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SGT. CHARLES BERNARD (TREY) KITOWSKI, III, 31, passed away Sunday, August 12, 2007, in Afghanistan. Trey grew up in Katy, Texas. He graduated from St. Thomas High School and The University of St. Thomas, in Houston. He was employed by Southwest Airlines. He is survived by his parents, Chuck & Theresa Kitowski of Katy; grandparents, Charlie & Zenia Kitowski of Austin; and his girlfriend and close companion, Berri Gentry of Farmers Branch, Texas. He was preceded in death by his grandparents, Horace D. & Mary Nause Martin. Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 12:00 noon Saturday, at the St. Bartholomew Catholic Church, in Katy, with Rev. John Kha Tran, Celebrant, and assisted by Chaplain Randy Fannin, US Army. Interment in Katy Magnolia Cemetery with full military honors. Those wishing to make memorial gifts may do so to the Freedom Alliance Scholarship Fund, 22570 Markey Court, Suite 240, Dulles, VA 20166, or call 800-475-6620. The Freedom Alliance Scholarship Fund honors the bravery and dedication exhibited by Americans in our Armed Forces, who have sacrificed life and limb by providing college scholarships to their children. Schmidt Funeral Home 1508 East Ave., Katy, TX 77493 (281) 391-2424

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Aug. 18, 2007.

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Christopher George

May 23, 2025

Ready your story because of Dan Sutton, you are also a true hero Sgt Trey Kitowski

Cassie Rankin

May 27, 2024

Thinking of you always and especially today! We will never forget.

Janet (Simoneaux) Carrigan

May 26, 2024

Charles, we honor your service and we mourn your loss even after all these years. Thanks to you and all who have given their full measure of devotion to our country. On another note, I hope you and Wade are behaving yourselves on the other side of the pearly gates.

Sinead

August 12, 2023

Thinking of you :)

Janet (Simoneaux) Carrigan

May 29, 2023

Another Memorial Day and we continue to remember and honor you Charles; we remember you as a warrior and Heaven knows you as a saint. Thank you for your full measure to our country and freedom.

Penelope M

September 1, 2021

Thinking of you this August and every August. Rest easy soldier. We will never forget you.

Robert Blain

August 13, 2021

Both seems like forever since the last time I saw you and also feels like it was just yesterday.
Proud to call you a friend.

Jeanne Gentry

August 12, 2021

We are thinking about you today and will never forget you Charles. You are our hero and will forever be in our hearts.

phil gentry

August 11, 2021

Earth are still in our thoughts. Happy birthday Charles

JD

August 11, 2021

You left a permanent mark on my heart. Life does go on but I will never ever forget you.

Sinead

August 10, 2021

Thinking of you :)

Janet Carrigan

June 2, 2021

Charles and my son Wade as freshmen at UST - best buds and always in the mood for a party!

Janet (Simoneaux) Carrigan

May 31, 2021

Today we all honor Trey - he will not be forgotten by the Carrigan and Simoneaux families. His bravery, honor and love of country burns brightly. Blessings Trey; God has shone a light on you.

Neal Fangue

September 5, 2020

Rest In Peace, Sgt. Kitowski

Janet Carrigan

May 24, 2019

Charles, we remember you always and your memory will never be forgotten by Wade Simoneaux's family.

Charlie Gili

February 16, 2018

Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Kitowski Family know that we have made a small donation to The Freedom Alliance Scholarship Fund to honor and remember Charles B. (Trey) Kitowski III US Army Sergeant. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals across the American youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.

Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

Jeanne Gentry

August 12, 2016

Hey Charles, can't believe it's been 9 years and you are already 40 years old. We think about you a lot and miss you so much. I talk to your mom and she loves to talk about her Tre Boy. I love hearing all the stories she tells. You will forever be in our hearts! Love you!

Ben Connally

August 10, 2016

Hey Charles,
Just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you on your 40th. It absolutely sucks that I can't celebrate it with you, but I give you my word as a Marine that I'll do the best I can to celebrate for both of us. :-)

Robin Kilgore

August 10, 2016

Charles -

Words escape me as I try to imagine what kind of 40th Birthday you would be celebrating today. A rousing good time, I'm sure. You are so missed. Thinking of your family this week.

