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for Steve McCoy
Peggy Childers
June 11, 2012
June 10, 2012
To the family and friends of Sgt. Steve A. McCoy:
Always remembering Steve. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
June 10, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Steve A. McCoy:
Please accept my remembrance of Steve on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
August 29, 2010
To the McCoy family:
May the comfort from family and friends continue to strengthen you, and may you find comfort in the words found in the Holy Scriptures: "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away."
armybeef68
July 4, 2010
All gave some...some gave all
SPC David Harrison Ford IV 16 Sep 2005
SGT Matthew L. Deckard 16 Sep 2005
1SGT Alan N. Gifford 16 Sep 2005
SSG Paul R. Marek WIA 16 Sep 2005
SGT Victor M. Cortes III 29 May 2005
SSG Jerry L. Bonifacio Jr 10 Oct 2005
CPT Michael J. Mackinnon 27 Oct 2005
SPC Jose A. Rubio Hernandez 24 Mar 2008
SSG Christopher M. Hake 24 Mar 2008
PVT George Delgado 24 Mar 2008
PFC Andrew J. Habsieger 24 Mar 2008
SGT Steve A. McCoy 10 Jun 2008 WIA 23 Mar 2008
PV2 Joshua C. Schichtl WIA 06 Jan 2008
SFC Aaron D. Cornelius WIA 15 Apr 2008
SGT Mario A. Ojeda Jr WIA 05 May 2008
3rd Infantry Division
4th Brigade
4-64 Armor Battalion
You will NEVER be forgotten....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7-ys7UaRRQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M0SAtlv7gtw
Peggy Childers
June 10, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Steve A. McCoy:
Remembering Steve on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Peggy Childers
June 10, 2009
To the family of Sgt. Steve A. McCoy:
Steve gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
T Starman
January 9, 2009
I offer my deepest condolences for your loss
Kenna Larra
December 18, 2008
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families at this time. This is a Nonprofit Organization to honor are Soldiers!
FREE OIL ON CANVAS PAINTING OF THIS HERO. COMPLETE FORM AT WWW.HEROPAINTINGS.COM
Please contact us! Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
bg
December 9, 2008
Remembering you - you are missed greatly.
Rest in peace.
my deep sympathy to your family.
Gary Allain
August 31, 2008
Sgt. Steve A. McCoy
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
In Memory of Steve ~ (Debra Estep)
July 29, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Steve, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Stephanie Rafoss
July 28, 2008
Prayer for Peace
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace;
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master,
Grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
To be understood, as to understand;
To be loved, as to love;
For it is in giving that we receive,
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Amen
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
July 21, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy to the McCoy family and friends in the loss of Steve. I did not know Steve, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Steve you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"TO LIVE IN THE HEARTS
OF THOSE YOU LEAVE BEHIND
IS NEVER TO DIE"
~Robert Orr~
Edgar Rubio
July 20, 2008
Family of Sgt. Steve A. McCoy. I know what you are going through at this moment. My brother Cpl. Jose "Joe" A. RubioHernandez was in that same Bradley with Sgt. McCoy. He has been gone since March 24th and not a day goes by that I do not wish my brother was here with all his family. All of my family, his wife and son miss him so much. Sometimes all of this feels like a dream that will end soon. God is the only one that has given all of us strength and God will help all of you to closure. God is so mercyful that he will lead all of you to the pace of mind needed while coping with such a great loss. Your family and all those families that are hurting for the loss of a loved one are in my prayers. Thanks to the family of Sgt. Steve A. McCoy for supporting him when he decided to serve his country. The whole nation is greatful for all the soldiers that have given the ultimate sacrifice for Freedom.
July 13, 2008
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt McCoy and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
July 13, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt McCoy!
July 12, 2008
Tabitha,
I offer my deepest sympathy. I remember when you guys first got to Stewart and Steve was so worried about getting you and the twins (on the way) taken care of!
He was an amazing man, and loving father. I can honestly say that he was one of the best soldiers and "people" I had the honor to know and serve with in 15 years of military service.
Steve never complained, always smiled, and he cared very deeply for his family and army buddies. I was a privilege to know him and an honor to be his commander.
Please let me know if I can ever help you in any way!
Steve Wood (1st Apache 6)
MAJ, USA
Ft. Leavenworth
Lynda Geith (Scott Harrison's Mom)
July 9, 2008
Tabitha, my heart goes out to you and the children.
