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Derek Banks Obituary
Derek was a native of Hampton and had been a resident of Newport News. Derek was extremely loved by his family and friends.
He was a 2001 graduate of Bethel High School and participated in many sports. He was also very outgoing and was voted "Most Popular.'
Derek accepted Christ at an early age.
He leaves to cherish his memories a loving wife, Sheena Banks; a son, Derek "DJ" Banks Jr., of Newport News; his parents, Carl and Renee Person; his mother-in-law and father-in-law, Sheila and Roderick Everett, of Newport News; three sisters, Shamica (Vincent) of North Carolina; Brittany and Whittany, of Hampton; his maternal grandparents, Delvin and Earlene Banks; his paternal grandparents, Benjamin Pittman and Marion Daldy. He will be sadly missed by a very special brother-in-law, Greg Sanford (Candy). Derek also leaves a host of aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends; and will be greatly missed by a loving couple he called his other parents, Mr. and Mrs. Ward and their son, Phillip.
"Derek, please rest, we all love you, but God loved you best."
A celebration of life will be held at noon on Friday, Nov. 23, at Six Mount Zion Baptist Temple, 3100 Butternut Drive, Hampton. Interment will follow at Hampton Memorial Gardens with full military honors. Viewing will be held Wednesday, Nov. 21, at the funeral home, beginning at 1 p.m. and the family will receive friends from 6 to 7 p.m. Sgt. Banks will lie in state at the church on Friday two hours prior to the service.
Arrangements are entrusted to O. H. Smith and Son Funeral Home.
In lieu of flowers, the family request contributions may be made to a scholarship fund in Derek's Memory. Contributions may be sent to Merrill Lynch, c/o Sheena Banks, 11742 Jefferson Ave., Suite 320, Newport News, VA 23606.
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Memories and Condolences
for Derek Banks
Charlie Gili
October 25, 2020
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Derek R. Banks US Army Sergeant.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Frank Batts
May 25, 2020
On this Memorial Day my thoughts and prayers are with the family of SGT Banks. I was privileged to serve Mrs. Banks escort during the service and internment. I will always remember presenting the Gold Star awards to his young son. I pray that you all are doing well.
MG (ret) Frank E. Batts
March 1, 2019
Thinking of you Banks!
~Lawrence
Renee Banks Person
October 1, 2018
My son,
Im sitting here at work and just read a new post. I immediately started crying, it was like my emotions were out of control. I miss you more than words could ever express.
Only God knows this is still so unreal.
I will continue to pray for strength and guidance in life.
Love always mama dukes
Collings
September 29, 2018
Banks I don't know what caused me to look this up almost 11 years later. You were one of the 1st people I met in 276th after I got out of Basic and you were my sponsor, then when we got activated we went together and ended up as the gunners in 3rd platoon training together through mob. I never got the chance to thank you for everything you did for me. Everyone in 3rd hated to see you and Lambert go to another platoon at the end of mob but we knew (we thought) it was for the best so you could get promoted.
It still bothers me today that we weren't with you on the 25th. Just wanted to let you and your family know you will never be forgotten.
Gary Highley, MAJ (R)
November 8, 2015
Derek (and family) I creid when I learned of your passing, somewhat belated. Recalling the man that taught me the difference in the upward and downward nod while wearing sunglasses. Honored to have served with you in Mosul, Iraq. Thinking about your family today and our last conversation back in Richmond when you were beaming with pride about your son who is about hte same age as mine. I realized at that point you had matured greatly in the short time we were overseas and took great pride in your family.
Here is hoping your family is doing well and that they remember with great pride the love you shared with all.
Renee Banks mamadukes
September 19, 2013
Hey D just stopping by to say I love and miss you more each day. I prayed this would get easier with time but it hasnt. DJ had is first football game last week and he showed the hell off. Your baby is growing up to be a great young man. I see remarkable thing in his future. Sheena is doing good also you know the challenges being a sigle parent. the family is great you sister just wont leave home omg I love these two so much. Anyway nana turned 71 and still going strong. Ok gotta go later love alway mamadukes
Shaun Kaufman
September 14, 2012
Hey Bam. Been thinking about you a lot and found out about this page. God bless you, bruh. And thank you for being one of the best friends I've ever had.
Tremain Wilson
September 7, 2012
What's up Banks!!!
