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John Penich Obituary

Penich, Sgt. John M. 25, assigned to the Battalion 26th Infantry, 3rd Brigade, 1st Infantry Division, Fort Hood, TX, "Viper Company" of United State Army, from Beach Park, IL, was killed in action on October 16, 2008, while defending his country in Operation Enduring Freedom in Afghanistan. Born January 6, 1983, in Waukegan, IL, he was a proud solider and a loving and selfless man. John put everyone before himself. He was highly decorated, including Solider of the Year 2007 3rd Brigade, 1st Infantry, Bronze Star with Valor and Single Oak Leaf Cluster, Combat Infantryman Badge and had been recommended for the Silver Star. Sgt. Penich lived his life to the fullest. He enjoyed hunting, traveling overseas and taking motorcycle trips. He graduated with honors from Zion-Benton Township High School, in 2001. Survived by mother, Kathy ("Dad" Mike) Garross, father, James (Diane) Penich, brothers, Jimmy (Michelle) Penich and Jeff (Nicole) Penich, sister, Crystal (Pete) Barrett, grandparents, Donald (Pat) Weidner and Roger (Barbara) Garross, great-grandmother, Mary Hall, nieces and nephews, Autumn Long, Bryce and Eva Barrett and Hailey and Hunter Penich and the love of his life, Sarah Kelley, also surviving are other family, including, Jill Garross, Kim Zabresky, Kim (Chris) Van Beek, Clarissa Van Beek, Dan (Denise) Garross, Cassie and Chloe Garross, Denis (Dave) Balmes, Allie Balmes, Ray Caddell, Michael (Mary) Penich, Michael (Abbey) Penich, Tim Penich, dear friend, Mikey Kitch and countless other friends and comrades. Preceded in death by grandparents, Elaine Weidner, Michael Penich Sr. and Jennie Penich and great-grandparents, Katherine Garross and Ned Hall and great-grandmother, Eva Gallup. Mass of Christian Burial on Tuesday, October 28, 2008, at 10 a.m., at Our Lady of Humility Church, 10655 Wadsworth Rd., Beach Park, IL. Interment with full military honors will follow at Mt. Olivet Memorial Park, Zion. Visitation Monday, October 27, 2008, from 3 to 9 p.m., at Congdon Funeral Home, 3012 Sheridan Rd., Zion, IL. Memorial donations are suggested to the Sgt. John M. Penich Memorial Fund (for the college education of his nieces and nephews) c/o First Midwest Bank, 3303 Sheridan Rd., Zion, IL, 60099, 847-746-1234.

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Oct. 24, 2008.

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Peggy Childers

October 16, 2011

To the family and friends of Sgt. John Penich:
Please accept my remembrance of John on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

mark bruns

April 2, 2011

To the family of John Penich i was with him at ft. hood and talked about bikes i did not get to deploy with him because i PCS not on my wishes but the army could not provide for my family at ft. hood. even though i was only with him for a short time i could tell he was a great man and leader there is not a day that goes by that i dont think of him or the other men that gave their lives for our country on that tour to the valley i only wish that icould have gone to fight next to him. SSG Bruns

Peggy Childers

October 16, 2010

To the family and friends of Sgt. John Penich:
Remembering John on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Peggy Childers

December 2, 2009

To the family of Sgt. John Penich:
John gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

October 25, 2009

"Greater love hath no man then to lay down his life for a friend"
I am proud to have called you friend,you will always be missed and remembered.

SGT.Matthew Koepke 2-2IN

Kate Tippett-Bowles

October 17, 2009

To the Family and Friends of John Penich,

My husband and I watched Richard Engel's documentary this evening and we are both heartbroken over John. Sometimes a photo is all that is needed to reveal the goodness of someone's soul. This is the case for John. One thing that came across without doubt is that John was dearly loved by his Mother and brother who were both interviewed. Of course we are confident no one could know John and not love him. Our hearts are broken and we will forever keep you all and especially John in our thoughts.

