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Adam Chitjian Obituary
Batallion, 8th Cavalry regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat team, 1st Cavalry Division, on Oct. 25, 2007, in Balad, Iraq. Devoted husband of Shirley (nee Denmark). Loving son of Martin and the late Edith (Curcio) Chitjian. Beloved brother of Martin Chitjian and Kara Spatola, also survived by 4 nieces and nephews. Relatives and friends are invited to his Visitation Thursday morning, 11:30 A.M. until 1:30 P.M. at L.A. DiGIACOMO INC. FUNERAL HOME, 1055 Southampton Rd., Phila., followed by services 1:30 P.M. at the Funeral Home. Burial private. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Adam's memory can be made to the local Humane Society. Directions @
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Memories and Condolences
for Adam Chitjian
Iraq 2004
Adam Chitjian
July 22, 2013
Casey McGarity
July 18, 2013
Papi, not a day passes that I don't think about you. I will always treasure the memories of you. I will never forget the time when I picked you up from the airport in Austin. On the drive back to Ft. Hood I miss our turn and two hour drive, turn into a four drive LOL. I don't regret missing that turn. That night we talked about life and how you deal with the cards you received in life. That was only one of many conversations we had. I truly miss you. You will always be in my heart. Love you brother.
SSG McGarity, Casey
"SGT MAC"
June 2004, OIF
Adam Chitjian
July 21, 2012
July 19, 2012
Although it has been nearly 5 yrs since Adam's passing, I would like to express my sorrow to his family, as I am just learning of this. I will be eternally grateful for Adam and his military service.
Wes McCormick
February 13, 2012
Chit we all miss you! You will never be forgotten by all your friends and fellow soldiers especially all of us from the old 8th Eng. We miss you Pappy!
If anyone knows Adams birth date we need it for a memorial brick that will be put in the main street @ Sturgis this year in honor of Adam and the ride we never got to make after we all returned home
Peggy Childers
October 26, 2011
October 25, 2011
To the family and friends of Pfc. Adam J. Chitjian:
Please accept my remembrance of Adam on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Bunny Figueroa
January 28, 2011
Although I didnt know you my heart goes out to U and ur Family. Thanks for your committment to serve. Many blessings to ur family.
Janne McNeill
October 26, 2010
Adam,
Remembering the man you were and the hero you became. Your friends,
Janne & Alex
Peggy Childers
October 25, 2010
To the family and friends of Pfc. Adam J. Chitjian:
Remembering Adam on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Heather Whisenhunt
May 29, 2010
This Memorial Day I will most certainly be remembering one of the most unique men & kindest soldiers I've ever met. Chit, you are loved & missed.
January 1, 2010
At the end of 2009 and beginning of 2010, I sit back and think about my battle buddy Adam "Papi" Chitjian. Brother, not a day goes by where you aren't on my mind. You have been and always will be next to my heart, and I miss you. You set the example for all of us younger soldiers in the 8th Engineers and in E co. 3/8 Cav. Shirley, I thank you as well for your dedication to the rest of our unit. Your stedfastness and strength of character helped show the other families how to deal with the trials of deployment. My thoughts and prayers will always be with your family.
Essayons,
"BG"
Spc. Blomgren, Brian J.
Shirley Chitjian
December 20, 2009
Another year is closing and with that I am reminded of how much I have lost and how much I have gained. There is not a day that goes by that my dear Adam is not thought about, not loved nor missed. We all want him here with us, his friends, family, coworkers, fellow soldiers and me, his wife. May your own loved ones be safe in 2010 and continue to support our military as best we can during these trying times.
bruce stimpson
July 22, 2009
yo adam was like the older brother i always wanted he open my eyes to a lot of stuff that i would of never know of we had fun doing what ever even when we worked at the spectrum together i will miss my brother r.i.p now you can hang with Jerry Garcia and jimmy Hendrix and bob Marley one love my brother
Mary Jane Admire-Moore
January 25, 2009
I had the great pleasure to have met Adam & Shirley on their first date. I had the honor of being a special person in their lives and watching their love bloom. Adam loved this country and what he did to serve and fight for our freedom. I must admit that Adam was one of only two men that I personally knew to serve in Iraq. Every time that I would hear of soldiers dying I thought of Adam and prayed that he was safe. Somehow, even though I just learned of his tragic ending today, I knew he was gone. The world seems a little bit darker without him. May his memory live on forever immortalized as a hero to his country, a free spirit to his friends and family and as a loving husband to Shirley. Adam you are missed dearly by all that knew you.
