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for Justin Buxbaum
SGT Grounds
November 30, 2022
Thinking of you today buddy. Until Valhalla. A wreath was laid for you this year.
Gary Wilson
May 27, 2019
Justin, just wanted to honor you today, and to Thank you so very much for your monumental service for myself and our country. The world needs more great men like you to help keep us Safe and Free! I feel honored to know your Mom and to have met your brother. GOD bless you all!
Josh Lett
May 26, 2019
Not a day goes by that I dont think of you wishing it wouldve different.
May 30, 2016
you are still so missed Justin
May 26, 2015
Too many years have passed. You are still well remembered by the kindness of those that wear you name on bibs or carry your stone on hikes. You are remembered in stories that people tell about you. Most of all you are remembered in your families heart. Tell Justin I love him, Gram
Alanna Delacrausaz
May 25, 2015
On May 23rd, 2015 my family and I participated in the I Did the Grid 4 mile run/walk. The run is organized by Team Chris, an organization founded by the family of Cpl. Christopher G. Scherer who was killed in action in July of 2007. As part of the run participants carry the names of four fallen heroes on our bibs to honor the sacrifice that they and their families have made so that we and our families may live free. There are no awards or medals. We ring a bell in honor of the names we carry when we cross the finish line. Justin's name was on my husband's bib. We cannot begin to know your sorrow but we can promise you that he will not be forgotten and that your family will remain in our prayers.
The Delacrausaz Family West Babylon, New York
June 28, 2013
forever with me<3
June 28, 2013
To this day i still cant get over what happened that awful day in May, someday I hope to get to visit you. Maybe it will bring peace to me. I still wish there was more that I could have done for you that day. You will forever be in my heart and thoughts. <3 You changed my life forever, and for the better.
Tori
May 27, 2013
Thanks for being with me each and everyday. I love you and miss you.
May 27, 2013
Miss you, buddy.
Sgt. Bowers
Peggy Childers
May 26, 2013
To the family and friends of Spc. Justin Buxbaum:
It has truly been my honor to sign Justin's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Justin will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy
May 24, 2013
Justin, thanks for still "hanging" around us. Your spirit endures. Love, Gram
Michael Hampton
May 23, 2013
Buxbaum, I served with you your first deployment as your medic. I think about the fact that you're gone all the time. Watts, Captain Pendray, Oquinn and I have all expressed interest in showing their condolences and honoring you. You were not only a good friend to everyone but a good soldier when needed. It was an honor to have known you.
March 28, 2013
Our family will always be grateful for the service and sacrifice of Justin.
joshua ohm
February 7, 2013
iv sat here now for about a hr thinking of what to say the right words the right font ect and all i wanna say is i miss you and i miss the way you make ppl smile and laugh. thank you for the moments you have given us and thank you for being a friend
HoChul Song
September 6, 2012
Justin, I just knew you in passing. I'm sorry that I didn't get to know you better. I feel honored to have served with you at FOB Kushmond.
I'm sorry I couldn't do more. God bless you.
June 2, 2012
Hi honey I can,t believe it's been 4 yrs. I miss you all the time. I went to a service on the island on Memorial day on the island, I had a hard time with it and of coarse they played the taps and that killed me I really have a hard time when I hear that. I love and miss you and again want to thank you for being my son and fighting for our country. I LOVE YOU LOVE ALWAYS MOM
Peggy Childers
May 27, 2012
May 26, 2012
To the family and friends of Spc. Justin Buxbaum:
Always remembering Justin. "Some gave all."
Justin Allred
May 25, 2012
We miss ya brother....you was truly a one of a kinda friend and brother in arms
Josh Lett
May 25, 2012
4 years...... Still it feels like a dream and I wish it was one.
That day still runs through my mind. I dream about it some times.
Hard to believe we were in basica together. Same platoon, same squad, and slept in the same bay. We were also assigned as battle buddies at one time. Hard to beleive that was 2004.
To the family Justin was one of the greatest men I ever had the privelege of knowing. He wanted it more than anyone. He always wanted to be out front. Memorial day for me will never be the same. R.I.P Brother.
Rick, Jordin, & Ashley Jackson
January 8, 2012
The kids and I still, and will always miss you. God Bless you Justin.
A true hero.......