""Where are you going, Greatheart?
To set all burdened peoples free;
To win for all God's liberty;
To 'stablish His sweet sovereingnty
God goeth with you, Greatheart!
JEFF LOPER (FORMER APACHE 7)
July 9, 2008
Dear family,
Steve was a great man, loving husband/father, and mighty fine Soldier. I am truely honored to of had the opportunity to serve with him. He will be missed but not forgotten.
shauna penzo
July 8, 2008
may all blessings go to the McCoy family and I hope thats all things are ok with you tabitha.. hope the kids are doing ok .. love shauna lester
Theresa Bolin
July 8, 2008
I am Sgt. Brett (Ski) Dolinski's mom. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you, the family and friends of Sgt. Steve McCoy, a United States Soldier who gave the ultimate price so that freedom could endure. Thank you from my heart and may you find peace knowing that Steve is with his Lord and Savior, at home!
Linda Cano, Soldiers' Angels
July 7, 2008
My sincere sympathies go out to the McCoy family. May God bless and comfort you in your time of mourning. Thank you, Steve, for your heroic sacrifice. May you rest in the arms of Jesus now.
July 7, 2008
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
I would also like to tell you about a website, http://groups.msn.com/SSPSoldierPor
traits/homepage,
where some wonderful people will make wood portraits of your fallen Hero for free for the immediate family. I became aware of this site when I wanted to do something special for Le Ron’s mother.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett (Queens, NY)
Chrystie Palomo
July 5, 2008
Tabitha, Mr. Sam, Ms Pam and kiddos...We came to know you and love you under such tragic events. One thing we had in common before our first meeting? PRIDE!!! Pride of our Soldiers who are husbands, sons, dads. Our Love quickly grew for your entire family. Steve was a fighter. I am so glad our paths crossed, it was not by chance, it is a set-up...God knows what he is doing.
Thank you for allowing Phillip and I into your friendship circle. We love you guys so much. Our men and women are Heros...Land of the Free, because of the Brave.
You know I am here for you guys anytime you need anything. Hope to talk to you soon.
Steve, Thank you SGT McCoy...May you rest in Peace, you fought a good fight now it is time to rest. Always in our hearts...
Angela Nelson
July 2, 2008
I remember the first time I met you guys. It was at the ball in June of 06. You were always so happy together. Steve- I will never forget you. Say Hi to Chris for me. Tabitha- It breaks my heart that that you have to do this. Just one second at a time.
Angela Nelson
In loving memory of my Husband
Cpl Christopher J. Nelson
KIA 11/18/07 Baqubah, Iraq
Janice Oswald
June 25, 2008
To the family and friends of fallen hero SGT McCoy....I am so sorry for your loss. I pray God brings you peace and comfort during this very difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers. He will not be forgotten. God Bless You.
debbi rivers
June 25, 2008
To the family and parents of Steve I want you to know that you are not alone in the grief you are feeling. I too know what you are going through and what you will go through in the coming weeks and months ahead. You will have many questions as to why? You will have many things to get ready or go through and that should be done in time. Sometimes it just can’t be faced and that’s ok, for you will know when the time is right for you. There is no right or wrong way to grieve it’s an individual journey that unfortunately we now have to take. I ask that God give the comfort, strength and courage that you are going to need. When and if the time is right for you please contact me. You can cry, vent, or just talk as only another person who has been where you are can really know what you are going through. May God continue to be with you and heal you.
In memory of my son
Spc Harry (Buck) Winkler III
KIA 11/12/06 Samarra, Iraq
82nd Airborne 2-505th PIR
Beverly Montgomery
June 25, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Holly Crosby
June 25, 2008
He will be greatly missed by many. My prayers and thoughts are with you Tabitha and family. I pray God will comfort you and HE will give you the strength to go on....God doesn't give us a load we can't carry, without giving us a way out.
Class of 2003
Jeri Herrera
June 25, 2008
Though I did not know Steve personally, he will always be a hero to me. Nothing I can say will take away the pain that you feel right now. Please accept my sincerest condolences and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Sincerely,
Jeri Herrera
Proud sister of SFC Rocky H. Herrera
KIA 8/28/07 Jaji, Afghanistan
Brad Knox
June 24, 2008
To the families of SST. McCoy:
May the God of all comfort give you peace during this dark season of life. This man and the many other service men and women who have served our country give the term "hero" its true meaning.
