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Sgt. Jeremiah "Jay" Holmes
1976 - 2004
Sgt. Jeremiah "Jay" Holmes
1976 - 2004
Obituary
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BORN
1976
DIED
2004
Jeremiah Holmes Obituary
Born in Dover, NH April 27, 1976 the son of Sheila Allard Holmes and Mark Keating. He was a 1994 graduate of Noble High School where he was on the swim team, the debate team, and the band.
Prior to being called to active duty he was a manufacturers representative in the seacoast area for the Bobrow Palumbo Sales Inc.
Jay loved his wife, son & family and enjoyed riding his “Harley”, playing horseshoes, swimming and building things with his dad, Dick.
After high school he served with the U. S. Army and then served with the New Hampshire Army National Guard, 744th Transportation Company and was called to active duty this past year.
He is survived by his wife Kimberly (Brodeur) Holmes, his son Kaleb Holmes both of No. Berwick, his “mom & dad” who raised him Sarah (Budd) and Richard W. Allard, Sr. of No. Berwick, his father Mark Keating of Virginia Beach, VA; brothers Michael and Kenneth Fazziola both of Attleboro, MA, Richard Allard, Jr., of Rochester, NH and sisters Selina Gately and her husband Tim of Bangor, ME, Miranda Pratt and her husband Cliff of So. Berwick, ME, Cindy Allard of Berwick, ME, Nancy Allard, of No. Berwick, ME, Nicole Allard, of Somersworth, NH, Vanessa Turgeon, of Dover, NH. He also leaves two half-sisters Whitney and Kayce Keating of Virginia Beach, VA, his paternal grandparents John and Christina Keating of Fayetteville, GA, his mother-in-law Patricia Gammon of Acton, ME, many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.
He was predeceased by his mother Sheila Allard Holmes in 1990 and an Uncle Brian K. Allard in 1987.
Relatives and friends are invited to call Tuesday from 2:00 to 4:00 and 7:00 to 9:00 p.m. at the Tasker Funeral Home, 621 Central Ave., Dover.
Funeral services with full military honors will be held Wednesday with a Mass of Christian Burial being celebrated 10:00 a.m. at St. Joseph Church, 150 Central Ave., Dover with Rev. Robert Cole, pastor and Rev. Paul Ruzzo, associate pastor as celebrants. Burial will follow at St. Mary New Cemetery, Dover Point Rd.
In lieu of flowers a trust fund is being established for his son Kaleb. Those who wish may send memorials to the Kaleb Holmes Trust, C/O Vivian Macedo, P.O Box 247, Sanbornville, NH 03872.
Please go to www.taskerfh.com for more information or to sign the on-line guest book.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Karl Napekoski
May 29, 2023
I'm remembering you today on this Memorial Day 2023. Thank you for your service and for your sacrifice.
Missy
June 30, 2018
Thank you for serving our country. You will always be remembered. Keep flying high. Thinking of you this holiday weekend. Happy Fourth Jay!!
June 3, 2013
This evening I came across this web page. I am sorry for his family's loss. May they be on the path toward healing.
Charlie Gili
April 7, 2013
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Holmes Family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to troops in Afghanistan this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of Jeremiah J. Holmes US Army Sergeant. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
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Peggy Childers
April 4, 2012
March 29, 2012
To the family and friends of Spc. Jeremiah J. Holmes:
Always remembering Jeremiah. "Some gave all." Please let me know when Jeremiah's birthday is so I can remember him on his BIRTH day.
Cindy Allard
March 30, 2012
Another year has passed on the day that we lost you. I believe we should focus on the BIRTH day and not the death day as mom said. It's just too much. Let's all try to do that for Jay-he'd want us to-we all know that. Live life to your fullest capacity. It's too important to waste another life-your own. Be strong and keep the spirit up. :)
March 29, 2012
Another year has gone by and you are still watching over us all! Much love.
July 4, 2011
On this 4th of July as we celebrate our Freedoms, we think of you and all those men and women that made the ultimate sacrifice and for those who continue to sacrifice everyday for our Freedom. Thank you to all our military and their families. You are forever in our hearts. God Bless our Military and God Bless America!
C Jacobs
May 29, 2011
Thank you Sgt. Holmes. May God bless you and your family.
March 31, 2011
I went to see you on the 29th and I feel so strongly you continue to be an angel on my shoulder. Thank you. We miss you terribly.
Peggy Childers
March 30, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Jeremiah J. Holmes:
Please accept my remembrance of Jeremiah on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Missy Libby
March 30, 2011
Jay,
Hello there. Yesterday was the anniversarry of your passing as well as my birthday. In one way I celebrate life and in another way I remember finding out that a friend died serving our country. I think of you each day that passes, knowing you are in heaven watching over everyone. Rip brother....
Jay with his sisters and brothers!
