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Sonny Sampler Obituary

Spc. Sonny Gene was born December 19, 1980 in Altus, OK to Gene and Kim Sampler. He was killed Thursday, July 8, 2004 while serving in the United States Army, 1st Battalion, 26th Infantry Regiment in Samarra, Iraq. Sonny met his destiny in life early by giving his country everything he had and we are humbled by his sacrifice. His friends and family remember a young man full of joy and laughter and was truly loved by all who came in contact with him. He was especially devoted and loyal to his parents. He rests now as a hero to us all. Sonny is survived by his parents, Kim and Gene Sampler; brother, Rellon 'Skeeter' Lee Sampler and his wife Jennifer; sisters, Gina Renee Reinke, her husband Randy and their daughter Brooke, and Vicki Lynn Sampler; grandparents, Rellon and Doris Lore and Margarette Sampler; great grandmother, Gwenneth 'Jo' Jones; aunts, uncles, cousins and best friend, Dylan Toombs and his wife Lisa. Funeral services will be held 10:00 a.m. Friday, July 16th at Guardian North Chapel with burial to follow at Memorial Park Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial donations be made to: Blue Star Mothers, Sonny Sampler Memorial, P.O. Box 2306, Tulsa, OK 74101. This is a wonderful organization that sends 'Freedom Boxes' filled with daily care items, clothes, snacks and literature to our troops. GUARDIAN NORTH 11600 N. Pennsylvania 752-9292

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Published by Oklahoman on Jul. 15, 2004.

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STEPHEN EDWARD LEHEW

November 3, 2022

We are honored to remember Sonny during our Veterans' Program at ACA on November 11. It is important that we teach our children the sacrifice that some men and women made giving their all for our country!

Dennis

November 11, 2015

Sonny, I still miss your smile, you would light up a room with it, you will forever be in my thoughts and prays, Blue Spaders!

Vicki Sampler

November 9, 2015

I still love you and will always miss you. You will forever be by my side. My big brother

April 28, 2015

I will never forget you or all the precious memories we made.

Brandi

July 8, 2013

Not a day goes by that you're not missed, always in my thoughts.

Timothy Daugherty

May 25, 2013

You're missed brother.

December 19, 2012

Happy Birthday Big Brother..

Samuel Dempsey

August 4, 2012

Sonny you still cross may mind. When I here someone say gave honor to fallen solder, I think of you. Justin and me were going join but I was unable but he did. You fallowed what we were doing, it was to pay for college. I am now back in college tring to finsh and Justin is a paster. I very proud of him for what he has done and doing.I wish you could have made it to go to college, get married and have a family of your own. But God had his own plans and we are left with your memories in are heart.Thinks again see you some day.

Peggy Childers

July 31, 2012

July 8, 2012
To the family and friends of Spc. Sonny G. Sampler:
Always remembering Sonny. "Some gave all."

September 11, 2011

I didn't know Sonny, but I do know his sister and recently I've become familiar with losing someone that was part of the person you ate today. Vickie I am so very sorry for your loss and know the feeling of never knowing true happiness again, and for that I am truly sorry as well.

chanda bertrand

September 11, 2011

I didn't know Sonny, but I do know his sister and recently I've become familiar with losing someone that was part of the person you ate today. Vickie I am so very sorry for your loss and know the feeling of never knowing true happiness again, and for that I am truly sorry as well.

Chelcy Pinson

July 23, 2011

Sonny you were truly one of a kind and i feel blessed to have known you. You will always be a hero in my heart and many others. Thank you for fighting for our country's freedom with pride. Sorry you didn't make it home, but.... i thought about you and your family the day i heard that we killed Osama Bin Laden. Hopefully your family found some peace or comfort in knowing that or at least i hope so. See ya soon, r.i.p. with love. Chelcy

sam dempsy

July 22, 2011

sonny i think of quiet often it seens like a few day ago sent you left we all see you some day when i look up at the sky i think of you you were are one more loving christ man even know and there always be place in heart

vicki sampler

July 9, 2011

Hey big brother.. Sorry I didnt write you yesterday.. It was a very busy day for me but Sonny and I did go see you.. Sorry he broke one of your flags.. Mom was wrong about the # of years its only been 7.. But she was right about the fact that it never gets easier.. It almost feels like the whole world ended when u died.. Even though I have a wonderful son and I have made an ok life for myself, im still not happy. I dont think I'll ever be happy again until I see you.. I love u and think about you every second of every day.. ur baby sis