My deepest sympathies,
Tammy Hicks Wilson
June 23, 2008
Dear Family,
There are no words that will help you right now. Only God can give you strength and comfort and I pray that he does. He is truly a hero. I thank him for defending our freedom. I know that you will keep his memory alive for his children and remind them daily that their Father was a brave hero. Again, our prayers are with you.
Carol Powell
June 23, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy goes to Steve's family. Thank you for letting Steve fight for us and our way of life. My cousin and Steve knew each other from army. May a band of angels guide Him home and watch over His loved ones
Janet Hilley
June 23, 2008
Dear Tabitha and Family,
It breaks my heart to hear of your loss. My husband grew up in Moultrie and he and I both have family there. My hobby is making quilts and I would like to give you quilts for the twins in honor of their father. Please e-mail me and we will discuss details.
Jan Hilley (Granny Jan)
Sheri Hamer
June 22, 2008
To the McCoy family! Thank you so much for allowing Steve to protect and serve my family and counrty. It means the world to me. My prayers go out to your family!
A Bopp
June 22, 2008
As a military wife and mother my sympathy to those he left behind. My gratitude and admiration to him for his selfless service.
Thank you and may you find comfort in God's love.
joni loper
June 21, 2008
Hey Tabo,
Please know that you are in our thought and prayers. Steve was a great soldier, husband and father.
Joni & Boys
Gloyce Johnson Hieber
June 21, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss, may God bless you and your family.
Pat Gay
June 20, 2008
Tabitha,
Frankie and I were so sorry to hear of Steve's death. He was a fighter until the end. I know that you were so proud of him. You now have a tremendous job on your hands raising Landon and Riley without a father present. They will always have a father in their hearts and I know you will constantly remind them of their father's love and devotion for them. I know you will be strong for their sakes. Hold them close for as long as you can, before you know it they will be grown. Always know that if there is anything we can do, please let us know. You are always in our prayers. Love Pat and Frankie Gay
Priscilla Martin
June 20, 2008
Tabitha
You are an amazing wife, and mother. The children are blessed to have such a strong mommy and daddy.. I am very proud of you and very grateful to Steve for all that he did for our country. You stay strong for those beautiful children, and at those little moments when you feel like you cannot bare the weight (pray always) and call me when ever, whatever time you feel lonely. I love you guys, and am praying for you PLEASE what ever time call me if you need to talk, cry, laugh.. “Rejoice in our confident hope. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying. Romans 12:12”
Dereck Lusby
June 20, 2008
Tabitha,
I am so sorry for your loss. Steve was a great friend, and an outstanding soldier. My deepest condolences are with you.
R.I.P my brother, you will never be forgotten.
Brian Gay
June 20, 2008
My name is Brian Gay, I serve in the United States Marine Corps. Just being around Sgt. Steve McCoy you knew how much he Loved his family and friends. He was always full of life. I am deeply saddened by the loss of my cousin but most of all my friend Sgt. Steve McCoy. We grew up together here in Moultrie and there were a few of us that if you saw one of us you saw all of us and I was very lucky to be in that group with Steve. He did anything to make you laugh and when you were around him thats all you did. He was a great guy and Im going to personally miss him greatly, our nation has lost a hero, a soilder, and I lost a friend. We miss you Steve.
Jodi Beth Stuckey
June 19, 2008
Tabitha, I am very sorry for your loss! Steve was a great person as you can read he was very loved. I will continue to pray for you and your family. I pray that God will send peace in your life.
Class of 2003
Bess Wilkins
June 19, 2008
From a sister who lost a brother in the Korean conflict many years ago. My heart hurts for you.
Ms. Cheryl Oliphant
June 19, 2008
From our military family to yours. Our soldiers will miss SGT.McCoy thank GOD for giving us a great soldier to serve our country. My GOD bless the McCoy and Moore Families.
Cheryl Oliphant
June 19, 2008
From our military families to yours, we thank GOD for giving us a great solider like Sgt. McCoy to serve our country. Our Prayers will always be with the family. May GOD continue to bless this family. We love you all, even though I have never met you all. My Son is a solider in Ft. Stewart Ga.
1st SGT. Joseph Roberts, Ft. Bragg
Drill SGT. Brandon Roberts, South Korea
SGT. Jeremey Oliphant,, Ft. Stewart Ga.
Pvt. Keldrick Hannah , Ft. Bragg
Pvt. Kendrey Hannah ,Ft Benning Ga.
