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January 9, 2025
You are not forgotten Matt. Your old friend from Oliver.
January 9, 2024
Thinking of you on this day Matt. Your old friend.
January 9, 2023
Remembering you on this day Matt. You are not forgotten. From your old childhood friend.
Charlie Gili
October 5, 2020
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Matthew I. Pionk US Army Sergeant 1st Class.
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Sincerely,
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Anonymous
January 9, 2020
I'm remembering Matt on the 12th anniversary of his passing. He was my best childhood friend between the ages of 10 and 14 before I moved away and his memory will always be with me. To his family, and especially to his children whom I never had the pleasure to meet; know that your father was one of greatest and most honorable men that I have ever known. He was a true friend who could always be counted on. We had many adventures in and around our hometown of Oliver and even as a young boy one could see that Matt was special; genuinely kind and caring toward others. When his dog Brownie died, Matt carried him all the way home in his arms over a mile. So many memories. I will always miss him.
Tom Houle
April 11, 2017
Matt, its been along time since we knew one anotber. I hope you are at peace watching over all who loved you. Thanks for the Express Lube memories, and Wyotech days. You were a great guy. If it wasn't for you, I would have never went to Wyotech. Thanks again Matt, for being a truly down to earth friend.
Leila Campbell
May 7, 2013
To the family of Sgt. 1st Class Matthew I. Pionk:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Christian Memorial Day Remembrance worship service at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday, 26 May 2013. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the bordering states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 300 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars of our nation's history and give honor to all who have served in the United States Armed Forces and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each 8-foot cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of America's conflicts.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “Freedom:Free, but Costly.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and there place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of the Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the Memorial Garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel. The Memorial Garden will remain until 5:00 p.m. on Monday, 27 May (Memorial Day).
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/286-7296) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/286-7296) or email the office ([email protected]) and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Saturday 25 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sunday, 26 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one's cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Peggy Childers
January 10, 2013
To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class Matthew I. Pionk:
It has truly been my honor to sign Matthew's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Matthew will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy
Ashley Pionk
June 5, 2012
I love you so much dad!!!!!!
April 23, 2012
To the family of Sgt. 1st Class Matthew I. Pionk:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Christian Memorial Day Remembrance worship service at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday 27 May 2012. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the bordering states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 300 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars of our nation's history and give honor to all who have served the United States and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of America's conflicts.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “Lest We Forget Freedom's Cost.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of the Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the Memorial Garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/456-4410) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/456-4410) or email ([email protected]) the office, and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Saturday 26 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sunday 27 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one's cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
ashley pionk
April 15, 2012
Love you dad!you are the best!!!!!!!!
Peggy Childers
January 9, 2012
To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class Matthew I. Pionk:
Always remembering Matthew. "Some gave all."
May 9, 2011
To the family of Sgt 1st Class Matthew I Pionk:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 29 May 2011. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 200 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one. The Memorial Garden’s perimeter will be manned by members of the Patriot Guard and a honor guard from AMVETS Post #1 of Mendota will be posted at the entrance.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars in United States history and give honor to all who have served their country and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of our nation’s wars.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “A Believer’s Look at War.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/456-4410) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/456-4410) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 28 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 29 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Peggy Childers
January 9, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class Matthew I. Pionk:
Please accept my remembrance of Matthew on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
T A
May 9, 2010
Thank you soldier for your greatest sacrifice. I did not know you and pray that you now rest in peace. My sympathies go out to your family. Thank you soldier, for protecting the innocent and the weak.
May 9, 2010
Thank you for protecting the weak and innocent. I did not know you but wish to honor you. I pray for your family because you are missed. God Bless you and your family. Thank you soldier.
April 30, 2010
To the family of Sgt. 1st Class Matthew I. Pionk:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 30 May 2010. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses to represent all of the wars in United States history and give honor to all who have served their country and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled “A Day of Remembrance.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception; weather permitting will be outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (612/970-7866) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 29 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 30 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Peggy Childers
January 10, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class Matthew I. Pionk:
Remembering Matthew on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Leila Campbell
May 4, 2009
To the family of Sgt. 1st Class Matthew I. Pionk
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 24 May 2009. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled “Answering the Highest Call.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception in the Chapel’s Fellowship Hall.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (612/970-7866) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 23 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 24 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
T Starman
January 17, 2009
I offer my deepest condolences for your loss
In Memory of Matthew ~ (Debra Estep)
January 11, 2009
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Matthew, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Glenn D'Abreo
January 11, 2009
What is there that anyone can say about a young man who surrendered his life in service to his country and his nation. I pray that his family will find comfort in the gratitude of an extremely indebted nation.
