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Memories and Condolences
for Paul Heltzel
Isaac Tumey
March 8, 2025
It´s been 20 years. I am coming down to visit you at your final resting place.
Ike Tumey
March 15, 2018
Miss you brother. Can't believe it has been 13 years. I can still remember that laugh and that grin. God Bless.
John Archer
March 11, 2017
Well...it's been a while. I'm sure St Peter has promoter you to CSM of security by now. I cannot believe it's been 12 years...I know you are taking care of Sean and Brian, but it seems you'll have another to add to the team. Take care of this young man. God bless you brother. You are not forgotten.
Marc Cooke
March 27, 2015
Served with Paul in Germany. Good hard working soldier and Alpha Dog! Very, Very sorry to learn Paul was stolen from us. Until we meet again....God bless you Paul... Marc Cooke from the Double Douce. Alpha Company 2nd platoon, 2nd squad, 3/8/Infantry Battalion, Mainz Germany.
Dustin Tumey
March 23, 2015
Another year has passed, doesn't seem to get any easier. I take comfort knowing you are guiding our other brothers and sisters to the Last Rally Point. Hope to see you again there some day. No more wars no more tears. Just peace.
Your friend
Sgt Dustin "Ike" Tumey
Ike Tumey
February 5, 2014
Please thank god for all the snow we have been blessed with...Reminds me of our train up for deployment in 2003. Inform him we have plenty and save some for Christmas.
...Until we regroup, your brother.
Paul Abraham
August 22, 2013
Worlds greatest Godfather and uncle you where my best friend love and miss you
love,
your godson
Isaac Tumey
June 30, 2013
Well our 10 year reunion is in the books. I like your touch of rain that you blessed us with. Christy came up to visit with her sister. First time I have seen her since 2004 at the Indy 500. Seams like several times through out the weekend I heard your laugh. Love you brother. Til we meet again.
Your brother and friend Ike
Ike Tumey
June 22, 2013
Next weekend is our 10year anniversary. I know you'll be there...your with all of us, always. Love ya brother
Janet & Mike Wagerman
April 21, 2013
Paul,
Mike and I think of you all the time. I know you and Betty are watching over us all. We love and miss you more than ever.
Isaac Tumey
March 15, 2013
Another year passes by my dear friend, and I can still hear that laugh. You were such a great friend and mentor. Love you brother, for we will meet again when I'm called home.
Dustin Tumey
January 3, 2013
Rang in the new year buddy. Just thinking of you.
Cory Drake
November 11, 2012
Paul as I sit here i can't help but feel honored to have served with one of the finest soldiers I have ever met! You are truelly an American Hero and dearly missed love ya BROTHER. UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN
Bryan Westerfield
November 11, 2012
Paul, Every time I am in a miserable situation, I compare it to that cold November Ambush night ambussh battle drill.. the one when you waded into a creek to help the rest of the platoon use a fallen log to cross and the, about an hour later you saying (with your signature giggle after you said it) "hey Westy, my leg are numb, huhuhuh." You knew how to take the sting out of bad situations. I miss you.
Dustin Tumey
November 11, 2012
Happy Veterans Day you old war horse.
Dustin Tumey
November 11, 2012
For my fallen brother. Happy Veterans Day.
Christy Heltzel
September 29, 2012
Today my Soldier, I celebrate your life, your love, and your memory. Happy Birthday My Hero. My Love.
Sue Billings
September 29, 2012
Happy Birthday Paul
Dustin Tumey
July 18, 2012
Christy up linked this with Facebook. Had to add my two cents. There's not a day that doesn't go by that something reminds me of you. I miss you. Everytime a another soldier falls I think of you standing there greeting them in. Until we meet again. Sgt Tumey.
Dustin Tumey
July 18, 2012
I miss my brother.
Sam Graci
May 28, 2012
Alpha Dawgs!
Sue Billings
May 27, 2012
Thinking of you my friend on this Memorial Day weekend. Had to laugh the other day, Laura made a comment out of no where. I told her it was something that would have come out of your mouth not her's or mine lol. Thanks to you "Damn it Janet, Brad's not here" is stuck in my head forever. To this day it always brings a smile to my face.