Pvt. Kanesha Roberts, Ariziona
Kenasie Taylor
June 19, 2008
My heart goes out to the McCoys and Family. May God continue to bless and keep each of you. Rest on my American Soldier, rest on! From a former Iraq soldier to another. I also served three different times.
TERRY AND DONNA DAVIS
June 19, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jenna and Benji Alderman
June 19, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Steves family. We are both so sorry for your loss. We went to high school with Steve and Tabitha. One memory all of our friends have of Steve is one night watching him shimmy up a pine tree!! We were all amazed and in shock. We are all so lucky to have people like Steve fighting for our country and for our freedom. I hope his children will grow up knowing what a great man and soldier their daddy was. Again, we were both so sorry for your loss.
Libby Holden
June 19, 2008
We are so saddened by the loss of our Hero and True American Soldier. During this very difficult time and for days ahead, I pray that God will surround this family with His love. We will always remember Steve for the great sacrifice he paid for our freedom. Steve will always hold a special place in our hearts. We salute you, Sgt. Steve McCoy...now, "Go Rest High On That Mountain".
Tabitha, I know words can't take away the sadness you feel, but I want you to know that I care very deeply about you and all that you're going through. I believe every soul receives a guardian angel at birth. Invisible, these angels never leave us, day or night. So, when the time came when Steve's journey in life ended, I know his angel walked beside him like a kind, familiar friend. And when he left behind the only place he had ever known, I know his angel said... "You're home my child...you're home." May you find comfort in knowing that your loving husband has been guided gently home. Please know that you and your extended family are in my thoughts and prayers.
I know that losing a child must be one of the hardest things a parent will ever endure and our hearts break for the parents who gave birth to this son..., so to Sam and Pam, I wanted to share a poem with you that our daughter (Tammy) wrote in Steve's memory:
You Took My Hand
As a baby,
You took my hand.
You taught me to play "patty cake" and how to walk.
As a small child.
You took my hand.
You showed me how to give big hugs and love others.
As a young teenager,
You took my hand.
You showed me how to overcome some of life's challenges and never give up.
As a young adult, you took my hand.
You encouraged me to fight for Our Country's Freedom.
But when you took my hand and softly handed it to Jesus... You helped me live forever!
I thank you... that YOU took my hand.
Leticia Orander
June 19, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with Sgt. McCoy's family. He made the ultimate sacrifice for us.
Judy Bales & Betty Smith
June 19, 2008
Tabitha and family
Words fail us at a time like this. You are one of the strongest young women I have ever known. God bless you on the journey before you. Only you can keep Steve alive for your twins. Always tell them what a wonder he was. He was a blessing to everyone who knew him. Just to see the two of you together, anyone could see the strong bond between you. It is so scarce to find that type of love in todays fast paced world. Life will be difficult in the months and years ahead, but you have the most important thing left behind when we leave this world. Our children. We love you and are thinking of you.
bobbie upton gordy
June 19, 2008
So sorry about your lost,trust in God he will protect you and your children.
my mother was kind to Roland.
Chris, Jennifer, Madison, Makayla Starnes
June 18, 2008
Our prayers and thoughts are with the McCoy family during this time. May He bring you the strength to endure this pain.
Sapphire-Anne Veal
June 18, 2008
I did not know Sgt. McCoy, nor do I know his family or friends, but on August 24th I will run in his honor as part of the Run for the Fallen tribute to our service members.
I chose Sgt. McCoy because he passed on the same day my son turned 18 and became a Private in the United States Army.
Deepest condolences to the McCoy family.
James Kenneth Ellis, Jr. Family
June 18, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. May you find comfort in the memories you have of such a special young man who has touched hearts of those he didnt even know but served this country for - and may you find peace knowing He is with God in Heaven.
For the Commander, Carroll R. Michaud
June 18, 2008
The Final Salute
“Brothers in Arms”, Military men and women down through the centuries, have traditionally exchanged “Hand Salutes” as a sign of recognition and as a way to render courtesy and respect one to another.
This “Hand Salute” is the last that we shall render to Sgt. Steve A. McCoy our Brother in Arms. To his family it symbolizes the love and respect that we have for Steve. And to Steve it is rendered as a symbol of honor and gratitude to thank him for the ultimate sacrifice he made in combat while serving the U.S. Army and his country. No greater love is shown than a man lay down his life for another. Steve, you are a true Warrior, a brave Patriot and our Hero. With your passing, our Country has lost a National Treasure. We bid you a sad farewell. You will be dearly missed from among our ranks. Be at ease. Rest in Peace.
