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Memories and Condolences
for Jay Gauthreaux
Roger Lightfoot
August 10, 2020
Until Valhalla my brother.
Kelly Greer
July 19, 2016
I miss you, brother.
sgt kolmar
May 30, 2016
Thinking of you this memorial day SGT G! GREYWOLF!
Farid Silwany
September 10, 2015
Hi Ray, I know you look upon us from the windows of heaven. Thinking of you and all the challenges we all endured over there. You will always be remembered. Thinking Of You
March 17, 2013
In memory & honor of Jay as we approach 10 years since the start of this war.
Staci Tyler
November 30, 2012
As we are about to approach your 6 year anniversary of your death, you are constantly on my mind. Thank you for the memories and helping me through our first Iraq deployment. Our chats in Echo Tower really helped me get through everything and you will always hold a place in my heart. I miss you sooo much...
Farid Silwany
August 28, 2012
Played tapps at your funeral,,,think of your sacrifice,,, constantly. Hurts
Aunt Mary Krohn
May 25, 2012
Thinking of you on this Memorial Day weekend. You are missed and forever loved.
Sharon LeBlanc
December 6, 2011
I know this is always a really tough time. The years go by so fast. Keeping you'll in my prayers.
Peggy Childers
December 4, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Jay R. Gauthreaux:
Please accept my remembrance of Jay on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Darnell Hardy
March 27, 2011
RIP SGT G.. Good times.. You will never be forgotten.. Louisiana Proud!...I know you'll be cheering on your LSU Tigers from heaven..
Peggy Childers
December 4, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Jay R. Gauthreaux:
Remembering Jay on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Staci Tyler
August 21, 2010
SGT G. I miss you and think of you often...so many memories from serving with you but the ones that stick out in my mind the most are the ones in Echo Tower on Guard duty on Fob Greywolf...thanks for everything!!! GREYWOLF!
Donna Gillette
December 24, 2009
On this day and with each day that we enjoy our freedom, I would like to give thanks and let you know that I do not take our troops for granted. May you experience God when you feel your loss.
1SG Eugene Hickman
March 2, 2009
I did not ever meet or serve with this courageous young man. I'm impressed by all I've read below. I found this guest book entry after I saw Jay's name on the computer lab directly behind the CMS Faulkenburg theater at FOB Warhorse.
God bless Jay! I hope the Lord let's Jay look down on his young son and widow.
Steve Kielian
March 1, 2009
I did not know Jay, but am currently helping coach Devin in wrestling after meeting Doug and Faye. He's a great kid with alot of energy and maturity beyond his years. I look forward to seeing him at every practice, and he just completed and won his first tournament. Great Job Devin!!!!!
Kenna Larra
February 24, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,500 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
Patricia Krenwinkel
December 8, 2008
God bless this great man. One of the guards here was activated to serve as a military policeman. We honor the service of your son and our friend. Hope they come back soon and come back safely.
Rest In Peace
Michael Iezzi
December 8, 2008
Jay,
Thinking and praying for you on the 2nd anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.
Angelle Couvillon
December 5, 2008
I miss you still and will always remember you. My heart aches to hear your laugh again. Kiss Casey Lou for me and tell her to give you a bear hug from me. I love you.
Gellybird
In Memory of Jay ~ (Debra Estep)
December 4, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Jay, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Peggy Childers
December 4, 2008
To the family of Sgt. Jay R. Gauthreaux:
Jay gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Melanie McGalliard
October 11, 2008
I love and miss you everyday Jay. I know that when my little girl joined you you were there to meet her. Its a comfort to me. You are my hero. I miss you
Safely Home
Michael Iezzi
July 14, 2008
Jay,
Thinking and praying for you on the 1st anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.