This pic you (Bootybaum) shared with me through myspace
Annmarie Gadbois
January 7, 2012
vehicle window decal I had made in memory of you
Annmarie Gadbois
January 7, 2012
I'll never forget your smile Bootybaum nor that nickname I gave you
Annmarie Gadbois
January 7, 2012
never forget your smile
Annmarie Gadbois
January 7, 2012
Hey Bootybaum I was going through a box of mine the other day and low and behold there were pics of you. It didn't take those pics to make me think of you but it sure gave me many emotions. I even have the newspaper clipping (which made it even harder to move for a few minutes)of when your mom had to say goodbye to you. My heart aches. I will never forget your smile and the times when you would be dancing with Trey pretending to be groups like Boys to Men or Vanilla Ice Ice Baby fun times. Love and Miss you
Tori Burr
January 7, 2012
Justin, I think about you everyday. I miss you so much. I wish you were here to share these times with, to meet my daughters, to meet Zach, who I know you approve of, thank you for that signal. I love you so much.
Gram Buxbaum
January 6, 2012
Happy Birthday Justin. Your candle still burns brightly.
Miss Ya, Kid.
stefan bowers
October 27, 2011
I've been thinking about you, Bugsy. I want you to know that I will never forget you. I go through the photos that I took in Iraq, and when you show up...it gets tough. You were just a boy, but man enough to do what others wouldn't. We spent hours talking, mostly about your girl problems. Then it was about what car you were going to get. Then this, and that. I miss your inquisitiveness, your innocence, your love of life. Where ever you are, don't think for a moment that your presence with us didn't make a difference. I'm a 43 year old man, and I still think of you as a lost son. We all still think of you and miss you.
Your friend, Always
-Bowers
Julie Buxbaum
October 2, 2011
This everlasting candle will always burn for you as my heart does every day. I will always miss,love,cherish,and be indebted to you for your ultimate sacrifice.Justin I LOVE YOU.XOXO
SPC Robert Smith
September 10, 2011
Miss you brother, you will not be forgotten.
Beth Copp
June 30, 2011
Three years have passed and I still see your smile;
Your loving hands and heart ready for that extra mile.
I close my eyes relaxing my face held toward the sun;
Memories come rushing back, my nephew you're the one.
Your sweet innocence to life's simple ways;
Your fits of laughter on rainy days.
I cherish all that you gave to me;
For your Aunt I'll always be.
Your hugs so warm and full of love;
Embracing others like a glove.
I cherish all that you gave to me;
For your Aunt I'll always be.
Your helping hands in times of need;
Willing to follow or take the lead.
I cherish all that you gave to me;
For your Aunt I'll always be.
There are times when I feel alone and blue;
Though I know I am not, for I still have you.
I cherish all that you gave to me;
For your Aunt I'll always be.
I have your spirit I hold deep inside;
I have the tears for you I have cried.
I cherish all that you gave to me;
For your Aunt I'll always be.
I hold my head up, I hold it high;
I don't understand why you had to die.
I cherish all that you gave to me;
For your Aunt I'll always be.
I know when you did; it was your time to go;
I guess knowing why is not for me to know.
I cherish all that you gave to me;
For your Aunt I'll always be.
Please my child, my boy, my man;
Move forward sweet Justin, there's more to the plan.
I cherish all that you gave to me;
For your Aunt I'll always be.
For down the road we shall meet again someday;
While hugging through the laughter and the tears I'll say...
I cherish all that you gave to me;
For my Sweet Nephew you'll always be.
I love you Justin.
~Aunt Beth
Rick, Jordin & Ashley Jackson
May 29, 2011
We miss you, and think of you often....
Cheryl Buxbuam
May 28, 2011
Justin, your spirit will live on in those that love you. Thank you for all of your giving to others and lessons you have taught by example. Continue to watch over your brother.
Josh Lett
May 27, 2011
It is hard to beleive that is has been 3 years. Hard to beleive we were in basic, in the same platoon, in the same squad, and slept in the same bay. Was so surprised when you showed up in my unit in Iraq in 06.
You were one of the best men I had the privelege of knowing. Truth is that day in FOB Kushamond when I heard someone was shot I did not even expect it to be you. When I was there helping tear down equipment for the chopper to land and they brought you out my heart sank.
We thought you were going to be ok. Than Sgt C maybe a hour and a half later came screaming for everyone to get in the chow hall. I knew you had left us and passed on.
I think of you often and some times wonder why you. You wanted to be a teacher and you had so much going for you. You were full of courage and a great man. I will never forget you and most importantly the great man that you were.
