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for Charles Milam
Lana Taylor
April 24, 2025
I don´t know him personally, but as a future corpsman, and deep down someone who wants to help people, he´s one of the few people I look up to. I know he was a great man and I pray that he rests in peace. Hooah.
Christopher Barclay
May 28, 2022
Luke was one of the mile markers for the run this weekend.
Charlie Gili
December 19, 2014
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Milam Family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to troops in Afghanistan this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of Charles Luke Milam US Navy Petty Officer 2nd Class. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Sarah
April 13, 2013
Luke, You're a very special soul and we all think of you often. You'll Never be forgotten by anyone you've ever come in contact with. As someone said in this book, we all have little things you did or said that will stay with us forever. I'll never forget how you slept with your eyes open, used to freak me out but could understand why. Your eyes had stories you lips would never speak. Rest in Peace my friend.
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September 26, 2012
It has been 5 years now not sure where the time has gone.It helps me to read these letters of love for Luke.He touched all of our lives that we will never forget.We are all blessed now I'm sure you can hear him say go out there and live your lives and make a difference.Thank you so very much for your kind loving words.
Michael Milam
Luke's Dad
September 18, 2012
I wear your Bracelet and and share your name with pride.
CPT Bryon S. Milam
U.S. Army
Keith Milam
August 22, 2012
Miss you little brother. Today the New York Times published your picture along with 2000 of your brothers and sisters. Take good care of them...
April 27, 2012
Still missing you...but find joy in things I used to take for granted, you can only be credited with.
Lopaka Bounds
April 8, 2012
Never forgotten!!
September 26, 2011
still thinking of you.
Peggy Childers
September 25, 2011
To the family and friends of Petty Officer 2nd Class Charles Milam:
Please accept my remembrance of Charles on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Carrie Ates
May 14, 2011
Happy Birthday! Never forgotten...
Brandy Grace
January 21, 2011
My 10 year old son received his military memorial bracelet in the mail today, and it has Luke's name on it. We found this page while looking to see who he was. Our prayers are with the family.
November 30, 2010
To Luke
Peggy Childers
September 25, 2010
To the family and friends of Petty Officer 2nd Class Charles Milam:
Remembering Charles on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Grayson Guyer
February 24, 2010
Thinking about Luke. Best wishes to all those who knew and loved him.
Carrie Ates
December 2, 2009
I still miss Luke sooo much. He's the most unforgettable man I will ever know...I think of him even everytime I put sugar in my tea, how he hated that. When I first was getting to know him and he stayed at my house I got up in the morning and cooked like 2 lbs of bacon because he was a big guy...wow did I get a lecture on how it clogs arteries and what not, I always concurred because even I don't eat the stuff- but I just wanted to take care of him because he was so great. Funny the things you remember when someone is gone. Miss you my love...
SO2 Eric Krapf
December 1, 2009
Luke--It's already been more than two years...you're still missed bro.
carrie ates
October 12, 2009
Wishing Luke was here to share this bottle of Spumante with me again... it's the right time of year. Never forgetting any of our moments.
Katie
September 28, 2009
Luke, I still think of you and miss you. You were simply an amazing person and loss too soon.
Peggy Childers
September 25, 2009
To the family of Petty Officer 2nd Class Charles Milam:
Charles gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Bryce Neumann
August 11, 2009
Luke
You were the most motivated and dedicated man I ever knew. I wish I had a tenth of what you had. You went above and beyond what the rest of us were willing to do. It's been 10 years this month since we first met and started on this path that's led us to where we are today. I doubt either of us ever thought this would be the way we'd end up having to talk. There's no doubt in my heart that you gave more than you had to and never let up for a second. You were and are the best.
Grayson Guyer
July 31, 2009
To Luke's family and friends,
If you guys are still reading this, I want you to know that I think of Luke every day. He was a great corpsman, a great operator, and a great friend. A genuine good man, who could be counted on in any situation. He was a true asset to this world. He will live on in the hearts and minds of everyone who knew him.