March 29, 2011
Selena Gately
March 29, 2011
Seven Years Ago you were taken from us. From the first day I met you I loved you, big brother. And even though we were separated for years when we saw each other it was like we never were. You made me laugh, we cried together, and made memories that will always be in my heart. You are in my heart every day. I love you and miss you greatly! Till we meet again! RIP big brother. You will never be forgotten. Love your sister, Selena Gately
Cindy Allard
March 29, 2011
This day is still as painful as it was 7 years ago-the day we lost Jay. He will always be remembered for his compassion, thoughtfullness, and strength. He overcame a lot of life's hurdles with his quiet determination and pride. When I think of Jay, I think of the fun, family times that we shared.
RIP Jay
L Neal
March 10, 2011
To the family of Spc. Jeremiah J. Holmes:
Please know that just as your loved one will forever remain in your hearts and minds, his sacrifice and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.
Cindy Allard
August 25, 2010
Maine had the Fallen Soldier Run on Sunday and I was proud to be there in your honor. It's devasting that we lost you to this war, but it was comforting to be among these 65 families that have lost their loved one in the war as well. Noone understands the pain like they do. We miss you each and every day and will never forget that you sacrificed your life for all of us here.
You are my inspiration to enjoy life while I have it and to enjoy the people that I have in my life. I try not to take anything for granted anymore and am grateful for what I do have. I wish more people could feel the same or, at least, to make the effort to enjoy time with their family and friends. We should never be too busy for that.
Cindy
June 20, 2010
Jay
Thinking of you always,
Aunt Sherry
Missy
June 1, 2010
Thank you for serving our country... you will be remembered forever and never forgotten! God Bless!
Carol Keith
May 31, 2010
Jay
Thank You for serving and the sacifice you made for us. May god keep you in his arms. you are a great hero in my book and i will always remember you for serving in the Army.MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND EVERYONE WHO LOST THERE LIVE KEEPING US SAFE.
Lisa G
May 31, 2010
Jay,
Today I think of all the soldiers we have lost at war but I think mostly of you. You are all true hero's who paid the ultimate sacrifice so we can be free. I will visit your grave today and pray for you. You will never be forgotten and will always be loved and missed. I thank you for all you have done for this country. You are my hero!
Cindy Allard
April 27, 2010
Today Jay would've been 34. I think of all he is missing and all that we are missing without him here with us. His laughter, his joking, his love for his family and friends - you always knew that you were important to him by his caring personality - are just some of the things we're missing. He loved spending time at his mom & dad's playing horseshoes and hanging out and he loved hanging out at camp with his best buddies as well.
I think Jay would want us all to enjoy each other and our lives with meaning. He would want us all to live our lives with meaning. He wouldn't want our lives to be filled with any bitterness or sadness.
We should all learn from Jay's example and keep anger out of our lives. We will always honor Jay for his sacrifice and we will always think of Jay with pride. I am so thankful he was in my life. Be thankful for everyone that you love that is in your life and never take it for granted. We all need each other.
Cindy Allard
Amanda Johnson
March 30, 2010
Never forgotten always loved...A wonderful father,husband,friend and Brother in Law. We miss you Jay
Missy Libby
March 29, 2010
Jay
Today I celebrate my 35th birthday as well as knowing you past away six years ago today. May your soul rest and watch over us. Thank you for being who you are and serving our country.
Peggy Childers
March 29, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Jeremiah J. Holmes:
Remembering Jeremiah on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
March 29, 2010
Today we remember with sadness the loss of our hero six years ago. We pray for Jay and all of our soldiers that made the ultimate sacrifice for our Freedom. Until we meet again, may you Rest in Peace!
March 17, 2010
Thinking of you today.... Ana
November 13, 2009
I've been thinking of you lately! You must be making a pass through to harass me! Prayed for you on Veterans Day and every day of course. Thanks for smiling down on us still...
Kenna Larra
November 12, 2009
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This is a gift! We have some wonderful sponsors who help with the costs, and only want you know that we care.
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
Cindy Allard
November 11, 2009
Today we remember Jay with pride and honor for the ultimate sacrifice he made for his family and his country. He is so missed and thought of every day.
We all get busy with our lives and sometimes forget that we may need to sacrifice ourselves-some of our time to show our friends and family how important they are to us by spending time with them.
That is what everyone should've learned by losing Jay-a brother,son,father,and friend.
Life can be hectic at times, but we should always take the time to enjoy it while we have it.
Jay lost his for all of us. We should be showing him that it's not for nothing. Take the time - make the sacrifice-LIVE LIFE-show the people that you love that they're worth the sacrifice.
Cindy
Cindy Allard
April 27, 2009
Today Jay would've been 33 years old. He loved his birthday-the presents, of course! He'd get so excited-always the kid:) I loved watching that smile come on his face when he opened a gift; especially one he was hoping for.