Peggy Childers
March 17, 2012
March 15, 2012
To the family and friends of Spc. Paul M. Heltzel:
Always remembering Paul. "Some gave all."
Sue Billings
September 30, 2011
HAPPY BIRTHDAY Paul. I lite a candle for you today and said a prayer. The thought of you always brings a smile to my face, miss you my friend.
SFC Damon McClure
May 2, 2011
Paul, I just wanted to let you know...They got Bin ladin today. (02 May 2011) I love and miss you bro' Your Friend.
SFC McClure
John Archer
May 1, 2011
Pual just wandered into my thoughts today. I thought I heard his laugh somewhere in a sea of voices.... Unfortuntately, I couldnt find him, but I'm sure it was him playing a joke and he is looking down laughing at me right now! Thinkin of you bro. Never Forgotten!
Peggy Childers
March 15, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Paul M. Heltzel:
Please accept my remembrance of Paul on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Austin Heltzel
March 15, 2011
I miss you!
Christy Heltzel
March 15, 2011
I miss you more today than yesterday and even more tomorrow than today. 6 years seems like yesterday to me. I love and miss you!
eric ramos
March 11, 2011
i served with sgt. heltzel for a year in iraq. although i never met him personally he will always have a special place in my heart. i was with the 1/69 infantry and was on patrol that same day in baghdad. i've been trying to locate sgt. heltzel's gravesite but am having alot of difficulty. i've made it a personal goal of mine to seek closure from the war by visiting the graves of the brave soldiers who gave their life so that other soldiers could make it home. Sgt. Heltzel, you are a hero to me and i will always look up to.
L Neal
March 11, 2011
To the family of SPC. Paul M. Heltzel:
Please know that just as your loved one will remain in your hearts and minds forever, his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.
Douglas Milligan
July 3, 2010
Paul and family,
I was stationed with Paul in Germany A-CO 3/8 Inf. he was a very vigilant and motivated person in and out of uniform, then was stationed at Ft Campbell KY I lost contact with him after that, when I was archiving Louisiana's best that lost their lives in combat, I was so shocked. It hits home when you know someone that close, he was a good man and an awesome soldier, I am grieving now and pray for the strength for your family to carry on the memories of a warrior of our nation. God Bless
MSgt Milligan
March 22, 2010
forever loved and never forgotten
Peggy Childers
March 15, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Paul M. Heltzel:
Remembering Paul on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
November 11, 2009
Honor to you, dear brother! May the God & Goddess keep you safe! May you shine in the Heavens brighter than any star! You are loved & missed but NEVER forgotten.
B*B
Kenna Larra
July 3, 2009
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Kenna
May 25, 2009
Memorial day, a day of remembrance. Tho every day for me, is a day of remembrance. You are loved and you are missed.
Damon (Shawn) McClure
April 27, 2009
A true friend, and brother. I think of you often. A true American soldier, and now a solier of GOD. An angel. I miss you, Bro'. Shawn
CMWH
March 15, 2009
There is not a day goes by that I do not think of you. You would think it would be easier, 4 years later. But even today, I reflect, and I ache missing you. You gave me so many joys, and so many laughs, so many tears and through it all, there was dreams. I miss you.
Love you
Peggy Childers
March 15, 2009
To the family of Spc. Paul M. Heltzel:
Paul gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
John Archer
February 11, 2009
I just wanted to tell you, you are not forgotten. To this day I think of you. I find myself back in Iraq for my 3rd tour. I tell my soldiers daily of your sacrafice before our missions. I can still hear that damned laugh of yours brother...I hope I never forget it. Never forgotten........
September 29, 2008
Today brings another year, I stop and smile, and remember all the things we shared. Happy Birthday my my love.
sue
September 29, 2008
You are in my thoughts and prayers today on your birthday Paul.
Michelle Costa
July 30, 2008
Paul, I will always have a special place in my heart for you....I will miss you forever.
