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Paul A. Saylor

Paul Saylor Obituary

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PAUL A. SAYLOR, 21, of Bremen died Aug. 14. Funeral, 7 p.m. Monday, Bremen High School Football Field; Hightower Funeral Home.

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Aug. 21, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
for Paul Saylor

180 Entries

Dottie Callina

April 23, 2021

Death ends a physical relationship but not the love and cherished memories. Paul, you are loved more each day and dearly missed. We are doing great things in your memory, giving scholarships and helping our veterans. I think you would be proud of us, especially your mom, dad and brother. Many of your friends visit your grave. Sgt. Ballengar still holds you close in his heart. Watch over us Paul. Because of our Savior Jesus Christ, I will see you again. Loving you forever Paul, forever in our hearts.

Dottie Callina

August 25, 2019

14 years but the love remains the same. Paul, you will forever be a part of our family and hearts. So many things have changed but one thing doesn't - the cherished memories and love that we have for you. I know you are with Jesus and happy beyond our comprehension. Our great hope is that we will see you again. Until that time, loving you forever Paul, forever in our hearts.

Dottie Callina

July 26, 2018

Not a day goes by that your not thought of. You will always, always be a part of this family. We are so proud of your service and sacrifice. We will see you again because of God's great mercy and grace. Until that time, loving you forever Paul, forever in our hearts.

Dottie Callina

August 25, 2016

Paul,

On August 26th, 2016, a new scoreboard will be dedicated at Bremen High School. The name of the scoreboard is the "Paul Saylor Memorial & Veterans" Scoreboard. Bremen is keeping your legacy and sacrifice to our county alive.

So many generous people have donated to make the scoreboard a reality. Your plaque is so incredible, showing your senior photo with your beautiful smile.

I hope you will be with us, smiling down at all your family and friends who have gathered to honor you and our veterans.

Even after 11 years, the pain of your loss is with me. But God has graced us with His comfort and peace so we continue on.

What I wouldn't give to hold and hug you one more time. But one day...

Until we meet again, loving you forever, forever in my heart.

Love you more always.

Dottie Callina

March 13, 2014

Some days it feels like my heart will break completely because you are not here. But I just close my eyes and see you and you are smiling at me, reminding me to be happy, enjoy life and to especially remember that you are where there is no more pain or suffering. One day we will be together again by the grace and glory of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Until that time, I hold your precious memories close in my heart, where you will always remain. Loving you forever Paul, forever in our hearts.

January 3, 2013

Forever in our hearts. Missing you so very much now Paul. I love you with all my heart. I only wish I could hug you and see your beautiful smile. Loving you forever Paul.

Peggy Childers

August 20, 2012

August 15, 2012
To the family and friends of Sgt. Paul A. Saylor:
Always remembering Paul. "Some gave all."

Peggy Childers

August 15, 2011

To the family and friends of Sgt. Paul A. Saylor:
Please accept my remembrance of Paul on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Aunt Dottie

August 15, 2010

My Dearest Paul,

Today marks the fifth anniversary of the day our world changed forever, the day that we learned that you had died while serving our country. Your mom sang in church today a beautiful song that best describes how we have survived without you these past five years and how we will continue to go on – “A Broken Hallelujah.” The song speaks of God’s great love, mercy and peace through the most difficult times in people’s lives. And it has only been through God’s mercy and grace that we continue on knowing that one day we will see you again.

My sweet Paul this will be my last entry in your guest book. This in no way means that you are leaving my heart or soul but simply that it is in my heart and soul and mind where my most precious memories of you will always be. There is nothing on this earth that can take away from me images of your beautiful smile, the sound of your laugh, the way you said hello when you answered the phone and the many memories we made. The love I have for you has not diminished and I carry my cherished memories with me always. You will always, always be a part of our family.

I know that there is no sadness in Heaven and that you are happy beyond our comprehension. We still shed tears because of the great love we have for you but God always makes a way.

As I close this last entry my heart is flooded with so many memories of you through the years. Thank you for loving me and allowing me to be your Aunt Dottie. It was my great privilege and honor and I will always hold you close to my heart, waiting until the day when we will be reunited. My love goes with you always Paul. There were never enough words to tell you how much I loved you but I always did and that will never change. Loving you forever…

Peggy Childers

August 15, 2010

To the family and friends of Sgt. Paul A. Saylor:
Remembering Paul on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

June 6, 2010

For Our Paul,
Today is your birthday. You would have been 26 years old. You will always be a part of this family as we love and cherish you every day of our lives. We hold in our hearts your beautiful smile and know that we will see you again. Until that time, we will continue to tell stories and remember the wonderful young man you were and how very much you meant to all of us, especially your mom, dad and brother. Loving you always Paul...