Patrick Pennel
May 26, 2009
Thinking of you brother. We miss you and wish you were back over here with us!
Carrie Ates
April 20, 2009
I will not forget you, ever.
carrie ates
March 12, 2009
Thinking of Luke, still and always...we love him so very much.
Andrew Sikora
December 11, 2008
I was fortunate enough to have served side Luke and for having Luke as a great friend. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him and see his face. I miss him and am very sad that after we went our separate ways we didn't stay closer. Your family and friends are very proud of you and miss you very much. We miss you my friend.
In Memory of Charles Luke ~ (Debra Estep)
September 25, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Luke, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Ayron Ulmer
August 30, 2008
Dear Luke,
I miss You Soooooooo much and I always think of you every second of my life. Now i am 17 and a senior at ThunderRidge. I am soooo proud of you. You are my hero and i will always look up to you. I love you Uncle Mike, Aunt Rita, Cousins Luke, Keith, Jamie, and Andrew
Love Ayron Ulmer
July 4, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Petty Officer 2nd Class Milam!
Deborah Harris
May 13, 2008
I would like to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. I lost my son Sgt Blake A Harris on March 5 2007, he was my only child. He leaves behind a wife Joanna and a son Jonah 3 1/2 yrs. God Bless you, Sincerely, Deborah Harris-Pueblo Co
Terri Myers
April 20, 2008
There isn't a day go by that I don't think of the sacrifices of the brave men and women that serve our country. If Mr. and Mrs. Milam see this I want you to know that I think of Luke often and I promise that I will never forget him. I hope the book I sent has given you some comfort and you can see how many people's lives that your son touched. You are forever in my thoughts and prayers.
shane baumgartner
April 6, 2008
Luke,
A friend, a leader, and though navy he was a Marine to us. God bless you buddy and those that mourn your loss. Your friend Shane
Paul Broer
April 5, 2008
I want to give my condolences to Luke's family. Luke and I were on the same team together on his first deployment over seas. We went to Iraq, Liberia, Djibouti, and Albania together and we partied in Malta and Greece together as well. I think about Luke everyday and regret not staying in touch with him after we went our separate ways. I am so sorry for our loss, Luke was a great friend and is greatly missed.
James Spliedt
February 16, 2008
Love Lives On
Those we love remain with us
for love itself lives on,
and cherished memories never fade
because a loved one's gone.
Those we love can never be
more than a thought apart,
far as long as there is memory,
they'll live on in the heart.
The Landstuhl Hospital Care Project has honored Petty Officer 2nd Class Charles Milam with shipments of care and comfort items to wounded troops in military hospitals stateside and overseas for February 2008. This includes the Landstuhl Regional Medical Center in Germany and field medical units in Iraq and Afghanistan. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Frank Johnston
February 5, 2008
Everything I want to say has been said in one post or another.I am very sorry for you loss,and I thank your son for the freedom we have today.There is not a day that goes by that i don't remember our men and women in the military and pray for them.My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Frank Johnston
Vietnam Veteran
2nd class corpsman
3rd Marine division
HM1 Amy Chase
December 19, 2007
Well, I've looked at this guestbook several times over the last few days - Luke was such a great kid :) He worked with me in Panama City, FL while he was going through training - he was so excited to be not only a Hospital Corpsman but working with the Marines!! This just saddens me beyond and I wish I could have made his funeral..Mr. and Mrs. Milam, you should be very proud of your son - I was the minute I met him!! I will forever keep him and his family in my prayers :)
Libby Fowler
December 10, 2007
To the family and friends of Charles "Luke" Milam: Please know that I grieve with you upon the loss of your son. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers now and for the days to come. I have a son who is a specialist in the Army. He graduated from Colorado State but was raised in Centennial, Co. He will be 25 in Junuary. Somehow I always feel a strong bond to those soldiers from Colorado and especially those that are so close in age to my son,Crockett Fowler Butler. Please include him in your thoughts and prayers. GOD BLESS CHARLES "LUKE" MILAM AND GOD BLESS AMERICA!
