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Kurt Dechen Obituary
DECHEN, Kurt Edward,Lance Corporal Lance Corporal Kurt Edward Dechen, 24, died Thursday, (August 3, 2006) in Fallujah, Iraq while serving his Country in Operation Iraqi Freedom. He was born August 31, 1982 in Rockingham, VT the son of Richard and Dale (Freeman) Dechen. He attended Springfield Schools, and graduated from Springfield High School in 2001. He later went on to attend Castleton State College for several years. In 2003 he joined the U.S. Marine Reserve, and graduated from Parris Island, in Beaufort, SC. He later attended the School of Infantry in Camp LeJeune, NC. For the past several years, he was assigned to the 25th Marines "C" Company based out of Plainville. His company was activated in December of 2005, where they trained in California for several months, and were deployed to Iraq in March of 2006. Kurt was a member of the First Congregational Church of Springfield, VT and the Rod and Gun Club in Perkinsville, VT. His hobbies included fishing, hunting, snowmobiling, working on cars, driving his corvette, being in the outdoors and being with his German Shepherd "Zoe". He especially enjoyed spending time with his close friends - Pat, Sam, Nick, Matt and Gabe. He was loved by many and will be forgotten by none. Survivors include both his parents of Springfield; a brother, Justin L. Dechen of Springfield, VT; his maternal grandmother, Virginia H. Freeman of Chester, VT: his longtime girlfriend, Jennifer Knight of Springfield, VT; and by numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. A funeral service will take place on Friday at 1 p.m. in the First Congregational Church in Springfield, VT. Rev. William B. Nelson, Pastor, will officiate. Burial with full military honors will follow in the Pine Grove Cemetery in North Springfield, VT. There will be no visiting hours. Memorial contributions may be made to the First Congregational Church, Capital Fund, 77 Main Street, Springfield, VT 05156. Arrangements are under the direction of the Davis Memorial Chapel, Springfield, VT.
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Memories and Condolences
for Kurt Dechen
Luurtsema
November 11, 2014
Gone but never forgotten!
Debbie & Jack Smith
August 5, 2013
To the Dechen family, thoughts and prayers.
Peggy Childers
August 4, 2013
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Kurt E. Dechen:
Always remembering Kurt. "Some gave all."
Reverend Liz Wold
August 3, 2013
Forever in our hearts, and prayers. This HERO lives in us.
Charlie Gili
March 31, 2013
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also to let the Dechen Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in the war zones. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and photo of your loved one. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
A New Englander
November 3, 2012
In memory of Kurt Dechen, in honor of his service to our Nation.
Darcey Lafreniere
September 7, 2012
Running in your honor tomorrow! You will never be forgotten!
August 5, 2012
Thinking of you Kurt...Ali has a 14 month baby girl that can drive her as crazy as you did to her during high jump at those track meets!! ;)
Reverend Liz Wold
August 3, 2012
Thinking of you all and remembering always a beautiful human being, a hero. You remain in prayer.
Peggy Childers
August 3, 2011
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Kurt E. Dechen:
Please accept my remembrance of Kurt on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Debbie & Jack Smith
August 3, 2011
We think of you often Kurt. I always see your smile when I do.
Reverend Liz Wold
August 3, 2011
Remembering always a hero and a special human being Lance CPL Kurt E. Dechen
Blessings and light
jessica robinson
July 19, 2011
i love you kurt its coming up on 5 years and its just as hard as the day i found out! i miss u so much and wish u were here to seee us.. sometimes i dont know how to deal with the loss of a best bud! imy so much,
forever and ever in my heart
ily
-jessica robinson
Reverend Liz Wold
November 10, 2010
Never forgotten. Remembered this Veterans' Day 11 November 2010 and each day in our prayers and in our hearts.
God bless
V/r
Peggy Childers
August 4, 2010
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Kurt E. Dechen:
Remembering Kurt on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Rev. Liz Wold
August 3, 2010
To the Dechen family-
Hold on to what is good,
even if it's a handful of earth.