I'm sitting here thinking about you and it makes me happy and sad. I'm happy because with this modern technology, I can type in your name, see your face and read testimonials about how great of a person you were but It makes me sad because you not here anymore. It's been a long time since I visited this site. I've since come home from Afghanistan (thanks for watching over me) and a lot has transpired but trust me, I've never forgotten about you. I have drill this weekend and I'm finally getting promoted to SGT!!! Now I can be just like my BIG BROTHER. I have so much to be thankful for and I just wish you were still here to share life with the world. Anyway, God doesn't make mistakes. I pray that your in peace and I pray for peace over your mother's heart. May God continue to look after Sheena and especially DJ. I'm out for now...I'll come back soon and check on you
SGT. Wilson, Tremaine
travis barnes
July 12, 2012
man time is flying i miss my big cousin... rest in peace... we love and miss you...
May 18, 2012
Thinking about and honoring "Bam" Banks today.
May 16, 2012
Hey Derek,
You just crossed my mind. We miss you. Continue to watch over your family and be with your friends.
Anetta
Peggy Childers
November 14, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Derek R. Banks:
Please accept my remembrance of Derek on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Its big D and little d
Renee Banks Person
October 25, 2011
Its Derek
Renee Banks Person
October 25, 2011
Deborah Banks-Walker
October 25, 2011
Hey Dereky just sitting here thinking about you, this time of the year is really hard for our family because we seem to miss you mor if that is possible. Your mom has been doing fine but please look over her and give her a sign. Boy D.J is just like you every time I see him it makes me laugh and feel good. Dam boy I miss you so much I think I might fry some chicken today can you please come still some off the plate like you use to do. any way I love you and miss you. Aunt D
Markeyta Hailey
October 24, 2011
Sometimes, it just seems like this can't be real! I was thinking I am thankful that I was able to know you through middle and highschool, I regret not keeping in touch like I said I would before you joined the military. The last time I saw you, I would have never thought you would be gone! You are truly missed but will never be forgotten, you brightened so many of my days with your jokes and the serious side of you! Rest well Derek!
TONYA CHERRY
October 24, 2011
To my dearest cousin SGT. DEREK R.BANKS, YOU ARE INDEED OUR AMERICAN HERO, YOU HAVE TOUCH SO MANY LIVES IN SUCH A SHORT TIME. WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU.FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS.
Julio Rodriguez
September 1, 2011
To the families of our American Heroes,
I want to thank each of you for your personal
sacrifices on behalf of my family and America.
May God comfort your souls and bring peace in
your hearts that your loss is not in vain.
God Bless our valiant warriors families in the
ages to come.
RIP courageous ones!
Psalm 25:20
A greatful Veteran
MSgt USAF (Ret)
Vietnam 64,65,66,68-6
DJ Derek Banks JR
Renee Banks Person (mom of this hero)
June 8, 2011
Hey Derek,
I sitting here at 11:09pm way pass my bed time. I couldnt get you off my mind tonight.,I think about you often, but tonight I am feeling really sad. I know we will be together again and God had a bigger plan for you. I may shed tears but know that they are out of love. I watch DJ grow up and wonder what life would be like if you were here, Sometimes I wish I could have changed things, I dont know how but I just wish it was something else I could have done. So Derek as I let my mind wonder I am praying that DJ lives a great life. Your sisters are growing up to be the best aunties ever to DJ. Daddy carl talks about missing you and he plays with DJ just like you use too. Okay now I cant stop the tears so I will say goodnite baby.
Derek and D.J.
Herb Watson
January 26, 2011
The last picture I have of you...the crazy thing is I got you and Lambert together.
Herbert Watson
January 26, 2011
BANKS!!! What's good man?? Just thinking about you and I want you to know I miss you. Just letting you know that I finally got a job as a Federal Cop and I'm down in Georgia training. I remember the night you came and said, "I will see you later" before that mission. It crosses my mind everyday and I wish I could see you sooner than later. In due time we will see each other. So until then just watch over and guide me. When I say my nightly prayers I always include your family, Sheena, and especially DJ. I know they don't know me well, but I feel like I'm doing my part. I will keep checking in on you time to time.
Your boy,
Herb (BIG WATTS) Watson
Elizabeth Raab
January 15, 2011
Your legacy will forever live on in the hearts of those who knew you and shared in your struggle to protect our country and the ultimate sacrifice you gave so that we can be grateful for what we have. Your family, friends, loved ones and fellow soldiers will stay in my thoughts and prayers.
