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Ray Hutchinson Obituary

A soldier's story of heroism is often hard to tell because the tale can involve the sacrifice of his life for his country. And so it is that SPECIALIST RAY JOSEPH HUTCHINSON, who was born in Houston and served with the Army's 101st Airborne division during Operation Iraqi Freedom, died on December 7, 2003 in Mosul, Iraq. Ray Joseph was only twenty years old, but in that short time his life touched many others. As a child, Ray Joseph was bright, sensitive, thoughtful, and riotously funny. He carried those qualities into adulthood and added discernment, courage, determination, and strength. As a man, Ray Joseph could illuminate a room just by smiling, and his friends say that he laughed easily and often. He excelled in athletics and won several awards for his rock climbing and martial arts skills. He loved to water ski, snow ski, snowboard, roller blade, and mountain bike. His joy for living was boundless. After graduating from Clear Creek High School in 2001, Ray Joseph attended Southwest Texas State University in San Marcos for one year before deciding he wanted to serve the country that he loved. He was a member of Pi Kappa Phi Fraternity. Ray Joseph joined the Army in August 2002 and took his infantry training at Ft. Benning, Georgia. There he quickly excelled, graduating as the Distinguished Honor Graduate. He was awarded entry into Airborne school and won his wings in January 2003. He received an assignment to the 101st Airborne Division (Air Assault) in Ft. Campbell, Kentucky, and deployed to Kuwait in February, 2003. Ray Joseph participated in the entirety of Operation Iraqi Freedom and saw Iraq on foot and from atop a HMMWV and behind the sights of an M240B machine gun. He was there from the initial push across the deserts, through An Najaf, Karbala, Baghdad, and into Mosul. During this time he distinguished himself enough to earn the coin of the Sergeant-Major of the Army, the Army Commendation Award, the Purple Heart, and the Bronze Star. It was also in Mosul that he died. An incredible light has been taken from us, and we will be forever empty without Ray Joseph's presence. He is a hero in the truest sense of the word. He served the United States of America in accordance with his military oath, and he paid his life's blood so that others might be free. He did this without remorse or complaint, never failing in the countless missions he was asked to perform. The Bible tells us that God has a plan for all things and that nothing happens according to chance. Ray Joseph's family loved him, and they know that God had a reason for calling him home when He did. The stars will shine out even brighter now that Ray Joseph's brilliant soul is among them. Though he is absent from the body, he is present with the Lord. The Funeral Service will be held at 10:00am Tuesday, December 16, 2003, at Sagemont Church, 11300 South Sam Houston Parkway East. Interment will follow in Forest Lawn Cemetery.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Dec. 14, 2003.

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Anthony Catapano

December 7, 2024

21 years ago you gave the ultimate sacrifice. My brother, I think about you everyday still, you are inked on my body and soul forever. As I sit here next to my 7 year old son showing him pictures of you and I, of your parents.. even his precious innocent mind understands the pain and importance of remembering. You are always loved and never forgotten.

Shiloh

May 21, 2020

Memorial Day is here again, brother. But you already know this.

Brett H.

May 29, 2016

Was thinking of you brother. I'll pour one out for you. Miss ya.

Shiloh McMasters

September 11, 2015

As both his fraternity brother and a member of the 101st, I am reminded how special he was. Thank you.

Cheryl Cooley

December 8, 2014

Love from the Cooley family

May 15, 2013

God Bless this MAN of strength, courage and heroism!!!! I'm sooo sorry for the loss this country has and will endure without him! Much love to all who knew & loved him and I am forever grateful for his duty and loyalty to all!!! I'm just so sorry I did not find this small space earlier to express my LARGE sincere condolences and appreciation for Ray, his family and friends. xoxoxo! Michelle Turiello from Middletown NJ

vickie grigsby

November 27, 2012

Our Hero!