On behalf of the 1,385 members of Lowe-McFarlane Post 14 of the American Legion in Shreveport, Louisiana, I extend our sympathies and our condolences to Steve’s family and loved ones.
Dennis N. Engdahl, Commander, American Legion Post 14
5315 S. Lakeshore Drive, Shreveport, LA 71109
Candy Woehler
June 18, 2008
Because of his sacrifice and yours may our Nation stay.... ONE NATION UNDER ONE GOD...and LAND OF THE FREE.
God Bless You!
From a Mother of an Army National Guard
Owen & Stacie Lamb
June 18, 2008
We will all miss Steve dearly, but we will always cherish the memories we have of him. His friendship meant a lot throughout the years. Steve, you will always be in our hearts and will never be forgotten.
Rachel Thompson
June 18, 2008
My prayers are with Tabitha, her family, and Steve's family. God bless and comfort you, and I know He will. Steve will always be remembered as a true soldier and friend.
CCHS Class of 2003
Stacy Grantham
June 18, 2008
Tabitha and Family,
May Gods love surround and comfort you during this time of saddness. From our military family to yours, we are very sorry for the loss of your loved one..Sgt McCoy "thank you" for your great service and sacrifice...1SG David Grantham, Stacy, Hunter, Jordyn Grantham
Amber (Glaze) King
June 18, 2008
I have prayed for steve to get better when I found out he got hurt I'm really sorry for your lost and for the kids lost. God is watching over you and the kids.
Joyce Crosby Knight
June 18, 2008
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
BRIAN KNIGHTON
June 18, 2008
I would like to take this time and send my condolences to the McCoy family. I knew Steve very well and I can personally say that Steve was an outstanding person and a friend as well. I had classes with Steve and I can't think of any time that he was not smiling or making someone else smile. I will always remember Steve and what he has done for me in my lifetime. What a genuine person and a well rounded individual. God Bless
Aileen H. Gay
June 18, 2008
May God be very near and dear to your hearts today, and in the days to come. To Sgt. McCoy's families, we are grateful and humbled for his ultimate sacrifice.
Shandra Castleberry
June 18, 2008
My heart goes out to the McCoy and Phillips families. As a mother of a soldier (Castleberry,Allen USAF Japan)(Colquitt Co. High class2004 ROTC)I know god is watching over you right now, he hears your prayers and cries of Why Steve?, Steve may be gone but he will forever remain in your hearts. Remember all the good times you had with him. Hold your head high and walk tall for Steve. For his honor, for all he did for our country. God bless you all.
Angie, Eric, & Julie Sexton
June 18, 2008
Your family has been in our thoughts and prayers for the last few months. We'll continue to pray that you can find peace in your hearts as you go through this difficult time. We'd also like to say "thank you" Sgt. Steve McCoy you are a true american hero. You paid the ultimate price so that we may be safe and free. You will never be forgotten.
Darrell, Faith, Haley, and Savannah Morrell, Karen and Darrell Dean
June 17, 2008
Tabitha, Landen and Rylie,
We were deeply saddened by Steve's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers. My God give you strength through out this trying time. God bless you and keep you close.
RIP PFC Aaron J. Ward 4/28/89 5/6/08 (KIA)
Gary Tolle
June 17, 2008
Steve, God bless you soldier and thank you for your brave and honorable service to a grateful nation and for paying the ultimate price for our freedom.. You are now in great company with God and so many other fallen hero's before and after you. On 5/6/08 my nephew PFC Aaron J. Ward was killed in action in Iraq and my final promise to him was to never forget him and our fallen hero’s, we will never forget their commitment and sacrifice. McCoy family, words cannot express the pain we now share, but our families will forever have a bond and we will be thinking of Steve and your family and will keep you in our thoughts & prayers. Please accept my heart felt condolences and my prayer that god help you cope with this tragic loss and may the memories of your HERO carry you through each day. From one Gold Star family to another!
Mr. & Mrs. Tony Padgett & family
June 17, 2008
May God richly bless you all. As the mother, father, brother, & sister of a 21-year-old airman, our hearts hurt for you and prayers go out to you. Steve will always be our Hero!
June 17, 2008
To Sgt. McCoy's family and friends,
You have my deepest sympathy. Thank you for the sacrifice,Sgt. McCoy made for our country. May God bless you all.