Michelle
Sue Billings
May 26, 2008
Thinking of you Paul as always. I miss my friend.
May 3, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Heltzel!
Debbie , Kenny Coffey
March 15, 2008
Our continued thoughts and prayers out to the HELTZEL family knowing now what they have always known,are one of many reasons that our HERO[S] shall NEVER be forgotten.Rest well brother as was prommissed and in your honor that star spangled banner shall FOREVER wave.Your name is FOREVER clutched in the tallons.As your spirit soars high in the skies over the free nation that you have giving all for,and shall FOREVER soar...THANK..YOU......All Hard Chargers**If you are wonded I will carry you**If you are captured I will come for you**If you are K.I.A. I will FOREVER reamber you..We have all COME by NORTH**COME by SOUTH**COME by EAST**COME by WEST.We were all gathered and united on that great day as strangers as we stood and upon those last [4] spoken words we are..FOREVER..BROTHERS...SEMPER..FI.......B.V.C.
Mamma Lynn
December 24, 2007
You are thought of daily and missed dearly. Merry Christmas
Steven Trevino
November 12, 2007
I was deeply saddened when I found out about your passing. You were a great friend and mentor and made my transition from Texas to Ft. Drum a lot easier. One of my greatest regrets is never getting to hang out with you one last time. Rest in peace dear friend.
September 29, 2007
You are 42 today.. Happy Birthday. Just like everyday you are so very much in my thoughts, and heart.
Love always
Me
August 17, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Preston Poole
July 26, 2007
Mrs. Heltzel-
So very sorry to hear of your loss.
I served under SGT. Heltzel from 95-98 10th Mtn Division, C co 2nd Platoon 1/87 Inf. He was my squad leader. I learned a lot from SGT Heltzel- He was a tough, fair leader, a fun guy to be around- was always taking care of his soldiers. I don't know how this could have happened to him.
He is a true hero and I know he will be missed.
Preston Poole (former PFC)
Houston, TX
July 16, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Heltzel and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
sue
March 16, 2007
THE FINAL INSPECTION
The soldier stood and faced God,
Which must always come to pass.
He hoped his shoes were shining,
Just as brightly as his brass.
"Step forward now, you soldier,
How shall I deal with you?
Have you always turned the other cheek?
To My Church have you been true?"
The soldier squared his shoulders and said,
"No, Lord, I guess I ain't.
Because those of us who carry guns,
Can't always be a saint.
I've had to work most Sundays,
And at times my talk was tough.
And sometimes I've been violent,
Because the world is awfully rough.
But, I never took a penny,
That wasn't mine to keep...
Though I worked a lot of overtime,
When the bills got just too steep.
And I never passed a cry for help,
Though at times I shook with fear.
And sometimes, God, forgive me,
I've wept unmanly tears.
I know I don't deserve a place,
Among the people here.
They never wanted me around,
Except to calm their fears.
If you've a place for me here, Lord,
It needn't be so grand.
I never expected or had too much,
But if you don't, I'll understand.
There was a silence all around the throne,
Where the saints had often trod.
As the soldier waited quietly,
For the judgment of his God.
"Step forward now, you soldier,
You've borne your burdens well.
Walk peacefully on Heaven's streets,
You've done your time in Hell."
~Author Unknown~
Know that you are missed by everyone whos lives you touched my friend.
Christy Heltzel
March 15, 2007
Another year to pass, and each day you are still a very big part of my life.
You are loved, You are Missed, Always.
Your Wife
CMW-H
If it be the pleasure of Heaven that my country shall require the poor offering of my life, the victim shall be ready at the appointed hour of sacrifice, come when that hour may. But while I do live, let me have a country, and that a free country!
-John Adams
Garnet Jenkins
March 15, 2007
It is my honor to pay tribute to this Fine Soldier, Spc. Paul M. Heltzel, on the 2nd anniversary of the day, he gave his life for our Country, with a Multitude of Thanks, for his Courage, Dedication and Many Years of Service to our Country and for Freedom.
Rest Safely Paul Heltzel, in God's Loving Care and may the Peace of God continue to be with the Heltzel family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, Shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.