Peggy Childers

December 7, 2011

To the family and friends of Pfc. Ray J. Hutchinson:
Please accept my remembrance of Ray on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Blake Durand

March 29, 2011

Went to Clear Creek High School with Ray where I now teach. His sacrifice is still remembered there. Jesus said "greater love has no man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends..." May we meet again when our blessed Savior returns.

Peggy Childers

December 7, 2010

To the family and friends of Pfc. Ray J. Hutchinson:
Remembering Ray on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Kay Perez

June 3, 2010

I never personally knew Ray Joseph but I do know his lovely mother and father. I will never forget the day I learned of his sacrifice for the love of his country, his family, and his friends. His family turned their personal loss into good works for others and in that Ray Joseph lives on and continues to be a blessing. I am so thankful for his life and all the others that have gone and those that are still there fighting for our freedom. God Bless each one of them and their families. None of them have given their life in vain, but Ray keeps on giving thru the love of his parents and family. May God continue to bless this work that began in Ray Joseph's honor.

Linda Hutchinson

May 31, 2010

We are remembering Ray and his precious family today - this Memorial Day 2010. Ray lives on in the hearts of all who love him.

Rebekah Cyphers

February 17, 2010

He will always live in our hearts.

Donna Gillette

December 26, 2009

On this day and with each day that we enjoy our freedom, I would like to give thanks and let you know that I do not take our troops for granted. May you experience God when you feel your loss.

Adrianne Holmes-Campbell

December 17, 2009

A great guy who touched everyones heart. It has been years since his tragedy but I will always remember him as the great guy I knew in High School who always knew how to make someone smile and laugh! I am thankful to see that his name and story live on and that there are scholarships in his honor. Ray, you will never be forgotten!

Kenna

November 24, 2009

”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to the hero’s Mother, Father and/or spouse. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,800 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
This is a gift! We have some wonderful sponsors who help with the costs, and only want you know that we care.
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna

October 23, 2009

God bless and comfort your family. The scholarship is such a wonderful tribute to PFC Hutchinson. Our family is grateful for the freedoms he fought to defend. Thank you.

Henryk Zaleski USN-Ret

July 11, 2009

We prayed for you in 2006 and do so again to keep your sacrifice in memory and to remain grateful.

Come join us, Thursday, June 25, South Shore Harbour---Salute to Heroes V

Deborah Hutchinson

May 23, 2009

Peggy Childers

December 7, 2008

To the family of Pfc. Ray J. Hutchinson:
Ray gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

James Ferebee

December 6, 2008

I was Ray's First Sergeant in Iraq. There are not too many days that pass that I don't think of Ray's winning attitude and ultimate sacrifice. Specialist Hutchinson was a one of a kind soldier. He was confident, honest, loyal, brave, and a joy to lead. He gave 100% regardless of the task. He came to the United States Army with these attributes in place; representing his family well. I have since retired from the U.S. Army and currently teach 8th grade U.S. History. As I teach young Americans about the heroes of our nation, Specialist Hutchinson is the first to come to mind. To Hutch's parents, your son is not forgotten...

His memory lives with me forever,

Christen Valcoviak

December 4, 2008

I am so thankful for what Ray did for his country. I wish he wouldn't have died doing it though.
I have never met him, but just hearing about him, he sounded like such a wonderful person. In every picture I saw him in he was smiling except for one.
I just wanted to let you know that we really appreciate what he did for our country and we love him very much!

alexis Richardson

December 4, 2008

umm after seeing the video about your son i was like dang he likes to smile lol. then i heard his story and felt bad about what happened to you and your family and im truly sorry for your loss. i just wanted to tell you taht i think what your son did was amazing. i really respect people who are in the army. so i just wanted to let you know that i am very thankful for all that he has done.

-alexis

Blake McClimon

December 4, 2008

Dear,
Hutchinson’s I am a current Clear Creek High School student and I have watched your son Rays video in miss Jameson’s class and I am sorry about your son. Ray seemed like a great soldier and a good person, we are currently doing a care package for the soldiers currently in Iraq and Ray has inspired me to help as much as I possibly can. God bless your son and all other serving this country, people like your son keep this world safe and protect this beautiful country.