Peggy Childers
May 26, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Justin Buxbaum:
Please accept my remembrance of Justin on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
PFC DAVID VAN TUYL
May 19, 2011
DIDNT KNOW YOU VERY WELL, BUT YOU WERE A PRETTY COOL GUY, I HOPE YOUR FAMILY AND FREINDS NEVER FORGET HOW YOU GAVE YOUR LIFE TO YOUR COUNTRY, KNOWING WHAT YOU WERE UP AGAINST, AND AT YOUR AGE WITH SEVERAL TOURS OVERSEAS, I ADMIRED THAT ABOUT YOU, I KNOW YOUR IN A BETTER PLACE.
HERES TO YOU BUD!!!
April 18, 2011
I won't forget you, Bugsy.
-Sgt. Bowers (Ret.)
August 29, 2010
To the family:
May the comfort from family and friends continue to strengthen you, and may you find comfort in the words found in the Holy Scriptures: "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away."
SFC H
June 23, 2010
Buxy, I served with you with the 467th and worked with you during your first cross level and mob. You were a diamond in the rough and your dedication and spirit is not often found in young soldiers. Your time with us was too short but the impact you had on our lives will live on forever. I often use Buxyism's when training my new soldiers and there is not a day that goes by that I don't wish they had as much grit and will as you. You are missed very much my friend.
Rick, Ashley & Jordin Jackson
May 28, 2010
The candle keeps burning Justin....RIP HERO !!
Peggy Childers
May 27, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Justin Buxbaum:
Remembering Justin on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
AMIR AMIRSHAHI
May 9, 2010
To SPC Bausbaum,
a brave soldier who I serve with on several occasion in Iraq and Afghanistan. You are always in my thoughts. I remember the day you came out to help me recover my vehicle in Kushmond Afghanistan. I thank you and you will never be forgotten. I will make time to come and see you.
SSG AMIR
Chris Caron
March 3, 2010
To Buxy's (thats what i used to call him or i used call him buxy lee he hated that i only used it to get him fired up for the game we were about to play) Family I dont know how you go on me Justin were best friends i think about him every day and i think of you Julie and William and Don often hoping all is well with you i need to get out to island to see Buxy I havent been since he died i just can't bring my self to do it but i know i have to help with pain i will always have the memory's of the JV games i Make a sack or tackle for him and he will make a catch or TD catch for me It made us better players or giving him a piggy back ride up that really big hill at SP high to strenthen my legs after my knee injury and me pushing him beyond the limits in the weight room and me and him cruisin in my car taking our love for the cowboys and of course the game of football or just playing pass in millcreek or at fort williams or having a couple of drinks and playing catch when he was home from the Army. I am so glad to have those Memorys. but most of all to have Buxy as my best friend.
January 27, 2010
GOd its been along time since i have seen that face. I meet justin in fob sharona. in early 08. he was in the unit that was comming in to replace us. A first rate solider. I only noticed him cus of his last name. there is a story there about a comand sargent majior that prosided over my promotion board to make sargent a few years earlyer.
I ran into him a few times. in sharona. I mad eit back state side intime to see his picture in the army times. It broke my heart. He will be missed. NO longer in the us army. SGT Clayton K ferguson ([email protected]
Bubba Buxbaum
January 6, 2010
Happy 25th Birthday Justin. We love you and miss you so very much.
Mia Taliento
January 6, 2010
happy birthday justin
May 27, 2009
Justin.....our thoughts and prayers be with you. Julie and Will are doing ok, although in speaking with her recently she says it's tough.....Will
s growing like a weed...lol....it's been a year now and the kids still miss you very much...Rest in Peace ..and thank you ...Rick, Jordin & Ashley Jackson, South Portland, Maine
Peggy Childers
May 26, 2009
To the family of Spc. Justin Buxbaum:
Justin gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Manuela Welsh
February 14, 2009
there is no photo I can leave, just the memory of Justin, like when he walked up our driveway after he came back from deployment. A smile worth a million bucks.
The pride he carried in being a Soldier.
He was and is the Boy I want my girls to bring home one day, the one who served in a soup kitchen, who cared more about others than himself.
I miss you so much Justin and I know I will see you again in heaven.
Love you always
Manuela and Michael Welsh
Rick, Jordin, Ashley Jackson
January 7, 2009
Happy Birthday in heaven Justin. We saw the cake your Mom had made for you at Hannaford's; it was great. The kids and I miss you, and we are watching out for Julie and Will.