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December 9, 2008
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Dave Horne
November 22, 2008
I never met Adam but was friends with Marty, his father, over 40 years ago when I lived in the Mayfair section of Philadelphia. I am truly saddened to learn of Adam's passing.
Sincerely, Dave Horne - The Netherlands
Peggy Childers
October 23, 2008
To the family of Pfc. Adam J. Chitjian:
Adam gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
David Poppenger
October 7, 2008
Here is to our real American hero!
You will always be loved and missed and never forgotten.
Rest in Peace Adam
Adam & His Tapes back in the day- the way so many of you probably remember him.
September 25, 2008
September 24, 2008
alissa
September 24, 2008
My name is Alissa Resecker (pfc Resecker) I was honored to have worked with Pfc Chitjian and the time that i spent with his company. My thoughts and prayers have been with him and his family and friends. Once a solider ..always a soldier..a damn good one!!! HOOAH!!! always in our hearts!!!!!
1st Squad 1st Platoon Charlie Co. 8th Engineers
September 24, 2008
Michelle (Goldman) Wolfson
August 28, 2008
Happy Birthday Adam!
Mike Jacoby
August 28, 2008
Saturday would have been Adam's 40th birthday. Heres to a real hero we can all be proud of!
Happy Birthday Adam!
Mike Jacoby
Michael Kurtz
August 27, 2008
Tragically, I just learned of your loss earlier today. My heart goes out to the family and friends of Pfc. Adam J. Chitjian. I thank him for his service and sacrifice he made for this country. He will always be in our prayers.
July 31, 2008
To the Family and Friends of Pfc. Chitjian,
I am so sorry for your loss.
My name is Maggie Selzer, and I am directing ‘Run for the Fallen 5K run/walk’ in Boalsburg, PA (just outside of State College) on August 24th, 2008. The event, held on the PA military Museum grounds, aims to keep alive the memory of all fallen soldiers, but particularly those from PA. All proceeds from the event will go to organizations that support the families of fallen soldiers and supports wounded soldiers.
I encourage you to learn more about the event at www.freewebs.com/runforthefallen5k/
index.htm.
The event is meant to keep alive the memories of brave men like Pfc. Chitjian.
If you have any questions, or would like to send a memory of Pfc. Chitjian to be included with the flag memorial that will be set up at this event, please contact me at (814) 571-8755 or [email protected].
Michelle Wolfson
July 5, 2008
Still thinking of you and your legacy. You will live on in all who knew you.
July 5, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Pfc Chitjian!
Suzanne MacDaniel
July 4, 2008
To the Chitjian family,
Thinking of all our soldiers today.
...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.
But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.
A Proud Aunt
Sgt. David M.Fisher
KIA 12/1/04
Mike Jacoby
April 3, 2008
Adam was a lifelong friend. If there was a person who understood me completely, Adam did. My condolences go out out to his family and everyone who were lucky to have known him. Not a day will go by where he will be absent from my thoughts. I miss you brother. Rest in Peace.
Pete Dooley
March 8, 2008
There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of Adam. My heart goes out to his wife Shirley and to his family. I am proud that I grew up with Adam and knew him for over 30 years.There are so many memorys to think of, Adam was simply the Best! He would do anything for you at anytime he could. I will always remember the summers in Wildwood growing up, it was the greatest time of my life. I miss you so much! I could go on and on, I know he is forever in our hearts and minds always.
JOEL MARTINEZ
February 23, 2008
I MISS YOU, I MISS YOU.....
Emmett Bowlby
February 7, 2008
This is for Chit(pappy) you will always be remembered by Rita and myself and not forgotten. We were there when he first got to FT Hood and started doing everything together, trouble included. We both want to send our condolences and Shirly you know that we are will always be there for you whenever you need us. SGT Bowlby
Emmypoo & Ritatoo
Jesse Pratt
February 1, 2008
A Soldiers; Soldier pappy was! His duty and giving saved lives that day! Will always remember!
1SG Pratt
January 28, 2008
Michelle (Goldman) Wolfson
January 13, 2008
It has taken me these last 3 months to find in my heart anything worth writing into this book. Adam was so much a part of my life for so long that I am hard pressed to find any mere words that can convey how saddened I have been since his death. My deepest condolences to all of Adam's family and friends. Adam was a kind, compassionate, funny, and loyal human being. I am lost in that I am filled with so many regrets, but I am found in the love and wonderful memories I will always have of him.
