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John BERTELKAMP Obituary

BERTELKAMP - John Nathan Col U.S. Army (Ret.), 71, of Nellysford, VA, died suddenly Sunday morning, February 7, 2010 at his residence. A Mass of Christian Burial celebrating his life will be held Saturday, February 13, 2010 at 11:00 A.M. at St. Mary's Catholic Church in Lovingston, Virginia, with Father Daniel Kelly officiating. The Honor Guard of Fort Lee, VA will accord full Military Honors at the church. The family will receive friends one hour before time of service. Arrangements by the WELLS/SHEFFIELD FUNERAL CHAPEL (434-263-4097).
Published by Buffalo News on Feb. 10, 2010.

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Melissa Amos

March 31, 2010

Aunt Helen Lee,
You and Uncle Jack were an amazing couple. I will always remember the summer vacations, playing flashlight tag with Michael & Joanna, and saying
the prayer at the supper table as a family. I love you, take care.

Bob and Coral Havicon

February 17, 2010

Coral and I are deeply saddened by the passing of Jack and want you to know that you are in our prayers. I had the privilege of Jack being my first acquisition project manager and quickly found out he was a great leader, educator and boss whom I admired and then became a trusted friend. During our travels Jack frequently spoke of his love for you and his family – it’s good to be with you, but it sure would be a lot nicer if Helen were here instead. I’m glad I had the opportunity to be with Jack, he made a positive mark on my life, he knew what was important, his family and his faith, and I look forward to a great reunion one day. God Bless you and your family.

February 16, 2010

HELEN LEE , I AM TRULY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY PRAYERS. RICK CLIFFORD.

February 15, 2010

Dear Helen,

Carol and I are shocked and terribly saddened to hear of Jack's death. We cherish the memories of our families serving together at Ft.Eustis and our Christmas letter exchanges through the decades.

We want you to know that you and your family our in our daily prayers. We love you.

Ken & Carol Dacas

Jim and Norma Davern

February 14, 2010

Dear Helen,
Jim and I are so saddened to hear about Jack. He was a great American hero. He dedicated his life to the defense of our country both as a military professional and as a civilian. You and the family are in our thoughts and prayers. His retirement was way too short.
Jim, Norma and family.

Tommy Grier

February 12, 2010

Dear Helen: Jan and I have you, your children, and your grandchildren in our hearts and prayers during this heartbreaking time. Jack was truly a great American, a valued friend and a brother who will be remembered for the wonder times we shared in SF, as fellow gun pilots, as action officers in the pentagon and throughout the ensuing years. I am sorry that I could not be there to share the grief. Rest in peace my brother.

Jack Walkenhorst II & Family

February 11, 2010

Mrs. Bertelkamp & Family,

I was very saddened to hear about Jack, you have my deepest sympathy.

As a young man just starting my career, I had the pleasure of working with Jack. At the time my wife was fighting cancer and Jack offered his support. I don’t know if he really knew the positive impact he had on me. His strong words of encouragement and insightfulness provided comfort in an otherwise unbearable situation. To this day I still recall some of our conversations and have such fond memories of him. He always seemed to bring a smile to my face even in the most desperate of times. I hope that you can find some comfort in knowing that I am just one of the so many lives that he touched. He will be sorely missed but not forgotten.

You and your family will remain in our thoughts and prayers.

Dave & Ruth Bush

February 11, 2010

Helen, we were shocked to hear of Jack's passing. We have such fond memories of our tour in Korea with both of you. We pray for comfort for you and your children but rejoice in the knowledge that Jack is with his Lord and Savior.

Dave & Donna Keating

February 11, 2010

Helen, Dave and I have you and your family in our prayers. We will remember Jack with love and enjoy the memories we all shared over the years. God Bless!

Marcy Buchan

February 10, 2010

Helen, I was so shocked to hear of Jack's sudden passing. What a tragedy for you and the family. It was great getting to know him in the stopovers I've made to visit you two in Nellysford in the past few years. Know that my thoughts and prayers with you in this time of grieving.

Ed & June McGervey

February 10, 2010

Dear Helen:
Please accept our deepest sympathy. Jack and I were roommates at JCU our Junior year. He was quite a guy. We shared many good times together. May your memory of Jack as a loving Husband, Father and Grandfather Help you through this difficult time. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Jim DeClerck

February 10, 2010

Mrs. Bertelkamp and Family,

I was sorry to hear of Jack's passing and I offer you my condolences and prayers. After graduating from JCU I lost track of Jack but I recall him being one of the good guys. You have my sympathy.

February 10, 2010

Helen
You and your family are in our prayers. I simply cannot imagine the pain you are feeling. Try and take comfort in knowing he is in good hands.
Do you remember our night out having BBQ? and your comment to him "Jack, you look like you have been in a fight". We all broke up on that one.
We would be there for you, but are in So Carolina helping Sam's Mom with her cancer radiation treatments.
Again, you have our deepest sympathy.
Sam and Judy

Dick Burke

February 10, 2010

Jack and I were roommates during his last semester at JCU. We shared an interesting time together as his life style and dedication were evident even at that age.
May God prepare a fitting place for him in the after life.

Sarah Wood

February 10, 2010

Mrs. Bertelkamp & Family,

My heart is saddened to learn of Jack's passing. I had the pleasure of meeting Jack when the memorial garden at the food pantry was done. What a blessed day of fellowship as we worked to get the garden planted.

God bless you with His strength & comfort.

With heartfelt sympathy,

Joseph Schaefer

February 10, 2010

Helen,
Our prayers are with you and your family. The friendship John shared with us, since St. Mary's of Lancaster elementary school,are cherished by our family. The definition of a lifetime friend is John Bertelkamp. He truly was a lifetime friend to many people. Joe & Carolyn Schaefer

February 10, 2010

In fond remembrance of our member Jack Bertelkamp who was able to attend our luncheons oftimes in recent years. He will be missed. Signed: Luther Y. Gore and Allan M. Van Wickler, Co-founders of CALCLUB(Charlottesville Aviation Luncheon Club)

Lisa Wooten

February 9, 2010

Helen,
You have my deepest sympathy. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Jack was an absolute joy to get know and be around. We shared many a laugh as you well know. He will truly be missed in so many aspects.

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