Miguel Gallegos
July 11, 2008
To Jay and his family. Myself and a few others had the privledge to serve with Jay in our beggining years of AIT and the horrors of the first duty station. We had some good times. I think what hurts the most for me is that I barley had time to cope with this. I was in Iraq when I heard the news. It had been so long since we had talked, I thought he got out. I am deeply sorry for you loss. I knew him well and I thought of him as one of my closest freinds. You don't get a lot of them. He is the first true friend I have lost to this war. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers.
For you jay, Adrie and I are finally having our first child. I thought you would like to know that. You were a good friend, tell god I said hi and one day we will meet again.
mike
This was Ryan in his Class A uniform.
Kathy Moore
July 9, 2008
I would first like to say that I am sorry for your lost. I too lost someone in Iraq. My son SPC Ryan Russell was lost March 5, 2007. He was with the 1st Cav 3rd Brigade 1st Squardon 12th Division from Ft. Hood and he was a combat medic. I think that maybe these two served together.
Please know that God can comfort you in this time.
Kathy Moore
Mother of SPC Ryan Russell
Larry Bethune
June 18, 2008
I pray that he knew Christ as Lord and Savior.
Mica Cathey (Heather's cousin)
June 17, 2008
Jay,
It has been so long since I have seen your face. You are not forgotten. Although you and Heather did not work out, we vowed to keep in touch so that I could see Devin when you would come back from Iraq. How I kick myself daily for not meeting up with you and Devin before you took him up to your mom's so that you could go fight for our freedom. I am truly sorry that we missed each other before your departure. "If I had only known" I would be there still, waiting, to see you and Devin off. We will meet again oneday. You will always be loved and missed!
Freedom has never been free, for if it was, we would not have to lose the ones we love fighting for it!
Leslie Van Houten
June 17, 2008
A picture of Jay Gauthreaux and Donnie Dixon is one of the first things you see when you enter the HQ of 3BSTB
June 15, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Gauthreaux!
NOLAN ROWLEY
May 16, 2008
SGT GAUTHREAUX, THIS IS YOUR GOOD COLLEGUE AND FRIEND (AS YOU KNOW) SGT NOLAN ROWLEY. YUP, I SAID IT. SGT AGAIN, LOL. YOU KEPT TELLING ME TO TAKE THAT CONTRACTOR JOB, AS YOU KNEW IT WOULD MAKE ME PROUD, JUST AS PROUD AS YOU WERE WITH YOUR MILITARY CAREER. WELL BUD, IT MAY NOT HAVE WORKED OUT AS WELL AS I PLANNED SO I'M BACK IN THE ARMY FOR A COUPLE MORE YEARS. I TRIED THO. I'LL TRY AGAIN SOON, LOL. I'M PROUD OF YOU AND YOUR ULTIMATE SACRIFICES FOR US ALL AND YOUR ENTIRE COUNTRY AND FAMILY. THEY LOVE YOU! YOU KNOW THAT I'M SURE. I LOVE YOU MAN, YOU KEPT ME MENTALLY SOUND, ACTUALLY, I LOVED COMING OVER TO SEE YOU AND SPC FELTHOUSE AT UDAY'S PALACE IN BAGHDAD (AND BEFORE OIF 2). I HAD A GREAT TIME BEING YOUR FRIEND, AND THANKS FOR ALL THE LAUGHS AND SILLY E-MAILS THAT YOU WENT OUT OF YOUR WAY TO KEEP ME ENTERTAINED THAT YEAR IN BAGHDAD. YOU TRAINED ME WELL IN COMMUNICATIONS, THANKS FOR ALL THE PERSONAL TRAINING YOU GAVE ME AFTER WORK HOURS ON SUCH SHORT NOTICE TOO. I OWE YOU ANOTHER 6-PACK OF B-LIGHT FOREVER FOR THAT. I WOULDN'T BE AS SMART AS I AM NOW WITHOUT THAT SUPPORT. SORRY THO, I JUST LEARNED OF YOUR LOSS TODAY AND THAT I COULD NOT BE AT YOUR MEMORIAL SERVICE. I HAVE BEEN OUT OF TOUCH OF A LOT OF GOOD PEOPLE AND FRIENDS I USED TO KNOW FROM 1ST CAV. FOR A LITTLE BIT. YOU WERE MY RELIEF AND COMFORTING PAL IN IRAQ AND BEFORE. I WILL FOREVER REMEMBER YOU AND HONOR YOU TO MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY. I WISH YOUR SON WELL ALWAYS. MAY HE BE WATCHED BY ANGELS AND BY YOU, WHEREVER HE MAY GO. MAY YOUR MOTHER AND YOU KNOW THAT YOU SAVED MY LIFE THAT YEAR. I WAS WORRIED THAT YEAR, AND YOU TOOK IT UPON YOURSELF TO BE THERE FOR ME. --I PROMISE THE NEXT TIME I GO OUT TO CELEBRATE SOME 'HIGH SPIRITS', IT WILL BE IN YOUR HONOR MY FRIEND! WE SHALL SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN.
