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Pamela Duff Obituary
Lebanon, NH - Pamela J. Duff, 79, was passed on to the lord after leaving the loving tender hands and staff at APD, and family by her side on February 17, 2026. Pamela leaves her husband of 59 years, Rodney Duff Sr., her sons Rodney Duff Jr. of Lebanon and Douglas Duff & wife Jennifer of New Boston, NH, grandchildren Mckenna Duff, Payton Duff, Brian Duff, Dayln Duff, and Alyissa Duff, along with five great grandchildren.
Pam loved to travel and visits to San Francisco, CA, Reno, NV, Tennessee, Georgia and several trips to Florida. She loved camping and driving throughout New England. She worked in retail stores; Grants, Riches, K-Mart, and retired from UniFirst, gathering friends along the way. She was a kind soul and loved the children around her.
She also leaves behind her brother Robert Merill of West Lebanon, sister Patricia Marr of Newport, and a sister Sally Lambert of Tennessee. She was predeceased by her parents Joe & Helen Merill, two brothers Joe Merill and Rick Merill, and two sisters Betsy Taft and Roberta Durgin.
A graveside service will be announced later this year.
An online guest book is available to leave a message of condolence for Pamela's family by visiting www.rickerfuneralhome.com
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ROBERT PLANTE
February 24, 2026
I WILL MISS YOU A GREAT DEAL YOUR IN MY LOVING
PRAYER'S+HEART HAD GREAT TIME'S WITH YOU
AND RODNEY DUFF MAY PEACE BE WITH YOU GOD BLESS
AND WILL BE SAYING LOT'S OF PRAYER'S IN YOUR
MEMORY: ROBERT PLANTE CLASS OF 66' LEBANON,N.H.
HIGH SCHOOL
Tina
February 23, 2026
Being a favorite aunt is role that she held! She was an amazing person married to an amazing man! They were wonderful people to call family! God only knows how much she will be missed! I pray that she is welcomed by those who have left us as well!
She being a betting gal loved her casinos! The joy she had ripping a ticket or just playing in general!
The many a nights spent with them as children will always be a favorite part of my foundation!
I am beyond blessed to have such amazing family!
Uncle Rod you own my heart! I am deeply sorry for your loss! Rodney, Douglas, Jen, McKenna, Peyton, Alyssa, Brian, and Dalyn you were all loved by your Keiko!
With my heart and soul I love you all!
Tina (Durgin) Machado
Skip Auten
February 23, 2026
Sorry to hear that Pam has left us. I really enjoyed her at the last high school reunion that she attended after not having seen her since I left Hanover in 1962.
Parker L Argent JR
February 21, 2026
My sincere condolences to her family and friends. Pam and Rodney were great friends.
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