May 31, 2010

"For Love Of Country They Accepted Death." On Memorial Day 2010, we honor the memory of Sgt. Paul A. Saylor, died August 15, 2005, Operation Iraqi Freedom.

April 16, 2010

The love we have for you will never end. You have left us in body but never in spirit. Your memories fill our hearts and souls and we cherish them as much as we cherish the thought of your beautiful smile. Each day is a journey of faith without you here with us but we know we will see you again and that comforts us. Forever, forever our Paul. Loving you always...

Your Family

March 6, 2010

Paul,
You are with us always by the love we have in our hearts, the memories we have of your beautiful smile, your laugh, and the memories of those who knew and loved you so very much. You never leave our hearts and you will always be a part of this family. God knows our hearts and how very much you are missed but God also gives us great hope as we know we will see you again. You will forever be in our hearts and we will be loving you always.

Iris Harris

February 9, 2010

So many things make me think of Paul and our US Troops. Each time that I receive an email about the hardships that our military personnel endure for people they don't even know, I think of Paul and his unconditional service and ultimate sacrifice to not only our country, but to oppressed people all over the world. When I see our nation’s flag gracefully waving in the breeze, I am reminded that Paul and other men & women who represent our country all over the globe look at that flag with more pride and loyalty than I can imagine. Whenever I come in contact with a current or former military person, I make it a point to thank them for their service to our country. For I know that there are many others, like Paul, who did not make it home to hear these words.

Roy & Anita Pearre

January 26, 2010

The apostle Paul wrote rather pointedly: 'None of us lives as his own master and none of us dies as his own master... Both in life and in death we are the Lord's.' None of us possesses either our life or our gifts as absolute possessions, but as loans from a generous God who gave us both life and gifts for a specific purpose, namely, to be shared with one another. We are honored to have shared with your family the comfort of love, the pleasure of good times together, the joys of births and the emence sorrow of death.
Paul's was a young life full of promise, welcomed with love and cherished by his family. He was handsome, vibrant, talented and had a smile that would light up a room. His life ended too soon.
We know that you have walked dark and awful days but we continue to pray that you feel God's presence always near, that your love and memories comfort you, and that your faith sustains you until you see your Paul again one day. The apostle Paul reminds us in I Thessalonians 4:13, that we do not mourn as the world but we mourn with hope for one day we will be with the Lord forever!
We love you all!

Kim Hall

January 19, 2010

I remember Paul as a little boy. His Aunt Dot and I would carpool and when we got back to her house he would be there visiting or spending the night. He would always smile. He had the best smile. You are very much loved and missed Paul!

Loving Family

January 16, 2010

We enter the fifth year of you being out of our lives but never out of our hearts. Your beautiful smile and soul will always be a part of this family and we are grateful knowing that God's great love and mercy and Christ's sacrifice on the cross will bring us together again. Until that time, you will forever be in our hearts and we will be loving you always.

Robert Brooks

December 2, 2009

It was an honor and a privlage to have met and trained with Paul in Basic training. He truly was a great guy, I remember him as being soft spoken but always sincere and a very highly motivated soldier he was someone I remember looking to for my own motivation and as someone I could turn to when I needed to talk. I am sorry I never got a chance to know him after basic, but even more greatful for the opportunity to have known him for the short time we trained together. I know he is missed and his sacrafice is one more reason I continue to serve. To his family I am truly sorry for your loss but I thank you for your sacrafice and giving the world a great guy
Sgt. Robert K. Brooks

Dottie Callina

November 20, 2009

Paul,
With Thanksgiving being next week it does remind me of what I'm most thankful for and that is God and His mercy and my "kids." Not a day goes by that you are not missed by our family and right now I'm missing you especially hard. But my hope is God's great gift that I will see you again and knowing that You are in God's loving hands. I miss your beautiful smile and laugh. I miss hugging you and just telling you how much I love you. We all do and God will give us what we need to walk here without you. Loving you forever and always in our hearts. Until I come "Home." I love you Paul.