THANKS 'G'!!! YOUR COMMO BUDDY ALWAYS! "HEAR US!! SIGNAL!!!!!!!" ROWLEY!
Brad O'Brien
December 6, 2007
Jay, You and I never met. I am a nurse assigned to the 215th Brigade Support Bn of 3HBCT 1st Cav Div. We all got back on 30 Nov.
I want you to know that there is a brick put down to commemorate Jay Gauthreaux. It is in a special path at the UTDallas campus which is located in Richardson Texas.
You can contact [email protected] if you need more info on the commemorative brick.
Michael iezzi
December 4, 2007
Jay,
Thinking and praying for you on the 1st year of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
August 15, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 4, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Gauthreaux and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
FARID SILWANY
May 16, 2007
SIR AND MAM, I JUST WANT TO SAY THAT YOUR LOSS HURTS ME DEEPLY, I SERVED FOR THIS GREAT NATION LIKE YOUR SON DID, I PLAYED TAPS AT THE GRAVESIDE AND STILL REMENBER IT AS IF IT WAS YESTERDAY, I AM OUT OF THE SERVICE NOW AFTER TEN YEARS, BUT SGT GAUTHREAUX WILL REMAIN IN MY HEART AND MIND FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE, I AM DEEPLY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS
BERT HOLLER
April 10, 2007
JESUS SAID THERE IS NO GREATER LOVE THAN THIS, THAT A MAN GIVE UP HIS LIFE FOR HIS FRIENDS. THANK YOU FOR YOUR SACRIFICE SO THAT WE ALL MAY BE FREE.
Robyn Garside
April 10, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Michael Iezzi
April 9, 2007
Father we entrust our brother Jay Ryan to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Jay Ryan in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.
BERT HOLLER
April 6, 2007
I DID NOT KNOW SGT. GAUTHREAUX BUT I FEEL THE NEED TO LET YOU KNOW HE IS A REAL HERO IN MY BOOK. MY SON-IN-LAW DIED IN IRAQ IN JANUARY OF THIS YEAR. THEY BOTH SHOWED MORE GUTS THAN I AM CAPABLE OF. NICK CAME HOME AFTER CHRISTMAS JUST IN TIME TO SEE HIS FIRST SON BE BORN. HE RETURNED TO HIS DUTY STATION IN IRAQ ONLY ONE DAY BEFORE HIS UNTIMELY DEATH. HE WAS IN 2/7 CAV AND REALLY ENJOYED BEING IN THE INFANTRY. I HOPE AND PRAY THAT BOTH YOUR GRANDSON AND MINE WILL GROW UP TO KNOW HOW HEROIC THEIR FATHERS WERE. I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS AND SHARE YOUR GRIEF IN THESE HARD TIMES. PLEASE BE ASSURED THAT HE WILL ALWAYS BE HONORED AS THE GREAT SOLDIER THAT HE IS. THANK YOU,
Christi Larsen
March 19, 2007
To the Family of Jay Ryan Gauthreaux,
I spoke to Faye last week about your beautiful son and wanted to send my deepest regards to you and your family for the loss of your son. I am slso a Gold Star Mother..I lost my son, PFC Cole William Larsen, Novermber 13, 2004. I know your pain and grief all too well. I enjoyed our conversation on the phone and hope to stay in touch. Please contact me anytime...I would love the opportunity to speak with you again and offer any support.