God Bless Your All and fill your hearts where Matthew has left a void.
harry and cherri kipp
January 10, 2009
Matt you are missed, still remembered and loved
Rest In Peace
Michael Iezzi
January 9, 2009
Matt,
Thinking and praying for you on the 1st anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.
Peggy Childers
January 9, 2009
To the family of Sgt. 1st Class Matthew I. Pionk:
Matthew gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Jeremy Pionk
January 1, 2009
Happy New Year Matt. I celebrated tonight at the sweeping away of bad year for us Pionk's. Mom, Dad, and Josh toasted with me at midnight my time knowing the year has passed. We all miss you, and love you always.
Kenna Larra
December 3, 2008
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Michael Iezzi
October 10, 2008
Matt,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
July 8, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt 1st Class Pionk!
July 8, 2008
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt 1st Class Pionk and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Leila Campbell
May 2, 2008
To the family of Sgt. 1st Class Matthew I. Pionk:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 25 May, 2008. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain, LTC Kenneth L. Beale, Jr. will preach a message entitled “The Price of Freedom” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat. 24 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun. 25 May, a “PrayerVigil for Peace” will be held. You are invited to stop by and light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden, then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Administrative Assistant
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Glenn D'Abreo
April 29, 2008
Fallen Soldier All Alone
Fallen Soldier Far From Home
Lying Motionless On The Ground,
The Battle Raging All Around.
For Now He Is Not All Alone.
This Fallen Soldier Is Welcomed Home.
God love all of you for sharing this Hero with America. No one can ever repay you! No one can ever say thank you enough. Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Suzanne MacDaniel
April 7, 2008
To the Pionk family,
I know there are no words to say, except how sorry I am for your loss. May you hold Matthews' memory in your heart and please remember he shall never be forgotten.
...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.
But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.
Suzanne MacDaniel
A Proud Aunt
David M.Fisher
KIA 12/1/04 Iraq
March 12, 2008
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
March 12, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy to the Pionk family in the loss of Matthew. I did not know Matthew, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Matthew you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
February 3, 2008
My wife and I would like to send our thoughts and prayers to the family of Matthew. Our son Chris R. was in Matthew’s platoon. If anyone in Matthew’s family would like to contact us, we have a couple photographs of Matthew that we could send you.
Dan Reigstad
Proud parent of Chris R.
HHC 3-2SCR
michael and christa Fahey
February 1, 2008
our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Aaron Ray
January 29, 2008
“For we know that if our earthly house, this tent, is destroyed, we have a building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens.” 2 Corinthians 5:1 (NKJV)
The coffin, housing the “tent” in which your dear son once resided, was placed on the funeral bier. In the background, you heard the gun salute followed by “Taps.” Most of us have heard this tune. However, few are aware of the words that go with this most familiar melody. Here are the words as they are known to me. (There are many variations.):
TAPS
Day is done, gone the sun,
From the hills, from the lakes, from the sky.
All is well, safely rest, God is nigh.
Go to sleep, peaceful sleep,
May the soldier or sailor,
God keep.
On the land or the deep,
Safe in sleep.
Love, good night, Must thou go,
When the day, And the night
Need thee so?
All is well. Speedeth all
To their rest.
Thanks and praise, For our days,
'Neath the sun, Neath the stars,
'Neath the sky,
As we go, This we know,
God is nigh.
Your dear son’s “tent” has been destroyed. But, as the Apostle Paul said in 2 Cor. 5:1, God has a better plan for us. The “tent” that once housed your precious son’s soul has been replaced by something far better than a “tent.” It is a building not made with hands.
On this earth, your soldier’s duty and day is done BUT, “All is well, safely rest, God is nigh… As we go, This we know, God is nigh.” Thank you for your son’s service.