Aunt Dottie

Dottie Callina

October 31, 2009

Just missing you so very much today and always. You will always be a part of this family and will remain forever in our hearts. Loving you always.

Aunt Dottie

Peggy Childers

August 16, 2009

To the family of Sgt. Paul A. Saylor:
Paul gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Dottie Callina

August 15, 2009

Paul,
It's been four years since we got the news that changed this family forever. We've had the support of wonderful friends and each other but it is only through the loving mercy and grace of God that we move forward. I miss your bright blue eyes, your dimples and that beautiful smile but I just close my eyes and you are there. You will always be a part of this family who loves you dearly. Paul, you are with us always and we are loving you forever.
Aunt Dottie & Family

Dottie Callina

July 9, 2009

Paul,
You were on my mind the entire day of my birthday. It was just a reminder to me that you are still very much a part of this family and always will be. You are forever in our hearts and I just close my eyes to see your beautiful smile. I love you so much.

Aunt Dottie

Kenna Larra

June 9, 2009

”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,550 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna

Dottie Callina

June 6, 2009

Paul,
This is the saddest day of the year for me, your birthday. You would have been 25 years old. I miss you dearly but always keep your beautiful face and smile in my heart. You will always be a part of this family and we will love you always. It's just that sometimes our hearts just break missing you so much. Until that time when we are togehter again, I will love and cherish you forever and hold you in my heart.
Aunt Dottie

Dottie Callina

May 25, 2009

Remembering our beloved family Fallen Hero, Sgt. Paul Anthony Saylor on Memorial Day 2009. You will forever be a part of this family and our hearts. You are with us always and we will love you forever. No words can express how much we miss you but we know that we will see you and your beautiful smile again.

Melanie Justice

April 27, 2009

well paul your birthday will be here in less than 2 months away.It's gonna be hard knowing your not here to celebrate it but I know in spirit your always around and always here watching over us and helping us in our lives as we live.I remembver along time when we was kids we were gonna run away together.I had the food,the drinks and my clothes and you was gonna bring all your clothes,But you ended up getting busted by your mom before you got out of the driveway,lol I went back home before i got into more trouble than i already was in.It just seems like yesterday that happend,I'm sure one day we will see each other again and when we do we will give each other big hugs and i will be so happy to see you again.You are my best friend and my hero and i am so glad i had a chance to know you and know what kind of man you turned out to be.I love you paul and I always will.God speed buddy (Salutes to you)

Dottie Callina

April 26, 2009

Paul,

I'm just missing you today and wanting nothing more than a big hug from you. I love you so much - you will forever be with us.

Aunt Dottie

February 14, 2009

There's that smile again!

February 14, 2009

Paul and his beautiful smil!

February 14, 2009

Pau and Ross in Iraq

February 14, 2009

Loving You Always Paul

February 14, 2009

Paul and friends in Iraq

February 14, 2009

Jamie's Tribute to Paul

February 14, 2009

Paul's National Guard Photo I.d.

February 14, 2009

Debora Walston

February 14, 2009

"My prayers are with you daily. I seek for GOD to deliver a calm and reassurance of peace to all of you.
Thank you for your courage, thank you for being OUR HERO!"
Debora Walston (wife of: Spc James Walston,HHC 108th St. Michael of Pendleton, SC

Cindy Austin

February 14, 2009

"We pray your hearts and lives will some how be blessed."
Cindy Astin and family of Bowdon, Ga

Georgia Blashaw

February 14, 2009

"Although I did not know Paul, my heart and prayers go out to his family and friends.War doesn't make sense to some of us, but those called or volunteering have my upmost respect.
God bless all who are going and those who are not coming back to their loved ones."
Georgia Blashaw of Stone Mountain, Ga.

SSG

February 14, 2009

"I'll see you in heaven, Brother."
SSG Rivera of Summerville, SC

Debbie Saylor-Kennison

February 14, 2009

"Patti, I so enjoyed our meeting. The "Paul Saylor"s we know may be with each other now. Thank You for our(Patty & Debbie) visit. I wish they could have known each other in person.They did bring us together, though."
Debbie Saylor- Kennison of Peachtree City,Ga.