'May you build a ladder to the stars and climb on every rung,
May you stay forever young'
Linda Flannery
January 11, 2008
My most sincere sympathy to the family and friends of Pfc. Chitjian. May you find comfort in your loving memories, and know that all of America shares in your sorrow.
My flag flies in honor of this brave soldier.
Charlotte Sheets
December 3, 2007
you don't know me. but my name is charlotte. my husband is assigned to find pictures of the fallen in the calvary division for a remembrance ceremony. i offered to help and he gave me this name. as a wife of a soldier in iraq i want to offer my sympathies on his passing. you and all the families of soldiers are constantly in my thoughts and prayers.
Kathryn Troise
December 1, 2007
Marty Sr, Marty Jr. and Kara, The Troise family just learned of Adam's passing the week of 11/26. I am so sorry that we were not aware at time of funeral. Please know our hearts are with all of you and how sad we feel that this has happened. I have pleasant memories of Adam as the beautiful little boy he was when I knew him. Please know how much we continue to mourn with you and how honored we feel to have known such a courageous man as your son and brother. Kit Troise
STEVE TROISE
December 1, 2007
ADAM, YOU WILL BE TRUELY MISSED BRO! THE OLD TIMES WE HAD TOGETHER AS KIDS, WILL ALWAYS BE WITH ME! I REMEMBER A TIME WE WENT FISHING AT SOME POND IN NORTHEAST PHILLY & ADAM TOOK HOME A 12" CARP THAT HE CAUGHT & PUT IN A BIG BURGER KING SODA CUP, THAT WAS FILLED WITH WATER. THE FISH'S TAIL HANGING OUT OF THE CUP! IT WAS SO FUNNY!! THE TAIL WAS FLAPPING BACK AND FOURTH ALL THE WAY HOME! ADAM GIGALING & LAUGING ! JUST A GREAT GUY AND WILL TRUELY BE MISSED! HE'S DEFINITLEY AN AMERICAN HERO! R.I.P SOLDIER!
Michael Meyer
November 26, 2007
Adam Chitjian (or "chit" as we called him) was not only one of the best soldiers the army had ever seen, but also one of the best friends a guy could ever have. He will always be remembered, missed, and loved. My thoughts go out to Shirley, and their family. Miss ya Chit.
Paula Hall
November 24, 2007
I never had the honor of meeting Adam but saw the joy, excitement, happiness and smiles he brought to Shirley when they first met. My thoughts and prayers are with Shirley and Adam's family during this hard time and in the days to come. May Adam and all the other fallen soldiers rest in peace and give strength to the ones who haven't come home yet. Love, Paula
Pamela Hughes
November 21, 2007
Many knew Adam as a man who proudly served his nation. Others knew him as a loving son and brother. And of course we knew him as a loving husband to Shirley. I knew him differently. I knew him as a thoughtful man who opened his heart to a rescued dachshund Rocco. Once abandoned, Rocco found a forever home with Adam and Shirley. Adam not only saw the big picture and his duty to a nation and his family but also his duty to provide for and love a small forgotten dog. That takes a man of character and heart. Thank you Adam.
Danielle Moon
November 21, 2007
Shirley I am so sorry for your loss, for ours we will always keep him in our thoughts and you in our prayers. You are a strong woman and if you ever need anything I am here. Be strong and Adam will truley be missed. Sapper Proud
Iraq 2005, Laughter even in Chaos!
November 20, 2007
Wedding Day, June 25, 2005
Shirley Chitjian
November 20, 2007
Adam's family and I want to thank everyone for their kind words and prayers. Adam was truly the "best" gift in all our lives. He touched everyone he met and will always be the eternal flame in my own heart. We were lucky to have met and married and truly loved, respected and adored each other. I was in awe of Adam from day one after learning his story and then finally getting to know him in real time. My love for him will never fade and I am honored to call myself, Mrs. Adam Chitjian. Adam was a hero to me and all Americans, he was dedicated, loyal, honest and a true American soldier to the end. Baby, close your eyes now and rest... When you wake, you will see me... Love you always, Shirley.
