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Thera
April 15, 2020
Thinking of you! Miss you!! God Bless!!
Charlie Gili
January 19, 2020
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Kevin John Gaspers
US Army 1st Lieutenant.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
March 17, 2013
In memory and honor of 1st Lt. Kevin Gaspers.
Peggy Childers
April 23, 2012
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Kevin J. Gaspers:
Always remembering Kevin. "Some gave all."
L Neal
May 10, 2011
To the family of 1st Lt. Kevin J. Gaspers:
Please know that just as your loved one remains in your hearts and minds; his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.
Peggy Childers
April 23, 2011
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Kevin J. Gaspers:
Please accept my remembrance of Kevin on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Peggy Childers
April 23, 2010
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Kevin J. Gaspers:
Remembering Kevin on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Pam Gaspers
June 9, 2009
Kevin, thinking of you today. We all miss you but there is one thing that gives me hope - the love that we have for each other, death cannot erase or destroy. Until we meet again, watch over us.
Love, Mom
Michael Iezzi
April 23, 2009
Father we entrust our brother Kevin to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Kevin in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathies.
Kevin,
Thinking and praying for you on the 2nd anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.
Peggy Childers
April 23, 2009
To the family of 1st Lt. Kevin J. Gaspers:
Kevin gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
January 30, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,300 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
pam gaspers
December 11, 2008
Kevin,
As we prepare to celebrate the Christmas Season; let us be reminded of the men and women overseas fighting for our way of life. They deserve a huge Thank You and so do their families! We know that your spirit will remain with us in our hearts this Christmas and we miss you very much.
All my Love,
Mom
Brad OBrien
October 20, 2008
LT, we never met. I was an aid station nurse at FOB Warhorse. We had lotsa wounded evacs come in and I'm sure had you come across the trauma table I would have remembered something. A wedding band, a unique tattoo etc.
I'm now at Fort Polk. I'm far from the Cav and the men like yourself who have contributed mightily to make the 1st Cav Division the success it has always been on the battlefields our nation sends it off to fight on.
Pam Gaspers
July 3, 2008
Kevin, Wish you were here for Katie's wedding! Your spirit will be with us and I know that the day will be beautiful because of you.
Thank you for being our son/brother - we miss you
Love
Your family
June 24, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you 1st Lt Gaspers!
Caitlin Taylor
May 26, 2008
First and foremost, my heart and prayers go out to the family of Kevin. I met him at Fort Lewis, WA at ROTC Advanced Camp and learned so much from him. Always motivated and always with a smile, he went above and beyond to work with his peers to help others become a better leader. I had to laugh when he was amazed at how a female was as passionate about tactics as he was.
We had a Memorial Day ceremony today at Camp Buehring, Kuwait to include a memorial wall of all those fallen soldiers from the war on terror. This is how I learned of the sacrifice that Kevin made. He is the first one I have known to have made the ultimate sacrifice. Please know that he has been in my thoughts and prayers this day as we remember him and his fallen comrades.
I only hope that I can serve as he did and fight for the country and its freedom that we love so much. He has touched so many lives in so many ways.
"May our country prove worthy for the sacrifice they made" ~George W Bush
1LT Caitlin M Taylor
S-6, BSB-North
Camp Buehring, Kuwait
May 25, 2008
To The Gaspers Family and Friends
YOUR LOSS is The Great State of Nebraska's & America's as well.
I want to take the time to send a few words and Let you know 1st Lt. Kevin J. Gaspers is remembered as a Hero and you are as well with Prayer for your Loss..
May your Memories with him and of him help to comfort you along with God's care.
There just is no word's to take away the loss you feel, for that I am sorry...
I thank you for America's freedom and mine and my families because of men and women like your Kevin.
God Bless and Keep You in His Peace during these times of Great Loss.
His efforts for Westling at his school and his ROTC service tell a small part about this Great person!
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The Family Lines of Lt. Presley Neville O'Bannon (A Marine who Raised the first American Flag on Foreign soil, Shores of Tripoli Hero) Proudly Salute: 1st. Lt. Kevin J. Gaspers, YOUR & one of Our Special Gold Star Hero's, from Nebraska who gave his all and then gave more! For his extream service and bravery He stands as an Exceptional Man ... Bless those he served with ..