Polly Ballew

February 14, 2009

"To the family of:Paul A. Saylor I am so sorry for the loss of your love one. My heart cries out for you in your grief and you have my thoughts and prayers. He died a hero defending freedom. May you have the peace and understanding that only comes from God. Prayerfully we will all meet in Heaven one day where we will rest in the arms of Jesus. If you need prayer or need someone to talk to, please call or write my pastor: Rev. John Pearrell 11677 Brown Bridge Rd., Covington, GA 30016. (770)787-1015. Your friend in Jesus Christ, Polly Ballew Covington,Ga"

D C

February 14, 2009

"To honor the Georgia soldiers who have lost their lives in Iraq and Afghanistan and their families, the professional portrait artists of the Atlanta Fine Arts League are offering to paint a portrait of the individual soldier for his family. These 16 X 20” original portraits are being offered completely free of charge in recognition of the sacrifices made by these brave soldiers and in condolence for their families’ loss. Please visit our website www.atlantafineartsleague.org or email us at [email protected] for further information."
–The Atlanta Fine Arts League of Georgia

Sarah

February 14, 2009

"I'm so sorry for the loss of Paul. He seemed like a wonderful guy. We all may not be able to see him physically, but he will always be in our hearts. He's left an imprint in everybody's hearts. His life was given for freedom, and knowing that makes him the strongest person out of us all. You are all in my prayers. I'm so sorry for the loss.

God Bless You All, Always and Forever"
Sarah of Lilburn, GA

Kassie

February 14, 2009

"To the Saylor Family: I attended the service last night. I knew Paul from high school, I was going through my annual the other day when i heard about him and saw where he had written in my annual. I will forever cherish the words he wrote me. I saw Paul everyday on my way to 2nd block and he had the most amazing smile that always made my days better. He always cheered me up when i was sad, he was one of the most tender hearted and caring people i've ever met. The service was so beautiful and amazing. Your Family and Jessica and Paul will forever be in my prayers and heart."
Kassie of Bremen, GA

Leonard Wahl

February 14, 2009

"PAUL THANK YOU FOR SERVING OUR COUNTRY AND ALONG SIDE OUR SON. OUR HEART AND PRAYS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. WE LOST OUR SON LAST YEAR IN BALAD, IRAQ. WE ARE DEEPLY SORRY FOR YOUR LOST!"
LEONARD WAHL of VALLEY STREAM NY

Jennifer & Sgt. Larry Mays

February 14, 2009

"We are deeply sorry for your loss. The Courage, Honor, and Valor that your
Hero showed will always be remembered.
We are grateful for the loyal service and sacrifice that was made and
WE WILL NEVER FORGET.
Our cousin LCPL Michael Smith Jr. gave his life on 4-17-04 fighting for freedom.
Please know that this was not in vain and these American Heros will FOREVER be honored.
God Bless your family and please know that you are not alone.
All of our prayers are with you."
Jennifer and SSGT Larry Mays of Massillon, Ohio

Chidi Ifedili

February 14, 2009

"Paul and I worked together at the Target Store in Alpharetta Georgia. Paul was wonderful with both team members and guests. His great attributes earned him three promotions in the short time he worked with us.
Paul will sincerely be missed for his courage and dedication to this great Country. We will miss you greatly Paul, but we are comforted knowing you are resting peacefully by the side of our Lord. I also send my condolences to the family he left behind."
Chidi Ifedili of Roswell, Georgia, U.S.A

Ms. Angel

February 14, 2009

"I just came from Paul's funeral service tonight. Mon., Aug 22. 7PM.
They had the service at his former high school's stadium at Bremen High School because of the large crowd that came and paid respect to a young man who was brave and with a heart full of love.

I knew Paul in kindergarten. I was teaching kindergarten when he came to school. His classroom was across from mine. I remember a very sweet child whose smile can bring sunshine even during rainy and cold days at school. Paul was also helpful to teachers and to his classmates. He was very sympathetic to others. Whenever he saw a child crying, he looked as if he wished he can share that child's unhappiness. That was the Paul I know.