I will always keep the memories I have of Jay and our time together close to my heart. He taught me a lot about life-the most important being family. He'd always tell me, " My family is what it's all about."
I miss his deep laughter, his sparkling eyes and his teasing the most of all.
Love u Jay
Cindy Allard
March 31, 2009
Five years later, Jay is still remembered and missed so much by the ones that loved him. He is always in my heart and thoughts. The memories of our time together will stay precious to me forever.
Jay was the backbone of our family. He liked nothing better than being at mom and dad's playing horseshoes, having a cookout and enjoying the company of just being together.
Some of you knew Jay as a soldier, but I knew him as my brother. He filled both shoes with pride and with honor. Jay was truly a hero in our family and a hero as a soldier.
With love as always,
Cindy
missy libby
March 30, 2009
Jay
Even now you are still in my thoughts and prayers. Each year on the 29th of march I celebrate my birthday and thank you for what you did for our country. We miss you!
Missy
Peggy Childers
March 29, 2009
To the family of Spc. Jeremiah J. Holmes:
Jeremiah gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Uncle Jay we love you & miss you
Jessie Young
February 20, 2009
Cindy Allard
November 11, 2008
Today is a day that we remember you as a veteran. You are always remembered, but this is the day that we honor those who've served our country. You made the ultimate sacrifice by serving this country and I am proud of you, but the grief that we've had to endure by losing you has been, yet, another of our sacrifices.
You were the pride of our family and we will always remember you with a bittersweet smile. We will always hold on to the memories that you left us with.
Love
Cindy
Gary Lytle
September 18, 2008
As a member of the 744th and of first platoon I can only say that I miss Jay and think about him everyday. He was and will always be a good friend and a wonderful person.
Gary
Cindy Allard
August 25, 2008
I wanted to let everyone know that we were at the fallen soldier marathon run that was done in memory of every soldier in every state across the country. At every mile, there was a marker for each soldier and we stood by yours-mom, dad, Nancy, Ron and I. We met another family that lost their son and brother, also.
It was nice to see so many people that felt this was an important thing to do. It was a very emotional time and you, as every soldier that has lost their lives over there, are missed by their own families.
I am proud to call you my brother. You will always be my hero.
Love Cindy
Cindy Allard
August 20, 2008
You are still so missed by your family-mom & dad and your sisters think of you every time we all get together. I know that you're somehow by our side with your inner strength and support. You will always be remembered by us-some sad memories; but others are great memories. I'm thankful that we do have that.
You and Justin were the two that had that contagious laugh
which had everyone else laughing even if they didn't want to. We'll never laugh like that again. You both had that knack for truly enjoying people and making them comfortable.
You made a big difference in a lot of people's lives just by knowing you. We have always been proud of you.
Miss you
Love you
Cindy
Viv
April 27, 2008
Just thinking of you on your birthday. We will light a candle today in your memory with prayers that you are in Peace with the Lord. Rest assured knowing that I have always kept my promise to you that Kim and Kaleb will always be taken care of and protected and Kaleb will know that his father is a hero. We see you everyday in Kaleb. He has your infectious laughter and mischievous smile, he is very outgoing and friendly and always willing to help, basically a mini YOU, red hair, freckles and all . We find comfort in knowing that you are always with us. Love and Prayers.
Amanda
April 15, 2008
I think of you often and will always be proud to say you were my brother in law! We just celebrated another birthday for Kaleb and I know that you'd be so proud of him and the wonderful job Kim has done raising him!
May you rest knowing Kim and Kaleb are well and that you will always be in their hearts as well as in ours.
Mary H
April 4, 2008
Jay - I have been thinking about you, Kim and Kaleb this past week. Remembering when I heard the news four years ago and all those memories of you as a little boy. I heard the song "Letters from War", by Mark Shultz for the first time the day after hearing the news of your death, and I cried knowing you would not be one of those fortunate enough to be coming home. I keep Kim and Kaleb in my prayers. I will forever remember you as the smiling little red haired boy, so caring even then. You are missed and will not be forgotten.
Lisa g
March 30, 2008
To Jay,
I cant believe it has been 4 years already. You are a true hero and will never be forgotten. I will forever remember all the times you made me laugh. Until we meet again may God hold you in the palm of his hands.
With Love Always, Lisa
What Heroes Gave
Each donned their uniform to be
Defenders of our liberty
Their mission sure, their spirits bright
Guard freedom’s home, be brave to fight
One final day each faced their call
Each gave their best enduring all
We’ll never know what they went through
But know they loved this country true
Deep down inside we should all feel
What heroes gave, their cost so real
We must stay thankful, grateful of
The gift of freedom through their love
Their loved ones bore the gravest pain
What we can’t know, some now sustain
To God I pray their pain will cease
And each will find long-lasting peace
Remember this from year to year
What heroes gave – shan’t disappear
We’ll never let their special day
Their time for honor slip away
These brave fought for a nation free
If not for them, where would we be?
