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David B. Lynch

1936 - 2022

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David Lynch Obituary

David B. Lynch
January 11, 1936 - May 30, 2022
David Bernard Lynch, a proud U.S. Army veteran and leading Northern California attorney for more than 50 years, died on Memorial Day after a long illness. He was 86, and passed away at home in the care of his family.
Dave was born in Vallejo, CA, the only child of James and Myrna Lynch. He was raised in a hard-working blue-collar Irish-American family, with northern California roots going back more than 150 years. He mowed lawns and bagged groceries at Safeway while making top grades at Vallejo's St. Vincent High School, earning a spot at the University of California at Berkeley. Dave was the first member of his family to attend college.
Dave graduated from Cal in 1957 with a degree in history, and enrolled in the University of California's Berkeley Law, where he served as an editor of the California Law Review and graduated in 1960. Shortly after joining the California State Bar, he was drafted into the U.S Army at Fort Ord near Monterey, where he served in the Judge Advocate General's (JAG) Corps from 1961-1963 and did work to support the Army's efforts during the Cuban Missile Crisis.
Dave returned to the Bay Area to work at the San Francisco law office of Low, Ball, and Norton. The firm – later renamed Low, Ball, and Lynch – was his home base for the length of his remarkable legal career, and expanded with offices in Menlo Park and Walnut Creek.
As a civil defense attorney and litigator, Dave tried more than 500 jury trials to completion before local, state, and federal courts, including the California Supreme Court. He believed deeply in the Constitutional right to trial by jury, and of the power of the legal system to promote fairness and democracy. Dave volunteered as a Judge Pro Tem for the San Francisco Superior and Municipal Courts. He was both a razor-sharp negotiator and a fair opponent – one colleague noted that Dave was equally respected by lawyers on both sides of the courtroom. He mentored countless other lawyers through professional societies and seminars, and volunteered hundreds of hours to Northern California legal groups.
Dave was a member and leader of the San Francisco chapter of the American Board of Trial Advocates (ABOTA) for more than 50 years, serving as chapter President and National Board representative. He also served as president of the Association of Defense Counsel - Northern California. Other professional associations included the American Bar Association, the Defense Research Institute, the International Association of Defense Counsel, the International Academy of Trial Lawyers, and the International Legal Honor Society of Phi Delta Phi. He received numerous awards, including the Association of Defense Counsel's President's Award, the Edward J. McFetridge Award for Trial Advocacy, and SF-ABOTA's prestigious Don E. Bailey Civility and Professionalism Award. In Dave's honor, SF-ABOTA renamed its Legends Award for lifetime legal accomplishment to the David B. Lynch Legends Award in February.
Outside of the courtroom, Dave was an avid fan of Bay Area sports, especially Cal Bears football and the San Francisco 49ers, holding the same season tickets near the 10th yard line at Candlestick Park for more than 30 years. He was a wine enthusiast, an excellent cook and grillmaster, a lifelong U.S. history student, a hummingbird-loving gardener, an unbeatable dominoes player and crossword puzzler, and an avid fisherman and international traveler. Even as his physical health declined, Dave kept his razor-sharp intellect and love of friends and family. He enjoyed few things more than a good tailgate party, an overflowing house for Sunday and holiday dinners, or a day on Lake Tahoe. He was a joyful, generous host and friend.
Dave is survived by Yvonne (Cafasso), his wife of more than 60 years whom he met in the library at Cal; their daughters April, Michelle, and Carolyn; sons-in-law Colin, Paul, and Gonzalo; grandchildren Emma, Andrew, Anthony, Alexander, Julia, Ava, and Van; and countless family members, friends, and colleagues across the country. Plans for a memorial befitting Dave's larger-than-life spirit are underway. In the meantime, those honoring Dave's legacy may wish to consider a donation to the ABOTA Foundation or the Pat Tillman Foundation.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Jun. 13, 2022.