A Proud Military Mom.
Matthew Krumich
December 6, 2010
Derek, I knew you all through high school, and once even ran into you upon mobilization. We were both American soldiers. You may be gone but, will never be forgotten. God Bless you and your family... Matthew Krumich
Peggy Childers
November 14, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Derek R. Banks:
Remembering Derek on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Sammie Spears, MSgt, USAF
November 12, 2010
SGT Derek Banks
I never knew you and unfortunately, the only way I got to know of you is because of the tragedy that took you from us. However, I will honor you on 14 November 2010 as I run a full marathon with your name on my back. I will get asked if I knew you and my response will be "No, but he gave his life fighting for you, so please remember him."
I will carry you for these 26.2 miles and God will carry you through eternity. Rest In Peace Soldier....
Renee (MamaDukes) Banks Person
June 17, 2010
Hey SGT Banks, I am sitting here before I go to work crying my eyes out...wow, it has really been 2 1/2 yrs, DJ graduated from preschool on last sunday, and your baby sister will graduate sat. from BHS, she made it just like you told her, she has been very sad, she just wants her brother there and I told her you would be. I am having her a graduation cookout on sunday. remember the night you graduated we barely got a picutre before you behind was gone I dont think I saw you anymore that week...lol oh yea she also has a new boyfriend so she waited until she was almost 19, remnember her b-day is on the 29th. Derek this is so hard not having you here involved thinking you were her daddy...we know you are with us always but boy we really miss that mouth, smile and you could light up a room. Ok D it is time to go to work, I will holla at you later.
Travis Barnes
May 26, 2010
My eyes filled up with tears as I heard the news
It never occurred to me, how much I could lose
I find myself wishing that it wasn't real
Every time I think about it, pain is all I can feel
Tears fall from my eyes, I can barely see
But my heart tells me that BAM is always going to be with me
I’m glad he feels no pain now-he lives in a perfect land
I can still feel the soft touch on my shoulder of his loving hand
I lie in bed and cry at night
And I don’t feel any better in the morning light
And I will love and miss him forever
Until the day we are again together.
Together in that perfect place above,
Filled with caring, sharing and love
But until that day comes- I will wipe my tears away.
And hopefully see him again someday.
Rest In Peace Cousin thanks for being the inspriration you were to me i love miss you see you soon
Spc Tremain Wilson
May 25, 2010
Dear Banks,
I've been thinking about you today (as you already know). Today is my birthday but I'm kinda sad as I reflect on life. I wish you were here! I'm laying on my bunk as I prepare to head to Afghanistan and all I can think of is the sacrifice you made for all of us. I pray that I can be as brave as you were. I have a family now of my own...I realize how much I love them and I can only imagine how hard it is for Sheena. I never met your son but he is a ray of light onto the world as your spirit lives thru him. Your moms is an awesome woman! I'm reading her post and it makes me want to call my mother and tell her how much I love her. You guys seem really close even in your absence. I guess I'm just venting...(I feel better already). I came across a letter you wrote me on your first tour. I was in a world of trouble but you took the time to write me in the midst of dealing with your own troubles. I've always considered you my big brother and that you'll always be. Derek...I know God will but I'm asking you as well to look over me while I'm over there. Your always in my heart so your job as big brother is not done. I love you and my prayers are with all of your loved ones.
Deborah Banks-Walker
March 12, 2010
Derek I am still having a hard time not having you around, I come here and read everyones remarks which helps me cope Delvin had a baby boy that happens to be the four years younger than DJ that is funny because I feel like we just got two new derek and delvin's I know you are watching so I am not going to say I wish you could see. DJ is wonderful just like you when you were a little boy I just needed to say I love you and I miss you.
g knowles
March 11, 2010
I was looking for someone with the same name as derek spelled the same way...I got stuck on this page for awhile..A young man, who died serving his country..Who was only trying to keep it legit for his wife and son..my heart goes out to his mother..She visits here often in hopes to somehow connecting to her son, I couldn't imange how that must feel..to look in the eyes of his child and see the eyes of her own...May God continue to Hold you all..friends and Family...I have lost folks, and the comfort is that God makes no mistakes and we are born into this world to leave this world...He left handling biz and the rest is absorbed in love and memories!!!
Vernon Bland
January 7, 2010
Bam, Happy Birthday brother i truely miss you: you will never be forgotten.I know u down here looking over telling laughing and me say m crazy..well hope to see u soon maybe we can play basketball like we use to....miss you Bam....
