did, in her typical , eloquent, touching manner.
Bob and I mourn this tremendous loss of "D.L.", along with all of her immediate and extended families. We have been so very blessed, to have had "D.L." as part of our lives, and we will miss her greatly. Our hearts are broken, also. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you , now, and in the days, weeks, months and years to come. May our great God bring strength, comfort and peace to all of you, as only He can.

Pamela Exline

August 26, 2023

An obit in truly DL Grunwald fashion....and I love it. She was an anchor in our town. I, like so many, grew up reading the Germantown Press. Thank you for your tenacity, dedication, reporting, words of wisdom...and sometimes sarcasm. Life wouldn't have been the same in our little town without you. Godspeed.

rick kuci

August 23, 2023

Katie and Erik, we are so sorry to hear about Dl's passing. She was one of a kind. She always brought a smile to our faces and such a part of the Kuci family. Betsy will definitely miss her. our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lou Ann Brill /VV class of 79

August 23, 2023

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. DL was a mainstay in Germantown during my growing up years, a force to be reckoned with, a friendly smile and wave when she would walk through town, and an amazing writer. Her "Town Crier" column was a must read every Thursday when the Press was delivered. I still have her remembrance columns written after the passing of Virgil Henry and Armetha Kern.I will never forget her and my love and prayers go out to all of the Grunwald family.

David Ewing, VV class of '77

August 21, 2023

Erik and family,
Sorry to learn of your mother's passing. Sending my condolences and prayers to you.

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