Carrie Ates
November 29, 2007
Can I sign again? and again, and again, and AGAIN??? I LOVE YOU SWEETNESS, you are my first thought every morning. I miss you beyond belief...you will always mean the world to me.
Marcus B
November 27, 2007
Luke
Hey buddy we are almost out of here and everyday we think about you. Your memory will always live on through us. Thank you for watching out for us up there. I know you never left us and I have felt you by my side since that day. Love you Like a brother . I will be home soon enough and plan to name my son after you. Milam. I will never forgett you.
Katie Eshelman
November 19, 2007
I just discovered the news that Luke had passed and wish to express my deepest sympathy and condolences to his family and friends. I knew Luke for a short time but feel honored and incredibly lucky to have met him. Rest in peace Luke.
Luke and Matt
Carrie Ates
November 11, 2007
Luke...
Albania Patrol
Carrie Ates
November 11, 2007
My Luke, Albania Patrol
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
November 8, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Milam family in the loss of Charles. I did not know Charles, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Charles you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Concetta Kile
November 7, 2007
Luke, may you know your life wasn't given in vaine. So many of us appreciate the sacrafice you've made for our freedoms. May you now rest in the arms of God.
October 25, 2007
MAY YOU EXPERIENCE THE LOVE OF GOD EACH DAY WHILE REMEMBERING YOU LOVED ONE.
SANDRA LEE PINSON BAILEY
MOTHER OF
SGT. MATTHEW EVANS HATFIELD
82 AIRBORNE AFGANISTAN
American Hero!
October 19, 2007
Elisha Sedillo
October 17, 2007
To Mitch, Pat, & Family,
Our condolences to you on your loss. Our hearts go out to you and your family. Luke will forever be a hero in our eyes, as well as the Lord's eyes. Prayers of healing and blessings are with you all.
Sincerely,
Horizons East Staff
505 N. Rock Rd.
Wichita, Ks 67206
A Poem for Luke
The Soldier stood and faced his God
Which must always come to pass
He hoped his shoes were shining
Just as brightly as his brass.
Step forward now, you soldier,
How shall I deal with you?
Have you always turned the other cheek?
To My Church have you been true?
The soldier squared his shoulders
and said, No Lord, I guess I ain't,
Because those of us who carry guns
Can't always be a saint.
I've had to work most Sundays,
And at times my my talk was tough.
And sometimes I've been violent,
Because the world is awfully rough.
But I never took a penny
That wasn't mine to keep...
Though I worked a lot of overtime
When the bills just got too steep.
And I never passed a cry for help,
Though at times I shook with fear,
And sometimes, God forgive me,
I've wept unmanly fear,
And sometimes, God forgive me,
I've wept unmanly tears.
I know I don't deserve a place
Among the people here.
They never wanted me around
Except to calm their fears.
If you've a place for me here, Lord,
It needn't be so grand,
I've never had that much in life,
So if you don't I'll understand.
There was a silence all around the throne
Where the saints had often trod
As the soldier waited quietly,
For the judgment of his God.
Step forward now you soldier
You've borne your burdens well,
Walk peacefully on Heaven's streets,
You've done your time in Hell.
Julie Scott
October 16, 2007
I do not know Luke, but I do know the pain that his family and friends are going through. My son lost his best friend Dane R. Balcon, KIA on Sept. 5th. Dane was like a son to me. May God Bless you, and I pray to ease your pain. Luke - True American HERO!
Gina Copello
October 16, 2007
To the family of Luke, I knew Luke from when I was stationed in NC. He was a great friend to me. I am so sorry for your lost and my heart goes out to you. I have alot of memories of him that will stay in my heart always. He used to always call me his little sister and I would say how am I the little sis if I'm older but he always looked out for me and took care of me. I am still grieving myself and cannot imagine how the family is coping. I love you Luke and always will. Your family is in my prayers. SSgt Gina Copello
October 13, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Carrie Ates
October 10, 2007
FOR LUKE
When you come to the edge of all the light you've known
and are about to step off into the darkness of the unknown
Faith is knowing one of two things will happen
There will be something solid to stand on
or you will be taught how to fly...