The service was lovely and bittersweet. The love of his life, Jessica, gave us a very rare insight about Paul's passion for life. It was Paul's wishes that we wear casual and colorful attire during his funeral. he made this known to his fiance as if in premonition for this sad day.
The Paul I know was in his early school days, but knowing him, he did not stray far from the sweet, smiling, ever-loving Paul that I knew long ago.
God speed my dear Paul and may God's blessings and comforting arms be around Patty, Jamie and Jamie Jr. and specially to Jessica."
Ms. Angel of Tallapoosa,GA

Peggy Grannan

February 14, 2009

"Patti, Jamie, Little Jamie and the Callina Family,
I was so sad to hear of your loss. It's so hard to believe. There are no words to take away your pain. You are in my constant thoughts and prayers. I wish I could be there today, but I am not able. I love you so much. Please let me know if I can do anything for you. I am just a call away."
Peggy Grannan of Lawrenceville, GA

Sonya

February 14, 2009

"I met Paul in a freshman intro class. He was a kind and sweet man. He will Not be forgotten! He will be missed here at North Georgia. I will remember all that he has done for our country."
Sonya of Dahlonega, Ga

Pat & Sandi

February 14, 2009

"We Will NEVER FORGET !"
Please KNOW so many people share your sadness,
and we are remembering your family in your loss and your deep grief.
Our nations HERO, Paul will be remembered by name.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
God Bless you ALWAYS.
Pat & Sandi Breckenridge from Montana

Tom Balstad

February 14, 2009

"The Salute

To those who have died,
And to those who have cried.
We Salute You.

To those who have lost,
Paid the ultimate cost.
We Salute You.

And to those who still serve,
The Red White and Blue.
Our grateful Nation,
Proudly Salutes You."
Tom Balstad of West Warwick RI

Leo Titus

February 14, 2009

"Thank you Paul Saylor, you will not be forgotten. Your bravery goes beyond words. I want to express my deepest gratitude for your sacrifice. To the family and friends, my prayers and deep condolences in your loss. May God strengthen you from knowing that fellow Americans and people around the world care about you and grieve with you in your loss. God bless you all. A very appreciative fellow American,"
Leo Titus of Grayslake, Illinios

Ford Family

February 14, 2009

"To the family and friends of Sgt. Paul Saylor:
May God's grace be with you during your time of grief. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and we feel your loss and share in your sorrow. Bless Paul for the sacrifice he has made to make a better life for the rest of us."
The Ford Family of Wells, Nevada

Tim Rivers

February 14, 2009

"To the family and friends of Sgt. Paul Saylor:
I am saddened by the loss of your loved one. He will always be remembered as a hero for fighting for freedom. I hope that this website will be a source of comfort and encouragement for you during this difficult time, and in the future as you recall the memories of Paul, who continues to live on in your heart."
Tim Rivera of Powder Springs, Georgia

Dottie Callina

February 14, 2009

"Two years have gone by since you died. At the time, I thought that I would never smile again. But through the grace of God, I can smile again and I see your beautiful smile in my mind every day. I will always love you Paul. You are forever in my heart. I love you.
Aunt Dottie"
Dottie Callina of Morrow, Georgia

Emily Spake

February 14, 2009

"On Memorial Day, I am thinking of you Paul. We love you so! Thank you.. Em"
Emily Spake Brown of Bremen, GA

Sharon Grimm

February 14, 2009

"On Memorial Day, I am thinking of Sgt Paul A. Saylor and his family, Patti his Mom, Jaime his Dad and his brother Jaime, also, his Aunt Dottie Callina who was so very kind to me, while I was down in Georgia with my Mom after her car accident, Today I said a prayer for you and I remember Paul as the beautiful Hero he was and always will be...Please know that I think of you each and every day, my prayers are with you always,
May the Peace of the Lord be in your hearts today and always, Sharon Grimm,[email protected]"
Sharon Grimm of Michigan, USA

Charles Saylor

February 14, 2009

"On this Memorial Day 2008 a flag flies at First Baptist Church Orlando in memory of Paul, this flag will stay there thu July 4. There is a Flag for every solider lost in Iraq and Afganistan, placed individually by members with the name of a fallen hero attached. This plat covers a large area and is adjacent to a well traveled street. The church has dedicated this plat as simply "WE REMEMBER" and is the second year we did this memorial. More importantly we will continue to pray for the families thru out the year. Just as fathers and mothers have lost sons and daughters so that we may be free on earth God has sacrificed his SON for our eternal freedom. God Bless the United States, the troops and Paul who gave it all.
We will never forget.
'WE REMBER"
John 15 (13) Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends."
Charles B. Saylor of Orlando, FL