March 29, 2008
Today was a sad day for all of us. I know it was the Lord's Will, but it is still painful for all of us. You will never be forgotten. We see you in Kaleb's eyes, we hear your infectious laugh in Kaleb's laughter, we see that mischievous smile on Kaleb's face. You are forever our hero. God Bless You.
Debra Estep
March 29, 2008
To the family and friends of Jeremiah. Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers today.
May God and His Angels surround you and bring you comfort.
xo xo
Deb
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
http://remembering-the-fallen.blogspot.com/
Cindy Allard
March 29, 2008
Jay, these last four years have been so empty without you in them. It doesn't seem possible that you've been gone for this long. My memories of all our family outings and holidays and just time spent together will always be in my heart and thoughts. I miss you so much. Our family has a big hole in it without you in it. We had you for twenty-eight years and I am very thankful for that, at least. We watched you grow into the fine young man that you were when you were taken from us.
You were always thinking of us and made us aware of how important each of us were in your life. We always felt the same about you as well. You made sure that everyone knew how important mom and dad were to you. They cared for you and loved you as much as you were really their own son. That's why you called them mom and dad. They were as proud of you as you were of them. We all had a special bond because of the pain that we went through losing your biological mom and your Uncle Brian. Your cousin Justin left our family as well and I hope you are taking care of him along with your mom and others that we have lost.
We miss you all as if it all happened yesterday, because to us-your family-it did. You were always a hero to us even before you died for our country. You sacrificed your life for us all and we will never forget that. We will always think of you with a mixture of happiness and sadness. Mom, dad, Nancy, Nicole and Vanessa and I have thought of you every day for four years wishing you were still here.
Rest in peace, my brother
Our tears are still flowing over the sadness we feel over losing you.
Love you forever
Cindy
woody collins
March 25, 2008
Kim and Kaleb, I know it has been four years, but I just found out today so it feels like it just happend. I knew jay from high school and he was such a respectable kid back then. He really grew up into a solid man. my condolences
March 25, 2008
It's hard to believe that it's been almost 4 years since you were called back home to be with the Lord. I know you are watching over all of us. You will never be forgotten, you will live on in all of us who knew and loved you. We will always honor your memory, you are our hero. Kaleb is a spitting image of you right down to the laughter. He loves to make everyone laugh. He knows his Daddy was a hero and is always watching over him. God Bless You, Jay, you are forever our hero.
March 25, 2008
I can't believe it's been 4 years since you have been gone. I do still carry the pain yet am comforted by the knowledge that you are watching as so many of us have now gone in our separate directions. We all are bound together by YOU and always will be.
I remember our last conversation that morning and how we laughed about nothing really, trying to allay each others' nerves and be cool....joking around about there being no porta johns around.... I still smile thinking about it.
Knowing you and having the opportunity work and live with you changed me for the better. I still think about you every day and count my blessings that I had the time I had with you. Kaleb brings me such joy and I see you in him. You were an amazing soldier and amazing friend.
March 23, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Holmes!
Melissa Libby
March 20, 2008
Jay
I has been almost 4 Years since you have been gone.... I only wish I had gotten to know you more before you left. You were a wonderful person in high school. I remember you laughter like it was yesterday! Thank you for everything you did for our country!
Kim and Caleb!!
My god how Caleb has grown. Hes a spitten imagine of Jay. He is a very handsome boy! You and your family are in my thoughts each night. Take care!
Always
melissa
Fred Brooks
January 4, 2008
Jay will never be forgotten.
God Bless to Kim & Kaleb.
This USA citizen is forever greatful for his service and ulitmate sacrifice
Scott Rider
December 5, 2007
May his ultimate sacrifice never be forgotten.
Cindy Allard
November 22, 2007
Today is Thanksgiving-a day of giving thanks for all the blessings in our lives. I have always been thankful for having you in my life and knowing what a fine man you were. You were our strength. You always reminded us of how important family was to you-mom and dad, your sisters and brothers and then your son. I wish I could say that things turned out the way you would've liked, but I can't. Without you and Justin, our family has never been the same. Our loss is significant and having you both in our hearts and memories is not the same as having you with us. I am thankful for those memories, though. I just wish we could've had many more years of them. Thanks for being the brother that I have always been proud of and thanks for leaving us with those special memories.
Love you forever,
Cindy
Lisa G
November 10, 2007
A Soldier has fallen
He will not be forgotten
His spirit dwells in those
Whose lives he touched
He has lead us
He has taught us
He has shown us the way
He gave us all of himself
Because he was made that way
He gave birth to an idea
That will never go away
He did this all
To save us some day
As all heroes do.