Hugs from Toronto,
Robin

Robin Kilgore

May 30, 2016

Thinking of you and your family on this Memorial Day.

Many hugs to all,
Robin

phil

August 13, 2015

Thinking of you and your parents yesterday and remembering the Big Charles smile. Take care

Phil Gentry

August 13, 2015

We were all thing about you and your parents yesterday and remembering the Charles big smile. Take Care

Jenne Gentry

August 12, 2015

Charles, Thinking about you today. Can't believe it's been 8 years. We will never forget the sweet person and the sacrifice you made. Miss you and love you always!

phil

August 12, 2015

Hello Charles, you are still with us. Thinking of you and your Mom and Dad today. Take care

Robin Kilgore

August 10, 2015

Thinking of you on your Birthday and looking forward to an online toast with our friends tonight in honor of you. I took a quick stroll through some photos last night and enjoyed being reminded of many fun times.

Never forgotten,
Robin

Myke Puente

May 25, 2015

Thought of you today but I do every morning as I pass the mantel in the living room. You will always be the #1 kid and a great friend. I have the animal finger puppets and the sci-fi figures you liked so much up there next to that smiling mug of yours. Thanks just is not enough for all you gave. You are still very much missed by myself and your family at Southwest.

Robin Kilgore

May 25, 2015

Some very nice images of your grave were posted on Facebook today peppered with visits from our friends. It made me so sad all over again, but warmed to see that you're not forgotten. Thinking of you and your family today.

May 25, 2015

May your pride always be stronger than your sorrow.

Marilyn Harper

May 25, 2015

Once again, Monkey, you are on my mind. Today, I honor your service to our country and remember the man you were. I continue to pray for your family and loved ones. You may be gone, but are not forgotten! Happy Memorial Day, Trey. Rest in peace, Warrior!

phil gentry

May 24, 2015

Thinking of you today Charles you will always be with us

Scott Moore

January 15, 2015

May god bless you and your family, from one 345th paratrooper to another. Never forgotten!

Ben

August 12, 2014

You're still inspiring to many of us. I, like many others, am thinking about your sacrifice on this day. We all miss you.

Robin Kilgore

August 12, 2014

Simply stated, it's been 7 years and the sentiments never change.

Hugs,
Robin

Francisco Franco

August 7, 2014

Wow! After reading some much neglected email, today I found out Charles will finally be inducted into our alma mater's "Hall of Honor" @ St. Thomas H.S.

I lobbied hard to induct him 3 years ago by trying to rally everyone from my class to nominate him for this honor. It looks like this year was finally his year to get inducted with some of the finest men STH has produced alongside Congressmen, Bishops, Philanthropists and all manner of people befitting this honor. I'm so happy for Chuck & his family right now that I'm in tears....

Ben

July 14, 2014

I'm sure you know this already, but you're in our thoughts down here. Miss you, bro.

Jeanne Gentry

June 14, 2014

The Gentry's think about you often. We will never forget you and the sacrifice you made. Talked to your mom and dad last night. We all miss you!!

Marilyn Harper

May 26, 2014

Today, on Memorial Day, I have been thinking about you and remembering what a wonderful person, friend, and Soldier you were. You may be gone, but you will never be forgotten, "Monkey". It was a true honor to know and serve with you.

Robin Kilgore

May 26, 2014

Thinking of you on Memorial Day!

Hugs,
Robin

Phil

September 11, 2013

Just thinking of you today Charles. You are a courageous young man and you will always be a in this family thoughts and prayers.
PS you have a great big smile always

Arlene Navo

August 26, 2013

Hey, Chuck... I was looking for the link to this guestbook about 2 weeks ago and couldn't find it. Yet somehow I find it today. Odd.

Anyway, thanks for our "conversations." I don't know if it's really you talking to me or just how I imagine you would be talking to me. Either way, the words are healing.

Until our next conversation... :)

B G

August 13, 2013

Oh, I miss you sweet boy! I really can't believe it's been 6 whole years. Thank-you for watching over Cayson and I. I will alwyas remember you, what you did for me and most importantly what you taught me about life. Thank-you for once again making my heart happy. I'm tryly blessed and thankful. Miss you and love you!