I love you Luke, the monster and I are going to miss you so much.
-Carrie
Lydia Daugherty
October 9, 2007
We send our heartfelt sympathy to the family of PO2 Charles Milam, a courageous American hero. Your brave soldier will never be forgotten. The family of PO1 Steven P. Daugherty, KIA Baghdad Iraq July 06, 2007.
elizabeth Zahller
October 9, 2007
Dear Loved ones, I wanted to share my support in some small way that you will feel some comfort that your America cares and also wants you to know heartfelt care for your Charles. Charles is a Hero and has a Hero Heart. You have to be so proud and so are we his country. Right now there is a whilwind around you with so much for you to bear. There are many of us americans that want you to know you are in our prayer and thoughts and we owe your son a hudge thankyou for his commitment and courgage and for all he did to help keep us free from harmsway. Charles was and is a blessing a person full of grace and honor he will not be forgotten and we know he shines through the light of a beautiful Heaven where he was taken by Jesus. Lets all pray for him and keep him in our hearts where he will feel comforted. Sincerely, Elizabeth Zahller Soldiers Angels support group
Dawn Anna
October 9, 2007
To Luke's Parents...
Thank you for bringing such an incredible boy into this world.
To All of Luke's Family...
Thank you for raising him to be such an amazing young man who knows the value of life and upheld those values daily through respect, laughter and love.
I am so blessed to have taken just a bit of Luke's spirit with me and, indeed, all of your spirits as you honored him at his service. He is missed and that will never go away but, trust me, he is always with you.
Please accept my love and sympathies. I will always remember Luke.
(Mother of Lauren Townsend
Columbine High Class of '99)
David Wiebe
October 9, 2007
Mike and Rita; as I read the accounts of Luke's accomplishments and the dedication he had for 'his' Marines I feel very sorry I didn't have the chance to know him as an adult. It is truly my loss for, to me, he personifies the role model that is so sorely lacking in our country today. If there were more unselfish people like Luke I can only imagine how different things would be.
The memorial service had a profound impact on Lori and I. It was awesome to spend time with the 3 servicemen who were present at all the activities last Saturday. As you move forward with your lives please remember that there are a lot of people that will help, listen, cry, support and pray with you. I wish there was something I could do to lessen the pain and suffering you are going through. I pray for your family daily! Much Love; Dave.
Danna and Charles Palmer
October 8, 2007
To the family of Petty Officer 2nd Class, USN, Charles Luke Milam;
Our hearts have been with you every moment since we learned of Luke's fate. Word is spreading through II Recon, and families are praying for each of you. We learned of the heroic rescue of one of his Marines, and that the father of this young Marine praises God in thanksgiving for Luke's great sacrifice.
What a beautiful example of friendship Luke displayed to his Marines. There are so many verses of scripture to affirm the honor of Luke's extension of this loyalty . . .
"He who desires friends, must himself first be friendly." Proverbs 18:24a
A true friend loves at all times. Proverbs 17:17
"There is a friend who sticks closer than a brother." Proverbs 18:24b
"No greater love than this, than a man lay down his life for his friend." John 15:13
"Doc" was loved and respected by his Marines for whom he cared so very much. This friend never failed to demonstrate those Core Values of Courage, Honor, Commitment, and Loyalty.
Our journey with death began on May 1, 2006, but comfort has come in realizing that so many treasures are ours because of Cory's beloved friends and MarineBrothers.
Knowing what the ensuing months ahead may have in store for you, please know that our hope is for Luke's character and strength to be returned to you through joy.
The process is probably a lifetime, but we stand with you, beside you, and for you, in respectfully honoring your beloved son.
You may contact us anytime. May God's love surround you, His grace sustain you, and His comfort come to you. Godspeed and Semper Fidelis.
Warmly,
MarineParents of Cory Palmer, who served with Luke from 2003 - 2006.
7th grade Louisburg
October 8, 2007
we care and share your sorrow and pride.