As His Fellow Comrades Stand Guard, Protect and Bless them Lord.
Proudly a Wife and Daughter of Ret. Navy men
Proud sister, cousin, grand daughter, niece of many that have served...Always a Cornhusker!
Rev. T. O'Bannon Brod (Proud to be from, NE)
(related to Haffer's of Hastings)
COL Philip Wojtalewicz
May 5, 2008
Kevin, I had the honor of knowing you as one of my ROTC cadets at UNL. I could tell then that you had a wonderful future ahead of you. The US Army was gaining a great leader.
Kevin, you paid the ultimate sacrifice to ensure that the coming generations can live in peace. Watch over us as we continue on with your work.
Be thou at peace.
Pam Gaspers
April 23, 2008
Hey Kevin,
A year has passed and not a day goes by that we don't remember you. We know that you are in a better place and keeping watch over us. Kev - ask God for peace and respect for one another! Miss You
Love
Mom
In Memory of Kevin ( Debra Estep )
April 23, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers today.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Kevin, but I am remembering on
this day he gave his all.
He is my hero.
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
The Other Side
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Pam Gaspers
March 11, 2008
Dear Kevin,
Miss you and my hugs and kisses go out to you in Heaven.
Love
Mom
William Gaspers
March 5, 2008
A simple search on the internet led me to this outstanding tribute to a wonderful young man. My heartfelt sympathy to his family and friends. In the words of Gen. George Patton, "It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who died. Rather we should thank God that such men lived. As an American, I THANK GOD that this young man lived. I know that his family is very proud of his service. God Bless you all.
Patty Schmuecker
December 14, 2007
To the parents and family of 1st Lt. Kevin J. Gaspers. Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. There are no words to ease your pain, but we can draw strength from each other in the difficult days ahead. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers through this holiday time and in the coming year. I believe our soldiers are in heaven, watching over us, guiding us, and keeping us safe. My son, SGT Jacob S. Schmuecker, KIA 7-21-07, Balad, Iraq, is also one of those soldiers.
With deepest sympathy,
Kevin was our favorite PT stud!
November 19, 2007
one of MANY awards Kevin earned
November 19, 2007
a laugh like no other
November 19, 2007
Kevin's smile
November 19, 2007
Go Bluehawks!
November 19, 2007
Kevin working security at Memorial Stadium
November 19, 2007
Kevin & Jason at Big Red Welcome- UNL'04
November 19, 2007
Carole Tanner
October 1, 2007
Although Kevin would never let you call him a hero- I've never known anyone more deserving of the title. I miss you, Kevin. I wear your KIA bracelet everyday to remind me of the kind of person, Soldier, and leader that I truly want to be. Your sacrifice humbles me, and I'm so thankful for the memories we have.
Dan McMahon
August 24, 2007
Kevin, you will be missed!!!
August 15, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 13, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by 1st Lt Gaspers and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
ROBYN Garside
May 28, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Karla E
May 27, 2007
Kevin, I remember my freshman year when I was dating Bret and we would all go out to PlaMor. I remember Bret trying to teach me how to do the pretzel and he kept going so fast that I couldn't keep up, so you took me out to teach me. You always made me feel welcome with all of you guys, like I was part of the group from day one. Thank you for being such an amazing person. You will be missed so much.
Ronn Massie
May 22, 2007
God bless the family and friends of Kevin.
You will all be in our prayers.
Thank you Kevin for being such a brave hero.
(In remembrance of Cpl. Joey Cantrell 4-4-07)
Tom Gugliuzza
May 13, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Gaspers family in the loss of Kevin. I did not know Kevin, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Kristen Love
May 6, 2007
Kevin, I miss you and your smile. I remember all the times we chatted and hung out waiting for Bret to get home or even after Bret and I broke up. I regret that we didn't keep in better touch and that i couldn't be there for your funeral...but please know that you will never be forgotten and will be honored in my and my family's lives forever...you are a true hero!
Glen
May 5, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history…they pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Gina
May 5, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you right now. May Kevin forever be your guiding star to the heavens afar!
Drew Driscoll
May 4, 2007
God Bless Him and Keep Him.
Kevin you will always be in the thoughts and prayers of those who knew you.