Michael Gros
February 12, 2007
Having jay as a fellow classmate and good friend, I know how much he cared for everyone close to him. Remembering times of playing football in the local elementary school yard for fun was one of the greatest times we had together. Talks of enlisting in the army started early for jay, and eventually he talked me into enlisting on the buddy program. Regretfully, now, i didnt follow him and I enlisted in the marine corps. We lost touch after that but i will always have the school yard football games, the fourth grade Christmas play and all the clowning around in school in memory. My simpathy goes to all who knew and loved him in this time of mourning. He really was one of the great ones of our generation.
Glen
January 30, 2007
“Soldier”
To Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history, we pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Mary Thibodaux
January 28, 2007
A Soldier's Love of his Country
"A Tribute to Jay" by Mary Thibodaux
Dead is a young man
A casualty of war
Life barely began
Now, a purple star
His courage and prayers
To keep his country free
Made his life and cares
More meaningful to me
Now his mission has been reaached
Bless his love ones with love and peace
Callie Bergeron
January 27, 2007
To Parrain Jay:
I love you. I hope that Lollipop is not giving you any trouble. I hope you are having a nice time in Heaven with God and Jesus. I can't wait to see you again. I can't wait to get Devin back. We all love you. I hope you are making friends with the angels. I like angels. Come check on me. I love you.
Lee Sirotnak
January 26, 2007
We are grateful for the sacrifice of your hero, Jay, and keep your family in our prayers. God bless you and your loved ones
Jay and Dev
Faye Crawford
January 13, 2007
On behalf of my son, Jay, my grandson, Devin, and my husband Doug, I would like to send my sincere appreciation to all of you who are standing beside us during this most difficult time in our lives. Jay was my baby, my only son. I loved him from the moment I saw him, July 14, 1980. I knew he had a determined spirit even then. He rolled over at one week and was determined to walk without the braces he had to wear as a toddler. He has always been my “Hero”. I will miss the monthly phone calls and the jokes he played on me. I am determined to keep his memory alive for my grandchild, Devin. Actually sometimes I think Jay is just on another tour and we are keeping Devin for him as we did many times, including his first tour in Iraq.
Again, thank you all for your support, the late night cries I had with many of you, the gifts you sent and especially the prayers. A mother should never have to bury her child, my only solace is knowing he died fighting for what he believe in. May Jay’s sacrifice bring freedom to the World!
Faye Crawford (Jay’s Mom)
Gerald Brown (GREYWOLF)
January 8, 2007
To SGT "G" and Family; My family and I are truly sorry for your loss of this wonderful Man, Husband, Father, and Soldier. Our time spent together in the "Motorpool" was a rewarding experience...to see a true professional working his craft. You spoke of your family on a daily basis about how much you've loved them. "G", please know that your family will be looked after while your gone by your loving family and close friends. You'll be missed!!! GOD BLESS!
Annette Brown
January 8, 2007
This comes to me as a shock! G was a awsome person. The time that I spent working with G will never be forgot. When I was in 3rd BDE we work next door from each other. We will always clown around, when I had bad days he was always there to cheer me up with his little jokes and comments. He love his teckno music. The last time that I saw him was his first tour to Iraq, thats when he told me he had a babyboy and was so proud. G you will always be in my memories I know your in a better place watching over us. To Jay family my deep condolences goes out to you he was one of the best and will not be replaced.
SGT BROWN
"GRAYWOLF" 99-02
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
January 5, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Gauthreaux family in the loss of Jay. I did not know Jay, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Jay you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Victoria Jones
January 4, 2007
To the Gauthreaux Family may God comfort you in your time of need. You all are in my thoughts and prayers and I'm thankful that I had the priveledge of knowing Jay.