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
Jay, thinking of you as Veterans Day approaches. You will live in my heart forever.
Kim and Kaleb,
Thinking of you as well. Kaleb must be getting so big. I hope all is well with you. You are in my thoughts and prayers always.
Love, Lisa
Nancy Jusseaume
September 11, 2007
Jay,
This is the day that started it all...I wonder often why you had to go though I already know the answer. God needed you as his angel to help those of us still here on Earth and to keep this country strong. I am so proud of you each day. All my love, your sister, Nancy
rachel vetter redfearn
September 11, 2007
Thinking of you on this day..the 6th anniv of 9/11.....
rachel
kevin coulombe
September 10, 2007
Theres not a day passes that i dont think of Spc Holmes. I didnt know him well, but I will always honor him for his sacrifice
Spc. kevin Coulombe
744TC 3rd platoon
August 8, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Lisa Gelestino
July 16, 2007
Kim and Kaleb, I went and visited Jay at the cemetary a few weeks ago. Have been thinking of him and all of you a lot. Jay is a true hero to so many. He is greatly loved and missed. I hope the two of you are doing well. I thank you again for the pictures of Kaleb you had sent me a few months back. He is a mini Jay. Im sure each time you look at that little handsome guy you see Jay as I did in those photos. He looks just like him. God Bless you and know I think of you.
Cindy Allard
July 14, 2007
Jay, I still miss you so much. Our lives are not the same without you and Justin. There are no more horseshoe games, no more real laughter and no more teasing each other. Our lives without the both of you has become such a struggle to crawl out of the emptiness it has become. We'll never have the answers we hope for, but we do have the memories of being together while we could. Rest in peace, my true brother.
Love Cindy
July 9, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Holmses and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless you all!!
Kim Holmes
April 8, 2007
Well, my darling I can't believe it but our baby turned 4 years old today. Some times it feels like just yesterday that he was just a baby in our arms. Everyday it amaizes me how big he is getting, he is turning into such a little man. He has your same infectious laugh and smile. He knows when mommy is upset and needs to cheer me up, make me laugh, or just wipe my tears. Everytime that I look in those little blue eyes I see you looking back. It has been so tough these last 3 years not having you around for all these special moments. I just thank you for giving me this little part of you to be with me through all of this. I don't think that I could have made it through without him beside me. It gives me a little comfort to know that you are up there watching over us. I just hope that you know what a great little man he is becoming. I miss you so much. I love always & forever.
To all those who have left there well wishes and prayers, thank you it means no much to me.
Mark Butler
March 30, 2007
I was just recently sent the link to the radio tribute of Jay from His sister Nancy. It is so tough to think that it has already been 3 yrs since God took you away Jay.
I just now had a quiet moment where I could listen to the radio clip. I also knew that I needed to gain the courage to listen, due to I knew I would be overwhelemed with emotion. Tonight, as I watched the news, there was a very touching segment on a father who just returned home from Iraq and surprised his 5 yr old son @ school. The son was filled with emotion and ran to daddy jumped in his arms and started crying. I too shed a tear, and thinking about Jay and Caleb. I wish with all my heart that Caleb would have been able to do that with his father. But, Caleb will grow knowing his father well through many stories from his mother, family and friends and knowing that his dad will always be watching over him.
God Bless
Mark
Melissa Libby
March 30, 2007
A Soldier
There is discipline in A Soldier
you can see it when he walks,
There is honor in A Soldier
you hear it when he talks.
There is courage in A Soldier
you can see it in his eyes,
There is loyalty in A Soldier
that he will not compromise.
There is something in A Soldier
that makes him stand apart,
There is strength in A Soldier
that beats from his heart.
A Soldier isn't a title any man
can be hired to do,
A Soldier is the soul of that man
buried deep inside of you.
A Soldier's job isn't finished after
an 8 hour day or a 40 hour week,
A Soldier is always A Soldier
even while he sleeps.
A Soldier serves his country first
and his life is left behind,
A Soldier has to sacrifice what
comes first in a civilian's mind.
If you are civilian -
I am saying this to you.....
next time you see A Soldier
remember what they do.
A Soldier is the reason our land
is 'Home of the free',
A Soldier is the one that is brave
protecting you and me.
If you are A Soldier -
I am saying this to you.....
Thank God for EVERY SOLDIER
Thank God for what YOU do!
Jay I can not belive that 3 years have past since you left. I want to thank you for what you choose to be. Thank you for protecting our country. I know you are looking down apon us and smiling.