"I will lift up my eyes to the hills-
from whence comes my help?
My help comes from the Lord,
Who made heaven and earth."
~ Psalm 121:1-2 ~
May you find peace in knowing the love and memories you have, will remain in your heart forever and that this Country Remembers Paul's sacrifice.
I am So Deeply Sorry for your loss.
sue billings
February 14, 2007
Happy V Day Paul. As I sit here trying to pick up the peices of my life I miss you more then ever. I know that you're the one friend who could always get me back on track. Just as you did in 94 when I lost JT. But I know that both of you are looking down from above, shooting pool and laughing like the old days.
January 30, 2007
Another year has gone bye and you are more with us than ever. We love you and you are always in our prayers and on our minds. Mamma Lynn
December 25, 2006
Merry Christmas and Happy Anniversary My Love.
November 11, 2006
My thoughts have been with you all day, and I know that you truly believed in what you were doing and I can find peace with your choice, my only regret is that you had to pay the ultimate price and you were with us for such a short time. God Bless.
Sue
September 30, 2006
Well my old friend yesterday was your birthday and I found myself watching "The Rocky Horror Picture Show". "D*m* it Janet! Brad's not here." LOL You know Paul Laura and I got so sick of watching that movie and hearing that come out of your mouth. But even years later we are both still saying it. Thank you Paul because most people look at me funny when I say that. And I know you are getting a laugh out of it. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think of you. I miss my best friend. But you will never be gone. Because when I think of you, we are together in my mind and heart.
C W-H
September 28, 2006
2 birthday's past, and yet I still feel you here.. Happy Birthday My Love
ROBYN GARSIDE
August 15, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Ella Sizemore
July 14, 2006
I have shed a few tears for you my friend. My heart will always remember the good times we had and the laughs we shared together . I will never forget you and the ultimate sacrifice you have given, you will never be forgotten.
I will miss you..
Gina Hemersbach
July 3, 2006
Here we are over a year later and I still find myself thinking of you cousin. I hope you are showing my good friend SSG Blakley the ropes, as he died over there just this past June. When we came back from Saudi after Desert Storm, I think we knew it wasn't over and done with but who could have ever imagined the cost this time. We were so victorious. I still shy away when people call me hero. No I don't deserve that title. It belongs to you and the way too many who proceeded and have followed you. I love you cousin!
June 29, 2006
Thank you for the ultimate sacrifice, you will never be forgotten.
Sue Billings
May 19, 2006
I am still in shock to find out that Paul lost his life in Iraq. But I know he died doing what he loved. I first met Paul in 94 when he was here in Watertown, NY. We were best friends from the first day we met. Paul was always there for me when ever I needed him. The last time I saw Paul was in May of 99 just before I moved to TX. I have always thought you Paul and missed our late nights of listening to Peter Frampton and James Tayor. As the song says "I always thought I'd see you again." You will always be in my heart Paul and in my paryers. My prayers go out to your wife and family.
April 7, 2006
We will always miss you.
March 22, 2006
God Bless our heroes
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
March 14, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Hetzel family in the loss of Paul. I did not know Paul, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Paul tomorrow will be one year since you were taken. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Vangi & McKaLyne Lunsford
January 10, 2006
Psalm 23
1
The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.
2
He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters,
3
He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
4
Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
5
You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.
6
Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.
This is a verse that I have found to be comforting to me during my husbands death. Remember that when it seems that no one else is round, God is still there with you! And he will be your rock!
My daughter,McKaLyne, and I send our heartfelt sympathy for your loss! God Bless this warrior, God Bless those whom serve freedom's cause! They are our true HERO's!!!!
If you need anything, please feel free to contact me!!!
Wife & Daughter of the Late
Sgt. Audrey Daron Lunsford
KIA May 23, 2005
December 27, 2005
Happy Anniversary Paul and Christy, Even tho Paul, you are not here, I know Christy, will always hold this day in her heart and Mind.
Q Madp
December 17, 2005
Thank you for serving this great country of ours. Thank you for what you have given us all.