Svetik Hovian-Lavrenov
November 18, 2007
From one "ian" family to another (my grandfather shortened/americanized our last name as well) ...
after reading all the compationate postings from so many patriots, we wished that we had met Adam.
We seem to share many common interests. and those unique characteristics of Adam have planted itself in the hearts and minds of many of you.
Our sympathy goes out to his loved ones and as a tribute to Adam, here's some thoughts that came to me last April 24TH as one of the Christian Armenian songs was playing at the NY Armenian Genocide recognition rally.. It came back to me when I was reading about Adam:
"It takes a special person with a Lion's sole to let go of his natural selfish instincts & sacrifice himself so others can live.... what a hero"
"AABRISS ATAM (Bravo Adam)"
AASDVADZ VOKEED LOOSAVOREH DGHAS(may G-d bless your soul son)
Staying Faithfull and Focused to this great Christian country, and to the first Christian country.
Mrs. James
November 15, 2007
Some of the students had a very nice tribute to your loved one, Adam. Students wrote facts about his life and important things to remember him by.
Students also left flowers under the sign in front of GWHS with facts and pictures relating to Adam. We hope this will lighten you spirits during this holiday season. Many students recognize what an amazing person, husband, son, brother, alumni, and friend Adam is.
Keeping you in mind,
Mrs. James and students of GWHS.
We will send you the photos of our ceremony.
Tracy (Berlin) Kusienski
November 15, 2007
I am so sorry to hear about Adam's death (I just learned about it today). I lived around the corner from Adam and his family when we were children....we always played together in our common backyard.
Although we went to the same schools through high school, we lost touch as we grew up. However, Adam will forever remain a part of wonderful childhood memories for me.
My sympathies (and those of my family) are extended to his entire family. The only consolation that I can offer is that he is now reunited with his mother (she was a wonderful woman - who also meant a great deal to me and my family).
Adam will be missed.
November 14, 2007
WE ARE SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR LOVE ONE AND GRIEVE WITH YOU.
THE FAMILY OF
SGT. MATTHEW HATFIELD
82 AIRBORNE
AFGANISTAN
Tom Donahue
November 13, 2007
Sorry to hear about your loss. I used to hang out with adam at grateful dead concerts and at pole 17 jfk parking lot. Very sorry to hear about adam's passing, I know he will be missed by alot of people. I am sorry I missed the services, I found out after the fact. Again very sorry for your loss. A Somerton native
Donna Bajek
November 12, 2007
Dear Kara, & Chitjian Family,
We never met Adam, but we will never forget him. Our hearts ache for you. Adam was a husband,son, brother, friend but also our HERO. You are all in our thoughts and prayer.
The Bajek Family
Donna, Matt, Kendall & Ella
November 11, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Shirley Miller-Davis
November 11, 2007
Dear Marty, Marty, Kara $ Shirley,
We were away on vacation and didn't find out about Adam until we returned. I can't tell you how shocked and saddened we were.I wish I had been home to have gone to the funeral. I remember when Adam was born. He was a very active boy. As a young man he was a hard worker. I remember him doing some painting in my house. He was so strong and handsome. It is so hard to believe. My condolences go out to all of you. My children Robin and Jennifer send their condolences also. Jennifer was so very sad to hear this. Robin was not aware that he was in Iraq. With all the medals and awards he got, you must be proud. I guess you wish he had not been such a hero. I will leave my email address. Please send me all your addresses and phone numbers as I would like to contact you. Once again Bernie and I want to express our sympathy and condolences to you. Shirley & Bernie
Laura Jett
November 10, 2007
From one military family to another...our hearts go out to Shirley and the Chitjiam family of Philly. The loss you are suffering is immense. We pray that God will carry and guide you through your grief and that time will somehow ease the weight of your grief. And for Adam...you laid down your life for all of us. You are a true hero and will always be remembered and honored.
The Jett Family of Furlong, PA
CDR. Tim Jett
Laura Jett
Lauren, Anna, Timmy & Penelope
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
November 9, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Chitjian family in the loss of Adam. I did not know Adam, ( I lived in the Easton/Bangor PA area 52 years) but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Adam you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Anne Grubb
November 7, 2007
To his wife, Shirley, father, and family of PFC Adam Chitjian,
I would like to express my codolences on your loss. I did not know Adam but my son is also with the 1 Cav now serving in Iraq; so I feel that we are all family. My heart goes out to all of you. No words I could write will ease your pain. I just wanted to let you know that my family and I will remember Adam and all of you in our thoughts and prayers. Adam gave his life for what he believed in. There is no greater sacrafice. May God help you through your loss and bring you peace.