Robin Kilgore

August 11, 2013

Charles -

I met a girl at a wedding reception on your Birthday who had just recently lost a dear friend suddenly. I saw myself and all of our friends in her eyes and was to able to empathize with her completely. I talked to her about how your sudden passing altered so many ways that I look at people and life in general. I shared with her that through loss, unexpected bonds with mutual friends grew and promised her that how distraught she feels right now will evolve into a level of understanding and acceptance in time. Just after I got home, that statement was proven true. Vickie reached out to me and added me to a growing online toast conversation for with Brian, Brandt, Bao, Julie, Dan and Arlene. We chatted, told stories, toasted you (and Wade), laughed and cried.

You might be gone, but as promised, you are never forgotten.

Hugs,
Robin

August 9, 2013

Myke Puente

August 9, 2013

Trey, it will be 6 years on Monday the 12th that you left us in a physical sense. The days and months following t were sad for us all. Time does make the sadness lessen but 6 years has gone by and i can tell you that you are still missed. Your birthday is on Saturday. I was thinking of your past birthdays and the surprise birthday that we threw for you before you left. You will always be #1 kid, I plan on celebrating the day not being sad but heading down to TC and having a cold drink as we did so many times before you left. I would tell all your friends to do the same. Lift your glass to Trey Boy and remember the good times. There were so many, I smile just thinking of one or two. You had that effect on making us all smile. Happy Birthday Bud....

Victoria Smith

August 7, 2013

I still remember your laugh and ability to make everyone feel like part of the same big family. As the date draws near, I'm thinking of you more, and you will always be remembered. Thank you!

May 28, 2013

You are never forgotten! Your smile is missed but knowing you are watching over everyone is comforting! Continue to provide strength to your family, friends and loved ones!

Andrea Wilson

April 16, 2013

I ran into Louis in Austin a few days ago and he told me about Trey. Just a terrible loss for such a wonderful family. My husband is in the Army and we worry for him every day. I can't imagine your grief and the awful absence that you still feel. My thoughts and prayers are with you all..forever. I have lots of pictures of Trey that I will send to Louis.

Timothy Delaney

April 15, 2013

Chuckles....I am so sorry brother. I just found out today 15APR2013 that anything had happened. I had no idea this happened to you. I found out by accident of all things. You helped me get through basic training, you were the unofficial big brother that helped us all succeed. I remember you and me helping Hancock dress himself and be on time for formation so what way we wouldn't all get smoked. Your example is what I followed when I deployed to Iraq in 2007-2008. I will never forget running into you down at the MUICH in Ft. Bragg and helping to train you before you left, and on my hands and knees with you with flashlights for 2 hours until we found your St. Christopher medal that had fallen in that gravel pathway. The "Grim Reapers" down at Ft. Jackson and all of USACAPOC truly lost one of their finest, brother. I miss you and I will visit you soon down in Texas. See you someday on the other side brother, God bless you. Belated as it may be, you and your loved ones will be in my prayers.

I'll never forget you brother

Robin Kilgore

February 10, 2013

Charles - Today is one of those days where I wish I could pick up the phone and visit with you - catch up with an old friend. Thinking of you! *Hugs*

Marilyn Kitowski

November 1, 2012

God Bless to one and all.

ROWDY YATES

August 31, 2012

Chuck and Theresa. I was thinking of your Trey Boy just the other day. I didn't know him well but he was the first soldier in my Command who was lost in combat, thehrefore will always be on my mind until the end of my life. The one positive take away from all this was I was able to meet your tremendous family and learn what a great young man your son was. I will always treasure the chance that Chuck and I had to walk around the Special Ops Museum and shutting it down. I always hope you will get a hold of me should you need to talk or get assistance. You know I will always do my best to assist you. My email is [email protected]. "We, this Band of Brothers". COL Rowdy Yates

Robin Kilgore

August 12, 2012

August 10th and 12th are days that have forever been altered in level of significance since we lost Charles. Bookends of celebration and sadness, birth and death. For 5 years now, we have waded through myriads of emotions. And in the years that follow, we will continue to do the same. Above all, everyone who knew Charles loved him. He brought people together and continues to today.