Peggy Childers

July 8, 2011

To the family and friends of Spc. Sonny G. Sampler:
Please accept my remembrance of Sonny on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

kim sampler

July 8, 2011

Hey my precious baby it's so hard to believe you have been gone for eight years now.. It still feels like yesterday. I keep waiting for it to get easier but it's still almost unbearable.. A lot has happened this year some good and some bad .. the good you we blessed with a nephew imagine with all the girls running around he sure is going to be spoiled they all love him so much I an so proud of Vicki shes doing real well with him and especially for giving us another sonny to love.. The bad I know you already know we lost grandma Lore and grandpa lore this year gma in sept. and gpa in april.. Dad and I are fine miss you more every day.. Your always in our thoughts and I know your there in everything we do.. take care of gma and gpa for me ok .. I love you very much . Forever your mom

Sonny Sampler

June 4, 2011

Sonny Sampler

June 4, 2011

just want u to see Sonny Dylan Sampler

Sonny Sampler

June 4, 2011

Shannon Williams-Austill

May 30, 2011

The flag is flying in the sky
A daily reminder of who and why
We sit here remembering them today
These heroes that now lie in their grave.

While here on earth, the bravest ones
A soldier, a mother, a daughter, a son
The father's who went far off to war
To ensure our safety and so much more

To keep our children happy and free,
Someone must do this job, you see
So, today remember the soldiers who served,
Because this is one thing they truly deserve.

The loved one's that they have left behind,
The Gold Star mothers, like your and mine
We honor them proudly, every day
Our American Soldier...Proud and Brave
By Shannon Williams-Austill

I want to thank this soldier for their sacrifice.
And, I wish to extend my deepest regards to the loved ones they have left behind. Their service to our nation, has not gone unnoticed. They are our heroes, who paid the ultimate price for us, and that is something that every American needs to be reminded of and remember everyday.
The freedom we all have, we have because of brave young men and women who made a choice to defend and serve.
Today, let me remember your loved one with you.

October 7, 2010

Sonny one week ago today we lost your grandmother. I am sure she is with you. Take care of her and I am sure she will take care of you. I love you, Aunt Tina

Peggy Childers

July 8, 2010

To the family and friends of Spc. Sonny G. Sampler:
Remembering Sonny on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Misty

July 8, 2010

You still cross my mind regularly, but today you flooded it. It's strange to be in Iraq today. It's not fair that I get to go home soon, but you weren't able to. You are missed and always will be. There is so much more I want to write, but cannot.

Christina Juengst

June 26, 2010

I loved it when we talked while you were in Kosovo. I loved it when we talked when I got to Germany. I still look at the pictures of us at the military ball and you just had to make sure we got the portrait of the naked woman in our picture(funny) and when we went to Oktoberfest and you made sure I got my beer mug to take home (you little thief ha ha. I still cry when I talk about you to my shrink she thinks it's good for me. I've been married for 5 years now but I still miss you, you'll always have that special place in my heart

Vicki Sampler

June 21, 2010

I really can't believe it has been almost a year since I wrote u. I bet u already know I'm pregnant funny thing is I'm due on ur birthday. I miss u all the time but it seems like it's worse when I really just need a friend. I guess I just need u to tell me it will all be ok. I mean life is hard. I remember when u died everyone told me it would get easier. Well everyone lied because it's been almost six years and I'm still lookin for u. It seems like every day it gets a little harder. Some days I just wanna stay in bed lock myself in my room forever cause it seems like this lif is pointless

Kenna Larra

September 28, 2009

”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,800 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another! This is not an advertisement.
Mothers and/or Fathers, of our heroes, please be aware that the Project Compassion sponsors will now help cover the costs of the portraits for you to have one - regardless if the spouse of the hero has one or not!
Contact us directly at [email protected]. or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and bless you.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
Project Compassion
P.O. Box 153
Manti, Utah 84642

vicki sampler

July 10, 2009

hey big brother whats crackin? i bet heaven is a pretty busy place these days i know here on earth sometimes it seems hard to find time to even breathe every1 is always so busy... it seems like before u died we had plenty of time for everything and since u passed we run constantly never being able to catch up... i love you always and forever your baby sis, vicki

Peggy Childers

July 8, 2009

To the family of Spc. Sonny G. Sampler:
Sonny gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

July 8, 2009

You are not forgotten Sampler. It was an honor serving with you. Rest in peace brother.