November 7, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Pfc Chitjian and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Mark Pestcoe
November 4, 2007
Dear Chitjian family,
I just saw the story in the Northeast Times about Adam. My hands were trembling reading the article. Adam and I were friends during high school. We went to Washington together (class of 87'). I used to live down the street (Audubon Avenue). I doubt you remember me...Adam had lost of friends. We would go to parties and listen to music together. He was a funny, thoughtful & kind guy. I never heard him say a mean thing about anyone. I have to say I didn't know he enlisted in the army. He was older when he enlisted. I enlisted as a Stinger team chief/gunner in the army after high school. I was discharged after Operation Desert Storm in 91'. I'm sure Adam was as proud as I was (even though I preferred playing my guitar to being in the army). I still live in the city. I'm a counselor at one of the prisons on State Rd. I just wanted to realy my deepest condolences and tell you how bad I feel. I'm praying for you. God bless.
Mark Pestcoe
debbi rivers
November 4, 2007
To the family and parents of Adam, I want you to know that you are not alone in the grief you are feeling. I too know what you are going through and what you will go through in the coming weeks and months ahead. You will have many question as to why? You will have many things to get ready or go through and that should be done in time. Sometimes it just can’t be faced and that’s ok, for you will know when the time is right for you. There are no right or wrong ways to grieve, it’s an individual journey that unfortunately we now have to take. I ask that God give the comfort, strength and courage that you are going to need. When and if the time is right for you please contact me. You can cry, vent, or just talk as only another person who has been where you are can really know what you are going through. May God continue to be with you and heal you.
In memory of my son
Spc Harry (Buck) Winkler III
KIA 11/12/06 Samarra, Iraq
82nd Airborne 2-505th PIR
Deb Churchill
November 4, 2007
I was Shirley's roomate and close friend at the time she met Adam...I was there for the first "I love you" and saw the joy he brought to her heart. I will always remember the light around them when they were together. He would want her to be strong now and she has been just that. I am so proud to have had the pleasure of his company and to have seen the love he gave to his beautiful wife. Nothing can change this horrible hand they both have been dealt. My heart is broken for her and his family...and for myself, because I will miss him too.
Time will make this a little easier but he will never be forgotten. I wish you all peace and comfort in knowing what a wonderful man he was and that he did not die in vain. I love you Shirley and I am here for you.... and I am so, so sorry....Adam, Rest in Peace and know that Shirley won't let them forget you!!! Love, Deb Churchill
Rhonda and Eric Cook
November 3, 2007
I just returned from Adam's funeral in Philly where he had a beautiful funeral with complete Military honors.
My husband married Adam and Shirley and I was the maid of honor in their wedding. What a great guy Adam was. He was a big kid at heart who loved and lived life to its fullest. He was so happy, so fun, so loving, so giving, and so dedicated to our countries freedom.
Adam joined the military after 9/11 and 2 days before turning too old to serve his country. How ironic he died fighting the very thing he joined for. You see Adam had just finished a mission where a high ranking Al-Qaeda official was involved.
Adam you are a true hero and will be greatly missed by all your family, friends, and comrades.
To the entire Chitjian family... I will remember you daily in my prayers as you grieve the most difficult days of your life.
Psalms 23
Kyle Mulderig
November 3, 2007
It broke my heart today to learn of the untimely death of a true "Good Guy". I worked in the Painters Union Of Philadelphia with Adam. Adam was one of a kind, who always made the workday go by quicker, with his funny stories and twisted sense of humor. He was one of the few guys who didn't get bent out uf shape on difficult jobsites and he kept a smile on my face whenever I was lucky enough to work with him.I was lucky to have been on his last job before he left for bootcamp and can remember how excited he was to serve his country. It actually made me laugh to see how serious he was. I lost touch with Adam,but would get updates from guys in the Union who Adam kept up with. My heart lies heavy in my chest today but my memories of Adam are good ones that will always bring a smile to my face. I'll play some Greatful Dead for 'ya Bro!
Gale Poindexter
November 3, 2007
I am writing to offer my condolences to you and your family over the loss of your HERO Pfc. Adam J. Chitjian. I lost my son in Iraq on May 6/2007, so I can well understand your pain of losing a loved one so dear.