Renee Banks Person
November 16, 2009
Hello everyone that is reading this, sat. 11-14-09 was our second yr without my baby SGT Derek (Bam) Banks, it still feels like yesterday. I was in the hospital room when it happen so I know it really happen but how do you ever get over it....it is really a night mare you want to forget. Derek I an watching over your wife Sheena and your baby boy DJ. They are doing wonderful, you did a great job. Son I thank you with all my heart for the sacfices you made for all of us. Derek I remember your laughter and always being silly, boy you know you will always be with me. Love ya so much.
October 30, 2009
ms banks,
i did not know your son, but i love him. may god bless him and hold him next to him. Please know that millions of us are grateful for his sacrifice, you are a special woman for having raised such a fine young man. god bless you.
Lizardo Quinones Veteran
82nd Airborne Division
1971-1973
Renee Banks Person
October 27, 2009
My son SGT Derek (Bam) Banks,
I miss you more than life. Oct. 25 was the day of your bombing 2yrs ago. It seems like yesterday I recieved that phone call. The family, friends and I all celebrated your home coming with a memorial candle light vigil sunday. You would have loved it, you always loved to be the center of attention. We will always pray and hope you are looking down on us, please watch over baby DJ he needs you now more than ever. I still can't believe this happen. Maybe oneday God will make me understand. I visit your gravesite yesterday. I put the flowers from the candle light. Well my son until next time. All my love. I would like to thank everyone who came out to this special day.....
mamaDukes.................
TAMIKA WILSON
August 21, 2009
BAM NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT I DON'T THINK OF YOU. YOU WERE MY BIG BROTHER THAT I NEVER HAD. I COULD ALWAYS CONFIDE IN YOU AND YOU WERE THERE NO MATTER WHAT. LIFE IS HARD WITHOUT YOU HERE BUT YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE A PLACE IN MY HEART. I LOVE AND MISS YOU DEARLY.
Vernon Garrett, Jr.
August 11, 2009
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to the family of Derek. We worked together at the Sprint Kiosk in Patrick Henry Mall. I was in the process of updating facebook and other sites and was adding past co-workers. When I typed Derek's name in Google and saw the results, I refused to believe them. Now after reading his obituary and seeing his picture, I see that it is indeed the Derek that I knew. The man that loved Sheena and talked about her every day at work. The father who loved being a father to DJ. I remember when Lil Wayne's "Go DJ" was out and he had the video of DJ bobbing his head while he rapped on his phone. The athlete who enjoyed playing basketball with friends. The guy that was an absolute fanatic of Jordans and tattoos. I thank God for the short while that he loaned Derek to us and will carry him in my heart forever.
Renee Banks Person
June 16, 2009
Derek,
My darling son, I miss you more and more each and everyday. Everyone said time would make it easier, but it is only harder. I see DJ every weekend and watch him growing up without you is difficult. I am so glad he is so close to Carl, that is his poppop. I just wanted you to know my heart will never stop aching. I am so proud you are my son. You died for us and I want to say Thank you for serving our country.
Just remember mommy will always be with you where ever you go...I love you so much until we meet again.
Kenna Larra
December 8, 2008
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Remona Carter
November 24, 2008
I went to Eaton Middle School wit Derek and he was so cool!!!...he was always positive and smiling!!!....He will be truly missed by me!! R.I.P. Man!!!!!!
KIMBERLY LESTER
November 16, 2008
I OFTEN THINK OF YOU AS I GO THROUGH THIS TRAINING HERE AT FT. PICKETT TO GO TO AFGHANISTAN. THERE IS NOT A DAY THAT GOES BY THAT WE AT 276 DONT MISS YOU. WE ADMIRED YOUR ENTHUSIASM, SMILE AND LAUGHTER THAT YOU BROUGHT TO THE UNIT. WITHOUT YOU THINGS DONT FEEL THE SAME BUT I KNOW THAT YOU ARE WATCHING OVER US AND GUIDING US IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION. I WILL ALWAYS KEEP YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. I LOVE YOU MAN
November 14, 2008
DOLLA. . .WHATS GOOD,MY DUDE??? I CANT BEGIN TO BELIEVE IT'S BEEN A YEAR. . I BEEN SLIPPING ON KEEPING TRACK OF YOUR FAMILY,SON. . BEEN GOING THROUGH SOME THINGS OF MY OWN,BUT I GOT YOU. . .I'M NOT ALWAYS THERE WHEN YOU CALL. . . .WELL YOU KNOW THE REST. . . .PEACE N LOVE,BIG HOMIE
DIDDY
In Memory of Derek ~ (Debra Estep)
November 14, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Derek, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Peggy Childers
November 13, 2008
To the family of Sgt. Derek R. Banks:
Derek gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
D Walker
October 13, 2008
Whats good big cousin... almost a year since you've left us... still too hard to believe. It's crazy to see still to this day how many lives you have toched. I am proud to be one of those people. You have taught me so much and have been an instrumental role in the man I am today. Growing up running behind you, it was never like you were my cousin... you are my big brother. It's crazy Derek... I've met alot of your friends and family since you've passed and everyone see's a part of you in me... they're absolutly right cuz you live in our hearts... Rest easy big bro...