Amanda Brown (Sellers)
June 17, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with the McCoys as well as the Moores during this terrible time. I can not begin to explain how sympathetic I feel for Tabitha. I can not begin to imagine how you and your family are feeling. Just know that you have plenty of family and friends that are always here for you in any way.
Keri Gardner
June 17, 2008
To the McCoy Family.... I am deeply deeply sorry for your lost and I know that Steve was a good man. I know Tabitha and Steve from school we graduated together and I knew from the start that they was in love with each other. To Tabitha stay strong for your twins and Steve will always be with you in your heart and soul and he will watch over you and your beautiful twins, and you will see him one day and remember the good times you had with Steve. And Tabitha, your beautiful twins and Steve will always be in my heart and I will never forget the things we went through in high school.
My love will always be in my heart,
your school mate class of 2003
Angela Davis
June 17, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Wal*Mart 1658 Associates & Management
June 17, 2008
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Sally
June 17, 2008
Tabitha - I've one of many who never met you or Steve but was was touched deeply by his battle for life. Surely the Lord spared him so that he would bring Light into our lives in these past months of prayer. Because of his injury, I've contemplated soldiers, their commitment to our protection, and their families' willingness to live with their service and the risk, in ways that had never occurred to me before. I know that your children will grow up reading these notes and hearing about Steve from friends and family; but please share with them that even strangers were touched by what their Daddy believed in and endured. Your family will remain in my prayers.
Leeann Martin(Gunn)
June 17, 2008
May god be with the McCoy family in their time of grief. God bless you all.
Jamie Pettyjohn
June 17, 2008
To all of the McCoy family,
I am very sorry for your loss. Look to the lord and he will guide you through this.
Amber Carter
June 17, 2008
To The McCoy Family:
Your family has lost a great piece to its puzzle. A son, father, and husband and this country has lost a great soldier and fighter for our many freedoms. But I, have lost a great friend. Even though I did not keep in touch with Steve after school I knew where he would be... doing what he was remarkable at. Doing what he loved. He touched my life deeply in the years that I knew him so I can only imagine how he touched the lives of his mother, father, wife and precious children. Tabitha, no words can explain my sympathy. You lost your best friend and I will be praying for you always. Please tell your sons that their daddy was one of the most awsome, friendly, motivated, loving people that this world has ever met and it was truly an honor to have known him. He was, is and always will be a true American Hero...Thank You so Much For Your Sacrifice Steve....You will live on forever through your children and with God's unfailing grace we will meet again.....................
Amber S. Carter
Regenia
June 17, 2008
I, too, do not know the McCoy's but have prayed for them since reading about Sgt. Steven McCoy in the paper. Since I can't thank Sgt. McCoy in person, I would like to say "Thank You" to his wife and family. Thank you....it's because of brave and courageous men and women that we all live in this great country we call America...which is my home. May God continue to comfort you and know that thousands of people are praying for you and the children each day.
Melissa Holton
June 17, 2008
My prayers go out to the McCoy family in this time of need i went to school with Steve and is wife he will not be forgot for all that he has done we will Miss you so much but it is time to go home
CLASS OF 2003
REST IN PEACE
Roxanne Salter
June 17, 2008
You all are continuously in my thoughts and prayer. May God be with you and give you courage and strength in the days and weeks to come. Remember Phillipians 4:13 - "I can do all things in Christ who gives me strength".
3rd Grade Migrant Class & Teachers Summer - 2008
June 17, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family of Sgt. McCoy for making the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom. May God light your way for the days to come.
The Allbrooks Family Trista ,Kenneth,Dylan & Summer Allbrooks
June 17, 2008
Tabitha,Landen,Ryley & The Rest Of The Family,
My family and I are sorry to hear the lost of your love one. As a military wife of a United States Air Force (MSgt Kenneth Allbrooks) I'm sending you Tabitha and the twins a special pray. Tabitha do tell your kids everday that there Daddy was a Hero and that he didn't leave them he will be there with them everday. It's going to be hard but you don't forget that your husband wants you to know he loves you and the kids and he is proud of you too for standing strong for the family right now and he wasn't the only Hero in the family you are too. Tabitha you know what I mean when our husband wasn't there we are the mom and the dad and that's a hard job but we did it because of the love of our love ones.We all wish you and the twins all the best and don't forget your military family will be there for you and the twins. God Bless Steve and the rest of our men and women that is giving there lifes for our FREEDOM!!