Happy Birthday
Michael Iezzi
January 6, 2009
Justin,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
keving gibbons
January 6, 2009
happy 24th birthday justin,
i have a new cousin who was born just a little while ago and they named him justin lee after you. both of you have the same bday i cant believe it please watch over him. hes so cute and he kinda looks like you.
Tori Burr
January 4, 2009
Justin I miss you everyday. It is so hard to go to family things and know that your not going to be there. I love and miss you everyday of my life.
Kenna Larra
November 21, 2008
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Kevin Gibbons
September 29, 2008
Hey Justin,
My Life has been passing very, very slowly since you left. Im doing extremely well in college im in my senior year. the more closer i get to the training for the army the more nervous i become. i know its only the fall but still, i know you'll be keeping an eye on me. your like a brother in arms that i never met. please keep me safe and pray for my family as the time gets closer for me to leave for boot camp. thanks
Tatyana LeSiege
September 10, 2008
Hey Justin its ur cousin, I miss u so much and it gets worse everyday.. I'm soo pround of everyhting you ever did for me, the rest of the family and even the country.. U did make a difference.. I wish you were here.. I love and miss you. RIP
Ashley and Jordin Jackson
September 7, 2008
Will...we miss Justin too.....remember, you know our number, and our address....come by and visit the kids anytime you need to. We share in your sadness, but know your brother is in a great place. And always remember what a hero he is.....Love....Ashley and Jordin Jckson
Stephanie Rafoss
September 6, 2008
Prayer for Peace
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace;
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master,
Grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
To be understood, as to understand;
To be loved, as to love;
For it is in giving that we receive,
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Amen
will buxbaum
September 4, 2008
hay jay it's me will i have been missing you a lot lately even more in high school
i love you jay
Gary Allain
September 1, 2008
Spc. Justin Buxaum
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
ANNMARIE GADBOIS
August 27, 2008
HEY BOOTYBAUM I LOVE AND MISS YOU KID PLEASE HELP KEEP TREY AND PHILIP SAFE IN KUWAIT AND IRAQ I WORRY ABOUT THEM SO MUCH I KNOW YOU SEE ME WHEN I'M BY MYSELF SO YOU KNOW WHAT I'M GOING THROUGH I WISH YOU WERE HERE YOUR MOM AND WILLIAM CAME OVER FOR THE WEEKEND AND IT WAS SO GREAT TO JUST HANG OUT AND DO NOTHING BUT WHEN THEY LEFT I KEPT THINKING ABOUT YOU AND HOW SHE MUST HURT INSIDE I CAN'T IMAGINE NOR DO I WANT TO HAVE THAT FEELING BECAUSE I KNOW HOW I FEEL RIGHT NOW WITH YOU GONE AND MINE IN BAD PLACES LOVE YOU KID HOPE YOU HANG OUT WITH MY NANA UP THERE EVERY NOW AND AGAIN KEEP SMILING AND MAKE HER SMILE TOO
I couldn't forget him if I tried.
August 24, 2008
Jennifer Randall
August 14, 2008
i will forever love and miss you, you were such an amazing man. you are greatly missed each day that passes by. your mom and william are in good hands.
ashley jackson
August 6, 2008
R.I.P Justin Lee Buxbaum. i love you and miss you more and more every day! i am lost without you and i know your spirit is with me!forever and always in my heart
i love you justin
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
July 21, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy to the Buxbaum family and friends in the loss of Justin. I did not know Justin, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you and from the moving tribute. Justin you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"TO LIVE IN THE HEARTS
OF THOSE YOU LEAVE BEHIND
IS NEVER TO DIE"
~Robert Orr~
RICK, JORDIN & ASHLEY JACKSON
July 14, 2008
WE STILL MOURN YOUR LOSS JUSTIN...AND WE FEEL YOUR SPIRIT WITH US !
Lisa Johnson
July 14, 2008
Mrs. Buxbaum, I served in Afghanistan with Justin at Kushamond. I was his XO. I want you to know how much we all love him and how much we miss him.
Justin was always smiling, happy, goofing off, and making us laugh. When it came to missions, he was the first to volunteer and the most excited to lead the way. He LOVED being the Platoon Leaders driver and he loved the thrill of the mission.
He is deeply missed in Kushamond. His spirit surrounds that FOB. Memories are shared, and tears are shed at the loss of your son.