I will not forget and it's my mission to remind all of who you are and what you have done for us.
Iraq War Heroes
Don't Let the Memory Of Them Drift Away
November 15, 2005
There are just something's you can not explain. I Know your heart was divided, and your wife understood that, Just as every Military wife does. I just wish for her, that peace will come soon. You gave your heart and soul to your country. And I am thankful for men like you and all of the other brave men and women who went before and after. The sacrifice so great. That with my every breath, I say a thank you..and with every prayer, I pray for your wife, Christy and All of your family. Rest easy now Soldier, your duty done, your bravery will never be forgotten.
September 29, 2005
Happy Birthday, Love.
August 11, 2005
THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU
Samuel Hillenburg
June 12, 2005
I served with Paul in HHQ 2-152 Mech TOC (Columbus) when he first joined the Indiana Guard. I took an immediate liking to Paul who was still attending high school and we worked closely together in our small group of Paul, myself, Bill Bauer, Randy Miller, Terry Blaney, Roger Moffitt, Jim Shedd, Mark Hash and Dean. I was a few years older and tried to pass along all the soldier skill and knowledge I could as Paul was determined to make the military a career. Paul and I shared shelter halves and countless conversations in the Summer of '84 and '85 at Camp Graying. When I was seriously hurt in the line of duty Paul was a source of encouragement right up until I was medicalled out in 1987. I lost track of him went he went regular Army but I never forgot him. I've mentioned him in stories to friends and family for years. He was a great friend and I was heartbroken at news of his passing. My deepest condolences to his wife and son.
Tom Daggy
May 31, 2005
Dear Mrs. Heltzel, forgive me for not writing sooner, but I just got back from Iraq myself. I was watching Nightline this evening and finally got to see a picture of your husband. I had the honor of escorting your husband on his flight/s back to the United States. I was personally escorting one of my employees that died in a humvee accident and was further saddened to see that I would take your husband and another Army soldier in addition to my employee.If you wish to contact me, I would be honored to speak with you about your husband and his trip home to the US. Sincerely, Tom Daggy
April 21, 2005
My Friend, There is much I can say and much I wish I could have said. You and Your Soul Mate Christy, have always been there for just about everyone who needed your support in someway during the last 7 years. I can't even begin to understand the Loss and Pain she is going through, All I can do is be there for her, as You both have been there for so many. The love you two had, showed me, dreams where possible. Wishes do come true. I am so glad you both found each other. I wish it could have lasted longer. What you both where working on, truly was, what futures are made of. Thank you both for the ultimate sacrifice. Thank you both for being Heroes.
"Idealistically, love comes around once, but to have found it twice, in a life time, simply shows you, God, finally led you on the right path.. and You chose to walk it."
April 18, 2005
Best friend, confidant, protector, love, and lover. These are just a few of the many words that I use to describe Paul. There will forever be a part of me that aches now that he is gone. Caring, compassionate, dedicated, selfless. These words fit him well. Always looking out for everyone else, making you laugh when you never thought you would again. This was the Paul that I came to know and love when he returned from Desert Storm. Friends, best friends, loves, and lovers we became over the years. Never have I met a soul such as his and I do not believe I ever will again. He was a soldier, respect him. He is a hero, be proud. He gave of himself in the only way he knew how; entirely. His sacrifice for us was the ultimate. Remember him always and “his boys” that still put themselves in harm’s way. Paul, you go from love into love. Carry with you only love. May love carry you and open the way. Until we are all together again
Always & forever, Your Teddy Bear.
miles craig
April 9, 2005
my deepest heart-felt condolences to the heltzel family.i served with paul in baghdad and he was always upbeat and always ready to help others at a drop of a hat.he will really be missed because everybody remembers paul.
April 4, 2005
My dearest Paul what can I say but that you was my first and only true love. Your friendship helped me through many hard times, and you have been in my heart for over 20 years. Through the trials of childhood till we each became adults. Though life took us each in different directions, you will always remain my one true love. My heart will miss you the most. I love you for ever!!!