October 7, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Petty Officer 2nd Class Milam and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Aunt of a Marine currently deployed
Kay Daniels
October 6, 2007
Michael and Ri,
I am so very, very sorry. I met Luke only once - at one of the Schardein family reunions. He was a wonderful young man, and my heart is breaking from the news of his death. May God bless you.
Kay
Lindsay Heelis
October 5, 2007
Luke touched the lives of everyone he met. I am proud to have known him. Michael and Ri, my thoughts are with you and my heart grieves with you. He is gone but never forgotten.
Tiffinie Adams
October 5, 2007
Yesterday changed my life forever when I attended Luke's funeral. I have been in the Navy for almost 7 years and I am barely 1 year younger than Luke was. This was the first Military Honors Funeral I have ever attended and it touched me so deeply. I did not know Luke personally but my eyes were not dry the whole ceremony. He was such a great man and sailor. What he has done and accomplished in his lifetime makes me proud to be a US Sailor and serve my country. I just want to tell you all that you had a great son that died for our freedoms/our country and I know that everyone that even hears his story will be inspired as I was and will never forget the name Luke Milam! He is my Hero and should be everyone's in the military. My greatest condolences go to you the family, thank you for sharing your Luke with our country.
Sincerely,
PS2 Tiffinie Adams, NOSC Denver, USN
George & Chris Hatcher
October 5, 2007
To the Parents of Petty Officer 2nd Class Charles Milam;
During this time of deep sorrow, may God grant you the peace of knowing your son served honorably and that his sacrifice will not be forgotten. Our son Andy Hatcher was a Marine who served with your son. Luke is a true American Hero and his life and service to his brothers-in-arms and his country will live on. May the memories of your son offer some consolation during this difficult time.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Valerie Nielsen
October 5, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with the entire family.
debbi rivers
October 4, 2007
To the parents and family of Charles, I want you to know that your grief in not alone. I know the pain your have and what you will face in the coming days and weeks ahead. As a Gold Star Mother I have been blessed in my healing and God has allowed me to reach out to other families who are now going through that very same loss. I want you to know that when and if you are ready I offer you emotional support and also a place in our hearts to help you in that healing process. There are many of us Gold Star Families who offer our support, love and help in healing. When and if you are ready please contact me. I ask God to bless and give you strength and heal the empitness in your heart.
In memory of my son
Spc Harry (Buck) Winkler III
KIA 11/12/06 Samarra, Iraq
Valerie Zigler
October 4, 2007
Mike and Re,
Luke was a wonderful young man, and my heart is breaking from the news of his death. I know you have always been very proud of him, and for good reason. God couldn't have given you a better son than Luke. We all loved him very much!
I will never forget him stopping by in his dress uniform - he looked so handsome! I keep telling myself that, just like Christ, his life wasn't taken from him - he gave it freely. Though it hurts so very bad, I know Luke would not want us to be sad. Isaiah I'm sure is very proud of Luke, and hanging out with him right now!
We Love You Guys!
The Ziglers
Kim Pugh
October 4, 2007
Luke was a friend of mine while he lived in Jacksonville. He was a good man and a great friend. I loved his personality and that great smile. He will truly be missed for his professionalism, and big heart. Luke we love you brother!!
Kim & Billy
Chaplain Dan Gates, Georgia Society SAR
October 4, 2007
With the deepest regret, I have just learned of the death of Petty Officer Milam. As a Vietnam Veteran and the State Chaplain of the Georgia Society, Sons Of The American Revolution, I speak for our President, Charlie A. Newcomer, III and the more than 1,400 SAR members around the State of Georgia in humbly expressing the condolences of a grateful Society. Wrapped in the integrity of service to our nation and the inestimable values of duty, honor and country, your American hero stood on a wall of freedom for us all. His life and his love of country epitomized every attribute of patriotism the Sons Of The American Revolution hold dear. And, as Americans, we could never repay the debt we owe him ..!! Nor the debt we owe you… his family!!!