It must be so unreal for you at times, as it is for us as well. I'm so sorry for your loss. I cannot express my sympathy for your pain. I pray for you everyday and hopefully someday our paths will cross, I would love to meet the mother of such a fine Soldier.
Justin, your spirit surrounds us everyday. You are our inspiration for motivation. We miss you so much. I will never forget your smile, your laugh, or your ability to make any situation fun. Watch over your family, and your comrades in the Kush. We all love you.
God bless the Buxbaum family.
Rest in peace Justin.
July 13, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Buxbaum!
July 13, 2008
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Buxbaum and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Cindy Storck
July 11, 2008
Julie, I was Justin's Early Kindergarten teacher at Reiche school. I learned of Justin's passing when I returned to Maine this week for vacation. I have so many great memories of Justin as a student that:always came to school with a smile on his face, interacted with the children in warm manner, tried so hard to do what was expected of him, and of course was always respectful to adults. What a joy he was to have in the classroom. You and Justin had a special bond that gave to him a sense of well-being and strength. I can only imagine what you are going through now and wanted to let you know that I care. Please let friends and families and wonderful memories of Justin support you through this difficult time. Cindy Storck
I'm going to miss your laugh, Bugsy.
Stefan Bowers
July 4, 2008
I served with Justin during our last tour in Iraq. This picture is from the little room we had to sleep in while in Taji. We went on plenty of missions together, partied together stateside, and confided in each other when we had "issues". I will always love him as my brother-in-arms, and I'm proud to have been his friend.
-Spc. Stefan Bowers
debbi rivers
June 25, 2008
To the family and parents of Justin I want you to know that you are not alone in the grief you are feeling. I too know what you are going through and what you will go through in the coming weeks and months ahead. You will have many questions as to why? You will have many things to get ready or go through and that should be done in time. Sometimes it just can’t be faced and that’s ok, for you will know when the time is right for you. There is no right or wrong way to grieve it’s an individual journey that unfortunately we now have to take. I ask that God give the comfort, strength and courage that you are going to need. When and if the time is right for you please contact me. You can cry, vent, or just talk as only another person who has been where you are can really know what you are going through. May God continue to be with you and heal you.
In memory of my son
Spc Harry (Buck) Winkler III
KIA 11/12/06 Samarra, Iraq
82nd Airborne 2-505th PIR
Velda C. Offer
June 25, 2008
My heart is heavy for the Buxbaum Family and Friends. My Family, Friends, and I slept safe last night because of Hero's like Justin.
Katie Clark
June 24, 2008
Justin was a gret guy. We were deployed together to Iraq. He always put a smile on my face. My deepest prayers and sympathies go to his family. He is an a true Hero and he will never be forgotten. God Bless you Justin and your family.
Larry Hill
June 23, 2008
Just wanted to say what a wonderful young man Justin must have been. I know firsthand how it is to be raised by a loving single mom with a strong grandpa to guide you...could almost envision this story of Maine island life. No wonder he was such a caring person himself....very, very heartfelt sympathy!
Bev Graham
June 20, 2008
I didn't know this wonderful young man. What he did for our country should endear him to all of us who enjoy the freedoms for which he gave his life. My deepest regrets on his family's loss, but we should celebrate what a fantastic job they did in raising him! He'll always be a hero as will all those who went before, and, unfortunately, will go after him. May G-d Bless them and their loved ones.
margaret nelson
June 18, 2008
rest in peace ,God be with your famly.
Honor Guard for Justin
June 17, 2008
REST IN PEACE.........
June 17, 2008
JOEL AND ANITA
June 16, 2008
FREEDOM IS NOT FREE! MAY YOUR HERO REST IN PEACE. MY SINCERE CONDOLENCES TO YOUR AND YOUR FAMILY. YET ANOTHER FALLEN SOLDIER, BUT HE WILL NOT BE FORGOTTEN.
IN LOVING MEMORY OF SSG FRANK GASPER OIF DIED MAY 25, 2008
SIGNED: GOLD STAR FAMILY
JOEL & ANITA RICHARDS
Betty Presnell
June 16, 2008
We are so sorry for your loss.Cory Farmer is our grandson and a friend of Justins from Ft Hood.Please know we grieve for you.Coryloved Justin.God be so near you we pray
GrandmaBetty,Tish,and family
We will Never Forget - From a Vietnam Veteran
Larry Dearborn
June 14, 2008
I have these name on the window of my Lincoln Limo. The lady that put it on had the wrong date. It will be taken care of next week. We will never forget Justin.