Angelle Couvillon
January 4, 2007
To my loving family,
There isn't a day that goes by that I am not thankful for all of you. In this trying and difficult time, we are so blessed to have each other. I am strengthened everyday by Monique's determination and Uncle Mike's solid foundation. I feel blessed to have you in my life. I love you.
To my Jaybird,
Words cannot express how terribly I miss you. I miss those bear hugs that break my back. I miss the times when we were growing up that you would scare me at MawMaw'a house and think that was the funniest thing on earth.....it wasn't. I miss you calling me "ugly" eventhough we both know that is an utter untruth :). I miss the e-mails and the chats online. I miss the stories and the LSU games we used to talk about. You were the greatest man I have ever known. Your heart was so filled with love for everyone you met. You truly are an inspiration to me and the way I want to live my life. I am so proud of everything you have done for your family and your counrty. I smile for you every time I say the pledge or sing the National Anthem. We all have you as our own personal hero. The last words I said to you on Earth were "I love you and be safe". You are safe in the Father's arms now and waiting for all of us to join in your party. I'll see you again and I'm expecting a HUGE hug. I love you Jaybird. Thank you for what you have meant for me.
Love always,
Gellybird
Trudy Lowe
January 3, 2007
My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.
Andree' Couvillon
January 2, 2007
Devin, Monique, Parrain, and Aunt Wanda:
Your strength in this time is truly remarkable. Jay was an amazing person, a loving father, a devoted son, brother, cousin, and a truly American soldier. He loved his country and family so dearly. You were truly blessed to have him and I am just proud to call him my cousin. He will be remembered forever. He's now waiting for us at the Gates of Heaven, anxious to greet us all with that smile of his along with one of his giant bear hugs.
Love always,
Andree'
January 2, 2007
To my dearest mother, Faye, some things I'd like to say;
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived in heaven okay.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you and Devin every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you and Devin when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
God gave me a list of things that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for Devin and you.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind; I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go from your body to be free, remember you're
not going you're coming here to your Daddy, Mickey and me!
Margarita M
January 1, 2007
To the loved ones of Jay Gauthreaux, as a mother of two wonderful sons, I wanted to express condolences for your loss on today, when more than 3,000 Americans have perished in Iraq. I support the troops and share the hope of many, that they will soon return home.
Fred Boyer
December 30, 2006
To a good soldier and a proud american. ill miss you.
Linda Rhodes
December 28, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
December 28, 2006
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Monique Gauthreaux Bergeron
December 26, 2006
On behalf of my father and mother, Mike and Wanda Gauthreaux, I would like to express our deepest gratitude to all of you who offered love, prayers and support to us during this trying time. Words cannot convey the comfort you have given us. All of you have been a Blessing to our family. May God continue to Bless America and us all.
Cordy Diaz
December 25, 2006
To the family of Sgt. Jay R. Gauthreaux, It is with great sorrow that I offer my deepest sympathy and condolences. Jay will never be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with you always.
December 23, 2006
May God hold your precious loved one in His arms as you hold him in your hearts.
Garnet Jenkins
December 23, 2006
My Deepest and most heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family of Sgt. Jay R. Gauthreaux.
The price this Brave Soldier and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten.
There is so much thanks to be given, to these young heroes, for their Courage, Dedication and Service.
May Jay rest safely in God's Care and may God's Loving Peace and Comfort be with the Gauthreaux family.
I am the sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, 12/6/67.
May the Peace of God and the memories of Jay, remain in your heart always and give you comfort
and strength through the difficult days ahead.
~ Softly and slowly, time heals.~
"Wait on the Lord, be of good courage and He shall strengthen your heart" Psalm 27:14
SSG Murray Witherspoon
December 20, 2006
To the family of SGT G he was truly a good friend and a great person to be around and he will be truly be missed. SGT G you were one of the best
Dan Merry
December 16, 2006
To a Warrior:
You paid the ultimate sacrifice for your country. No Matter the cause, YOU stepped up. Not Many do.