Sandy Bonesteel
October 4, 2007
As the mother of a son who is deployed, I want to send my condolences. Please know that there are many, many people who grieve with you.
Carol Cline
October 4, 2007
Know in your heart that you are a true hero and will never be forgotten. All gave some, some gave all. Rest in peace. You will be missed by everyone’s life you have touched.
To the family, as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family, friends, and all Americans for the sacrifice of one of your family members for our freedom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the loving embrace of our Heavenly Father.
Gale Poindexter
October 3, 2007
I am writing to offer my condolences to your family over the loss of your HERO Petty Officer 2nd Class Charles Milam. I also lost my son in Iraq on May 6/2007, so I can well understand your pain of losing a loved one so dear.
When things settle down, I recommend that you contact a man named Michael Reagan @
www.michaelgreaganartist.com
He will draw one portrait of the fallen soldier. He does this for free and will draw any picture of your choosing. He has drawn presidents and other celebrities. My husband and I got one and it has helped me with the healing process. Michael is a truly gifted artist that captures the very essence of the person he draws. I look at my picture everyday and it gives me a connection that I cannot explain.
I pray you will be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength in this time.
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
GOD Bless you and your family. Your soldier was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of his service.
(Proud mother of Sgt Joel W. Lewis, 5/20, 3-2 SBCT /Ft Lewis-KIA May 6/07, Baqubah, Iraq)
SHIRLEY DONEY
October 3, 2007
REST IN PEACE CHARLES, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SAILORS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
Susie Carruth
October 3, 2007
Michael & Rita,
The memorial you had Sunday for Luke was wonderful. I learned many new things about him and I'm so proud of him and his family. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow as he is honored and your family is comforted by friends, family, and his Navy/Marine family. I've read many articles online, wire reports, condolences, and I know this will help to sustain you in the days and months ahead. I'm so lucky to have known your dear son; he is very much a role model for all.
All my love, Susie
Rob & Maria Martens
October 3, 2007
May God bless and keep the family of this fine, young American Hero.
Rest in peace Doc.
Semper Fi,
Proud Parents of
HN Robert Nathaniel Martens (FMF), USN
3/6 India, 2nd Mar Div
Killed September 06, 2005 in Al Qaim, Iraq
Jan Zubersky
October 3, 2007
Dear Luke
I rmember you as a blond haired little boy with cherry stains all of your face. You, your brothers and sister and my two girls were supposed to be picking cherries for your Mom and me to make cherry jam. You grew up to be a brave, loving youn man who looked out for his comrads and fellow sailors/marines. I always admired your laugh, it was so natural and happy especially when you were with your parents Michael and Re and your brothers and sister. Please know how much the people of this country value you and the sacrifice that you've made for us. When I see on the news stories of gangs, and violent crimes, and poverty and anger in this country, I marvel at the young people like yourself who enlist in their nation's military to try and protect us here. You were a joyous, happy little boy, and you became a brave, and honorable young man. You will most certainly missed by us all. May God show His Blessings to you, you have certainly earned then.
Valorie
October 3, 2007
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and they were protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007
Garnet Jenkins
October 2, 2007
Please know how Deeply Sorry I am, for the loss of Petty Officer 2nd Class Charles Milam. As a parent, who has lost a daughter suddenly and having lost a brother to war...I am aware of the deep and devastating pain that you are experiencing. The overwhelming heartache, that seems to surface through our shock, as the time passes. Please hang on to your Faith and know that you will get through this.
May the memories of your Brave Young Colorado Hero, remain in your heart always and give you strength through the difficult days ahead, and may Charles Rest Safely now, in the Loving Care of God and know that he Will Never Be Forgotten.
I pray that the Peace of God will be with the Milam family.
I am the sister, of such a young Hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago.
"Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and He shall sustain thee."
~ Psalm 55:22 ~
I sincerely hope that you can feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you today and in the difficult days ahead, as this Grateful Country Mourns with you, for Someone Very Precious to you, Who Is A True American Hero to all of us.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
October 2, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
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