Hold on to what you believe,
Even if it's a tree that stands by itself.
Hold on to what you must do,
Even if it's a long way from here.
Hold on to your life,
Even if it's easier to let go.
Hold on to my hand,
Even if I've gone away from you.
Pueblo Indian Prayer
Remembering today and everyday this special hero and his incredible sacrifice.
Blessings and light, Rev. Liz
Reverend Liz Wold
May 30, 2010
Memorial Day 31 May 2010
Each soldier killed had hopes, dreams, ideas filled with promise…
It is our resposibility to embrace the hopes, dreams, ideas and fulfill the promise
Today, tomorrow, always we will remember
V/r Rev. Liz Wold
Peggy Childers
August 4, 2009
To the family of Lance Cpl. Kurt E. Dechen:
Kurt gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
March 26, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
william leveille
February 26, 2009
To the Dechens,
I served with kurt in iraq and was at our base when kurt was killed. i will never forget him i saw him before he went out on patrol and never thought he would be killed. He is truely a hero and i hope that is all he will be remembered for a loving son, a good friend, and a dam good marine
Semper Fi Kurt, i hope i see u at the pearly gates when i pass.
Richard Clark
August 30, 2008
Dechen family...
I would like to offer to create a tribute website for Kurt, similar to the sites I've created for other families of fallen service members.
Please view all my sites listed on my homepage and if you would like a tribute for your son as a gift from me, please contact me:
http://www.freewebs.com/militaryheroes2008/
Richard Clark
US Army - 82nd Airborne – 1988
In Memory of Kurt ~ (Debra Estep)
August 3, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Kurt, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
CHARLENE BAPTIE
August 3, 2008
Kurt - HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!
My memories and toughts of you make me smile. It saddens me to know that a happy day in your life also became a sad day for your family. I know that God has wrapped his arms around you in thanks for what you did for your country - I also know that Gramps was there to greet you. Those of us left behind carry a heavy heart in you memory . Until we meet again rest in peace ....
June 1, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Lance Cpl Dechen!
Paul Wargo
November 6, 2007
RIP Dechen. We miss you hero.
Jean (Dunham) Green
August 24, 2007
Hello Dale: I was so very sorry to hear about your son. I just happened onto this web site and wanted to leave you my condolences and to let you know that I am thinking about you and your family. Peace to you and yours - Jean (Dunham) Green
August 17, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 30, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Lance Cpl Dechen and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Aunt of a Lance Cpl deploying soon
May 30, 2007
It's been a while, but I just want to thank Kurt for his bravery. My brother Cpl. Paul King was in his battalion, and died June 2006. I wish his family the best of luck, and I feel your pain.
May 30, 2007
It's been a while, but I just want to thank Kurt for his bravery. My brother Cpl. Paul King was in his battalion, and died June 2006. I wish his family the best of luck, and I feel your pain.
Rev. Liz Wold
May 25, 2007
To the Dechen Family-
We remember the sacrifice and gift of freedom granted to us by the sacrifice of LCPL Dechen. We pray for you this Memorial Day and each day asking God to comfort you and inspire you with hope.
God bless you Rev. Liz Wold
Leo Robillard
March 29, 2007
Dechen,Chuck Co will not be the same with out you. You will always be missed, rest in peace brother.
Kurt, smiling like always
February 12, 2007
Randy Collins
February 12, 2007
KURT,
NOT A DAY GOES BY WITHOUT THINKING OF YOU. YOUR SMILE AND HUMOR, STRENGTH AND COURAGE CARRIED SO MANY OF US THROUGH OUR TIME IN FALLUJAH. REST IN PEACE,SEMPER FI MY FRIEND.