Marla Corbin
June 17, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Robin Sumner
June 17, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathies. While I did not know Steve, I would like to let you know how grateful I am for his bravery in protecting our country. I pray for all the service men and women who are fighting for our safety and protection. May God bless you and keep you.
Crystal (Chambers) Taylor
June 17, 2008
Tabatha and family my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May God Bless you.
Melissa Griffin
June 17, 2008
My prayers are with the family. I cannot imagine the pain you are going through but I know it would devestate me to lose one of mine. I really didn't know him but my heart still breaks for this fallen hero.
audrea craven
June 17, 2008
My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with this family! I am so sorry for your loss.
Mary Lillard
June 17, 2008
I never met Steve or your family but I have a daughter and two nephews that are serving and my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Iris Jordan
June 17, 2008
It has been my privilege to pray for the McCoy family during this most difficult of times. Having lost family in combat myself, I remember the pain but God will bring comfort to each of your hearts and you will always remember your loved one as an American hero and we are forever grateful. Thank you and may God bless each of you.
Vicki Grace
June 17, 2008
My heart goes out to your family. I didnt know Sgt McCoy but I'm grieving for the loss of this brave, honorable soldier who lost his life protecting our freedom. My son is presently serving in Afghanistan now and my daughter will be going soon. I lift your family up in prayer. May you find comfort in all of the memories that you shared together. God Bless you all.
REV. RONALD & B0NNIE WARREN
June 17, 2008
TO THE PHILLIPS AND McCOY FAMILIES, WE HAVE KNOWN THE PHILLIPS FAMILY FOR MANY YEARS AND OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL. OUR HEARTS ARE HEAVY FOR YOU, BUT WE KNOW GOD WILL GIVE YOU STRENGTH IN THE DAYS AHEAD.
WE LOVE YOU ALL.
Melissa Flowers
June 17, 2008
The Last Inspection
The soldier stood and faced God,
Which must always come to pass.
He hoped his shoes were shining,
Just as brightly as his brass.
"Step forward no, you soldier,
How shall I deal with you?
Have you always turned the other cheek?
To my church have you been true?"
The soldier squared his shoulders and said,
"No Lord I guess I ain't.
Because those of us who carry guns,
Can't always be a saint.
I've had to work most Sundays,
And at times My talk was tough. And sometimes I've been violent, Because the world is awfully rough.
But, I never took a penny,
That wasn't mine to keep...
Though I worked a lot of overtime, When the bills got just too steep. And I never passed a cry for help, Though at times I shook with fear. And sometimes, God, forgive me, I've wept unmanly tears.
I know I don't deserve a place, Among the people here.
They never wanted me around, Except to calm their fears.
If you've a place for me here, Lord, It needn't be so grand.
I never expected or had too much, But if you don't, I'll understand."
There was a silence all around the throne,
Where the saints had often trod. As the soldier waited quietly, For the judgment of his God.
"Step forward now, you soldier, You've borne your burdens well.
Walk peacefully on Heaven's Streets,
You've done your time in Hell."
God Bless you and your family
Sissy Anderson
June 17, 2008
Thank you so much for your service and the sacrifice which you ultimately paid. May God bless you and your family.
Charlotte Flowers
June 17, 2008
To the familyof Mr. McCoy-I know the loss is painfull and my prayers are with you.You have lost a special & brave person in your life May GOD be with you.And thanks to Mr. Mc Coy for serving our country --a job well done. Charlotte Flowers
MTS Spencer and Amanda (Jones) Meeks
June 17, 2008
From our military family to yours, we are so sorry for your loss. May GOD be with you and your family. Freedom is not free, and SGT McCoy will always be remembered for the duty he served this country. Tabitha, you are in my prayers, as for the rest of the family as well.
Karen Williams
June 17, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss.Altough we have never met, we share the same story I also lost a brother Spc. Joseph A. Lucas (23) in Iraq on 12/15/05. I just wanted the family to know thoughts and prayers are with you.May God bless you all.
Sheryl Champy
June 17, 2008
To the McCoy family,
On behalf of my family, I want to thank you for your husband, father and son's service to our country. He gave the ultimate sacrafice so that my two boys could grow up in a free country. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Debra Robinson
June 17, 2008
Thank you for a hero. We are sure Mr. McCoy was a great man. We will be praying for his wife, kids, and family. Please keep his memories alive for his kids sake.
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
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