Broadway High School Football Family

October 16, 2009

To the family of Sgt. John Penich,

I am the head football coach at Broadway High School, located in Virginia. Each week this season, our football team has played in honor of a fallen soldier. This week, we will be playing for John. Our team considers this a great honor and we are very happy about it. John's acts of bravery deserve a fitting tribute. Our players will play very hard tonight and we hope to make John and his family proud. I hope you find comfort knowing that John's life continues to inspire others... even a small town football team in Virginia. Thanks!

Laurie DeLecce

October 12, 2009

I saw the story about John on "The Tip of the Spear" documentary. I watched this last night and haven't been able to stop thinking about him and the story that was told.I had no concept of the impossible task these guys had been given. John's bravery and that of all his fellow soldiers is perhaps the most impressive thing I've ever witnessed. A lot of us talk about this war but we do it from the comfort of our homes. I am so sorry for your loss. My son is 11 years old now...maybe he will have have a safer and more secure life because of the dedication, bravery and heroism of John and all the soldiers who fought along side of him. My heart breaks for you...I will remember him.

Brad Stueber

October 6, 2009

I did not have the blessing of knowing Sgt John Penich, but I want to join his family and friends who knew and loved him deeply in honoring him and remembering his life and his giving of that precious life for the freedom of us all. I know time has passed since he left, but I know that you each one face each day even now, thinking of John and wishing he were still here with you. My deepfelt prayers and sincerest condolences go to you know and in the future. Please know that John is the son, brother, friend of all of us Americans....so we stand together with you in your journey to keep going. John is in a better place now where he will never be harmed, feel death, war, hatred and all other evil. He is in that prepared place by the Lord living in perfect peace,total Love. Since I did not know him here, I plan to get to know him when my time comes to join him there. Until then, John, thank you for all you did in your time here and for all of those lives you touched and changed by so doing. We will not forget you. Until we meet, rest in peace, son. You deserve it. And God bless all who may read this!

Lynn & Dianna Lansdowne

September 14, 2009

Jim and Diane Penich,
We wanted to join in with so many others to say how sorry we are for the loss of your son. We only met him once when he was younger and have some funny memories of that time. We can't imagine how hard it is for a dad and mom to lose a child. Our continued prayers are with you.

Sgt. Luke Lowery

August 11, 2009

I will never forget your son. God Bless you and the sacrifice you have made on the altar of freedom.

Diane Ford

August 9, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

May 1, 2009

My heartfelt sympathy to the Penich family and friends in the loss of John. I did not know John, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. John you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"TO LIVE IN THE HEARTS
OF THOSE YOU LEAVE BEHIND
IS NEVER TO DIE"

Lynette Reicks

April 26, 2009

Kathy
Sorry it has taken me so long to be able to say this but in my heart from one mom to another I am so sorry for your loss words alone cannot express how I feel for you and your family May God bless you and know that John is in heaven watching over you he is never far from you

April 18, 2009

I read your note on anysoldier, and wanted to let you know that I have thought about your son since the news of the tragedy. Seeing your note stirred me to leave a note here to let you know that you have my deepest sympathy and sorry- as well as gratitude. There is no doubt that your beloved son is indeed resting in peace. May you find the comfort and strength to carry on.

Susan Stanley

January 19, 2009

Dear family of Sgt. John M. Penich, I am so sorry for the loss of your hero. He was a hero in many ways to many people. He was helping to maintain our freedoms and helping to bring freedoms to those that have never known freedom before. I send many packages to contacts listed at AnySoldier.com. Your John, being a volunteer contact for Any Soldier.com, was an angel to many in the field. He cared enough for his unit to help pass out mail to those who maybe did not receive any or as much mail as others. Helping them to know that they were supported, cared for and prayed for by us at home in the USA. What a true hero. Freedom isn’t free.
Thank you Sgt. John M. Penich. We miss you greatly.
May God’s Holy Spirit grant your family comfort as they progress through grieving for the loss of their very special hero.
From a Gold Star Mother (SSG Russell J. Verdugo KIA 5/23/05 - Baghdad)

Stephanie Rafoss

January 3, 2009

Prayer for Peace

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace;
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master,
Grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
To be understood, as to understand;
To be loved, as to love;
For it is in giving that we receive,
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

Amen

zina helm

December 21, 2008

i saw your picture on the news 32 wlky in louisville,ky. and i thought you looked so familiar,my name is zina,and i want to tell you how sorry i am that you lost your son,i can't even imagine what you are feeling,but i will be praying that you can find comfort somehow in the word of prayer;and may god be with you in this time of suffering the loss of your loved one!!