Sincerely,

Blake McClimon

Kaitlyn Blake

December 3, 2008

I didn't know Ray, but I truly wish that I had. Just hearing his story and how much people loved him brings me to tears. He was an amazing man that was always smiling, always generous, and always selfless. The world has lost another absolutely spectacular, wonderful person. Ray was such a blessing and inspiration to all that knew him. I can't begin to imagine the saddness that the family had to go through.

After reading all of these stories about Ray, I wonder if there was ever a man so kind as him. To all of the friends and family of Ray, know that you are all in our hearts and in our prayers. When Mrs. J told us about Ray and what happened to him, I had wondered why she didn't tell us more. But now I know that it was because it was just so hard for her to tell us about him because she misses him. To this day, every time she talks about him, you can just tell that she gets teary-eyed and that he was a true inspiration to her.

With the 5 year anniversary of Ray's death coming up, I can imagine that now is one of the hardest times for them. I know that Ray's soul will live through their eyes and through their hearts.

We love you and are so sorry for your loss! <3

Our next Salute to Heroes will be June 25, 2009. This wonderful event not only honors our military, but it also helps build new scholarships for graduating CCISD Seniors from the Ray Joseph Hutchinson Foundation! www.rjhfoundation.org

December 3, 2008

Shannon O'Neil

December 3, 2008

I didn't know Ray, but just hearing his story brings me to tears. i can't imagine the pain of loosing someone so close to you and my thoughts and prayers go out to those suffering from terrible loses. Even though Ray didn't know me, he still died for me and my freedom. It's such an blessing to have all the soldiers out there keeping me safe. Thank you sooo much!

Wynette Jameson and Chris Kirkham remember what a great guy Ray was. We miss him terribly.

December 2, 2008

Bruce D Ranstad

November 24, 2008

Ray:

From the father of one of your fellow soldiers (albeit a Cavalry scout sniper - I understand the rivalry between Cavalry and Infantry. *s*) who just spent 15-months serving on the front lines of eastern Afghanistan and experienced the loss of too many friends ... well, this site's tribute to you brought home not only my own memories of Vietnam and lost buddies, but also the pain of knowing what my son has to now live with given the same.

You did well Ray, you define "Loyalty Above All ... Except Honor".

To your parents - I can not even begin to imagine how it must be - I spent many sleepless nights while mine was in harm's way - and I can honestly say that - I don't know that I would have been, or could have been, strong enough to do what your parents have done with this site - instead I can't help but feel I would have withdrawn from society.

But after seeing this site - and knowing that he will again be redploying soon, either to Iraq or once again to Afghanistan - it has given me strength.

For that - I thank them, commend them, and of course, offer my sincerest condolences.

Ray, you chose to serve this great country "with a blank check, including up to including your life".

The decision that you made, along with my son and others ... says all that needs to be said ... your and yours ARE the next "Great Generation".

MAC(SW/SS) Bruce D Ranstad
U.S. Navy, Retired

Erin Smith

July 28, 2008

Ray,
We all miss you terribly. There isn't a day that goes by that we don't think about you. You are a great inspiration to us and our Hero. God Bless you and your family.

Robert Hiles

July 13, 2008

Semper Fi Ray from Marine Gunnery Sergeant
Robert Hiles.
In the Marine Corps Hymn, it says "Here's health to you and to our Corps,Which we are proud to serve;
In many a strife we've fought for life
And never lost our nerve. If the Army and the Navy Ever look on Heaven's scenes,
They will find the streets are guarded
By United States Marines."

I feel certain that now we all take turns patrolling the perimeter. God is Blessing you now, of that I am certain!

walter Schmitt

June 25, 2008

I served in Alpha company with Hutchison. He always seemed come off as a level headed soldier. Not a day goes by that I don't think about the guys I knew that didn't come back. Id like to send my very best to his family.