Glen Nevogt
January 15, 2007
“Paid in Full”
To Honor The Service of Fallen and Injured Marines
Marines through and through, they paid the price
Six thousand miles away, we live the life
For which they paid with their blood, spirits and bodies
We will never forget what they paid in full
We hope and we pray that somehow their loved ones find comfort
In God, in the flag, in the memory of their loved ones’ bravery
They’re gone now but we see them still…proud, strong, willing
Covering each other’s backs… courageous, moving forward
What kind of love did they have for us to be willing
To give it all for the Black, White, Jew, Christian, Muslim?
We don’t comprehend but we honor you now and forever
You are Our Marines…some living…some not
Forever in our hearts we will cherish your lives
Lives too short yet immortal they’ll be
Highest brotherhood of the Few, the Proud
They stand at attention, and we gaze with awe
Some know their names not, but our admiration for them
Flows limitless within us, between us
They sacrificed their limbs or their lives
Freedom still rings, a soft sound across the miles
It tolls slowly; all of creation takes note
Of the lives that were lost for people unknown
Out of sight but not lost; forever among us
The starched blues marching straight
Toward the place where we will meet them
Many years from now…how we loved them…
Well done beloved Brothers and Sisters…You’ve paid it in full
Always Faithful Marines, You Have Paid it in Full
Matthew Jodrey
January 15, 2007
Kurt I miss you brother. Not a day goes by that I dont think about you. Till we meet again.
Kyle Stremel
November 27, 2006
Kurt you are missed. You are a great guy and great Marine. Left many great memories, like cigars on 4. We will meet again soon.
Timothy Douglas
November 11, 2006
You're great Marine and a better friend. We all miss you, Kurt. Rest in Peace. We shall meet again soon.
Rick & Cathy Robidoux
October 25, 2006
Please accept our family’s heartfelt sympathy for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Marine Parents of
LCPL Craig Robidoux &
LCPL Derek Robidoux,
Kelly Sheehan
October 15, 2006
even though i did not really know Kurt I send my sympathy to the family and his friends I graduated from SHS and knew of him from my cousin Bethany my prayers are with you
September 28, 2006
Rest In Peace Soldier....you and your family will be in my prayers.
J Cabino
September 25, 2006
To the Dechen Family:
First i would like to send my deepest sympathy for the loss of Kurt. There is nothing anyone can say. I too know the pain of losing someone as I lost my little brother not even a year ago over in Iraq because of an IED. He and all the others are Ture AMERICAN HERO's.
My prayers and thoughts are with you, and may god hold your family close.
Lizbeth Jones
September 25, 2006
With much gratitude to your family from a mother of two. We are in your debt.
Betty Sheehan
September 24, 2006
My family is very sorry for your loss. My son was Kurt's roomate in Iraq and it is a hard loss for all. Please know my prayers are with you as I feel the pain you must feel. Our boys were doing a job they belive in and walked all patrols with pride and honor.Our deepest sympathy.
Jerry B. Coleman
September 23, 2006
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Todd Gugliuzza-Smith
September 11, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Dechen family in the loss of Kurt. I did not know Kurt, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Kurt you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
The Cobbs
September 2, 2006
Military Parents,
Bethany Cass
August 26, 2006
My favorite memory with Kurt happens to be our first weekend our Freshmen year at Castleton State College, where we all went to a Sigma Party and on the way back to the dorms we had to pass a corn field and Kurt decided to go into the corn field to get some corn. He came out of the corn field with sluggs all over him. He then decided that the President of the College needed some corn so he put an ear in his mailbox.
Jen Bonsant
August 25, 2006
I have some great memories with Kurt at Castleton State College. Every memory I have puts a huge smile on my face. I will carry these fun memories of Kurt with me forever. He was so much fun. I'm going to miss him terribly. With deepest sympathy
Jennifer Kirby
August 22, 2006
To the Friends and Family of Kurt,
I never had a chance to meet Kurt. My brother Sgt Ronald Kirby is currently serving with 1/25 H&S. We extend our deepest sympathy and will always remember him as a hero. May he live on in your hearts!