Peggy Childers

February 14, 2009

"July 6, 2008
To the family of Sgt. Paul A. Saylor:
Paul gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org"
Peggy Childers of Carson City, NV

D C

February 14, 2009

"thanks for everything.. havent had a chance to meet the rest of your family, but your brother is a great person, and he loves you!! CHUUCH!!"
LaVonte Jackson of Miami, FL US

Andrea C

February 14, 2009

"Patti and Jamie,
I was just thinking about you. Please know that you and your family will forever be in my thoughts and prayers. I will never forget the contributions Paul made to my freedom. God bless you always and I hope to see you real soon."
Andrea of Smyrna, GA

D C

February 14, 2009

"I did not know Sgt. Saylor, but today I received a Hero's bracelet which I will wear in his memory. I have read the touching posts which describe Paul and his zest for life. May my small act of wearing his memorial bracelet remind people of Paul and all of our soldiers who gave the ultimate sacrifice. It will not be in vain. Thank you Sgt. Saylor."
S. O'Grady of Arizona

D C

February 14, 2009

"WHAT STARTED OUT AS RESEARCH ON THE FAMILY NAME....... A DISTANT RELATIVE & A MILITARY "BROTHER IN ARMS". GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN. MY PRAYERS & DEEPEST SYMPATHY."
BARRY L. SAYLOR of HUNTSVILLE, ALABAMA

D C

February 14, 2009

"I'm just a high school student who went to Fort Stewart, and walked the Walk of Warriors and found his name, came home,looked him up, and felt like I have known him forever. To the families of the fallen but not forgotten Sgt. Paul Saylor. I will keep all of yall in my prayers."
Zach Saylor of Millwood, GA

D C

February 14, 2009

"May the Lord Bless You and keep you on this Holy birthday day of our Lord 2008.
O Holy Night
"Fall down on your knees
O listen to the angel voices
O night divine
O the night that Jesus was born"
O night divine.
Thank you Lord for Jesus and men like Paul.
We Remember"
Charles B Saylor of Orlando, Fl

Bremen High School Special Edition - Post Office Dedication

February 14, 2009

Brick Dedicated To Paul at Bremen High School

February 14, 2009

D C

February 14, 2009

The Bracelet

When Paul left I got a bracelet with his name to wear
I was going to wear it as long as he was over there
When he died I quickly removed the chain from my arm
I was very upset; I had prayed he would come to no harm
But God had plans to use Paul’s death and my sorrow
To change the ways of the wars of tomorrow
So back on my arm his bracelet did go
It was not to be removed until I was told
That God’s special work was well on its way
Through people like you who do what they say
This “God Thing” has been happening for almost a year
The chain has grown quite heavy with each new tear
I now remove it from my arm to give to you
To express my thanks for all you have done and do
Why all this had to happen I will never understand
But I know God is great and this is part of His plan
To use my son’s death and your compassion
To change things that without you could not have happened
The laws you have made I hope will help others
To help soothe the grief of families and mothers
Although my son is gone from me for now
I hope he knows what you have done for us somehow
And one day in Heaven when he and I reunite
I hope he tells me he is proud of our fight
I know there is no way to thank you enough
For staying in the fight that I knew would be tough
And for fighting for the fallen until it was all done
May God bless you and keep you for the years to come

God Bless You,
Paul Saylor’s Family
July 2006

Linda Kirkland

February 14, 2009

5/19

Patti and I hadn't planned on going to Paul's unit's homecoming parade Wednesday, or any homecoming celebrations. To tell the truth, I have to turn the channel real quick when anything like that even comes on television. I'm truly happy for them, but I can't handle it. However, Patti ended up getting invited and found out that they were going to have riderless horses in the parade to honor Paul and the two others killed from their unit, so we went so I could videotape the horses. We planned to watch the horses and then leave because as Patti said, we don't want to be a "downer" for everyone there who is celebrating the return of their soldier. But then a National Guardsman came to me while we were standing on the side of the road and asked if it would be okay if he invited Patti back to the armory because several of Paul's unit had asked to speak to her. I knew the answer to that one right off. We both want to hear anything about Paul.

The 3 riderless horses led the parade right behind the flag. They did a beautiful job. Paul's horse was in the lead and had a black mourning blanket over it with Sgt. Paul A. Saylor on it, the boots were turned backward in the stirrups, and a huge spray of white flowers covered the saddle. That was pretty emotional for us, but we were able to clap and yell along with the rest of the crowd for the soldiers as they made their final walk back to the armory.