Kim and Kaleb,
The two of you are in our thoughts always. Keep your chin up and stay strong! Live life each day to the fullest! Hugs and kisses to you.
always
Missy and Family
Lisa Gelestino
March 29, 2007
Jay, I cannot believe today is 3 years since you left us. You are in my heart, thoughts, and prayers.What you have done for all of us and for our country will never go unnoticed or ever be forgotten. You are a true hero. I think of you all the time and it brings a smile to my face remembering all the fun times we shared while we were growing up. But it also saddens me when I think of the loss of you and when I think of your wife and child left behind. I know that someday we will all be together again sharing the laughter we once shared but for now I will hold onto the beautiful memories we have created. Until we meet again may God hold you in the palm of his hand. Thank you Jay for the sacrifice, for all you have done for America, for all you have done for all of us....You will live in my heart forever.
To Kim and Kaleb,
You are in my heart, thoughts and prayers as well. I hope that you are staying strong and remembering the good times today. I know you will always have a hugh whole in your hearts but you will always have a special hero in your lives, an Angel watching over you. Be proud your husband and Kaleb's Dad he has touched so many lives and will live in our hearts forever. God Bless you.
Love Always,
Lisa
Selena Gately
March 29, 2007
Jay
I can not believe it has been 3 long years without you! We miss you as much as the first day! Your smile, laughter and great personality still lingers in our hearts! You are an awesome brother and wish you were still here every day! You touched so many hearts! You are my brother, my friend and my HERO.
Kim and Kaleb we love you and miss you both as well. Hope to you soon!
Love, Selena Gately
Allison, Chris, Lauren & Alexis Goff
March 29, 2007
Jay - I cant believe it has been 3 years since you were taken from us! We still miss as much today as the first day - we can still hear that goofy laugh of yours that always made everyone else laugh too! You will always be a part of our thoughts and heart, we miss you and love you so much!!!!
Kristina Durand
March 29, 2007
Thank you
Garnet Jenkins
March 29, 2007
In Remembrance of this Fine Young Soldier, Spc. Jeremiah J. Holmes, on the 3rd anniversary of the day he gave his life for our Country and for Freedom. With a multitude of Thanks for his Courage, Dedication and Service.
There will Never Be Enough Ways, to Humbly Thank these Heroes, for their Supreme Sacrifice, my brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends." - John 15:13
May you find peace in knowing the love and memories you have of Jeremiah, will remain in your heart forever and that this Country Remembers his sacrifice.
I am So Deeply Sorry for your loss.
Nancy Jusseaume
March 26, 2007
Just wanted to let people know:Thursday marks the third anniversary of Jay's death. Last Spring, an anonymous listener of Positive FM (89.3FM), made a monthly donation to the station during their fundraising drive. As background: A Day Sponsor provides a full day of programming on Positive 89.3 with a gift of $125 monthly; this is a non-profit, Christian radio station based out of Freeport, ME. This was in response to an email I had sent to the station and as the contact, an employee from the station called me to discuss Jay's time here on Earth. As a result of that brief conversation, a 30-second announcement was to be created to honor him. Throughout the day on Thursday, March 29th, 2007, that announcement will air 6 times. You can listen in at 89.3FM. I have also requested an mp3 of the announcement, so if you cannot listen on Thursday, I will be happy to forward it to you - just let me know! Feel free to forward this on to anyone you think may like to know.
Love,
Nancy
Lisa Gelestino
February 6, 2007
I was just sitting here listing to the radio and Jeremiah was a Bullfrog came on. I remember when we were kids we used to sing this to Jay. It brought back alot of fun memories of us playing at the farm. He was such a fun kid. We always had so many laughs. I stop by the cemetary a lot and say a pray for him and the rest of the family. He was such a riot to hang out with. I will always carry the memories and times shared with him and the rest of the cousins deep within my heart. I know Jay is watching over everyone and Im sure he is very proud of Kaleb. God Bless.
Cindy Allard
January 13, 2007
Somehow we survived another holiday season without you and Justin. A lot of it is a blur. I miss you both sooooo very much. I'm empty and sad a lot during my days. Losing you both has been unbearable to deal with. I don't know why this had to happen, but we have no choice but to keep on living. I am always thinking of you both and will never forget all the laughs we shared. The private moments of closeness we had will always be in my heart. Rest in peace, my brother and my son. I will always think of you with smiles and tears.
Love Cindy and mom
Mark Butler
September 21, 2006
Jay,
As I was sittig here at work, something made me think of you. I am now back in Boston and need to make my way up to the cemetary soon. You always will be a great gift to all those whom lives you touched. I thank you for your true dedication to our country and to your family. I have been to other sites that have blogs about you and I read one of the most touching. It was about how a soldier that you knew would always enjoy you coming into the barracks with a huge smile every time you learned more information about Caleb. Well my friend, I know I feel much better knowing you are watching over us.
Take Care Jay,
Mark
Jason Cole
September 13, 2006
Jay, just wanted to let you know I still stop by everytime I drive by the cemetery. Your always in our thoughts.