USMC Family
Thomas and Joanne Doyle
August 20, 2006
Dechen Family, Please accept our deepest sympathies for your loss of a true American hero. We are the parents of a fellow Marine who was on that patrol that day. Our son had nothing but the deepest respect and pride to have had the opportunity to serve with your son. I will always remember your son and will say a prayer for him each year, my birthday is also August 3.
Claire Zawistowski
August 19, 2006
Dear Dechen Family,
Even though we have never met I feel as if we are a part of a "family". My daughter's fiancee was killed by an IED in Iraq on 10/3/05. It is my prayer that you will feel God holding you as close to His heart as He has held my family these past months. May you know His comfort and peace as you travel down this difficult r
Joshua and April Morales
August 18, 2006
To Kurt's family and friends-
My family and I are praying for you and your family during this difficult time. We send our deepest empathy as we lost our Marine on 11/30/05 in Fallujah. We are comforted to know that our Marines are serving their country with such honor and bravery. We are so proud of our Marines and all of our other service men and women for all that they have done and continue to do to keep us safe and to give us the freedom we have that so many take for granted.
They are true Heroes and need to always be remembered for their selflessness and sacrifice to better our world. We will forever be united in the loss of our heros. We are so sorry for your loss and hope our words will ease some of the pain, and maybe fill some of your emptiness.
Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!
Our sincerest gratitude for their bravery-
The family of Cpl. William "Billy" Taylor
2/6 WPNS
KIA outside of Fallujah 11/30/05
Elizabeth Harris
August 18, 2006
Dear Kurt's family & friends,
I do not know any of you, but through Cpl. Marshall "Randy" Collins's blog in our local newspaper, I have learned to know what a true hero your son is to us all. Cpl. Collins is also in the same platoon and was with Kurt that fateful day. My tears are flowing with you. Knowing how painful it is to lose a loved one, I pray you have God's speed through your grief.
Renee Owens
August 17, 2006
Please accept my sympathy for the loss of your loved one, and my sincere appreciation for his service. May God grant you peace.
The Land of the Free, Because of the Brave
Aunt of PFC Chase Edwards, USMC
KIA 4-6-06
Fernando Bautista
August 17, 2006
God Bless Lcpl Dechen. I am a marine that was deployed in the same Platoon as Lcpl Dechen. I am currently back in the States due to an injury in my lower back. I just want everyone to know what a great guy dechen was! He was probably the only guy that would smile all the time... No matter how sweaty and tired we were from the training in Cali (29 Palms, DESERT!), he would alway crack a joke to make everyone laugh. He was the type of guy that would always did what he was told by higher and never gave any lip. He was an example marine to all of us. Anytime I remember him I Picture him with his big smile and laughing. I remember having a conversation with him about how proud he was of serving this great country and how people in other parts of the world aren't privliged to be part of this great nation.
Lcpl. Dechen, Kurt you will never be forgotten. I thank you for who you were and will always be remebered by. Freedom truly isn't free!!!!
Proud Wife
August 15, 2006
I am so very sorry for your loss. My husband also serves with 1st BN 25th MAR. My heart goes out to you and your family. Please know he will never be forgotten. God bless you and your family.
August 14, 2006
To the Family of Lance Cpl. Kurt E. Dechen:
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life. We lost a son 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday.
I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with. I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally, but none of these courageous men and women will be forgotten. They will never be able to be replaced, but sometime, someday your loving memories will help to sustain you. This courageous soldier will forever now be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well. To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is those wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero. God Bless this courageous soldier and family.
Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)
[email protected]
(Millersville, PA )
Barbara (Havey) Brill
August 13, 2006
Dale - Our hearts go out to you and your family. I can't imagine losing a child and no words can express the sadness we feel for you at this time. Please hold on to the wonderful memories you have of Kurt during his short time on earth -- and remember you will be reunited with him again. With much love and warm thoughts for a classmate and friend --
Samuel Gragen
August 12, 2006
Dear Dechen's,
Sam and I will miss Kurt so much! I'll always remember him with a smile and a "hey kids what's going on?" He always made us laugh and would give you the shirt off his back!! I know Sam and Kurt were having fun when they were snowmobiling, in the garage working on something, or hanging out at Grams "causin trouble". He will be greatly missed, but always remembered! We're here if you need anything at all!