Delvin "Bam" Walker
travis barnes
October 6, 2008
i love you Sheena and DJ i know you miss bam but hes gone now i miss him also all the times he joked and laugh with me and even when he taught ne how the game of pool goes now that hes gone i dont really have anyone that wil spend that much time with me that he did bam r.i.p.
Taylor Hender
September 3, 2008
The first time I met Banks was during training; hanging upside down, his body armor hooked on the latch of a Humvee turret. Despite the severe discomfort (some might say pain, but he'd never admit it) he was experiencing, he had a smile, a few jokes and many choice words for his predicament. Two days later, I was assigned a bunk next to his and learned a lot about Sheena, DJ and Banks himself. Most importantly, he alleviatd many of my fears of the upcoming deployment. Just yesterday, I was looking for a number in my phone and found his. That, I must say, is a number I will never erase because it belonged (and always will to me) to a man I will never forget.
Deborah Banks-Walker
August 15, 2008
Dearest Derek'
Some days, like today it is hard to go on noing my phone won't ring with you on the other end, saying aunt Deb I am hungry and have no money you got 40 dollars I can get or I am in town you cooking. Boy I miss you more than any one will every know. I find my self talking about you to strangers because I refuse to let anyone forget what you my hero sacrificed for this country. I wish you were here to see DJ he is so much like you. Thank you for sharing the time with us that you did. I love you Aunt Deborah
Renee Person (mom of a true hero)
August 14, 2008
Hello everyone who reads this it has been 9 long months since my son's death. I ask God to bless my family and guide me daily. It still feels like yesterday and is still very unbelievable. Just continue to pray fron Sheena and DJ, and hope they can oneday live life to the fullest. If you knew SGT Derek BAM Banks you knew how full of life he always was, no matter what.
Chelcia (Menefee) McCrary
July 9, 2008
To the Family of Derek Banks,
I am deeply and truly sorry for your loss. I can only imagine the pain and the sorrow your family feels. I had been searching for BAM every since we had graduated High schoo in 2001 and I finally caught up with him right before he deployed for the second time and I never got the chance to speak by phone, but all I could do was pray and hope for his safe return. It has taken me up until now to come to terms with his death, I never wanted to accept it. I know firsthand the fears of not returning home for I have been to Iraq myself and will return there shortly. Derek made the ultimate sacrfice for our counry and freedom, which we can never ever take for granted. I will forvever hold your family in my prayers and I will always keep the memories of BAM and his beautiful personality alive. I know there is nothing that anyone can say or do to make this pain go away but please hold on and be strong for God is always with you.
Shari Pope
July 7, 2008
I heard a song today that reminded me of Bam and I couldn't have smiled harder! Bam, my sister Misha and Phillip were best friends when they were in highschool and there was never a dull moment with them but Bam was definitely the goofiest of the bunch! Bam was truly a joy to be around and today and always he will be missed!
July 6, 2008
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Banks and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
July 6, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Banks!
Renee Banks-Person (mom of a hero)
July 4, 2008
Today July 4, 2008 Independence day. I think God for giving me the courage to thank everyone. I'm sorry my son Sgt Derek (BAM) Banks can't be here, but his spirt is always here. When ever I see and talk to his wife (Sheena) and son (DJ) I thank God for them in my life. I pray for all our soldiers and for the family's and friends of our fallen soldiers. Remember God knows best so trust in the lord and he will guide you and give you the courage to carry on.