Hook Cheryl Scheacher
May 4, 2007
Kevin, you are my "HERO.To give your life for your country is the altimate sacrfice.As a vietnam vet I know it quite well.John,Pam,and Girls I looked out the window tonight and saw that first bright star, It made me think about Kevin.Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.God Bless Kevin.
Kate Wellensiek
May 3, 2007
Kevin was my brother's college roomate and one of his best friends. Kevin became a friend and like another brother to me! Kevin was an amazing guy and I'm sure he is looking down on all of us from heaven. He always smiled and made everything fun. There was no other guy like him. His family is in my prayers and I know he is still protceting us from up above!
Jackie Smith Turkal
May 3, 2007
Kevin, I remember meeting you in Osceola at my parents 40th anniversary party. I can't believe that you are gone. John, Pam and girls know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Wish I could come home for the funeral but it won't work out. Tell Julie and Uncle Paul that I am thinking about them too.
Emily Hemberger
May 2, 2007
Kevin, it doesnt seem fair that you're gone...I know that you're in heaven and I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.
cindy klassen
May 2, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you today, John and Pam. God does not promise to shield us from suffering, but he does promise to see us through it. God be with you. Love, Jim and Cindy
Abbi Johnson
May 2, 2007
It is amazing that you gave your life fighting for our country and our safety. You are a hero. My prayers are with you and your family.
Denise Heinrich
May 2, 2007
It is with the Deepest sadness that we ask the family and friends of this Brave Young Soldier to accept the offer of our most sincere and heart felt condolences. We hope that you know that your loss is shared and mourned by millions of Americans. Most of whom you don't know and in all probability will never meet. We sincerely appreciate the sacarifices made by your patriot (1st. Lt Kevin Gaspers).
Rest in Peace Brave Young Soldier; you did your duty with great honor, dedication, distinction and in the highest tradition of our great country.
Sincerely Mr.& mrs. Larry Heinrich
Elizabeth Gartner
May 2, 2007
We will miss you always...
Bridget Boeding
May 2, 2007
Kevin, you are a true Hero to us all. I can not thank you enough. We will all miss you so much but cherish all the memories we have of you. My sincerist condolences go out to the family. Your in my thoughts and prayers!
Vicki Buss
May 1, 2007
Kevin you were the best!!!
Vicki Buss
Cathie Adams
May 1, 2007
My heart and deepest sympathy goes out to the family of this hero. My son, Sgt. Marc Adams, is a combact Medic for the 5/73rd 3rd Brig 82nd Airborne and at the location when the bomb exploded. You will be in my prayers always.
Kimberly Carlin
May 1, 2007
Kevin, you will truly missed. Thank you for giving you your all. You are now in heaven hopefully still praying for peace and fighting for your country.
Trisha Oles
May 1, 2007
I didn't know you at all Kevin!! But you sure sound like you were a blessing to many! You will surely be missed!
Cory and Mary Orvik
May 1, 2007
God Bless Legacy.com for allowing us to honor these heros.
We can't imagine what you have been going through since being notified of the death of your young Warrior. The Military and families all over the USA and world are grieving with you and praying for you. What a very brave individual you have in your family that would give up a life for their homeland and its people so they can remain free. Your Freedom Fighter has served the Country above and beyond the call of duty, let no one ever tell you different. With the mission now completed your Warrior has been redeployed to Heaven to sit on the right hand of the Supreme Commander and Chief. The Father above has Kevin in his arms and will give him peace as well as eventually easing your pain and suffering. God speed to you and 1st Lt. Kevin J. Gaspers, our HERO. We are so proud of them that are willing to sacrifice for this great Nation, THANK YOU.
Army Retired
Mitzi Taylor
April 30, 2007
Kevin, You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless.
Molly Consbruck
April 30, 2007
thank you kevin for everything!! ur a true hero! you seemed like such an awesome person. you will b missed by many, but u have inspired them all! you have an awesome family especially your sister audrey! you are definitely in our prayers!!
Dennis (USMC - Vietnam) & Pam Robertson
April 30, 2007
We are saddened at the loss of this fine young soldier, a hero. May God comfor and embrace you as only He can. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
In loving memory of our nephew
Lance Cpl James R. Davenport KIA 11/22/06
Josh Hinrichs
April 30, 2007
Kevin, God Bless you and your family. You are a great person who made the ULTIMATE Sacrifice to defend our nation and our freedom.