Viet Nam
1972
December 15, 2006
Thank You to such a brave soldier that made the ultimate sacrifice. We do appreciate you!
Linda Peterson
December 15, 2006
To the family of Jay Gauthreaux,
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Thanks Jay for serving our country, you will be truly missed by your family and friends.
Tracey Smith
December 15, 2006
To the family of G, I want to express my deepest sympathies to you and to Devin. G was a wonderful friend to everyone that he met. He will be greatly missed. The card games and hot wing parties will never be the same. G please know that you will never be forgotten and that Devin will always know how wonderful a father you were to him and what a great friend you were to those of us who knew you. You will always be in our hearts. Dallas will always remember the Walls of Jericho and games that you played with him. I will always remember your wonderful smile and the way you would always talk about Devin. God bless you G until we meet again.
Spc Staci-Lee Tyler
December 14, 2006
SGT Gauthreaux,
Words can not express how greatly you will be missed. It seems so unreal that you are really gone from us. It probably wont hit me until the day HHC 3 BCT comes home and you will not be getting off the bus at Cooper Field. I pray that you will watch over HHC 3 Brigade during the rest of their deployment and always. You were the true definition of a "Greywolf" Soldier. I always looked up to you as a person and as a non commissioned officer. There were not many people in the company that I could talk to but no matter what, I knew I could talk to you. Even when I got out of the army in July 2006 and then had to come back because of stop loss you were there to talk to me. We talked about the last time we were over in Iraq and you told me that this would be your last deployment because you wanted to spend time with Devin because he was getting older and growing up so fast. You have made the ultimate sacrifice for our country Sgt Jay Ryan Gauthreaux and I say thank you for all you have done for our country. My time in HHC 3 Brigade would not have been the same without you in it. I look forward to the day we will meet again. Rest in peace and God Speed.
Linda Day
December 14, 2006
Dear Wanda,
My sincere sympathy and prayers go
out to you. God bless you and your
family as you go through this most difficult time.
Angie (Remondet) Berthelot
December 14, 2006
Mr. Mike,
Please accept my deepest sympathies at this most difficult time. I am truly sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
Heather Graham
December 14, 2006
Jay:
Thank you for giving the ultimate sacrifice. You were taken away to soon. I hope that you are enjoying your time up there. You were truly a great soilder. Until we meet again...
Michaelle Poche'
December 14, 2006
To The Gauthreaux Family,
My prayers and thoughts are with your family at this time. I was so sad to hear the news of Jay. My name is Michaelle Poche'. My parents were very, very good friends of Jay's grandparents, Miss P'Nut and Mr. Ed, (Gene and Mimi Poche', from New Orleans.) They used to go to LSU games together and were very close friends. Miss P'Nut, my family is thinking of you and praying for your family.
Sincerely,
Michaelle Poche'
Charles & Paula Hymel
December 14, 2006
Mike, Wanta, Mrs. Pnut and Gauthreaux family -- Words cannot express the sorrow we are feeling for you and your family. Please know, and be comforted by it, that Jay is reaping the rewards in heaven for his ultimate sacrifice he has made for us here on earth. He is our hero! Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. May God Bless all of you!
Gary & Sesiree Zeigler
December 14, 2006
Gauthreaux Family,
Our prayers an deepest thoughts are with you and your family. No words can explain your loving spirit and memories that we shared. We know that you are in a better and more beautiful place. We know that you are watching over us, keep us in your loving spirit as we will keep you in our thoughts and memeories forever.