I pray you will continue to be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength.
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
GOD Bless you and your family. Your soldier was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of his service. He will not be forgotten!
(Proud mother of Sgt Joel W. Lewis, 5/20, 3-2 SBCT -KIA May 6/07, Baqubah
CMSgt Bush flying back from Baghdad
stephen Bush
November 1, 2007
I am currently stationed at Balad Iraq. I was born and raised in Philadelphia. I want to take this oppoutunity to say how proud I am of your husband/son and I know how difficult this must be for all of you...I feel your pain. I've been in the AF for 26 years and I know first hand what you all must be going through. We lost our son Adam J. back in 2004 in Mosul Iraq. I and my family mourn your lost and feel your pain. May your Adam serve the lord as he did his country. He gave his life so others could be free, there is no greater sacrafice that one could give than his own life. Adam's sacrafice will never be forgotten. He is a true hero and a honorable man. From my family to the Chitjian family God bless You all and thank you for sharing your Adam with us all. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
CMSgt Stephen & Denise Bush,USAF
Proud parents of Adam J Harris
KIA 22 Sept 2004, Mosul Iraq
October 31, 2007
I didn't know Adam but he was very courage to fight for us. May God bless all of you thur this difficult time.
7th grade Louisburg Middle School
October 31, 2007
We care and share your sorrow and pride.
Lisa
October 31, 2007
I knew Adam from the neighborhood when we were young. Although I haven't seen him in years I was extremely saddened to hear of his passing. He was a great guy, his family is in my prayers.
Judy Filipkowski
October 31, 2007
The teachers at Comly Elementary School wish to express our sympathies to the family of Adam Chitjian.
I personally am upset at the unnecessary loss of life that hits me so close to home. I remember teaching Marty in 4th grade, so to you, my sincere condolences.
Judy Seideman Filipkowski
Jim Downs
October 31, 2007
Semper Fi
J
October 30, 2007
I didn't know Adam, I knew of him. The only thing I know for certain is this: He served and died for America, the greatest country in the world.
He is a hero in the truest sense.
My heart goes out to his family.
Miss him, Mourn him, but most of all BE PROUD OF HIM
Donna Amit Cubbage
October 30, 2007
I had the honor of being a special part of Adam's life for 7 wonderful years. When I found out he joined the Army after 9/11, it was not a total shock because Adam was a man of such great character. He was one in a million and my sincerest condolences go out to his wife, Shirley, as well as, Marty, Kara and Marty.
My family and I are just heart-broken and devastated over such a tragic loss.
The Adam I knew was quick to make you laugh, with a heart filled with love for his friends and family.
Adam will always have a special place in the hearts of all who knew him.
He may be gone, but certainly never forgotten.
G.D.T.R.F.B
Opher Amit & Family
October 30, 2007
I was watching the news on Friday night and was shocked to hear the news. My family and I are so sorry for your loss, and ours. Adam was represented by good spirits, a positive, hard-working motivation and lots of laughter. He and I were so close, at times inseparable. For the years we spent together, I will never forget the fun, food, music and good times we shared. Adam, our "Azerbaijani Paisani" you are missed and always remembered fondly, brother. Love & Respect, Opher, Milia, Reyna and Joel Amit
sheila
October 30, 2007
Reading the posts people have left, it is clear that Adam touched many people very deeply. Even those he was was not still in contact with feel his loss terribly.
My deepest sympathy to his family.
May he rest in peace.
Janne McNeill
October 30, 2007
Shirley and the Chitjian Family,
Please accept our condolences on your loss. Adam was a fine man and we were priveleged to have known him for the few short years we did. We both liked him very much and enjoyed his company. We will miss him dearly.
He made Shirley very happy. It was a joy to see. We first met him when he came to visit Shirley on his leave during his first tour of duty and were so happy to share their wedding preparations, ceremony, and celebration. Adam's loss leaves an empty space in both of our hearts. Please take care of each other. We will pray for all of your family.
With much love,
Alex and Janne McNeill
Morris Worster
October 30, 2007
We are praying for you and your family.Only our Lord Jesus can provide the comfort you need but hope our caring helps.
Moe and Bobbie
PGR
Margy Bons
October 30, 2007
I am sorry for your loss. I understand.