GATORS....

Pfc Pratt

June 2, 2008

From one Soldier to another Soldier...HOOAH!!! Rest In Peace Bro!

AJ Burnett

May 28, 2008

hello Hutchinsons i just wanted to say that My family is still praying for you guys and hopefully we will be able to come out west and see ya'll soon. Again i give you all my thoughts and prayers.

tami prangle

May 13, 2008

ray's smile is adorable. his vivacious personality will live on in all the lives he touched while living life to the fullest and giving his life for our freedom. well done soldier...well done... blessings and peace for your parents and brother, tami

March 22, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Pfc Hutchinson!

Karen Byler

December 11, 2007

My son Justin and Hutch (as he called Ray)were really good friends and stationed in Iraq together. I have some pictures of both together that I would like to share with you. Once Justin and Hutch got back to the U.S. they were coming to our home in Texas. Justin wanted to show him where he lived. Justin talked so much and bragged on Hutch and everything they had in common. When Justin called home to give us the news, he was so torn up. He thought so much of Hutch. I pray for both, and they are never far from my thoughts.

Audrey Soto

December 7, 2007

The Soto family still and will always think about Ray. Today is the 4th anniversary of your death. Thank you for bringing us joy when we spent time with you, and thank you for fighting for our freedom.

Debbie , Kenny Coffey

December 7, 2007

Our continued thoughts and prayers out to the HUTCHINSON family.Knowing now what they have always known is one of many reasons that our HERO[ES] shall NEVER be forgotten.Rest well brother as prommised that star spangled banner shall FOREVER wave.Your name stamped in steel shall be FOREVER clutched in the tallons,as your spirit FOREVER soars high in the skies in the symbol of our great nation....THANK..YOU......HO..YAAH...B.V.C....

Chris Horner

November 15, 2007

Ray is an amazing person, who came from a wonderful family. So many great things have been said about him here, but none can fully encompass the true pleasure it was to know him. He was the first friend I had in Texas and he will always be remembered as a hero in my heart.

shanna williamson

October 27, 2007

iam so sorry for the death of ray please accept my prayer from my heart with sympathy love shanna elizabeth williamson

Sarah Griffin

September 11, 2007

Although his presence is constantly felt in my heart, and I cannot remember a day when my thoughts did not rest on memories of him at least once, there are specific days when the sadness of his loss is greater to me. Today especially, being a significant day in our country's history and a day for honoring fallen heroes, makes me think of Ray. I remember sitting with him on this day, six years ago, both in shock with heavy, saddened hearts as we watched the tragedy befalling our country and her innocent citizens. September 11th deeply affected all of America, but I know it challenged Ray to answer the call of service and to defend those he loved from the threat of additional attacks and senseless terrorism.

I am so grateful every day for his unselfishness and willingness to give his life for ME. For he did not fight for agendas, politics or causes, but for those innocents at home, ESPECIALLY those he knew personally and loved. When I think of such sacrifice, I am humbled beyond words.

Thank you Deborah, Michael, and all who keep his memory alive. It helps so much to be able to see how his legacy continues through the scholarship and foundation. I pray for your family every night and hope that you are comforted by each other, your deep love and appreciation for Ray, and your faith in God.

There is no way to describe the ways I miss your son. I miss just knowing that he is in the world, somewhere. It hurts me to think about those who miss him, and I feel sorry for those who will never get the opportunity to know such an amazing individual. But I am blessed to know that we will meet him again someday. And I am so very proud to have had the chance to know even a small bit about him. My life and the life of countless others will be enriched forever because he gave his so selflessly. The sparkle that he brought to my life will never dim.

Thank you for sharing him and allowing him to fufill his journey. God bless you always.