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Michael Dempsey

October 3, 2022

I think it was 1983 when I first met Dave Lynch. I know it was a Monday, because Monday was my night to play softball in those days. I got a call from my boss, who was also the coach of the team, directing me to swing by Gallivan´s saloon in downtown St. Paul to meet an attorney from San Francisco. My main concern at that moment was to wolf down a couple of McDonald´s hamburgers and get to the ball field, but when the boss tells you to report to the bar one really has no choice. So, there I went, in my softball uniform, into a place that was, in those days, strictly jacket and tie at 5:00 in the afternoon. I felt terribly out of place... and completely unaware that this was the beginning of a wonderful forty-year friendship.

About a year later, a terrible accident occurred on a rural highway down in Kern County that would cause Dave and I to be in daily contact over the phone for the next three years. That case went to trial in the spring of 1987. Dave got us a defense verdict and, in the process, assumed the role of titan of all the defense attorneys I worked with throughout the United States.

Dave was a great friend to our company. It was more than just cultivating the business relationship. I knew a lot of lawyers over the years who would come into town and take people to lunch or dinner. But there was something very special about Low, Ball & Lynch. And there was something very special about Dave. I always believed that he truly loved visiting Northland and loved coming to Minnesota, which he wisely avoided in the winter. Most of those visits would involve a dinner at America´s best steak house, Murray´s in downtown Minneapolis. When I say that Murray´s is America´s best steak house, I am only echoing the opinion of its greatest fan-David B. Lynch. Those dinners were very memorable. The silver butterknife---Dave loved that steak. On his very last visit to Minnesota in 2016, he ate there two nights in a row. I´m so glad he got that chance.

Toward the end of his career and about ten years before the end of mine, Dave and I started e-mailing each other once in a while, just to converse about what was going on in the world and in our lives. The e-mails became a daily correspondence. I have no idea for sure, but I think they eventually numbered around 5,000 over the years.

They ranged over just about any topic you can think of. Dave was a great student of history and we talked about that a lot. He knew more about the Civil War than anyone I´ve ever known. He inspired me to study history, which I have done in retirement. It was truly wonderful to read an historical book at the same time Dave was reading it and to compare observations.

But a lot of our e-mails were just about the events of the day. There were a lot of e-mails about family. We conversed for weeks about what kind of shoes his grandson Andrew would need to survive a Midwest winter before he went off to Wisconsin. I sent probably dozens of pictures of ducks weathering a Minnesota winter in open water that he shared with his granddaughter Emma. Those were, looking back, some of the very best conversations we had.

We talked an awful lot about sports. It was never too early or late in the season to talk about the 49ers. I can´t imagine that the 49ers ever had a more passionate fan than Dave. In the sporting world there was nothing that made Dave happier than a 49ers win, or a Rams loss. I guess you could say the same about Cal, although I think that USC losing was an even happier event than Cal winning. More than once he reminisced about Cal´s appearance in the 1959 Rose Bowl and attending the game with the love of his life, Yvonne.

If you had a time machine, wouldn´t you give just about anything to be sitting next to the two of them in the stands that day?

Anonymous

June 27, 2022

Dave defended me in a complicated case back in the day. Not only was he possessed of a brilliant legal mind, he also brought common sense and a delightful, empathetic demeanor into play. I was down and worried but he inspired trust and confidence and sure enough, he saved the day. I knew I was in the presence of an extraordinary human being, gifted and full of heart. He remains my ultimate hero to this day. I wish his family and friends grace in their grieving and blessings on their good fortune to have had a guy like Dave in their lives. Godpseed, dear man!

MICHAEL F O"LEARY

June 15, 2022

Over the years, I had several cases with Dave Lynch. He was a great attorney and always a gentleman.

Jenny Li

June 14, 2022

Dave's office was next to mine when I was a young associate at Low, Ball & Lynch. I can still hear his voice dictating and on his speaker phone - slow, steady, and strong. Wonderful man and mentor. My condolences to his family.

Dale and Sharon Allen

June 14, 2022

Yvonne, April, Michelle and Carolyn. Dave will always be a cherished memory as a friend, mentor and a person that never failed to bring a smile to our faces when we were together.

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