Love always
The Zeigler Family
"3BDE "Grey Wolf" 00-03 S1
Ronnie Kesler
December 13, 2006
THANK YOU, JAY. YOU GAVE THE ULTIMATE SO THAT WE CAN HAVE THE FREEDOMS THAT WE ENJOY AND TAKE FOR GRANTED ALL TOO OFTEN. AS I WALK THROUGH THE STORES, MALLS, ETC., AND I COME UPON A PERSON IN UNIFORM, I SHAKE THAT PERSON'S HAND AND SAY "THANK YOU." I DID NOT GET TO SHAKE YOUR HAND (OR MAYBE I DID) BUT I SAY "THANK YOU, JAY."
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY AS THEY MOVE ON AS THEY MUST.
Sharon & Chuck LeBlanc
December 13, 2006
Mike and Wanda, and your family: you'll have endured the greatest lost of all, a child. A heroic young man and father that fought a fight he believed in. I have so much respect for the military. Since December the 4th at 8:30 p.m. your lives will never be the same. A part of your heart is now missing. Now you have an angel taking care of you'll. This angel will be with you at all times.
He paid the ultimate price my us to be safe in our own country - the land of the free and the home of the "Brave".
I know Devin will hear all the good stories about a wonderful father that is now missing in his life. I know he will see the love in his dad's eyes for him through the many pictures he will be shown.
Coach Mike was an inspiration to my sons on the baseball field. But he was more than just a coach; he was a leader. Just as Jay was a leader and an inspiration to all of us he leaves behind.
Yes, Jesus died for us and the soldiers die for us to be free.
I will keep all of you'll in my prayers. I know this road will be a difficult one. But, with God, family and friends - we will not let you'll down.
Today your extended family at the plant and the extended families that attended the service at the church showed you how much you'll mean to us.
The ceremony at church was breathtaking, emotional, sorrowful, it was overwhelming at times. But, most of all it showed how God is in our lives and we need him and we can't live without him. God will help you get through this.
Call on us anytime - because we love you'll.
Christopher Custis
December 13, 2006
Devin,
You are all your father talked about all the time. I had the pleasure of serving with him for a little over 6 years and I have to say that he is one of the finest soldiers and friends that I have ever met. He will be greatly missed and remembered forever. He is the definition and standard of a "GREY WOLF" soldier. It is just sad that he was taken away so soon. Til we meet again friend.
Sybil Walker
December 13, 2006
I am counting on you to enjoy yourself up there and keep smiling down on the rest of us who are looking forward to seeing you again. With much love.
Sylvia Waits -State Regent
December 13, 2006
Ms. Claire and the Gauthreaux family,
The Louisiana Catholic Daughters of the Americas are praying that the love of God will give you the strength needed to get through this difficult time. It is our hope that you take confort in the knowledge that you now have a special angel to watch over you and that you will see him again.
If there is any way we can be of assistance please let us know.
Your sisters in Christ,
The LA State Board
Jeanette Joseph
December 13, 2006
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Mary Loup
December 13, 2006
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006
Kellis & Grace Buckland
December 13, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Captain Tyler McIntyre
December 13, 2006
To Devin and the Rest of Jay's Family,
I served with Jay for about three years and was with him on his first tour in Iraq. I think I probably knew him better than any other officer in the unit. Words will never express what this loss will be like for you or how it will affect your lives. I just wish for you to know the truth about Jay as a soldier--he was a great one and everyone loved serving with him. Jay was reliable, dependable, motivated, and he knew his job inside and out. He was also very personable, good-natured, and funny; I always enjoyed seeing him. In short, Jay was one of the reasons I looked forward to my job. He was a soldier through and through. I considered Jay one of my comrades in arms, one of my favorites, one of the soldiers I would always remember fondly and hopefully see around the Army again. His loss will leave an impression on my heart forever. Please accept my deepest, most sincere, and heartfelt condolences.
Janice Doucet
December 13, 2006
I do not know the family. But you are in my prayers. I truly appreciate your sons sacrifice for our freedom.