Howard Richman
October 30, 2007
To The Chitjan family,
my name is Howard and I attended Washington High with Adam. Although I moved out of Philly after High School, Adam was always with me. We shared a lot in High School and Adam was a true friend. I am so very sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you always. RIP Adam, your buddy Howard
Mollie Spain
October 30, 2007
Chitjian was my husband roommate when he first came to Ft.Hood, and he will be missed by all. His family is in our thoughts and prayers during this tough time. To Shirley I lift you up and pray the Lords peace and comfort wash over you. My heart truly breaks for you.
Mollie and Cam Spain
Psalm 91
Timothy Fenton
October 30, 2007
Mr. Chitjian, Marty and Kara,
When word was sent of Adams passing, it was hard to believe, I was heartbroken. I wish I had known Adam and his wife were here in Texas, for I live not more than 20 min from Ft.Hood and work in Killeen.
Echoing my brother John, although I hadn’t spoken with Adam in years I immediately found my self thinking of days past. I can remember many a day was spent running through the woods to the Troll Bridge with enough gear land us in either a psych ward or jail. And of course how could one ever forget the evenings camped in the Settlement, where accommodations were sparse unless you had reservations at Adams Orc Lair.
I will miss him, greatly.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Timothy K. Fenton
Paul Cava
October 29, 2007
Dear Chitjian Family,
I can't seem to stop thinking of Adam. I loved being around him and you guys in your homes in Wildwood and NE Phila. Adam was always so confident, so self-assured. I never told him this but I always felt safe around him. He had this way of making me feel special when he'd laugh at my jokes or say something complementary(he didn't give out complements that much!) I loved being around him. We laughed and joked all the time. There's little sayings he would invent and we would use them like this, "Nay, nay, nay" thing. I still use it from time to time and think of him. I didn't realize how much a part of my life he truly was, how much I thought about our time spent as friends, until Saturday after my brother called me.
We had so much in common when we met. I can still remember the summer Dave telling me that I just HAD to meet his new friend's brother. I waited all that summer to introduce myself to him and it wasn't until the last day before school started that we had a little adventure on the beach. I couldn't believe he liked Rat Patrol! Needless to say we found something that looked like machine guns and played army on the beach that day. The best day of that summer. That wasn't all. He told me where he lived in NE Phila. and that we only lived about 15 min. from each other and could keep the friendship going throughout the year (which we did for many, many years from that moment on). I'll miss him greatly.
I hope to see you all very soon.
Paul
American Legion Post 54
October 29, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.
To Adam:
Thank you for your courage to fight for our country.
"Honoring an American Hero"
(For God and Country)
michael levy
October 29, 2007
dear chitjian family;
I just heard the news about your son. I am so sorry for your lose. i knew your soon from high school. my prayers and thoughts are with you. god bless your family; may adam rest in peace.
John Fenton
October 29, 2007
Mr. Chitjian, Kara & especially Marty,
When I heard the news about Adam on Friday, I didn’t want to believe it. Then I read the article and saw his picture in the paper the next morning, …and started to cry. I haven’t talked to you guys in years, and never had the pleasure of meeting Adam’s wife, but none of that matters. These past few days all I could think about were our hours of playing D&D together, adventures along the tracks and in the woods up at Budd, and “dev’ing” at Philmont. All the while echoing through my head, a hearty “Ho-ho ya bug eyed bit’!” Adam was always so unstoppable and indestructible – it’s hard to comprehend.
I know it’s little consolation, but there are people near and far who remember him and grieve with you. Hopefully, someday, when the pain of loss has numbed, you can take solace in the fact that no one who really knew Adam can think of him without smiling.
Carla Sizer
October 29, 2007
This one hits me hard...my son was in the same unit with Adam. I can't even find the words...I lost my 19 year old son--5 Sept 2007, Balad, Iraq. I am absolutely devastated and I know that you are too...but find comfort in the fact that we will see our loved ones, our heroes again. Do I wish that I could trade places with my son? ABSOLUTELY not. He is in the arms of our Lord--"And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away" ~Rev 21:4
What a wonderful thought...
May God bless PFC Adam Chitjian, God bless you and your family and God bless America!
Contact me if you want to talk.