April 3, 2005
what can i say about Paul that eveyone that know him doesn't already know... He will be missed!!! I will miss the way he always made me laugh, the way he could look at you and you know he was always there for you thick or thin just a phone call a drive or an computer away i will love and miss him forever...
Shelly Kidder
March 31, 2005
Krys
There are no words i can say to express what my heart is feeling. Although its been awhile you know that patrick, michael and i loved both of you. I wish that i could give you a big hug and talk about all those crazy times. We loved Paul and will never forget him. Patrick is on his way back soon. If you need to talk know im here.
Shel
March 31, 2005
I knew Paul in South Bend. He was an awesome guy. One of the nicest most giving people I've ever known. My heart goes out to Ron, Betty, Ron jr. and Melissa. He will be sorely missed.
Susan Johnson
March 30, 2005
May God bless you in your time of sorrow and ease yor pain. I did not know Spc. Hetzel, but I am grateful for his selfless sacrifice for our freedom. May God hold him in His loving arms.
john archer
March 29, 2005
Paul you will be missed. I had the privledge of serving with Paul his first go round in the "big sand box." I remember the first time we spoke just before we deployed. I was new to the unit and he simply came over to me and said, "Being the new guy sucks! Glad I'm not you!!" And he began to laugh and then said he was kidding and introduced himself. That was the Paul Heltzel I knew. Always smiling and laughing no matter what. The world is a sadder place without him. My sympathies to his wife, children, family and friends.
DAVID WALENSKI
March 25, 2005
Iam a friend of ROGER WADE who served with PAUL in IRAQ. You have my sincere condolences,PAUL is a true hero and I will pray for him and all family members. I pray for all that serve our country.
Roxanne Hearl
March 25, 2005
As a mother with a son in Iraq, my condolences go out to Paul's family and friends. May the Lord give you comfort in your time of grief. Paul is truly a hero.
William Mummert
March 25, 2005
Any man or women that serves in the Armed forces of America deserves our respect. It takes more than people realize to pick up a rifle and stand on that wall.With fewer and fewer American's thinking that they have to pick up that rifle, it is even harder when one of those good people falls. May god bless him and his family.
SGT. SETH NEWMAN
March 25, 2005
I HAVE KNOWN PAUL SENCE HE CAME TO WORK WITH US AT FT. HOOD TX FOR THIS DEPLOYMENT. WE WERE IN THE SAME SQD AND WORKED TOGETHER. I CONCITERED HIM TO BE A CLOSE FRIND AND WILL MISS HIM GREATLY.
Robert Bernloehr
March 24, 2005
I served with Paul during his first Iraq tour (2003-2004). He was an admirable soldier and a great friend. He was always funny and upbeat. He was willing to impart newer soldiers with his knowledge, and always had a funny story about his own experience handy. The military has lost a great soldier and the world an even better man. I am honored to have had Paul Heltzel as a friend, I just wish I could have known him longer. My condolences go out to Paul's Family and friends. I am deeply sorry for your loss.
I'll miss you Paul.
Diane Poteet
March 24, 2005
My sympathy to the family of this soldier. I do not have any sons or daughters in the military but lost my daughter in a car accident last fall.May you find comfort in knowing your son was serving our country. May God grant you peace.
Jason Parker
March 24, 2005
It's hard to believe that someone like Paul, who seemed to be invincible, is no longer with us. I truly feel that he was where he wanted to be when his time came. My sympathy to his family at their loss. Also, sympathy for those soldiers who knew and served with Paul, for there will be an empty space in each of their lives now. I was proud to serve alongside him, and hope to be half the great man that he was.
Photo Board on display at Martinsville Armory
March 24, 2005
Carrie Ann Olah
March 24, 2005
My son (Sgt Seth Newman) served with the 256th in Iraq & considered
Paul to be a great soldier & friend. Paul will be missed.
Roger Wade
March 23, 2005
My prayers are with you. SPC Paul Heltzel and I served together both in state and overseas. He was a great soldier and a great friend. Anytime you needed something he was there for you. If you need anything let me know.
SSG Roger Wade
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