Shannon Williams-Austill

May 26, 2009

With the passing of yet another Memorial Day weekend, I'm humbly reminded that our family is not the only Gold Star family in Oklahoma. I've set aside time today to reflect on the past and remember that your family has suffered the loss of their soldier. Thank you for this soldier's service and duty. As he will always be dearly missed because he payed the ultimate sacrifice. He gave his life to protect our country and our freedom.
Sister of Spc. Jeffrey S. Henthorn (Balad, Iraq Feb. 8, 2005)

God bless this special soldier and his grieving loved ones. Be by their side in their time of need.

[email protected]

August 19, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Sampler!

Doc Combs

July 9, 2008

Hey Sonny, I found myself thinking about you today I got some pictures of your namesake last month. I wonder what all the other German kids think of my Sonny. I hope he grows up to be as cool as you.

In Memory of Sonny Gene ~ (Debra Estep)

July 8, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Sonny, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

there is the most special man alive you father you know tomarrow is fathers day

June 15, 2008

can you believe how big she is

June 15, 2008

oh look its your sister gina i took this picture over a year ago brook was wearing the army outfit grandma kimmy bought her in dc

June 15, 2008

theres baby kendal who would have thought something this pretty could come from dylan? (just kidding)

June 15, 2008

theres the most special woman alive your mother

June 15, 2008

wiskey said he wanted to join the picture

June 15, 2008

precious says hello too

June 15, 2008

brook again isnt she beautiful

June 15, 2008

your niece brook she sais whats up uncle sonny

June 15, 2008

Denarius Allen (USArmy-Retired)

April 1, 2008

Spc. Sampler, It was an honor and a privilege to serve with the likes of yourself and Garmback in Schweinfurt, I'll miss you both; we all had some really good times and really trying times, I'll always remember your laughter when i would say, "alright troops, let's keep it real like government steel"!!. I'll always have you in my heart lil brother, that's what all the guys from the mortar platoon where to me, my Brothers.....ALPHA 7 requesting permission to exit the net..OUT.

Renee (Sampler) Barlow

March 28, 2008

Sonny,
I never got to sign the guest book back in July 2004 but I wanted to say "Thank You" for serving your country; You were a brave soldier and the Sampler family had many great soldiers to serve their country which your name is proudly listed.

We love you and know your in Heaven. I did come to your funeral and was there for you and your family. No matter how many days or years go by we will never forget you or your sacrifice you did for us all..I wish you were still here with your family but God needed another Angel. I know you watch over them every day...

Gene, Kim, Gina, Skeeter, and Vicki..my thoughts are prayers are still with you daily as you miss your son, brother...I just wanted you to know the Sampler/Barlow family in Texas love you all...

We will see you again someday in Heaven...love your cousin...

Lisa Toombs

December 19, 2007

Today has been a hard day. I miss you!!!! I want to call and talk to you and tell you things I can't tell anyone else. I want to call you and ask you for help to get Dylan something for Christmas. I could go on and on. I just want to see you and talk to you one more time. I want you to see and hug and love on Kyndal. I want you back!!!!!

August 10, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

Your Favorite Aunt Tina Johnson

July 11, 2007

Hey Sonny, I love and miss you very much! Time passes and I still think about what a great kid you are! I will see you again someday in heaven.

July 11, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Sampler and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Charlene Phillips

June 26, 2007

God Bless. I lost my brother August 4, 2006, My prayers are with you!

kim sampler

May 28, 2007

hey baby your on my mind so much ... I just wish i could get one of your bug hugs and a smile ... I love you .. mom

Stephanie Hargrove

February 27, 2007

Hey Sonny-
We all miss you very much down here in the "BIG" towns of Blair and Altus. Because of you many of our lives have changed, but mostly for the better... I soon will also be in the Altus unit of the National Guard, And being able to keep good people like you in mind will help out alot!

Thomas O'Malley

February 24, 2007

I have learned knowing your example than I will ever know from a teacher. I will know your name before the Holy Lord, and thank that I had your example. May the Lord bless your sacrifice and share His Glory.

vicki sampler

January 30, 2007

hey big brother whats goin on? i miss you so much every day.. i guess you already know that i am with a great guy that would do anything for me therefore you also know that r.c. is comming up this weekend please if you could help me in any way make sure tim doesn't get mad at me and r.c. and i can get along and become good friends like we were before our relationship started... i just want you to know that i love you very much.. i think about you everyday and i know your in a better place.. even though some days it still seems so unreal like your just gonna call me or stop by and say hi.. i know sometimes i screw up a little bit but i just pray that you would be proud of what i have done with my life i know i am most of the time but sometimes i just feel like i should have done better for you.. i love you talk to ya soon...

love your little sis,
vicki

January 20, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with the friends and family of Spc. Sonny G. Sampler. I never had the honor of knowing him...he was a Hero and will be forever kept alive in the memories of his family and friends. God Bless.