I can't tell you how glad I was that we went to the parade. Something I had dreaded more than anything ended up being something really good. They took Patti around to the side of the armory, away from all the soldiers and their families, and gave her the blanket and flowers from the horse and when we turned around, several soldiers had lined up to see her. She never cried or broke down in front of any of them, but I can tell you just about every one of them did. Nothing overt, but each one hugged her very tight, and long, and had tears in their eyes. They talked to us about Paul and we were able to smile and say, yep they knew Paul. One man, the one in the picture below, literally held her for several minutes. He couldn't let go and he couldn't speak but we knew exactly what he was saying. He loved Paul.

Linda

Patti with Conlan

February 14, 2009

Conlan Saylor Braun - Named For Paul

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Jamie and Paul - 1996 Olympics in Atlanta, Georgia

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Paul and Jamie - Young At Heart

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Jamie and Paul playing in a game together!

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Paul visiting Jamie at U.K.

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February 14, 2009

Paul,

Happy Valentine's Day! We miss you so much but we know you are with God and filled with joy and happiness. We are loving you always and seeing your beautiful smile every time we close our eyes.

D C

January 24, 2009

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These are great pictures – just based on the pictures I can see that it was a very honoring ceremony. One deserved.

Iris Harris

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January 24, 2009

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Dottie~

The pictures are so beautiful, spectacular, & amazing! I know it was a special day and for all of you and such an honor for Paul and his life!!

Thank you for sharing~

Ami

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January 24, 2009

Dottie:

This was so beautiful. It made me tear up. We should all want our living and services here on earth not to be in vain. Your Paul did just that. You and your family has done very good…May God continue to bless and strengthen you all. Thank you for sharing.

Connie Brown

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January 24, 2009

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Dottie,

Thanks for letting me know how the dedication ceremony went - and a very
nice "cherry on top" with the Mayor's announcement!

I'm glad it was a good day for all. And thank you for your kind words.

Take care,

Steve

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January 24, 2009

Subject: RE: Renaming of the post office for Paul

Dear Dottie, I’ve been out of the country with my husband for the last week, so not able to reply until now. I am so happy to hear that your nephew was honored yesterday by having the Bremen Post Office named after him – a well-deserved honor and one that will provide a permanent tribute to his service.

I’m also glad to see that your experience has been used to create legislation for the benefit of other families. It sounds like your Georgia legislators have made your voices heard on this one!

All the best,

Holly

Holly Petraeus | Director, BBB Military Line

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January 24, 2009

Dottie~

This is incredible changes and wonderful news! I am glad that so much good has come out of such a tragic situation. I knew this would be the case from your family as you have all stood together through all of this and only good can come from such positive power and prayer! I know that Paul is proud and will one day be able to tell you so! Keep up the great motivation of celebrating Paul’s life in every way………….his great name will live on!

Much love, support and prayers to you all~

Ami

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January 24, 2009

Subject: RE: Renaming of the post office for Paul - GREAT NEWS!

Dottie,

This is fabulous news, and truly makes my day to hear of this honor.

I excited for you and your family, and hope that the pride you feel in your nephew's accomplishments, and the recognition of his accomplishments by the Postal Service helps ease the pain of his loss.

Thanks for sharing this information with me - I could not be happier for you.

Take care,

Steve

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January 24, 2009

The renaming of the post office for my nephew will be on Tuesday, December 16th. We've come a long way since August, 2005, and my sister and our family want to thank everyone who helped us get the laws passed on the improved treatment of the remains of our fallen soldiers so no other family has to receive their loved ones home from war in an unnecessary state of advanced decomposition. We talked about it and realized that some of you may not know the outcome of your support and signatures and wanted to share with you what you helped to make happen.