A Vietnam Veteran that never forgets.
Cheryl A.Smith
June 14, 2008
TO A FALLEN HERO: MAY YOU REST IN PEACE! YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN! THANK YOU FOR FIGHTING FOR OUR COUNTRY AND FOR FOR OUR FREEDOMS! MY HEARTFELT SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
June 13, 2008
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Brian Lovering
June 13, 2008
I am terribly sorry for your loss. I did not know Justin, but I did go to school with his uncle at Greely. As a Marine I would like to thank you for his service I did not have the opportunity to thank him. God be with you in your sorrow and always.
Patty Michael
June 13, 2008
To the Buxbaum family, We share with our son Marcus, deep and profound grief at the death of Justin. We had the privlidge of getting to know him last fall when he stayed with us for a few days. It was an honor to serve him homemade food for a few days. He was a wonderful young man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Jack and Patty Michael
Julie Buxbaum
June 13, 2008
My dearest Justin words can not express the loss I am feeling,I miss you terribly and love you very much,you are always in my thoughts and I keep you close to my heart,the memories I have and the stories from others helps me to keep gonig.I will always love you my son. I will See you again one day.Be happy and watch over me and your brother till we meet again.Love always and forever MOM
Kevin Gibbons
June 10, 2008
spc. buxbaum,
words cannot express how i feel about not having you here. my parents decided to get me two new puppies. i recently found out that the puppies are male. ive decided to name one justin and the other buxbaum in your honor. i hope i can come and visit you again. i really do miss you. please be watching over me.
amanda turner
June 10, 2008
Justin was amazing in everyway!!! I'm so sorry to hear of his death my heart goes out to his family and he will always be in my heart
June 10, 2008
Elizabeth Cash
June 10, 2008
My heart goes out to you, Justin, and your family. My husband is in C. Co 62 Engineer BN. I can only imagine the heartbreak your family is going through. It's terrible to see a life cut so short, but it is easy to see from the messages left here, that you lived your life to it's fullest with an open heart. I hope that your family and friends can continue to do the same, remembering that it's not goodbye and they'll see you again in a much happier place.
Linda Cano
June 10, 2008
Another family grieves the loss of a loved one. The nation grieves the loss of another American Hero. May God bring comfort to all of you. Thank you and rest in peace, Justin.
CPT Pamela Robinson
June 9, 2008
My name is Captain Pamela Robinson, and I attended Specialist Buxbaum's funeral with Major General Via, who presented the Bronze Star, Good Conduct medal, and the American flag to the Buxbaum family for Specialist Buxbaum's outstanding service.
I just want to say that my heart is heavy for the family. I will continue to pray that God gives all of you strength in your time of grief, and that His voice says to you...Justin is with me and he's doing ok.
God bless all of you.
Brenda Nicholson
June 6, 2008
I am deeply saddened by the lost of Buxbaum, my husband is in A-CO 62nd EN so of course I have had the honor to meet Buxbaum a few times. He will be missed but never forgotten, my thoughts are with his family and comrades.
Mardy Magyar
June 6, 2008
Thank you for your sacrifice. My sincere sympathies to the family. It is tragic to lose our heroes-you will always be remembered.
cynthia espinoza
June 6, 2008
my deepest sympathies go to justin's family. i deployed with him in dec 05-06 to iraq. he was a great friend and commarad. it was an honor to have served with him.
Kathy McDonald
June 6, 2008
My hearts goes out to Justin's family and friends. I am the mother of a fallen soldier, SGT Edmund McDonald, 82nd Airborne, Fort Bragg, NC
RIP 03/28/07.
As a mother I know how you are feeling and if you need to talk please contact me. May God be with you.
Joan Faucher
June 6, 2008
Don, Cheryl and family, my heart goes out to all of you. How well I know the pain and the healing you all will need to go through. June 1 and June 4th are the two worst days of my life and I will always remember Justin on the 4th also. Love Aunti Joan and Uncle Ed`
Chris McDonald-Cronin
June 5, 2008
My heart goes out to Justin's family. The day Justin entered Heaven, you joined a special family- a "gold star" family, a proud family. It is a family that I never wished to join, but am proud to be a member. With each passing day, the pain does not seem to dull, but the pride shines brighter. I hope that you find peace with Justin's departure.
~sister of SGT Edmund McDonald, 82nd Airborne, Fort Bragg, NC
RIP 03/28/07
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