While grocery shopping today, I found an appropriately named flower I had never seen before - Peace Lilies - and bought several bunches in hopes for just that - peace - for everyone.

Jim Bredwell

August 12, 2012

Chuck, I still think about the day you and the others were leaving the gate and how we were joking around together. The next day, it all changed. I will soon be having a few saluting all of you. Chuck, Jeff, Jesse, and Clint: Here is to all of you. You are all missed.

Berri Gentry

August 12, 2012

Exactly 5 years ago today at about 1230 I received the worst news in my life. My sweet Charles went to heaven, God needed another Angel! Charles blessed my life in many ways. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think of him. He's certainly looking down on all us today and everyday sending up little blessing or signs. I love you, Charles and miss you dearly. You will never know how much you've done for me. Xoxoxoxooxoxox

Matthew Franklin

August 11, 2012

Charles, I'm out at Ft. Hunter Liggett, doing my MOS reclass to get into Civil Affairs. I never got to work with you, being a knuckle-dragging 11B trigger-puller, but I hope to do you proud as a USACAPOC soldier.

I remember before we went over to Iraq in `07 I was so full of hate and fury. I wanted to make that place overflow with blood. It was why I woke up in the morning.

Over Thanksgiving, though, something changed. It had to be you, Charles, reminding me of the right way, that mayhem and murder was what they did, and fighting as defenders and protectors is what we did. While I am still troubled about some of my experiences, I really believe you reached out to me, brother, and saved me that Thanksgiving.

I still remember my promise. One more to go. But I'm sure you wouldn't mind a few extras.

"For he to-day that sheds his blood with me
Shall be my brother; be he ne'er so vile,
This day shall gentle his condition;
And gentlemen in England now-a-bed
Shall think themselves accurs'd they were not here,
And hold their manhoods cheap whiles any speaks
That fought with us upon Saint Crispin's day."

--Henry V, Act 4, Scene 3

August 11, 2012

To those of you who knew Charles you know how he felt about a little celebrating. Well for his birthday I plan on having a margarita or two as we always did. I will celebrate his life, everyone please join me sometime this weekend and remember the good times. I truly believe he would want us to remember him with a smile rather then be sad. My glass is raised high to a true hero and a great friend to all he met. Happy Birthday bud.

August 11, 2012

I never had the privilege to meet Charles. But the photos and videos make it obvious that it was a privilege. A man you all can be proud of!

Berri G

August 10, 2012

Happy Birthday to my biggest, brightest, shinest STAR I know! I miss and love you sooooo much!! Thinking about you today and always!!!

phil

July 5, 2012

That is wonderful, Charlotte Bernadette and Hall of Honor, Charles you were a special and loved young man. We are blessed to have known you.

Robin Kilgore

May 28, 2012

Oh! I'm beaming for our friends, your dear friends, Julie and Bao Nguyen. Charles, their 3rd child was born today, Memorial Day. They named her after you - Charlotte Bernadette. I told you, Charles Bernard Kitowski, III, you are not forgotten!

Kariann Jackson

May 28, 2012

I miss you all the time my dear buddy. Thank you for your bravery. I will see you again!

Robin Kilgore

May 27, 2012

Thinking of you, your family and our friends today.

It dawned on me that in August it will be five years since you passed away. It's hard to believe that it's been that long. You are always brought up in conversation and my aging grandmother still asks about "that boy with the nice smile."

It's true statement; you are gone, but not forgotten.

Francisco Franco

January 20, 2012

I graduated with Charles from high school, at St. Thomas in 1994. Today I nominated him for our school's Hall of Honor, the most prestigious award for alumni of the 100+ year old all-boys Catholic institution. I'm urging fellow classmates and other alumni to nominate him as well, so we can hang up his portrait and see him where he belongs among other greats and notable heroes from our school. I hope to see him inducted this April 2012.

B G

November 12, 2011

JB and RB,

Do you mind if I contact you? If so can you please email me at [email protected].

Thank-you so much for thinking about, Charles it really means A LOT! Thank-you for all you do!

Berri

JB

November 11, 2011

Kit, It was an honor to serve with you. May you rest in peace.

R B

November 11, 2011

Kit, It was an honor serving with you. You were always positive, taking on each task dealt to you with enthusiasm and a mission-first attitude. May you rest in peace, and may your family know comfort.