August 15, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

July 26, 2007

Thank you for your willingness to defend the United States of America and all that we hold sacred. Though tears can never bring you back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that you made and our sorrow at your passing. You are truly a hero and your sacrifice will never be forgotten. Your mission on earth is complete. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the heroes who have passed before.

July 7, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Pfc Hutchinson and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Robin

July 5, 2007

No words can ever say how gratful we are for your sweet son,as we speak my son to is on his way to Iraq,thay are all so presuse and we are so blessed to be thire moms.thankyou and GOD be with you everyday please keep our son and all the men and women of the military in your life and prayers THANKYOU FOR HONERING YOUR SONS EFFORTS FOR ALL OF US.

Jamie Arnold

May 23, 2007

I went to college with Ray at SWT (Texas State). We lived in Smith Dorm together. I remember the late nights siting in the courtyard just talkin about nothing.I will never forget the Pi Kapp parties:) The last time I saw Ray was when he came to visit us at school and he talking about jumping out of the airplane and how cool it was. I will never forget your smile and how you brought a smile to my face. I miss you and love you

JEFFREY HUNTER

May 12, 2007

One of the best soldiers that anyone could serve with. Always full of humor and most importantley a highly disciplined soldier. You will never be forgotten from all those who you came into contact with. Take care brother. You will always be in our prayers.

Gary Allain

April 30, 2007

Pfc. Ray J. Hutchinson
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.

Jeff Kiene

April 25, 2007

I just wanted you to know, every time I take my kids mountain Biking, I think about Ray Hutchinson.

God Bless you family.

walt L

January 5, 2007

To the family of pfc. ray hutchinson
we cannot know your grief and pain. we can only hope that your days are eased by your memories of your love one and in the pleasure of having him in your life for such a short time.God Bless you and yours always.

S Stanley

January 5, 2007

To the family and friends of Ray:
Please know that Ray is still remembered. His service to our country honored and appreciated.
With deepest respect.....

Arthur Leal

December 7, 2006

Well i met Ray at Walter Hall and had a great time with him all the way through High school. I love to see all of these people that we graduated with writing on his guest books. I want the Hutchinson family to know that you are in our prayers. I will never forget all of the memories that we have of Ray.May this anniversary be soft amongst your hearts. Always in our prayers.

Garnet Jenkins

December 7, 2006

In remembrance of Pfc. Ray J. Hutchinson, on this 3rd anniversary of the day he gave his life for our Country and for Freedom.
May Ray, rest safely in the Loving Care of God and know that he is a True American hero, that shall NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
May the Peace of the Lord continue to be with the Hutchinson family.
There will never be enough ways, to humbly thank these Heroes, for their Supreme Sacrifice,
My brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.

"And God shall wipe away every tear from their eyes,
there shall be no more death,
nor sorrow, nor crying,
there shall be no more pain.
For the former things have have passed away."
Revelations 21:4


May you find peace in knowing the love and memories you have, will remain in your heart forever and that this Country remembers Ray's sacrifice.
I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Celia Carnes

September 3, 2006

I think of Ray and his family every time I get an email about the war..and our prayers are with you. I wish we had known him, and we are so grateful for his sacrificial service.

Linda Hutchinson is my sister...

My grandson is in USMC and has served in Iraq...he goes again in

March, His brother just signed up and leaves for boot camp Sept 11th.....Our church prays for all

of our Military....

Jody Saxton

May 10, 2006

My son, Lindsay Saxton, attended school in League City with Ray. I have photos of them when they both played in the Symphonic Band in Middle School. Our family moved to North Carolina in 1999 and Lindsay lost touch with many of his League City friends. After graduating high school Lindsay joined the Army and also did his basic training at Ft. Benning. He was based at Ft. HOod with 4th ID and deployed to Iraq in March 2002. Much of his deployment was spent in Mosul, ironically at the same time Spc. Ray Hutchinson was also there. Their paths crossed earlier as children in League City, Texas, may have crossed as young men in Mosul,Iraq, and will someday cross again.

lindsay saxton

May 5, 2006

I cannot believe me and ray were in the same city in iraq at the same time doing the same exact job. why do bad things happen to good people? rest in peace buddy

Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)

April 20, 2006

Rest in peace at your last post in paradise.