Suzanne (Clarke) Murray
August 12, 2006
Dear Dale and family:
It is unfortunate that it takes such a tragedy for those in our past to surface. But please know that I truly "hurt" for your loss and always remember, in times like this, your Faith, Family and Friends, will support you, but most of all your Memories will ALWAYS be with you and no one or nothing can take those from you. Dwell on the good times and know that Kurt was and is still "Our Hero". Thank you Kurt for giving the ultimate sacrifice for OUR way of life. You are a True American Hero. Dale, you and your family have been blessed by his presence in your life, as short a time as it was. God Bless
Ray Lemire
August 12, 2006
Dear Dale:
My sincere condolences to you and your family.
I hope and pray you find comfort in the fact Kurt was doing what he so strongly believed in. He is more than a local hero. He is an American hero.
May God bless you and keep you safe in his loving arms.
Lori Wagner
August 12, 2006
Kurt was a remarkable young man who my daughter Elissa loved very much. It breaks my heart to know the world has lost such a wonderful soul. Thank you Kurt, for serving our country, your sacrifice will not be forgotten and your memory will live on in us all.
kim blevins
August 12, 2006
i know elissas mom im so sad to hear of this how proud you must be of him god rest his soul
Alison Sylvester
August 11, 2006
Dear Dechen,
Though it has been years since I have seen Kurt, I have fond memories of growing up with him in Church. He was always the younger brother trying to tag along. He grew up to be a young man of integrity, honor, and courage. May he rest in peace
Tracey Parkhurst
August 11, 2006
I didn't know Kurt personally, but know your family from attending the church for many years. I was saddened when I heard of Kurt's passing. Kurt is a true hero for giving his life to protect us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Colleen, Mark & Joe Greenvall
August 11, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with Kurt and all of you now. May God bless you all.
Fred Patterson
August 11, 2006
I am deeply sorry for this family. My thoughts are with you in your time of sorrow. Thank you, Lance Cpl. Kurt Dechen, for keeping my family and friends safe here at home.
Glenda Haskell
August 11, 2006
Dear Dale,
Friend and classmate of so many years ago, my heart goes out to you and to your family at this most difficult time. One can only imagine the depth of grief and loss you must feel at the loss of your beloved son. Like so many others, I wish there were something I could do to ease your pain. I hope you'll take some small comfort from the flowing of care and loving thoughts that I and so many others are sending to you.
In friendship, Glenda
Sharon @ VTel
August 11, 2006
Just wanted to let the family and friends of Kurt know that my prayers go out to you in your time of sorrow. Kurt was truly a hero in his service to our country. My deepest sympathy.
Michelle Page
August 11, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Dianne Fontaine
August 11, 2006
May you feel God's comfort and love wrapped around you. My deepest sympathy.
MAUREEN MARTIN
August 11, 2006
MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY FOR YOUR FAMILY'S LOSS. MY BROTHER WAS ALSO
A MARINE AND PASSED ON YOUNG. MAY GOD KEEP HIM AND YOUR FAMILY IN HIS
GLORY FOREVER.
Paul Whitney
August 11, 2006
There are few words that can fully express the sadness your family now bears.
I am sorry you have loss Kurt.
May you all find a way to gain strength together through your friends and family.
Our military families are very special people.
Bonnie Scriba
August 10, 2006
Dear Dale & Family of Kurt-
May the heartfelt wishes & the love of the Lord sustain you at this most difficult of times. Though our high school years are long past, Dale, we all hold each dear in our hearts. Don't be alone reach out to all who care!