The proud father of a soldier in Iraq and a retired military veteran,
Here is a link if you would like to hear or read more on “Taps.”
http://www.arlingtoncemetery.net/taps.htm
http://www.arlingtoncemetery.net/taps.mid
Rest In Peace Sgt. 1st Class Matthew I Pionk
January 28, 2008
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
I would also like to tell you about a website, http://groups.msn.com/SSPSoldierPor
traits/homepage,
where some wonderful people will make wood portraits of your fallen Hero for free for the immediate family. I became aware of this site when I wanted to do something special for Le Ron’s mother.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett (Queens, NY)
Shelley
January 25, 2008
From one military family to yours, we would like to thank Sgt. 1st Class Pionk for his service to this great country, and send our deepest condolences for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Marte Reavis
January 25, 2008
To the family of Matthew Pionk,
I know what you are going through right now. My nephew Christopher Sanders was killed with Matthew. I've heard several nice things about him. He was in a few of Christopher's pictures. My heart is so saddened and lost because of this horrific tragedy, so I can honestly say I know your pain. I hope you will be able to find peace again one day. Just know that you are not alone. You have a brave man that gave his life for our freedom. My prayers are with you!!
Marte Reavis
Aunt of Sgt. Christopher Sanders
Hugh Perry
January 24, 2008
I just found out about the loss of Matt, we met in M-ANCOC at Ft Benning Last January. I wish to convey my most heartfelt condolences for your loss. Matt was one of the best soldiers and person I have ever met, his loss will be felt across the Army. May God assuage your grief and leave you only with the cherished memory of such a great man.
Susan Melott
January 23, 2008
Melanie: We never know when the knock on the door will come. My greatest wish is that it never came for you. I know that you are going to be strong for your kids, but if you ever need someone to be strong for you, just ask. Matt was a sweet, funny, beer-loving guy. I know he was a soldier, but I'll always remember him as a friend. Peace and Love to you & yours.
Todd Rustad
January 20, 2008
Dear Cousin,
I am so sorry we did not stay in closer touch over the years. May God grant you peace for your ultimate gift to the country. God bless your wife, kids and parents.
Dave and Sandi Koecher
January 19, 2008
Duane, Sandy, Melanie and your most precious family. Our deepest sympathy is extended to you at this most difficult time in your life. God never said it was going to be easy did He? Sometimes we wonder why such tragedies happen to some and not others. Maybe someday we will understand. Just know that Matthew was well loved, an accomplished individual, loving and kind in all that he did; most of all a wonderful son, husband, father, brother and uncle. It sounds by all the words that were written in Matthew's guest book that he is a Super Hero in everyone's eyes. Keep all those memories close forever. We are so sorry we could not be with you today but with the cold David didn't dare go out. David remembered working with Matthew at Kerrick Sod and he said he was such a kind and fun person to work with. Dave really enjoyed him. We just wanted to let you know you are in our prayers.
May God be with you always.
Debbie Walker
January 19, 2008
Dear Sandy, Duane, Melanie and the entire extended family,
We are so sorry and thinking of you all in the loss of Matthew. You have to be so proud of his accomplishments.
May his legacy be cherished memories that remain in your hearts forever.
Hoping you draw comfort from the sympathy, the caring and compassion of friends who are here for you at this difficult time.
I know words can't take away the sadness in your heart. But may time and the love of those who share your sorrow help comfort and make each day easier.
Please know I'm here if I can help in anyway.Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
With Deepest Heartfelt Sympathy
Love
Scott and Debbie
Corey Karren
January 18, 2008
I am writing to offer my deepest sympathies to you and your family over the loss of your HERO Sergeant First Class Matthew I. Pionk.
I pray you will be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength in this time.
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit GOD Bless you and your family. Your soldier was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of his service. He will not be forgotten!
Mike Beckman
January 18, 2008
Sandy, and the entire extended Nace family: We were sadden by the news of your loss. A hero was among you, and we are sure he was greatly appreciated and loved. Your memories and strength will lead you through this difficult time.
ELIZABETH CROSS
January 18, 2008
MY MOST HEARTFELT SYMAPTHIES GO OUT TO THE FAMILY OF MATTHEW. THERE ARE NO WORDS ADEQUATE TO EASE THE PAIN YOU ARE FEELING. I LOST MY YOUNGEST SON, CPL. KENNETH CROSS ON AUGUST 27, 2006. TREASURE ALL THE WONDERFUL MEMORIES THAT YOU HAVE OF MATT. THERE IS A VERY SPECIAL PLACE IN HEAVEN FOR OUR YOUNG "HEROS". I LIKE TO THINK OF KENNY AS MY GUARDIAN ANGEL WHO IS WATCHING OVER ALL OF US UNTIL WE CAN ALL BE TOGETHER AGAIN. MAY GOD GRANT YOU ALL PEACE IN TIME. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. ELIZABETH CROSS (KENNY'S MOM)
Henry & Norma Hoffman
January 17, 2008
Duane and family - You all are in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time in your lives. We thank Matthew for so proudly serving our country and may God bless him. We ask God to give you strength and comfort.