Myke Puente

November 10, 2011

Nov 11,is Veterns Day, The meaning has taken on so much more since your passing.
We all have taken a great loss upon your death but I think we have all become stronger in knowing that you died doing what you wanted to do and that was to serve your country. I salute you my friend. Flying my flag in your honor not just on Veterns Day but every day is the least that I can do to remember you.
I ask that each of you that knows Trey Boy will take a few moments on Friday to honor him. Our friend, Our Hero.

B G

November 4, 2011

I love you!! Miss you sooo much!! You are the BEST thing that's ever happened to me!! I think about you daily! Send me a sign or someone special! xoxox
Berri

Jeanne Gentry

August 12, 2011

Charles, we will never forget you!! I still remember the first time we met you. That big smile, berri was so happy. You will forever live in our hearts. We miss you!!

Peggy Childers

August 12, 2011

To the family and friends of Sgt. Charles Kitowski:
Please accept my remembrance of Charles on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Ben Martin

August 12, 2011

Trey,

I can't believe it's been four years since you left us. You'll always be that little tow headed kid chasing the bigger kids down the road at the family reunion at Uncle Carol's, trying to keep up. I'm glad when I moved to Texas I was able to get to spend some time with you and get to know you as the man you grew into. The man I knew was kind and never spoke a bad word about others. He was generous with his time and didn't give a second thought to helping others whether they be family, friend or animal. You gave your life for a cause that you believed in when most of the rest of us were content to let someone else do the fighting for us. It was my honor to know you and I'll always be proud to call you family. We miss you always!

Penelope Misquitta Meurer

August 10, 2011

Charlie,
Happy Birthday. When I think of you, I think of happy times, mortal kombat, Taco Bell and my gatorade you spiked that one time !!!

I'll always remember your smile, your humour, your kindness. Sgt. Charles Kitowski we will always honor you and think of you as our hero.

Please continue to look out for all of us especially Berri and Cayson.

Love,
PM.

b g

August 9, 2011

Oh, my sweet Charles!
Can I just say I love you so so much! I've thought about you so much recently. This week is always sooo hard. I keep thinking back to your birthday, the day, memories and your smile. The pain and sadness I have is something I can't even describe and no one understands. You are my everything and I still can't believe that you are really gone. Please continue to give me strength and watch over Cayson and I. Happy Birthday! Love you always my little hero!
xoxxo

Myke Puente

August 9, 2011

To all of Charles friends, one of Charles favorite things to do as we all know was to eat. I had the pleasure of throwing him his 30th surprise birthday party along with Berri, I was able to talk to him days before he left us,
His request was to have fajitas and margaritas when he returned. Wed the 10 we will celebrate your birthday as I have the lasst 4 years. I would ask that all your friends take time and celebrate your birthday the way you wanted it. Happy Birthday my friend!

Robin Kilgore

August 8, 2011

Charles,

I know I'm not alone in having you as a prominent figure in the forefront of my mind this week. As promised, you are never forgotten and always celebrated.

Hugs to you and each and every person who feels the same way.

Robert Blain

May 30, 2011

Charles:

Yesterday, it hit me really hard how quickly the time has gone since we lost you. In this day set aside for you and your brothers-in-arms, I want you to know that we're thinking of you and will never forget you.

Julie Nguyen

May 5, 2011

Been thinking of you so often over the past few days. The relief that this evil man will no longer hurt another living soul is made all the more bittersweet by your sacrifice. I wish you were here to share the joy, but we will never forget your part in it.

B G

May 4, 2011

Love you so much!!!!!

May 1, 2011

We are thinking of you and your family on this historic day. So many memories and so much emotion. Embracing one another through our laptops from many locations, we toast to your efforts and miss your terribly.

~Robin

Myke Puente

May 1, 2011

I just got a new roommate, imagine when he told me that his name is Trey but that he goes by "Trey Boy" I was at a lost for words. When he told me his full name is Charles "Trey Boy" Smith. Or I could call him Sgt Smith (marines) I thought to myself i'm going to like my new roommate. Think of you often my friend.

phil

March 29, 2011

Hello Charles, just thinking of you today. The Charles peach tree is looking good.