Ken McAlpin

January 6, 2006

I knew Ray through my daughter Christine McAlpin. I was just thinking about him and remembering talking to him and being at my house with Chrissy. I always respected Ray and his values. I can only hope my daughter meets another person like him.

Daniel Dobbs

December 27, 2005

I too am a League City soldier, my wife was raised here. I feel a deep connection with Ray. I wear a memorial wrist band with his name engraved upon it. He is a true soldier, his gift to us is freedom!

Alex Marin

December 12, 2005

My deepest condolences. Ray is a hero and an Outstanding American. I graduated with him in Ft. Benning. 2nd Plt A Co 2-19 in December of 2002. I remember him being a leader and a all around good guy.

Deborah Hutchinson

December 11, 2005

We are so grateful for all of the entries in this guest book. Ray Joseph's father and I extend a big thank you to all who have taken the time to remember our wonderful son. You can see a short video of his life, as well as civilian and military photos of Ray Joseph Hutchinson, if you go to the following site---- http://fotki.com/mrsj

SPC Ray Joseph Hutchinson in Mosul, Iraq, less than ten days before he left this life from an improvised explosive devise which was detonated on the road near his vehicle as he was returning from a mission.

December 11, 2005

SPC Ray Joseph Hutchinson in Mosul, Iraq, less than ten days before he went Home to be with the Lord.

December 11, 2005

Ray Joseph Hutchinson, the Distinguished Honor Graduate from Ft. Benning on December 17, 2002. He was deployed to Iraq about two months later in early March, 2003.

December 11, 2005

matthew watson

December 7, 2005

ok, it has now been two years. and i have yet to forget the coolest, nicest, and most caring freind i ever had. possibly because his pictures and my scars. i was on ray's team in 2nd squad 1st platoon for most of our time in that place. i to this day sometimes wish that day would have taken me as well so we could still be laughing and having a good ol' time talkin about what we were going to do when we got home. or about family. i have lost contact with everyone. and if they should read this today please contact me. thank you and merry christmas.

Audrey Soto

December 7, 2005

I am sharing this site with my 5th grade class to honor Ray. He was a joy to know. Our family still misses him on this two year anniversary of his passing. He will never be forgoten.

Eric Mroz

December 1, 2005

It would have been an honor to have served with this soldier.

Geoffrey Rempert

October 24, 2005

May Ray be comforted in the arms of our Lord forever.

mel lamont

October 4, 2005

I met you both at the creek baseball game the night they honored our service members. I am one of the twins that stood in front of you to be honored. I never knew Ray, but I fought along side alot of brave souls just like him. Why Ray, and other young men and women? and not myself or my brother? Not one day has gone by since my tour of duty has ended I don't ask my self that question. My answer "everything happens for a reason". There is no answer to this great tragedy you have been handed. I can promise you myself and my brother will live our life to the fullest in honor of the friends we have lost and patriots like Pfc. Hutchinson. I never knew Ray but we did share one thing in common "love for our family, friends, and country" that alone would of made us best friends. I will always regret never knowing a patriot like your son. God bless you and your family. Lcpl Lamont USMC Semper fi.

DIANNA CRUZ

August 30, 2005

I'M VERY SORRY ABOUT THE LOSS OF YOUR SON, RAY. HE IS A TRUE HERO AND WILL BE REMEMBERED FOREVER, AS ONE WHO PAID THE HIGHEST PRICE FOR FREEDOM. HAVE COMFORT IN THE FACT YOU WILL BE WITH HIM AGAIN ONE DAY. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.