Kristine Howard ( Anderson)
January 17, 2008
Our prayers are with you and your family..We have very fond memories of Matt, we went to school as Elementary, Junior high and High School. Matt was a very kind and out going friend.. You will be missed, and thought of alway's.. May piece be with you and your family.
Kristine (Anderson) Howard
Connie (Kirshtner) Morehouse
Jennifer (Fish) Miller
Deborah Hansen
January 17, 2008
a blessing of strength for Matthew's family and my thoughts and thanks for his service for our freedom.
Laura Peterson
January 17, 2008
Dear family of Matt Pionk, May God comfort you at this difficult time and I know he will be with you to ease your pain. Lean on Him for guidance and peace of mind. God Bless Always, Laura Peterson
January 17, 2008
Melanie and family. Neither I nor my wife had the pleasure of meeting the fine young man who became your husband and father. But we are the parents of an infantryman, a helicopter pilot, and a flight medic. Our family has found wisdom in the words that “They also serve who stand and wait.” As a military family, we simply wanted to say that we share in your loss in some small way, and that we tearfully join a grateful country in gratitude and pride for Matthew’s courage to have made the greatest of sacrifices for all of us.
carmen powers cuhel
January 17, 2008
I am Matt's first cousin. I babysat him as a baby/youngster and then worked with him for a few seasons at Kerrick Sod, where we had long talks and I came to know him as..........just the Most Precious Person. His joy was contagious and he loved family gatherings. He loved his family.
Duane & Sandy along with the Nace family, should be so proud for nurturing and raising a most amazing young man. I could always see the bond and strength of their family unit. What a gift for Matt and his own children and Melanie. A legacy never lost. I loved Matt. I will miss his good and fun loving nature. I believe we will meet again and enjoy each other for eternity.....I hope this belief carries all of his family through this most grievous suffering. God's Comfort and Peace. Much Love. Carmen & Family
Dawn Meyers
January 17, 2008
Our hearts are hurting for you as we write to you. Please know your family is in our thoughts and prayers. I grew up in Superior and my brother LCpl Adam J. VanAlstine was KIA 2/25/06 in Ramadi, Iraq. Please contact us when you are ready to talk, cry, scream, anything. We are here for you. God bless you as you begin this journey of grief. May you find strength in one another and your memories.
All our love,
Dee and Darin Meyers
Gold star siblings of LCPL Adam VanAlstine, KIA 2/25/06
Amy (Lisdahl)Kimmes
January 17, 2008
Duane, Sandy & Family,
Know that I am thinking and praying for you at this very difficult time. May the fond memories you have of Matt help you through the many difficult days ahead.
Susan
January 17, 2008
Thank you, Matthew, for your service to our country. God bless the family you have left behind. Let them find the strength they need during this time of sorrow.
Pam Bocker
January 17, 2008
My heart and prayers are with you and your family at this time and always.
Christina's mom
January 17, 2008
Day is Done
Gone the Sun
From the Hills
From the Lakes
From the Sky
All is Well
Safely Rest
God is Neigh
Rest in Peace my Brother
Melanie
January 17, 2008
I would also like to add that Matt is the most incredible man I have ever known. I wish we had more time together, but I know that he is at peace. We had a life filled with love and happiness and thats all we really wanted. Life won't be the same without him.
Tom McDonough
January 16, 2008
Our family extends our deepest condolences to your family. We share in your grief and understand how you feel.
Family of SGT. Bryan McDonough
KIA Fallujah, Iraq 02 Dec 2006
Crazy Carl
January 15, 2008
Matt was Someones Son
Matt was Someones Brother
Matt was Someones Husband
Matt was Someones Daddy
Matt was Someones Friend
Matt was EVERYONES HERO
THERE IS NOTHING TO SAY EXCEPT THANK YOU FROM THE DEEPEST OF MY SOUL FOR YOUR SACRIFICE MATT YOUR ARE A TRUE SOLDIER
Steven Mumbauer
January 15, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to you in this time of your loss. The sacrifice made by Matthew and his fallen and injured brothers and sisters in arms, is a debt that this nation can never really repay but it is appreciated by those of us who's freedom they have bought. I wish you comfort and peace.
