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Chloë Constance Kriebel Metcalf

1987 - 2024

Chloë Constance Kriebel Metcalf obituary, 1987-2024, Northampton, MA

Chloë Metcalf Obituary

Chloë Constance Kriebel Metcalf

Northampton, MA - Chloë Constance Kriebel Metcalf died in her home in Kawasaki, Japan, on February 29, 2024, from a suddenly acute illness. She was thirty-six years old. It is fitting that she died on a rare date, as she was an extraordinary person.

Chloë was born in Seattle, Washington, but grew up in Northampton, where she attended the Smith College Campus School through grade six, the Williston Northampton School through grade eight, and then Northampton High School, from which she graduated as co-valedictorian in 2006. While she was in high school, she received special permission to take courses at Smith College, including four years of intensive Japanese, and most school days commuted up and down Elm Street on a kick scooter. After high school she moved to Montreal to study at McGill University, where she majored in biology and linguistics with a minor in Japanese. A junior year abroad at Sofia University in Tokyo was funded in part by a Japanese government grant awarded for her exceptional fluency. She returned to McGill for her senior year, which was to be her last in the western hemisphere. After graduating in 2010, she moved to Yokohama to work as a translator by day and pursue her musical ambitions as a rock songwriter and performer by night.

She was at work on the 43rd floor of her office building in Yokohama when the Tohoku earthquake hit in 2011. The building swayed and furniture rolled across floors. It was days before employees could safely be allowed to leave. They slept on the floor and ate from vending machines. Later she evacuated for a time to Osaka to avoid radiation from the nuclear plant meltdown in Fukushima. None of this undermined her resolve to make a life in Japan.

Throughout her life Chloë was driven by intense enthusiasms, creativity, and determination. Her passions included singing, acting, writing, playing the piano, drawing, costume design and sewing, botany, photography, coin collecting, art-rock music, science fiction, travel, and esoteric mysticism. She maintained a website of translations of her favorite Japanese band's song lyrics, which acquired an international following and led to her creating a side business helping non-Japanese fans acquire concert tickets and CDs, and acting as a tour guide for their visits to Japan. These friends hosted her in turn, notably for a tour of Russia in which she performed with dancer Amy Gray in a number of cities including St. Petersburg.

The first band she fronted in Japan was called The The Kuro, but she hadn't yet found the musicians who could help her fully realize her complex compositions. That changed after she met Kazunari Ishizaka, who approached her after one of her performances to say, "I am the guitarist you need." She agreed, and their musical and personal collaboration, and the group Alien Idol which they founded together, was the great satisfaction of her creative life.

Chafing at the strictures of corporate employment, she came to work for years as a freelance translator, on projects as diverse as manga and scientific textbooks. At the time of her death she held what she described as her dream job with the company Abracadabra, translating Japanese pop culture materials for international fans.

Chloë's parents, George Kriebel and Sarah Metcalf, and her brother Simon Metcalf, traveled to Japan after learning of Chloë's death to meet with her friends and deal with her affairs. A traditional Japanese cremation was performed there, along with a memorial service, which was gratifyingly well-attended. Her many mourners spoke of her talents, intellect, dramatic flair, beauty, charisma and kindness.

In addition to her immediate family, Chloë is survived by aunts, uncles and numerous cousins.

A local memorial service will be held on Saturday, May 11, at 1:30 p.m. at the Unitarian Society of Northampton and Florence, which Chloë attended throughout her childhood and youth. All are welcome.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily Hampshire Gazette on Apr. 12, 2024.

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Laura

September 12, 2025

Today I am visiting the tree in the Japanese gardens in the botanical gardens in Montreal where we scattered some of her ashes. Remembering hanging out with her in Montreal like it was yesterday. I´m happy to have a tree in a beautiful place to go visit her and spend time with her memory.

July 14, 2025

Chloe was my neighbor in Yokohama.
And the best friend I had in Japan.
The only person I was able to talk to for hours and I had the deep feeling we could understand each other as I never felt about anybody else before.
She was a genius really. The only one I ever met. She would learn anything really fast and the songs she wrote and composed are a proof of her talent. Someone who could feel everything and everybody very deeply.

I really miss you my friend. Unfortunately life took us to different paths, so I was not able to see you in your last years, but there was no single day I did not think about you and I was hoping you would get to a better place, you would find healing and happiness your own way. It seems you found it now.

Love forever

Kit Langdon

May 12, 2024

Having lost a grown child I know the pain will not go away but love and connection remain forever! Play her music and songs and you will keep her close and with you.Much love to you as you learn to live with missing someone so close to your heart.Kit Langdon

Thona Pappas

May 5, 2024

I will remember Chloe as a young woman with extraordinary intelligence passion, intensity, and talent expressed through her many interests. When she walked into a room, one took notice of her tall, willowy figure, her striking good looks, and her singular fashion statements. I was struck by her purpose and commitment, her ability to follow her dreams and make a fascinating and rich life for herself in Japan. I am so very sad that I won´t get to see her continue to grow and evolve. My deepest sympathy goes to her family, her friends, and those whose lives she touched. Chloe, your life was far too short, but I will remember you.

Marsha Lieberman

April 13, 2024

Sarah, George, Simon-just receiving this heartbreaking news. Many an unforgettable hour was spent with Chloe, from early childhood forward. Sending so much love to you all.
Marsha, Molly, Abby

Wendy and Freeman Stein

April 13, 2024

Our hearts ache for Sarah, Simon, and George. Most of our recollections of Chloe are from the time Chloe was quite young. Even then she was a powerful and independent person.

Dott Martin

April 13, 2024

Sarah
So very sorry for your loss. After reading her obituary I can see how devastating your loss was as Chloe truly seemed a remarkable young woman with many gifts. Please accept my sympathy.
Dott Martin

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