Margaret Bolduc

August 5, 2005

I am so sorry for your loss. Your son was a hero to us all, and I know he is now safe with God. May He now give you the strength you need to carry on.

Jeff Kiene

July 20, 2005

I don't exactly know why I came to this site to read about your son's service for our country. I want you to know that I am very greatful and honored to read about RAY JOSEPH HUTCHINSON. I have two small children and will tell them about your son and his sacrifice. I am deeply moved by who he is and how his legacy lives on. I will never forget him we honor him from our family to his family.

Nikki Gott

May 25, 2005

I am truely sorry for your loss.I did go to school with Ray but never realy knew him to well. Although I always saw him with a smile on his face and he always said hello.I can only understand your loss to a certain extent.I lost my boyfriend in Iraq almost two years ago.What great men give their lives for our freedom!!! Your wonderful son was one of them and I'm proud to say I even knew who he was. May God keep you strong and your family will be in my prayers!

Tina Torres

May 11, 2005

My prayers are with you in your time of need. I am so sorry.

amy mitchell

April 21, 2005

I read about Ray at the CCISD site. I teach 6th grade math. I am so sorry for the loss. I think about all he gave up for me and my family to be free. We don't deserve it. I could never thank you or him enough.

Matthew Shailer

March 24, 2005

I only knew Ray in a peripheral sense. Though we attended the same school for three years, and shared the same attachment to our journalism class, he and I never shared a class, nor more than a minute or two in the same room. And yet the day he died (almost two years after his graduation, and over one year since my own)a stranger to me, and apparently a friend of Ray's delivered a speech in my university spanish course dedicated to Ray. When i heard it Ray's name was left out and just the situation of his death was described, Ray was simply referred to as a soldier and "friend." Over the next day I encountered another person who had suffered the loss of a best friend in the military, as I still was ignorant that the friend is Ray Hutchinson, as I still ignorant that I had suffered a similar loss, and ignorant that I shared such a connection to two other strangers. I just want this to be a testimonial of the effect Ray had on others. Such a simple coincidence, something so random was made incredibly meaningful and powerful by the joy and love Ray was able to share in his short time with us.

Misty Hays

February 23, 2005

I am deeply sorry for the loss of Ray. I remember him as a funny and super sweet guy. We rode the same bus though the school years and it is always a shock to discover the death of someone you know. I lost my mom in October of last year and remember the joy I got from reading what others remembered of her. My heart goes out to all of Ray's family and friends. He is forever thanked for his dedication to our country.

Laurence Collins

February 4, 2005

God bless you Ray.

Eric Linkenhoker

January 29, 2005

Its now been over a year since Ray gave his life for the people of this country, not a day goes by that I dont think about what he did for us. Ray is still such a hero and will always be missed. Ray touched so many lives and made so many people happy. Once again, Thank you Ray for my freedom!

Kristin Douglas

January 26, 2005

I graduated from Creek in 2000. Although I never knew Ray, I am very saddened by your loss. The name "Ray Hutchinson" will forever be in our mind and our hearts. His bravery and patriotism reminds me every day why I am proud to be an American. Ray has touched many lives, of those he knew and didn't know. So, I thank you Ray for allowing me and all of my fellow Americans to be free. God Bless the family and friends of Ray Hutchinson.

Tim Kuylen

January 15, 2005

Thank you Ray for our freedom. May God be with your family.

Frank Kuylen

January 4, 2005

Ray was an outstanding soldier and I am proud to have served with him in Iraq. He will be missed and his name will be carried on my wrist untill I die. My prayers goes out to his family and friends. Air Assault!!!!!

Christian Fischer

December 17, 2004

I never met Ray, however he was a fraternity member and therefore a brother. Thank you for your sacrifice for our country. It will never be forgotten.

Meagen McGregor

December 7, 2004

I went to High School with Ray and met him by my friends. The funniest moment I think of when his name comes to my mind is wearing women's shoes at Walmart. He was a very nice young man and he was always happy. He is always in my prayers. God Bless his family.