I am proud to say that the Bremen Post Office in Georgia will be renamed the Sergeant Paul Saylor Post Office in honor of Paul. Congressman Gingrey made a wonderful speech about Paul when he proposed the resolution of the renaming of the post office and talked about the changes that have been made. If you want to read his speech, the C-SPAN link is: http://www.c-spanarchives.org/congress/?q=node/77531&id=8603562. Gingrey will be at the Bremen H.S. on Tuesday, December 16, 2008 at 10:30 to conduct the ceremony and we hope if you have time, you join us there. We are definitely honored about the post office, but more importantly we are proud to list the positive impact your support has helped the family to make for future families of the fallen:

Congressman Gingrey's legislation required training of all medical personnel in the preservation of remains (see attached). He went to Iraq and conducted interviews as well as made trips to Dover mortuary services, and as a doctor himself, ensured that the proper training was identified and established. After the training modules were completed, he followed up and went to Fort Sam Houston and the Brook Army Medical Center in San Antonio, Texas (where the training is being conducted) to speak with the doctors and attend the training. We met with Congressman Gingrey back in March, were given a copy of the training, and were surprised to hear that over 10,000 people had already been trained! We owe so much to Congressman Gingrey. His support has been the cornerstone for all of the changes.

Senator Chambliss and Senator Isakson's efforts in the senate (see attached) resulted in the following changes for the care of the fallen:

The Army has expanded the number of personnel in Iraq who are assigned the mission of caring for deceased Service Members at Mortuary Affairs Collection Points and the Theater Mortuary Evacuation Point in Kuwait.
CENTCOM policies now include time standards for the evacuation of remains from Iraq and Kuwait.
CENTCOM has conducted a follow-on inspection of Mortuary Affairs operations to ensure that proper procedures and policies are adhered to, as well as ensuring that the level of refrigeration assets in Iraq and Afghanistan are adequate for the number of Service Members assigned.
The Army and Marines have implemented an automation tool that allows for total visibility of the movement of human remains and automatically calculates the time of travel from incident to Dover Port Mortuary. This allows for early intervention if there is a delay.
DoD has improved planning and coordination for human remains flight operations by directly linking the Transportation Command to the mortuary affairs automation tool.
Overall changes in mortuary affairs have resulted in a reduction in time for human remains to return from Iraq to Dover. Transport has been reduced from last year's average of 2.4 days to the current average of 1.8 days.
Additionally, The Department of Defense is testing a new "transfer case" which is designed specifically for better temperature control of human remains in transport.
And of course, it was always remembered that the care of the fallen take place only after it is safe for the soldiers to do so and in no way places other soldiers in harms way. Thank you so much for your help, and know that through your signatures and support as Patti made her way from her hometown effort all the way to Washington, D.C., that you have truly helped to make a difference!

We hope to see you at the post office celebration on December 16th. Thanks,
Linda Kirkland

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January 24, 2009

Dear Dottie,

Thank you for your kind words. I'm sorry I happened to come by on a day you weren't in the office. I hope that will not be the case on my next trip, and that I'll be able to sit down with you and hear about Paul, who sounds like a wonderful young man.

My best wishes to you and to your family, Holly

Holly Petraeus | Director, BBB Military Line

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January 24, 2009

Hi Dottie,
Thank you so much for sharing these photos. What a mixture of pride and pain you must feel at the same time. I'm so glad the ceremony was well attended, and well respected.

Thanks again.
Love,
Sue

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January 24, 2009

OH DOTTIE THAT IS SO AWSOME,,,WE NOW HAVE 2 NEIGHBOR BOYS & 2 NEPHEWS OVER THERE,,,,,,,GOD BLESS THEM ALL,,,LOVE BONNIE THANKS FOR SENDING THIS I WILL SEND THIS TO R.T'S SISTER WHO HAS 2 GRANDSONS OVER THERE,,,,AT LEAST SOME BODY CARES ABOUT THEM,,,

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January 24, 2009

Dottie – Those are great photos! What an honor!!!!

Adam Murphy

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January 24, 2009

Dottie,

Great, great photos - thanks for sharing.

I particularly like the portrait of your nephew.

Take care,

Steve

Stephen A. Cox | Vice President, Communications

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January 24, 2009

Dottie

I enlarged the picture of Paul "how very handsome he was" add that to a wonderful heart and he really was an amazing young man.

Dolores

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January 24, 2009

Awesome and inspiring photos Dottie. Thank you for sharing.

Nora J. Carpenter | Senior Vice President

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January 24, 2009

Thanks for the pictures, Dottie. Our prayers and cares get answered in many different ways...not always to our wishes, but answered.

Love and care,
Woody

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January 24, 2009

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Thank you...We/I loved Paul.

Duane McManus

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