Tony Galloway
January 15, 2008
We are touched by the news of SFC Matthew I. Pionk. Our deepest regards and prayers go out to the family members, friends, and fellow servicemembers at this time. Know that the Vilseck community is praying for you and thinking of you during these tough times. May the God of peace be with you and comfort you is our prayer.
7th grade Louisburg Middle School
January 14, 2008
We care and share your sorrow and pride.
Mother; Ruth Hugo, Brother; Scott Hugo, Cpl Rachael Hugo, Father; Kermit Hugo, My Mother & Rachael's Grandma; Carol Hugo
Kermit Hugo
January 14, 2008
HOOHAH to you SFC Matthew I. Pionk!!!
Ruth and I offer our heartfelt condolences to your family!
As a Father of a Soldier KIA, I only wish I could convey to you how I feel about your loss. I have this HUGE lump in my throat as I write this.
I didn't know Matt, but he was my Daughter's Brother-in-Arms, which makes him my son/brother and all of you our extended family.
Like many others, my Daughter Cpl Rachael L Hugo, USAR; Combat Medic, was KIA in Iraq too.
I WILL NOT allow those who took our loved ones away from us see me grieve. This is what "They want us to do." I will instead let them see me work, as hard as I can, to help those Soldiers that Matt, Rach, and ALL our Fallen Hero's left behind. I promised Rach that I would do this, and I keep my promises!
These brave men and women fought and/or died for us and our Freedoms, as the Soldiers before them have done.
Thank you & may God bless each and everyone of you and your families!
"Stand down SFC Matthew I. Pionk, your misson is now complete"
It is now our turn to do our best to repay that which can NEVER be repaid!!!
Folks, if there is ANYTHING you need, a shoulder to cry on perhaps, we are only an email away.
Sicerely,
Kermit and Ruth Hugo
Proud "Gold Star Parents" of
Cpl. Rachael Lorraine Hugo
USAR Combat Medic
79th MP CO Rochester, MN
(79th Wisconsin Soldier KIA)
KIA Oct 5, 2007
Bayji, Iraq
1SG Chip Mezzaline
January 14, 2008
SFC Pionk was an exceptional NCO, Leader, Soldier, and Father. I had the distinct pleasure of serving with him when he was a Private First Class. He stood out amongst his fellow Soldiers and was hand picked to serve in positions of greater responsibility. Over the years I was always proud to hear that SFC Pionk had made such an impact on all of those around him. I would like to pass along my thoughts and prayers to the Pionk Family.
Rest In Peace
Michael iezzi
January 14, 2008
Father we entrust our brother Matthew to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Matthew in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.
Chaplain Dan Gates
January 14, 2008
With the deepest regret, I have just learned of the death of Sergeant First Class Pionk. As a Vietnam Veteran and the State Chaplain of the Georgia Society, Sons Of The American Revolution, I speak for our President, Charlie A. Newcomer, III and the more than 1,400 SAR members around the State of Georgia in humbly expressing the condolences of a grateful Society. Wrapped in the integrity of service to our nation and the inestimable values of duty, honor and country, your American hero stood on a wall of freedom for us all. This precious life, lived and lost in love of America, epitomized every attribute of patriotism the Sons Of The American Revolution hold dear. And, as Americans, we could never repay the debt we owe ..!! Nor the debt we owe you… the family of one of America's best ...!!!
Charlie Baski
January 14, 2008
A salute to you my Brother. My heart is heavy and filled with sympathy for your family. Thank you for defending this great country of ours.
Tim
January 13, 2008
You all are in my thoughts and prayers. May the Lord grant you peace and your memories bring you smiles.
gail johnson
January 13, 2008
My deepest empathy to Matthew's family and friends. Below is a poem that I hope will ease the burden of grief in knowing that Matthew is not far...will never be forgotten...and will forever be in our hearts.
THE NEXT ROOM
Death is nothing at all...I have only slipped away into the next room. I am I, and you are you. Whatever we were to each other, that we still are. Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Put no difference in your tone, wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Pray, smile, think of me - let my name be ever the household word that I always was, let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of a shadow on it. Life means all that it every meant. It is the same as it ever was, there is unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just round the corner. All is well.