Derek,
I love ya and miss you so much, I talk about you daily. I still cry daily. Son I want to thank you for growing up and becoming the man I knew you would be. You always stayed in trouble at a young age, but I knew God was guiding you into becoming a great person, father, big brother, and husband. Baby mommy is and will always be so proud of you are my oldest child and I needed you as much as you need me. I know you tryed to prepare me for this that day at my computer by saying you might not return, but I didnt want to listen that day. I have to pray and know God doesnt make mistakes. Derkie do remember we always called you that when you were little and if I was fussing. I really miss you so much I feel like a part of me is gone.
Bless all who reads this......,......
Spc Lawrence-Meusa
June 17, 2008
Just Thinking About You BAM:::::
We Miss you Man:::
See Ya Soon....I need A Laugh:::
Love Ya Bro!!!
Joe Ann & Carl Russe
June 17, 2008
Thank You for my freedom,you are a true American Hero.
Spouse works at BAMC and our condolences go out to the families of our fallen soldiers.
Emily Toro
June 13, 2008
Hello, My name is Emily and I'm the mother of a fallen soldier by the name of Pvt. Isaac T. Cortes KIA on Nov 27, 2007 in Iraq. My condolences to you and your family for your lost. I wanted to share with you about a wall in Chicago where they are adding the names of fallen soldiers who have died in the war. I will be heading to Chicago next week for the reading of names and Derek will be one of the names I will have the honor of reading. Peace be with you and God Bless..
the Buck family
May 17, 2008
To the family and friends of Sgt. Derek R. Banks, our thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss. What he has done for our freedom will not be forgotten. May God comfort and bless your family.
heart broken mom
April 30, 2008
For all who signed my son Derek Ramond Banks's guest book, I just want you to know how honored it is to still have people showing their love for SGT Banks....I to can't believe this tradgey. I pray and ask God daily to help me go on and be there to help Sheena and DJ any way possible. We all will tell DJ wonderful stories of his father. So anyone who has a story please write it down and send it to me so I can read it to DJ when he is old enough to understand. Derek is gone in body but not spirit, his memories will live on always.
His mother(Renee Banks-Person)
Kenneth L. Jefferson
April 30, 2008
SPC Derek Banks,
My name is SFC Kenneth L. Jefferson. I went to high school with your mother. I met you when you were a baby and the sparkle in your mother's eye. I left and entered the Army in 1986. I have also served in Iraq, and I thank you for your service to our great nation. I am honored to have known you and served with you. My Brother in Arms Rest In Peace Soldier your watch is complete. Job well done and I SALUTE YOU For your sacrifice. Peace Be Still.
Spc Tremain Wilson
April 24, 2008
Dear
Banks,
I really can't come to terms that your gone. I looked up to you
as a big brother and that you were. I know your in a better place and I
pray for your families well being. Its a shame the your son will grow
up without you, but at least he will know from everyone who knew you,
how special and heroic you really were. You'll always be missed.
From your lil Bro
Debbie Elam
March 7, 2008
My name is Debbie Elam and I am the Chairman for the Virginia Memorial Quilt Project. Our Project's Mission is to present the closest relative of each fallen soldier from the State of Virginia with a numbered memorial quilt. Please contact me at the following:
Debbie Elam, Chairman
Virginia Memorial Quilt Project
2621 Linbrook Drive
Richmond, VA 23228
or you can email me at [email protected] or call me at home at 804-379-3817. You can view our work on www.vmqp.com. We hope to hear from you soon! God Bless You, Your Family and Friends.
Deborah Banks-Walker
January 27, 2008
Derek I love you,miss you and cry for you everyday. Renee thank you for giving us Derek. Sheena I love you also and I would like to thank you and Derek for DJ. Please call even if you dont need anything. Love you all Aunt Deborah
Renee Banks-Person (mother of a hero)
January 25, 2008
I Renee Person mother of Derek (Bam) Banks, would like to thank everyone that signed this guest book. I am still at a lost for words. I prayer daily for GOD to give our families strength to go on, I pray that our solders come home soon so this war can end. My heart aches daily for all other parents, wives, sisters, brothers and children of fallen soilders. My son will always be my hero, but he was my hero before going to fight in the war. He gave life when people wanted to give up and I always told him he was 1# in my life. Derek I miss your phone calls, saying what the hell is up ma-dukes.....My life will never be the same, I ask everyone to continue to pray for all of us. Sheena thank you for having DJ he is, and always will be the light of my life, and without him now I dont think I could carry on. God Bless you always...