Cindy Allard
September 12, 2006
I couldn't get to the computer yesterday, but I was thinking of you as usual. 9-11 is the main reason you were sent to Iraq and the pain of losing you will never go away. I'll miss you always and will always love you
Cindy Allard
May 31, 2006
Two years ago you sacrificed your life for us and there wasn't a better time than Memorial Day for everyone to remember that. I am proud of you as I have always been. I will remember and honor what you have done for this country and our family. You are forever missed and loved.
Bruce and Karen Thurston
May 22, 2006
If he can stand in battle to ensure our freedom,
We can stand in grief with his family to honor him……
In Remembrance of Sgt. Jeremiah Holmes,
To the Holmes Family, our sincerest and heartfelt condolences are extended to you for the loss you have endured. We pray that in time grief will turn to pride and the pain of loss will be replaced with peace in knowing your loved one is in the hands of the Lord.
For every fallen hero, there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us that freedom is a cherished gift and it is not without sacrifice.
May you take comfort in knowing that many families across this great nation grieve with you in your time of sadness.
Our prayers are with you for peace and healing.
Sincerely,
Blue Star Mothers of New Hampshire
Joseph Whitney
April 5, 2006
You will be greatly missed.
Melissa Libby
March 22, 2006
Jay
Hello there. I can not belive that its been almost 2 years since you have left here. I see Kim and Kaleb in the store here and there and see what a young man your son is becomming. He looks just like his daddy. Thank you Jay for the hero you are... thank you for all you did to support this country. I am greatful that I knew you in high school and was able to meet back up with you afterwards threw Krista and Billy. God bless you.
Kim
God bless you and Kaleb. I hope that as the days go by that things are getting better. I know Jay is looking down on the two of you. I pray for your family each nite. I see a wonderful job you are doing with Kaleb. He is such a handsome lil man. Just like his daddy. Take care and be safe. Your in my thoughts always
Love Melissa
ssg Scott Robbins
January 11, 2006
Jay
I can't believe we finally got through the time in Iraq. i still remember the day you were taken from us. The absence that the 744th had to overcome was unbearable, but somehow you picked every one of us up and guided us through the hard times of then and helped us to overcome the trials of what was to come.
Thank You My Friend
SSG Scott Robbins
Danielle
January 11, 2006
I still can't believe that you're gone. I try to make sense of it, but how do you make sense of something that doesn't make sense at all? I wish that I hadn't lost touch with you, and that I could offer something more to Kim and your son than prayers, but those are all that I have. I know we will all meet again, and that you, and your Mom, and Justin are together. At least there's that. We miss you, Jay. Godspeed.
Jon Worrall
January 11, 2006
My prayers are with you and your family. I wish I had known you. I knew several over there as I was in country from March 04 to Jan 05. I was medivaced out and still don't understand how I made it out and others didn't.
Go with God my friend.
Chief
Steve Pickens
January 11, 2006
May God help and keep you.
Cindy Allard
January 9, 2006
Jay, it doesn't seem possible that Justin is there with you. I don't know how I'm getting through these days. I'm sad all the time and want you both-all-back with us. Stay with Justin; hold him close to all of you. Watch over him and ask him why this happened. Am I supposed to understand? The questions are unbearable, the emptiness is overwhelming and the sadness is drowning me. None of you were supposed to leave us. Thank God for the memories that we do have and I hope you are watching over the rest of us. You are all in my hearts every single day. I need all of your strength. I love and miss you all.
Cindy
Mark Butler
November 23, 2005
Jay-
I just wanted to say that you and your family are always in my prayers. I feel very blessed and thankful to know that you are watching over us. As I moved from Boston to Chicago a yr ago to be with my partner, he has seen me read this site every time a new entry is made and always asks more and more about you. Although we drifted apart after high school, I will always remember many good times and talks we had. You are truly and always will be a very unique person.
Mark
Nancy Jusseaume
November 22, 2005
Jay, Not a day goes by that I still do not think of you, your mother, your Uncle Brian and now your cousin Justin. I know you are all together and watching over the rest of us. Please keep doing so! We know we will all be together again someday - until, holidays especially are tough. This Thanksgiving is going to be the hardest yet. At least we are still getting together in honor of all of you and those of us still needing healing and assistance. Who's going to mash the potatoes? Who will sit in front of the TV watching football with me? And Justin, not there to tease about watching 12 consecutive episodes of "A Christmas Story"? Wow, has Kaleb gotten bigger! He looks so much like you. It's a blessing, yet sad because we do not get to see him as much as when you were alive. Miss you so much!! Your sister, Nancy
Jamie Graves
October 8, 2005
God Bless~(Jamie,Navy wife)
Jenn Kelley
July 13, 2005
I just wanted to write and tell you that we still think of you and your family. I grew up next to Jay for a few years in Dover.My brother,Jim, and Jay used to play together. He was always so happy and smiling no matter what was going on. He was a great kid as well as a great adult. our condolences and our thoughts and prayers are always with you.