(Canon Henry Scott Holland)
God Bless
Mother of Spc Daniel Cagle.
KIA 23 May 2007 Balad, Iraq
Cherri and Harry kipp
January 13, 2008
Mel, Dilion, Ahley, Brandon our thoughts and prayer are with you and may you never forget Matts heroic leadership for our country. He will be missed, but he was loved by many. God bless you
SHIRLEY DONEY
January 13, 2008
REST IN PEACE SGT. 1ST CLASS PIONK, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
Debbie , Kenny Coffey
January 13, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers out to the PIONK family.Knowing now what they have always known is one of many reasons that our HERO[ES] shall NEVER be forgotten.Rest well brother for that star spangled banner shall FOREVER wave.Your name stamped in steel shall be FOREVER clutched in the tallons,as your spirit FOREVER soars high in the skies in the symbol of our great nation..THANK..YOU..HO..YAAH..B.V.C.
Rhonda
January 13, 2008
My deepest and most heartfelt condolences go out to Seargent Pionks' wife and children. The world is a smaller place without him in it.Words can never express how thankful I and many others are for his service and dedication to his family and country. He wanted you to be safe and free...he wanted his children to live as free as he did and because of his dedication and love we all benefited greatly.
A brave and honorable man he was...an example to be followed...his Brothers looked up to him...I spoke with a one of his Brothers that served with him during his first tour of duty and he said the following, "He was the model father and husband. 3 kids I know he adored. I remember seeing him at a lake beach in North Fort Lewis playing with his little boy.He was someone all of us in the platoon looked up to. A strong big brother figure."
He was beloved by many..may peace follow you and your children in the coming years...Matthew is with and will always be with you and your children.
minister florence duckett
January 13, 2008
To the Family of Matthew:
I was touched to hear about your loss. I am praying that God will comfort your family at this painful time in your lives. I thank God because He has "...wiped away all tears from Matthew's eyes..." and that Matthew will "...never know pair or sorrow again..."
I will FOREVER "Salute" Sgt lst Class Matthew I. Pionke!
Yours in Christ,
florence
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www.roseofsharonministriesltd.org
and know that our soldiers will never be forgotten. No donations requested!
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
January 13, 2008
Rest in peace.
Sandy Bonesteel
January 13, 2008
As a mother of a Soldier, I want to send my condolences. Please know that there are many, many people who grieve with you.
Valorie
January 12, 2008
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and they were protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007
Garnet Jenkins
January 12, 2008
My Deepest and Most Heartfelt Sympathy goes out to the family of Sgt. 1st Class Matthew I. Pionk, with a Multitude of Thanks for this Brave Young Soldier's Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
The price Matthew and his family have paid, Will Never Be Forgotten. May he Rest Safely, in God's Care and may the Peace of God be with the Pionk family.
I am the Sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago
"Surely He hath borne our grief,
and carried our sorrows."
~ Isaiah 53:4 ~
May you find comfort and strength, in the beautiful memories of times spent with Matthew.
Quietly and gently, may healing come, with each new day.
You are in my thoughts and my prayers.
Gale Poindexter
January 12, 2008
I am writing to offer my deepest sympathies to you and your family over the loss of your HERO Sgt 1st Class Matthew I Pionk. I lost my son in Iraq on May 6/2007, so I can well understand your pain of losing a loved one so dear.
I pray you will be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength in this time.
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
GOD Bless you and your family. Your soldier was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of his service. He will not be forgotten!
(Proud mother of Sgt Joel W. Lewis, 5/20, 3-2 SBCT /Ft Lewis
KIA 5/6/07, Baqubah, Iraq)
Barbara Nurnberg
January 12, 2008
My deepest sympathies to the family and friends of Sgt 1st Class Matthew I. Pionk. I know all to well that there are just no words at this time to ease your pain. May the love and memories you have of Matthew along with the love and prayers of so many bring just a small ray of light into this dark time.
Sgt. 1st Class Matthew Pionk you are a true American hero who will not be forgotten. The world is a better place because of you. Thank you. May you now rest in peace.
Barb Nurnberg - proud mother of Cpl Keith A Nurnberg D-CO 2/60 AR 3rd Combat Brigade, 3RD ID KIA 9/5/2007 Baghdad
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