Mama Renee
SANDRA DAY
January 21, 2008
Thank you for all you did to secure our freedom. None of us will ever forget the war and the brave men and women who cared enough to give the most precious gift of all LIFE.
Linda flannery
January 12, 2008
Remembering and honoring one of America's brave soldiers.
May your family and friends find comfort in their loving memories and know America shares their sorrow.
My flag flies in your honor Sgt Banks
Minister Florence Duckett
December 28, 2007
Sheena,
I was deeply touched by your loss. I am trusting God to restore your joy and peace, "...the peace that "...surpasses all understanding..."
I thank God because Derek will "never know pain or sorrow again..." I thank God because He has "...wiped away all tears from Derek's eyes..."
I will FOREVER "Salute" Derek R. Banks!
"...weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning..." May the Angels of God be forever encamped around you and DJ. God is your refuge and strength!
You are never alone. God's Word teaches us the "...bear one anothers burdens, thus fulfilling the law of Christ..."
Yours in Christ,
florence
please see:
www.roseofsharonministriesltd.org
this will let the world know that our Soldiers will never be forgotten!
Spencer gates
December 17, 2007
To Shenna and the Banks Family,
I just want to let all of you know that I am thinking of you all and just wanted to say that I miss Bam, and will miss him dearly, I think about him often of all the good times that we had and all the music we made with Brodee and I in his connex when we were over seas...I just wanted to let you know that
Justin Jones
December 17, 2007
I'll miss you, Banks. Stay up.
Aunt gigi
December 13, 2007
Hey Sheena, Just a reminder that I am thinking of you and D.J., I love you both and please call me if you need anything or just to chat.
Titilayo Fujah
December 8, 2007
Rest in Peace
LINDA CANO
December 8, 2007
May God's love and blessings fall on you all. Thank you, Derek, for your courage and honor to our country. Another hero has been taken from us. Rest in eternal peace.
cameron cosby
December 7, 2007
I've always liked this pic
Cameron Cosby
December 7, 2007
to your wife, i hope that you can be strong enough to move on and raise your wonderful son. Banks was a great man and always fun to be around its very hard to deal with the reality of loosing our friend, but together we can get through these hard times so if you need anything ever even if years from now I'm only a phone call away.
SGT Angie Catron
December 5, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are w/you and DJ. Derek was a wonderful person.
Walter Robinson
December 4, 2007
To Derek's wife:
Some may not think it is the time to be talking about a family reunion but I want some good to come out of this tragedy, it is the only thing to do.
Your son will need to know about his paternal great grandmother's side of the family from Charles City. And though I never knew Derek and barely know his grandmother, my grandfather's sister. I want this to be a chance for all of the Banks family to keep in contact.
He accomplishmed more in his life than most people his age can say. We should not be worried about Derek now, we should be worried not about the son that has lost his father and pray for him.
God bless,
Walter Jr.
Walter Robinson
December 4, 2007
Aunt Earlene (Derek's grandmother) , please email me when you have a chance and please tell your daughter (Derek's mother) I am praying for her.
Walter Jr.
Tina Houchins
December 3, 2007
Derek's Family,
My son “Aaron Gautier" gave his life in Iraq on May 17. The pain you are feeling is very familiar to me and family.I pray for your family and that God will make the pain a little easier with each passing day.
alfreda hampton (callis)
November 30, 2007
Renee, from the moment I saw you on t.v., I started praying for your family. I'm so sorry for your lost. May you find comfort in God and support in your friends during this sorrowful time. I will continue to pray for your family. May God continue to bless you all!!
Barbara Kreston
November 30, 2007
Rene, I was praying for you from the moment you called me with the news. I can't even imagine how much you're hurting, but I know your daughters, family, and friends will do whatever they can for you. I'm so, so sorry for your loss. I know how proud you are of your son.
B.
Ted F. Johnson
November 28, 2007
Our prayers are with the family, and the other members of Derek's unit.
God bless you all.
Andrea Wilkinson
November 28, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the enitre Banks family. I can remember Derek laughing with my husband on the last family day before they left and holding his son as a proud father.
Sgt Clifford Wilkinson Jr and Family
237 Eng Co
Sapper
tiffany hill
November 27, 2007
derek was a good person sorry he left so soon he will always be in our prays he was a joy to be around.
love,
the hill
family
Jasmine Ware
November 27, 2007
I send my deepest condolences and prayers to the Banks family . Bam was truly one of a kind and a great friend. There will never be another. I thank God I had the experience of knowing him.