Darren James - Coldwell Banker Mackey Co. - Central Office
December 13, 2006
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. Keep the faith in Jesus Christ, and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Mallory Jackson
December 13, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
PEGGY SMITH
December 13, 2006
TO THE FAMILY OF SGT.GAUTHREAUX, I DID NOT KNOW YOUR SON BUT WOULD LIKE TO LET YOU KNOW THAT MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU ALL. I'M SURE RYAN IS AN ANGEL NOW AND WILL ALWAYS BE WITH HIS FAMILY. MY SON JUST GOT OUT OF THE ARMY AFTER SERVING 8 YEARS. I THANK GOD FOR HIS SAFETY. MAY GOD WITH YOU ALWAYS AND "THANK YOU" SGT.GAUTHREAUX FOR YOUR SERVICE. I KNOW THIS IS NOT EASY FOR HIS LOVE ONES. STAY STRONG FOR RYAN AND KEEP HIS MEMORY ALIVE. GOD,PLEASE WITH THIS FAMILY. PEGGY SMITH
Corliss Gaudin
December 13, 2006
Mike & Wanda, We are so sorry for your loss, our prayers are with you. Corliss & Howard Gaudin
Greg Entremont
December 13, 2006
Mike,
I want to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family at this most difficult time. I didn't know Jay, but if he was anything like his dad he was a good man. Too many times we take for granted our freedom and the men and women who protect us from harm and sacrifice so much to keep us free. We owe much to our present and past soldiers who have given their all for us to enjoy the life we have today. Find peace in the fact that Jay is in heaven with God never to suffer anymore and awaits the day when he is reunited with you and your family. God bless Jay and may he rest in peace.
Bill & Amy Landry
December 13, 2006
Mike and Wanda,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in these difficult times. Thank you Jay for protecting our freedom and our great country. Let us never forget the sacrifice made.
Smoke and Phyllis LeMoine
December 13, 2006
Mike and Wanda,
Please accept our deepest condolences on the lost of your son Jay. Dieing for your country is one of the highest honors given and we are so proud Jay enlisted to fight for our freedom. We can only imagine the lost you are feeling right now but we do offer up our prayers that Jay is now safe with our dear Lord and that the healing will begin for you and your family.If there is anything we can do to help the healing please let us know. May God bless you and yours.
Tim Smith
December 13, 2006
FROM: SFC Tim Smith Friend & Former Supervisor
May the lords blessing and loving hand be upon you through this trying time. G was a great friend and soldier that was very close to me and my family. He will be missed dearly.
Myron, Stephanie & Brett Dupré
December 12, 2006
To the family of Sgt. Jay Ryan Gauthreaux,
Although we did not have the pleasure of knowing Jay, we have recently had the pleasure of meeting some of his family members through our son Brett who is dating a family member. And from knowing this lovely family, we can imagine that Jay was just as wonderful as all the comments state about him and know that he was truly loved by all. May the peace of God and His understanding sustain you through this most difficult time in your lives and know that God has now raised him up on angel's wings. He will be remebered as a hero to us for giving the ultimate sacrifice of laying down his life for others for freedom. You all will continue to be remembered in our thoughts and prayers.
God Bless,
Michelle Nicholas
December 12, 2006
To the Family of SGT Gauthreaux,
I served with Jay during his first tour in Iraq. We spent many hours on guard together where I learned all about the adventures of Devin, LSU, and techno music. In the short time I knew him I found Jay to be a very loving father and a great soldier. It truly was an honor to serve with him.
The Staff of Ourso Funeral Home
December 13, 2006
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
Heath and April Mangum
December 12, 2006
Devin,
Your father was a great man and you were all he ever talked about Devin the Dude as he called you. He is in a better place walking amongst gods angels. We loved him dearly and he will always be missed.
Heath Mangum
December 12, 2006
G, you were a great friend and leave a lot of us with happy memories, the way I know you would want be remembered. Rest in peace brother and may God keep your son safe as he grows up to be a man. You will never be forgot.
Sonny & Peggy Denoux
December 12, 2006
Mike and Wanda, May God lighten your burden with the wonderful memories you all will cherish in your hearts of Jay. We will always keep you and your families in our prayers.
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