Love Bonnie Adams Scriba
Mr. & Mrs. Rivera
August 10, 2006
Although we didn’t Know Lance Cpl. Kurt E. Dechen , we also parents of a Soldier wanted to send our deepest sympathy to his family and friends, with an abundance of thanks to this young Hero and his family for his/their service to our Country. May God bless you and yours. We hope these lines will bring you comfort.
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006
Jim and Mary MacMahan
August 10, 2006
Our hearts are so sad, knowing that Kurt gave the ultimate sacrifice for all of us. We will always remember, and be thankful for, his bravery. God bless you all.
Michelle
August 10, 2006
My younger brother is in Iraq with the 101st Airborne for his second tour. From one military family to another, I'm deeply sorry for your loss.
Thank you for your service to our country. Your courage and service is the ultimate sacrifice for all of us.
Phil
August 10, 2006
Rest in peace young Marine and lets never forget our fallen hero's.
Semper Fi
Tina Rushton
August 10, 2006
To Kurt's Family:
He touched so many lives for the short time he was on earth. I know heaven is all lit up with his smile. May you find comfort in family and friends and hold memories close to your heart.
Peace
August 10, 2006
Our condolences to you and your family in the loss of your son. We are truly grateful for him and others for defending our country. May you find peace in knowing that he now rests in the arms of GOD.
The Peace Family
Willie Mae Arscott
August 10, 2006
My prayers are with you and your family may the Peace of God Love Comfort you and Keep you. Mrs. Arscott
Laurie
August 10, 2006
As the Mother of a Marine from 2/6 Echo, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. May it give you some comfort to know that others are thinking of you and we thank your son for his service.
Susan Salter
August 10, 2006
Though I did not know Kurt, my deepest sympathy goes to his family. God be with you and bring your hearts peace. God bless Kurt.
Rev. Liz Wold
August 10, 2006
May God gently comfort each of you.
May you discover the strength and love of community knowing that you remain in our prayers as will LCPL Dechen. Never to be forgotten. Thank you for the ultimate sacrifice of this hero. Thank you LCPL Dechen for our liberty. Semper Fi
Liz and David Wold
Debra Russell
August 10, 2006
May God Bless this Fallen Hero and keep his family safe. During this time of sorrow, I will pray for your family and may you know He was a true Hero
Wife of a Retired Army Soldier
God Bless
Don & Lisa Talbot
August 9, 2006
To the Family of LCpl Dechen,
We offer our condolences to your family. Our son is with B CO 1/25 in Iraq. We thank you and your son for his service to his country. Your sacrifice will never be forgotten by our family. Many hearts are with you now.
Denise Jones
August 9, 2006
Dear Dechen Family:
I am truly sorry for your loss. I pray that you find peace and comfort in your memories of Kurt and in one another. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Brian martin
August 9, 2006
to kurts family, my deepest sympathy to you. he was a great friend to me. he will be missed greatly.
Omie Johnson
August 9, 2006
To the Family of LCpl. Kurt Dechen, Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. He is in good company guarding the gates of heaven. May God comfort you in your time of grief. Omie Johnson ~ Sister of Fallen Hero LCPl. Leon Deraps
Lee Sirotnak
August 8, 2006
Please accept our condolences for your loss, our prayers that you find peace and comfort in our Lord, and our thanks for the sacrifice that your Marine made for our country. I hope that you find comfort in knowing that there are many Marine families keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Semper Fi.
Randal Kramer
August 8, 2006
"No greater love hath any man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friend" John 15:13
Semper Fi
USMC 83-87
ROBYN GARSIDE
August 8, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOU ALWAYS. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Garnet Jenkins
August 8, 2006
My deepest sympathy to the family of Lance Cpl. Kurt E. Dechen, with a multitude of Thanks to this young Hero for his service to our Country.
May he Rest, in God's Mighty Hands and know that he is a True American Hero.
May God's Loving Grace and comfort be with the Dechen family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
My brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.
With each new day, may the Lord restore your soul and, through His love, give you the strength to go on.
Surely He hath borne our grief, and carried our sorrow.
Isaiah 53:4
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