7th grade Louisburg Middle School
November 26, 2007
We care and share your sorrow and pride.
Patrecia Gary
November 26, 2007
To The Banks Family
I had the pleasure of drilling with SPC Banks in the 276th. He was a great soldier and a wonderful person. His spirit was one of a kind. He will definitely be missed.
At times like this
It's sometimes hard
To find the words to say
My thoughts and prayers
Are with you now
While the skies seem so gray.
A time to weep my friend
For the light of love will
Ease the pain
Time will heal the sorrow.
Loving memories will remain.
With Deepest Sympathy!
Know that I am with you now
And my heart will never change
Holt Family
November 26, 2007
Banks is a great man. Our prayers are with you. We are family, and always will be. Contact us if you need anything.
Walter Robinson
November 26, 2007
First, I would like to say my prayers are going out for Derek's son. Derek, is fine now, but it is the children we need to pray for. Second, I never knew when I reconnected with my Great-Aunt Earline last year that she had a grandson around the same age as me. I do wish I could have known him.
However, I am very proud of the causes he was fighting for and his accomplishments and pray for his mother (my second cousin) and Aunt Earline (my Great Aunt) and the whole family.
God bless the whole family.
Love,
Walter Jr.
Ginny Grogan
November 26, 2007
To Renee and family
I am sorry I missed the service. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you as well as my love.Please express my sympathy to Derek's wife. I have never met her but I am sure she is a wonderful person. You are all in our prayers.
God Bless,
The Grogan Family
Jamie Cantrell
November 26, 2007
May God be with you and your family during this time. No words could express how we feel and hope the family can get through this one day at a time.
vickie law-strange
November 25, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
James Weymouth
November 25, 2007
We all lost a part of ourselves when we lost banks, yet I could not ask for a stronger guardian Angel.
- Weymouth 2nd Platoon
237th En Co (Sapper)
Katie Brown
November 25, 2007
Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family. I did not know Derek myself but my husband does. They both serve in the same unit and I know that Derek is an awesome person. He is an honorable soldier and from what I have heard and read a person who would give the shirt off his back if someone needed him to. He is a person for the world to look up to because he was a hero. He will be greatly missed. From one soldiers family to another....May God Bless you and your loved ones.
SEBRINA HAWKINS
November 25, 2007
I ALSO HAD FAMILY IN THE MILITARY MY PRAYER IS THA GOD WILL KEEP THEM SAFE. I WILL BE LIFTING YOUR FAMILY UP IN PRAYER. AND THAT THE LORD WILL KEEP YOUR FAMILY IN PEACE , AND THAT YOU WILL LOOK TOWARD GOD FOR STENGTH AND UNDSTANDING.
Tom Gugliuzza
November 25, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Banks family in the loss of Derek. I did not know Derek, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Derek you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
eldridge hill
November 24, 2007
To my other lil brotha this is big brotha Eldridge {Antoine} Hill, you will be missed i still dont belive you are gone,i still think back to the days when we were younger and we stayed beside each other me you & brandon. I just wish i couldve been by your side at your time of need. but hopefully i will see you again one day and i will always miss you lil brother. P.S. mrs renee give me a call at 644-7145 RIP BAM
Donna Woods
November 24, 2007
May God be with you and your family in this time of need. I lost my cousin on Oct.25th so I know that it is very hard. But keep the faith and I will keep you in my prayers.
Harvey and Vernell Johnson
November 24, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Terica Dangerfield
November 24, 2007
My prayers are with you and your extended family. May you be comforted in knowing that he is in a place that is far better than this old evil world. The bible declares that to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. I can't imagine the hurt that you must feel, just take comfort in knowing that although you love him, GOD LOVES HIM BEST!!!!
PC
November 24, 2007
I told myself and B that I would not shead another tear for him,because like any other great man it's not something he would want. . . I held fast during the funeral,I really did. . . I got home late that night,and was standing on my front porch (freezing i might add) and I saw the moon. . . big,bright,and full in all it's beauty. . . and I broke down.I cried tears i promised him I wouldnt. . .looking at that moon made me think of how big,bright,and full of life you are,were,and always will be well,I only promised i wouldnt cry at the FUNERAL,so I didnt break my promise,Bank$. . . .
LOVE YOU,BIG LIL BROTHER. . . I'LL SEE YOU SOON
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