You will NEVER be forgotten!!
Trudy Lowe
April 30, 2007
My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.
Mattie McMahon
April 30, 2007
Thank You Kevin for everything! I know that you are in Heaven right now looking down on us all! I will always remember you as a Heartful, Strong, and loving Brother, Son, and Friend! You were a GREAT man! I feel honored to know you! You and your family will always be in my prayers. you will be GREATLY missed and loved.<3 Mattie
Jenna W.
April 30, 2007
Please pray for us Kevin as you chill with the angels.
Molly Uridil
April 29, 2007
God Bless you Kev. You were such an amazing person with such a beautiful soul. I am going to miss you Chevy Levy.
Joe Hermann
April 29, 2007
God Bless you Kevin. You are an example to all sevice personel. Including myself. John 15:13.
Joe Hermann
Hastings Rural Vol. Fire Dept
Audrey Gaspers
April 29, 2007
well kevin what can i say u have been there for me in EVERYTHING u have been the most awesome brother and even though u wont be here on earth ik ur in Heaven and u'll still be an awesome brother when ur up there i can just feel u watching over me and dont worry i am going to make u proud in everything i do. i love you so much and just the stories were hearing it brings back the best of memories i'll always remember i told u i was goin to go to a guys house w/ other people and ur like who is this guy and i told u and ur first words were i dont like him it just shows me how much u cared and loved me and ik u still do. u'll be my reason to live and trust me i will do my best to make u proud and make sure that people wont let u down. u were the best brother i have ever had and i really want u to know that. the last phone call i had w/ u on that monday night i'll always remember my last words to you were I LOVE YOU 2. and you know what im so happy they were this will never bring our family apart its gonna make us strong and make u proud well Kevin I love you and ik what ur saying right now is i love you 2 ill never forget u and dont u ever think for one moment i will.
Thera Krueger
April 29, 2007
There isn't anything that I can say or do to take away the pain your are going through! Kevin was a such an amazing person and great friend! I will cherish our memories we had together FOREVER!!! I am so blessed to have known such a beautiful person!!! He's my true hero! My thoughts and prayers are with you always!
God Bless you Kevin! Miss you and love you so much!!!
Mary Ghaney
April 28, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Garnet Jenkins
April 27, 2007
The price 1st Lt. Kevin J. Gaspers and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten.
Please know how Deeply Sorry I am to learn of the loss of this Brave Young Soldier.
May Kevin rest safely in the Loving Care of God and may the Grace and Comfort of the Lord be with the Gaspers family.
There will Never Be Enough Ways to Humbly Thank these Heroes for their Supreme Sacrifice, my brother among them. Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.
"I consider that our present sufferings.
are not worth comparing with the glory
that shall be revealed in us."
Romans 8:18
May you find Peace in knowing the love and memories you have, will remain in your heart forever and that this Country Will Not Forget Kevin's Sacrifice.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Crystal Webb
April 25, 2007
My prayers go out to you. Your soldier may take their place among the many other fallen heroes.
In honor of my brother
Sgt Dustin Adkins
1-06-1984 12-04-2006
April 25, 2007
Please accept our condolences in the loss of your loved one.
May God bless you with comfort and peace. Thank you for your sacrifice.
In loving memory of our nephew
Spec Philip Cody Ford
C Co 3rd/509th Geronimos
Ft Richardson AK.
KIA Baghdad 10-Dec-2006
Ron and Kim Baker
Michael Iezzi
April 25, 2007
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
SHIRLEY DONEY
April 25, 2007
REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
Sandy Bonesteel
April 25, 2007
As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.
Carol Cline
April 24, 2007
Know in your heart that you are a true hero and will never be forgotten. All gave some, some gave all. Rest in peace. You will be missed by everyone’s life you have touched.
To the family, as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family, friends, and all Americans for the sacrifice of one of your family members for our freedom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the loving embrace of our Heavenly Father.
Carol Cline
April 24, 2007
Know in your heart that you are a true hero and will never be forgotten. All gave some, some gave all. Rest in peace. You will be missed by everyone’s life you have touched.
To the family, as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family, friends, and all Americans for the sacrifice of one of your family members for our freedom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the loving embrace of our Heavenly Father.
Gary Allain
April 24, 2007
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
April 24, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
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