January 1, 2011

When I think of Charles this time of year I remember fireworks and fudge.

November 11, 2010

I just want the Kitowski family to know that today is just one of the days throughout the year that my thoughts are with you. I hope you are proud of him, and strengthened by his memory. Bryan

Penelope Misquitta

November 10, 2010

Veterans day tomorrow Charlie. Thinking of you.
XOXO - EMPM.

B G

November 9, 2010

I miss you everyday! Some days are harder than others and it's still doesn't seem right or fair! There's a song and it goes "Only the good die young" Yes, I believe that...you are good, wonderful, amazing and I Love you!!!!!!!

October 7, 2010

Chuck...one of our STH brothers found you on google and started a comment session on Facebook. Apparently, he was unaware you passed on. BUT that comment session caught the attention of a number of your STH brothers that all 'paid their respects' on the blog! Your memory will never die among any STH grad of 1994. And we will all join you at some point in the future at that swim-up bar (hopefully with free drinks!) in the sky one day. Take care....Kaderka

berr gentry

August 12, 2010

Remembering you today and always!
I miss you!
Love you!
XOXOX

Peggy Childers

August 12, 2010

To the family and friends of Sgt. Charles Kitowski:
Remembering Charles on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Penelope Misquitta

August 12, 2010

Will light a candle and toast you today.
Erik Meurer & Penelope Misquitta

Martin Poock

August 12, 2010

Remembering today as well... Peace to your family and friends who loved you.

Amy Hinojosa

August 12, 2010

Dear Chuck,

I have no idea how three years have passed. You are missed as much today as you were on the day we all found out that you made the ultimate sacrifice. I can still hear your laugh and some of the choice phrases you used to say. I'll never forget the time you got lost in a taxi in DC at 3am!

I know that I am blessed to have had you in my life, especially during those crazy college years. You will always have a special place in my heart.

I hope you have found peace and that you know how much you mean to so many people.

What a great Picture!

Cassie Gentry

August 12, 2010

Remembering you as much today as we always do.

Penelope Misquitta

August 10, 2010

Dear Charlie,
Thanks for looking out for me today. Happy Birthday dear friend. Hope you are celebrating with all your buddies up there.

You always are such a trip sometimes - you know there is this happy hour thing that I committed to going to, a while back and guess which day it falls on, yes it does! You always wanted us to smile, have a drink and be happy. That is exactly how I will remember you all week.

I promise to always always be in touch with all our friends and Berri too. You wouldn't want it any other way. Thanks for bringing us all together.

Ditto. What Berri said.

Myke Puente

August 10, 2010

Happy Birthday My Friend...........

Karen Gentry

August 9, 2010

You are still in my thoughts and prayers Charles. God bless.

Heather Mitchell

August 9, 2010

You have an amazing family- strong and full of love. The hardest part of your leaving was seeing how much they were affected. You were so special. Blessings to your family and friends.

Berri Gentry

August 9, 2010

Oh, sweet Charles!
This is the week that's always the hardest for me, your family, my family and friends! I remember talking to you and you saying "it's the Birthday boy", several times! You were so happy and excited the last time I talked to you...that's how I will always remember you and of course that big bright, contagious SMILE of yours!! Thank-you once again for all you have taught me and done for me over the past three years.I love you and miss you more than you know! Give my grandma a big hug for me =)

Happy Birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love you, Charros (Jeffy)
Berri
XOXOXOX

Penelope Misquitta Meurer

August 8, 2010

Charles,
Still seems like yesterday for me even though 10 months and 13 days have passed. My heart will be in Texas all week. Thinking of you, your family, Berri, Berri's family, our UST friends.

Charlie we miss you. We love you. You will always be a part of us. Now and forever.

P.

Arlene Richard

August 7, 2010

Dearest Charles,

As that week in August draws nearer and nearer, I find the pain of knowing that you are not with us anymore resurges more and more.

I am sure that you are thinking of us as much as we are thinking of you...especially this week.

We miss you.

Arlene

PS -- I'm training again, and I'll be running Disneyland soon, the first of many races this year. I know in my heart that you helped me through that race the first time I ran it, three weeks after you left us. That memory alone will be there to help me this time around. Thank you. :)

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