PROUD Mother of
Specialist Dane R. Balcon
KIA, 5 September 2007
Balad, Iraq
Michael iezzi
October 29, 2007
Father we entrust our brother Adam to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Adam in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.
al dieva
October 28, 2007
I just wanted to send my prayers and sympathy to the Chitjian family . I have been friends with adam since 1980 adam and his family have always been good to me . I only have good thoughts of adam . What more needs to be said. Thanks for being a hero Adam
Ann & Mickey Litt
October 28, 2007
Dear Marty, Kara, and Martin;
We have fond memories of Adam as a young boy; as a teenager; and as a strong and handsome young man as he grew up as our neighbor in Somerton, Philadelphia, PA.
We were heartsick hearing about his loss in Iraq, and our deepest condolences go out to you, his family, and his wife, Shirley.
Our thoughts are with you all.
Deepest sympathy,
Ann & Mickey Litt and family
Military Family
October 28, 2007
I'm so sorry for your loss. We lost our belove nephew, Army Ranger, Benjamin C. Dillon on October 6, 2007. My God hold your family during this horrific time.
Kathleen Fagan
October 28, 2007
Knowing Adam for the last three years has been an interesting time. He love South Texas,Bar-b-que and dirt biking. He will be dearly missed and I am so glad that we have many more like him who will risk all for our country. He joined after 9-11 and this was his second tour. He wanted and needed to defend our country from this threat and I thank him from the bottom of my heart. We will miss you Adam.
Phillip Hall
October 28, 2007
Chit will always be remembered as the soldier that did instead of said..I am proud to have served with him in Iraq he was a great friend and a great soldier..he has touched everyone that he has came in contact with..I express my gratitude and deepests sorrows to his family and friends..Echo company will never be the same with out him..you are sadly missed PAPPY
Outlaws 4 life
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
October 28, 2007
Rest in peace.
STEVE CURRENS
October 28, 2007
I ONLY KNEW ADAM FOR THREE YEARS, BUT I COULD TELL IMMEDIATELY HE WAS A GREAT PERSON. HE MARRIED MY BEST FRIEND SHIRLEY, AND EVEN THOUGH I GRIEVE OVER HIS LOSS, I AM GLAD THEY HAD THREE YEARS OF GREAT MEMORIES TOGETHER. MY HEART GOES OUT TO ADAM'S FAMILY AND FRIENDS, AND WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HIM WITH FONDNESS AND THANK GOD WE HAD THE OPPORTUNITY TO KNOW THIS HERO WHO GAVE THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE FOR OUR COUNTRY. OUR LIVES ARE BETTER FOR HAVING KNOWN ADAM.
SHIRLEY DONEY
October 28, 2007
REST IN PEACE PFC. CHITJIAN, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
A SOLDIERS ANGEL
Joanne Latsch-McMahon
October 28, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Chaplain Dan Gates, Georgia Society SAR
October 28, 2007
With the deepest regret, I have just learned of the death of Private First Class Chitjian. As a Vietnam Veteran and the State Chaplain of the Georgia Society, Sons Of The American Revolution, I speak for our President, Charlie A. Newcomer, III and the more than 1,400 SAR members around the State of Georgia in humbly expressing the condolences of a grateful Society. Wrapped in the integrity of service to our nation and the inestimable values of duty, honor and country, your American hero stood on a wall of freedom for us all. This precious life, lived and lost in love of America, epitomized every attribute of patriotism the Sons Of The American Revolution hold dear. And, as Americans, we could never repay the debt we owe ..!! Nor the debt we owe you… the family of one of America's best ...!!!
Sandy Bonesteel
October 28, 2007
As the mother of a son who is deployed, I want to send my condolences. Please know that there are many, many people who grieve with you.
Valorie
October 27, 2007
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and they were protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/0
October 27, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
I would also like to tell you about a website, [email protected] where some wonderful people will make wood portraits of your fallen Hero for free for the immediate family. I became aware of this site when I wanted to do something special for Le Ron’s mother.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett (Queens, NY)
Debbie , Kenny Coffey
October 27, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers out to the CHITJIAN family,Knowing now what they have always known is one of many reasons that our HERO'S shall NEVER be forgotten.Rest well brother that star spangled banner will FOREVER wave,Your name stamped in steel shall FOREVER be clutched in the tallons,And your spirit shall FOREVER soar high in the skies in the symbol of our great nation,THANK YOU !..COME by NORTH--COME by SOUTH--COME by EAST--COME by WEST,We were all gathered and united on that great day as strangers,And upon those last [4] spoken words we are FOREVER BROTHERS!!.......HOO YAH......SEMPER FI........B.V.C.
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