Crystle Giboney, USN
Sallisaw, Oklahoma
Stationed in Sasebo, Japan, onboard the USS Essex (LHD-2)

December 29, 2006

To the family of:Sonny G. Sampler I am so sorry for the loss of your love one. My heart cries out for you in your grief and you have my thoughts and prayers. He died a hero defending freedom. May you have the peace and understanding that only comes from God. Prayerfully we will all meet in Heaven one day where we will rest in the arms of Jesus. If you need prayer or need someone to talk to, please call or write my pastor: Rev. John Pearrell 11677 Brown Bridge Rd., Covington, GA 30016. (770)787-1015. Your friend in Jesus Christ, Polly Ballew Covington,Ga

kim Sampler

November 10, 2006

hey baby boy we miss you so much !!! the hurt just wont go away.. I am still waiting for the phone to ring, and it will be you there. Skeeter turned thirty yesterday we sent him a bunch of black balloons ... Kyndal and Allison with be 2 soon ... can you believe it ..But I know your watching over all of us, Be with Vicki she needs you a lot right now..I love you always.... Mom

D. L. Storey

October 26, 2006

I live with Sonny on Brassfield-Mora. We used to try to hack the wireless signals with our laptops. We never succeeded. We were just board sometimes. That was the last thing we did together just before his rotation to FOB Razor. Remeber you tried to talk me into goin down there for the night. That day lives with me always. Sonny you know me. You know i was there. I want you to know that I am still there. I salute you every year on that day at that time. For you Sonny I still try to hack signals. But I do it just to relax. It takes me back to the night before. When we just watch the skies talking (*%&$) to each other. Your still my man. I miss you. I believe i meet your mother at the ROCK FABRIC in Schweinfurt. I really am not sure. But dealing with that then was an issue. I can handle it now. But some memories will never fade. Hold it down up there.

vicki sampler

October 11, 2006

Oh Sonny, I didn't know people came on here and wrote messages still. I love and miss you very much. I can't wait to see you. Hey guess what I got some guy tattooed on my back I really like it. As you know SSgt Joe A. Narvaez was killed in Iraq on Oct. 2nd. I hope yall are partying it up up there because it sure gets harder for me to deal with every day down here. Take care of eachother for me until I can get there... I love you verymuch

Misty Rambo

October 10, 2006

You will always be in our hearts.

Tina Johnson

September 14, 2006

Your Favorite Aunt Tina misses you so much!!!!! Not a day goes by that I don't think about you! We will all see you some day and there will be one big celebration!

kim Sampler

August 18, 2006

Hey baby boy I still miss you very much. It seems as time passes I miss you more, and the hurting never ends.. I love you, Mom

Garnet Jenkins

July 8, 2006

A tribute to Sonny G. Sampler, on the anniversary of the day, he gave his life for our country.

Rest Well young friend and know that you are loved and missed. Those who paid the Ultimate Sacrifice, SO MANY AND SO YOUNG, SHALL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.

My brother among them. KIA/Vietnam-1967

Revelations 21:4

Dennis Stanley

June 6, 2006

I will always be with you my brother, you will never be forgotten for you are embeded with me in my heart and soul forever. Sleep well sonny, I will remember you now and forever. SSG Dennis "DJ" Stanley

Jonathan "Doc" Combs

December 31, 2005

I had the honor of serving with Sonny in the 1-26 Blue Spaders; He with the mortar platoon and I as a medic. We became fast friends. He was one of the last people in my room before the buses loaded us off to the dusty expanse of Iraq. I find myself thinking of Sonny nearly everyday. He was a wonderful guy who always seemed to have a smile on his face and a ready hand to help his fellow soldiers. My son was born on Dec 22 2005; I named him Sonny for the friend I miss so much.

Scot Shaffer

November 30, 2005

I knew Sampler, he was a great guy.



Scot Shaffer

Dylan, Lisa & Kyndal Toombs

October 21, 2005

We miss you very much. Kyndal is getting so big. I know that someday she will know who she is named after and be very proud and honored. We love you very much and can't wait to see you again in Heaven.

Cynthia Terry Malicoat

July 15, 2004

Skeeter and Jennifer, May God be with you during this trying time in your lives. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers everyday.

Todd Carlson

July 15, 2004

Dana Carlson, Gregg and Tracey Townsend, my wife Jen and I extend our deepest sympathies.



The Sampler family has a long history of military service and Sonny has contributed to that lineage.



Love and strength in this tragic time.

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