Selena Gately
April 4, 2005
Jay,
I (we) can not believe it has been a year now since you were taking from us all. I (we) love you so much and miss you a lot. It is rough at times, but I know that you would want us all to move on...and we will meet again someday. We could never forget you, you will always be in out hearts! Kim and kaleb we love you guys and will see you soon. You are both very strong. Hang in there and know that we will always be here for you. Love Selena (and Tim of course)
Kim Holmes
March 30, 2005
Jay my love I can't believe that it's already been a year since you were stolen from us. It's been tough here without you but Kaleb and I are doing ok. I still miss you like crazy every day but I take comfort in knowing that you will always be with me in spirit and through our handsom son. I hope you liked your memorial I know you were there I could just feel your presence. We all miss you so much every day. I love you so much and always will.
richard allard
February 17, 2005
Jay, I Finally Have The Strength To Say Something To You. I Know It's Been Almost A Year Now, But Times Have Been Very Tough Here Without You,I Miss U So Much. U Was Like A Younger Brother To Me,Especially When I Lost My One And Only Brother I Had. U Filled His Shoes In My Heart, And Made Me Laugh Like He Used To Do. What A Loss........ To Me. Both Of U........
All I Can Say Is I Miss U Both Dearly..... And Think Of U And Brian(My Bro's) Every Day In My Life, I Shed A Tear Everyday Thinking About U Both So Much... And Your Mom.,(My Sis.)And All U You Have Done For Our Country, (All U Soliders.....)
Tell God That This Country Still Needs Help, Please.... And Someday We Will All Be Together Again Someday. I Know U All R Up There Looking After All Of Us Cause I Can Feel It In My Heart., I Look/Think About U All Everyday, U All Give Me That Power That I Need To Go On From Day To Day.
Just Want U To Know That I Wear Your Dog Tag's Every Day Of My Life Since U Have Past, And The Fallen Solider Pin, I Wear Them Both With Very Much Proud. And U Will Never Leave My Heart. I Had To Write 3 Letters Now To Let U All Go, And It Sure Does Not Get Easier Each Time I Had To Deal With This,(All The Pain) But It's Something That I Have To Accept,And Get Over With,
To This Day. (But I Will.) I Can Not Get That Picture Out Of My Head, The Last Time I Saw U @ Christmas,(2003)And When We Talked On The Phone, The Night When The Pats Won The Super Bowl....(2004) Well Brother They Did It Again, They Won The Super Bowl Again (2005) BACK TO BACK!!!!!!!!
3 Out Of The Last 4 years!!!!!!!!
Wish U Were Here!!!!!!!!!
REALLY MISS U SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!
Sgt, Jeremiah Holmes
And Very Proud Of You!!!!!!!!
Till I See U Again.....Miss U So Much.
Marie Dube
February 15, 2005
Hi Jay,
I was just writing in Joey's guest book and thought I would just let you know that you are always on everyone's mind. We think of you and hope that you are at peace. I know that you and Joe are probably have a grand old time and I pray that you will take care of each other. You should be proud of your life and know that even though it ended so soon that your legacy will continue in Kaleb. He is a beautiful little guy and I know that he is a great comfort to your family. We miss you and someday everyone will be together again.
Love to you Marie
Amanda Johnson
December 24, 2004
Jay,
Well it is now Christmas morning,I Can think of many things that are missed at this time of year when you've lost a loved one.There's also great memories and one that always makes me smile is the time you gave Timmothy a ride on the Harley for his birthday!I don't think you ever knew that made it the best birthday present ever in his eyes.He still talks about it at times and has a picture of you guys on the bike.
We miss you,Merry Christmas!
Amanda,Ron,Timmothy and Breanna
Alice Seidel
December 23, 2004
Jeremiah,
I never knew you in this life; but was touched so last spring when there you were on the front page of the newspaper. I have a son your age who gives me untold joy.
I wish you Merry Christmas and to your loved ones too.
They will see you again someday.
Kimberly Holmes
December 23, 2004
Jay my love I can't believe that it has been this long already it seems like just yesterday we were celebrating our sons first Christmas. I know that you are watching over us so you know how amaizing your son is. He keeps me laughing all the time just like you. He cheers me up when I'm sad and calms me when I'm wound up. We miss you so much sweetie but I know that we will see you again someday. I see you everyday in the little man you gave me. I am so glad to have had you in my life even though it was not long enough. You have made such an impact on so many people and you didn't even know it. Kaleb has the same infectious laugh that you had, and people are just drawn to him just like you. Please rest my darling and know that I will try my hardest to make sure that our son is a good of a man that his father was. I love you and miss you dearly. Merry Christmas
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