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Paulette Candler Obituary

CANDLER, Paulette

Paulette Decker Candler passed away on February 18, 2024, at age 71, surrounded by her children after her battle with myelofibrosis, a rare form of blood cancer.

Paulette was born in Sioux Falls, South Dakota on January 18, 1953 to LaVerne and Erna Neuharth Decker and grew up on their family farm. After graduating from Parker High School, she moved to Washington DC to join her older sister, Patty (Decker) Arey. She then moved to Atlanta, GA upon joining Delta Air Lines in 1976 as a flight attendant, where she worked for over 45 years.

A sweet and gentle soul, she will forever be remembered for her unwavering kindness to others. She was a devoted mother to her three children, Asa VII, Callan, and Daniel and known as "Lettie" to her three grandchildren, Asa VIII, Bayne and Collins.

Paulette was preceded in death by her parents; husband, Asa Candler VI, and daughter, Baby Catherine.

She is survived by her children: Asa Candler VII and his wife, Gaylie, Callan Candler and her fiancé, Childers Adams, and Daniel Candler. She is also survived by her sister, Patty Arey and her husband, Ken; brother, Lee Decker; mother-in-law, June Candler; and four nieces and nephews; and grandchildren, Asa VIII, Bayne, and Collins Candler.

A memorial service to honor Paulette will be held at Northside United Methodist Church on Thursday, February 22, 2024 at 11:00 AM with a reception following the service at the church. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Northside United Methodist Church or Emory Winship Cancer Institute, care of the Winship Bone Marrow Transplant Fund.



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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Feb. 21, 2024.

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charles sadler

May 2, 2024

happy to see BRIARCLIFF MANSION DURING THE MAY 8TH 1986 COCA-COLA PARTY AT INMAN PARK/ CALLAN CASTLE. YOU WILL BE MISSED. PAULETTE YOU CONTRIBUTED A LOT TO THIS WORLD. CHARLES CANDLER SADLER.

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Susan K Gram

February 22, 2024

Paulette was kind and gracious to everyone. In every encounter we shared I witnessed her gentle Spirit. We were colleagues on night flights to the West Coast so that we could be with our children during the day. I enjoyed our jumpseat conversations in the middle of the night where we bonded over our love for our children. She adored her children more than life itself. Her smile which she was never without will be missed.

Carlton Davis

February 22, 2024

I first met Paulette shortly after she came to Atlanta, in the laundry room of our Apt complex. TOTAL SWEETHEART in EVERY way. Met her Sister in DC once when I arranged "Special Accommodations" for her on Pennsylvania Ave. after we'd been on the same flight . Paulette was SPECIAL in EVERY way. She will be missed by all who were blessed to have known her. God bless, keep and comfort her family

Mary long

February 21, 2024

Her sweet pinchable cheeks and her lovely smile. She was the sweetest person ever.

Neil Jordan

February 21, 2024

Great neighbor and friend growing up. Our parents did some farming together in earlier years so spent some time together. So sorry to hear of her loss.

Mimi & Don Petrie

February 20, 2024

We send our heartfelt condolences to all the Candlers...we remember Paulette and how kind and friendly she was.

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