Cindy Rednour

December 4, 2004

To Ray's family and loved ones - It is almost one year to December 7th and that date will forever link our families as our son, James "Red" Rednour, was severly injured in the same humvee that Ray was riding in. We think of Ray every single day. Our son, James, wears a tatoo that honors Hutch. He will forever be a part of our memory. God bless you all. If ever you wish to contact us, please do. The Rednours

Bernadette Walls

November 15, 2004

I cannot believe it has almost been a year. Still isn't a day that goes by that I do not think about him. God bless his family.

Bernard (Bernie) Festa

November 11, 2004

No words can express what Ray's family and close friends have endured; but one thing I'm confident of is that the Almighty Lord comforts him now. God is there for us all to call upon in need. Praise God and bless you all.

Melissa Medina

October 26, 2004

I never met Ray, but for some reason or another I was drawn to his name on a list of fallen soldiers. I want to express my deepest sympathies to his family I cannot imagine the pain you have endured through this loss. I also want to say thank you to Ray for his sacrifice in protecting America and helping the people of Iraq. God Bless you always!

Hilary Overby

October 14, 2004

I knew Ray from high school, he was a great guy and always had a smile on his face. I came across some pictures the other day from New Year's Eve that he had spent with some of us and I think to myself that heaven has gained a great angel.

Sarah Hughes

October 11, 2004

Eventhough I never even met Ray Hutchinson, when I saw his picture my heart skipped a beat. I didnt know what to think because I kept sayin to myself how can a young man so handsome and young be killed? When I saw his picture for the first time his smile just glowed, and after reading eveyones entries I was brought to tears of how much a beautiful person he was. May god bless his family and our troops.

Pam Domino

October 11, 2004

I only learned of Ray's death today. I knew him only briefly when my son Sam attended Hall Elementary with Ray. We both have fond memories of the little blond hair boy that always had a smile.

Gene Goodner

August 31, 2004

it is not fun to lose a friend all i can say is i miss him and i wish i can be half the solider ray was and i know he is looking over me as i make my way to iraq soon love you ray and i miss you

Melissa Valdez

July 13, 2004

To Lee and the rest of the Hutchinson family - I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Lee, I never meet your brother but I can only imagine that he was as kind and caring as you are. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Lauren Barkdull

April 19, 2004

I met Ray when we were both working at the HEB in Friendswood. We quickly became friends. I joined the military in 2000 and returned from Iraq in late December of 2003. I found out from our former boss that he had been killed. I couldn't cry, I couldn't do anything...I was stunned. I was angry that I made it back and he didn't. Ray was a wonderful person. Every day that I saw him, I saw his wonderful smile. That is one of the things I remember most about him. He had a beautiful smile. I remember the way we laughed when he played jokes on me at work. He was always happy, always playful. To his family- I am sorry for your loss. I know that doesn't do much for you. Please know that your son will always live in my thoughts and I will never forget him.

Shannon Humphrey

March 8, 2004

Ray,

Another group of your fellow soilders leaves this morning @ 11:00 from Fort Hood to tackle the continued tasks you gave of yourself for. Please keep them under your Angel Wings. Thank you again for giving so freely to improve our America. Soar like an Eagle.

Bruce & Mary Crider

March 7, 2004

We often think of you.

Jason Till

February 23, 2004

Hutch was in my platoon at Ft. Benning in Infantry school. I never served with him in Iraq but nevertheless I knew he was an outstanding soldier and a good man. He fought for all the right reasons and I will never forget his sacrifice.

Jennika Wasilewsky

February 16, 2004

I didn't meet Ray. But, I knew his folks from the gym. Both of his parents are lovely people I can only imagine Ray picking up the best of their character. From the beginning of time their have been warriors and soldiers they are the protectors and leaders of our world. My heart goes out to Deborah and Michael may you find peace and love in every memory.

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