Shelly Mancini-Esposito

December 18, 2008

I saw the story of Sgt. John Penich on the Today show this week and felt compelled to find a way to say, "Thank you". Thank you to him for the sacrafices he made for his country and our freedom and thank you to you for sharing his story with us (America/The World). You have honored him by doing so. I could see how much pain you and your family have, but I could also see how proud you were of John.
Please know that your story - John's story - has touch me and I am sure it did likewise to many, many others. My hope is that you will find comfort in all of the wonderful memories that you will always have of John. It must be so hard for you/your family to have all of his belongings out in your house, but yet so brave of you. You are a strong person/family.
I hope happy days return to you and your family very soon. We are all thankful and are all thinking of you. Keep your chin up and continue to be proud and continue to tell John's story!!
Sincerely,
Shelly L. Mancini-Esposito
Plattsburgh, NY

Carol

December 17, 2008

I did not know your wonderful son, but I wanted to thank him for his service, and thank you for raising such an extraordinary young man. I hope this prayer gives you comfort.
God bless John, God bless you and God bless America.

Prayer of Remembrance

In the rising of the sun and its going down, we remember you.
In the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter, we remember you.
In the opening buds and in the rebirth of spring, we remember you.
In the blueness of the sky and in the warmth of summer, we remember you.
In the rustling of leaves and in the beauty of autumn, we remember you.
In the beginning of the year and when it ends, we remember you.
When we are weary and in need of strength, we remember you.
When we are lost and sick at heart, we remember you.
When we have joys we yearn to share, we remember you.
So long as we live, you too shall live, for you are now a part of us,
as we remember you.

June Denney

December 17, 2008

May God be with you and your family my sister and I are very grateful for the hero your son was and is, as we watched the news we both cried and our hearts go out to you.Thank you for sharing your son with us and in the days ahead may God bless and keep you.

Susie Keleher

December 17, 2008

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Penich and Family:

I saw you on the news last night and I was so touched by your extraordinary attitude as far as no blame for your loss of John. You are remarkable people and are to be commended. His brother brought tears to my eyes as he spoke as well as when you showed us his Silver Cross, Mrs. Penich.

I just wanted you to know that there are people out there who appreciate what your son did for us and our country. I was in the Reagan airport recently in DC and thanked two soldiers walking by.

Thank you for giving your son the courage to serve and the love you gave him so he could endure what he did.

I will say prayers for all of you. Thank you again for sharing your story of John as it touched many hearts. God bless you.

Susie Keleher
Delray Beach, Florida
E-Mail: [email protected]

Brad Newsom

December 17, 2008

Though I am not a soldier nor have I have I ever served, I am saddened everytime I hear or see a soldier losing their life. I cannnot express my grattitude to John's mother and family for his service nor can I offer them (or any family) the relief that they deserve. You are all in my prayers and thoughts and I pray that you all have the best possible holiday season you are able to. My sincere best to you all that have lost loved ones to the wars.

Shannon Barry

December 17, 2008

I am honored by Sgt. John Penich's service to our country. He did not know me, but he fought for me anyway. No words can do justice for my appreciation and the respect I have for Sgt. Penich. To the Penich family, I offer my deepest condolences and hope that you know how much so many of us appreciate his sacrifice. I saw John's story on the news with my 9 year old brother, and it was through John that my young brother really learned about the sacrifices our soldiers make for us everyday. It was truly amazing seeing the reaction John's story evoked from such a young child. His first question was, "Well, what about his family?" I hope that this can be a sign for you as to how far your son's sacrifice and dedicatoin has travelled to reach even the youngest of us, whom he was fighting for. I offer you all peace and comfort in knowing your son is in a better place and that he will never be forgotten. Thank you again.

Delores Mills

December 17, 2008

Dear Family, My heart and prayers are with you. I too am a Gold Star Mom and it is a very difficult time I know. There are those of us who will never forget or take lightly the sacrifices of our brave sons. I too new I would never see my son again when he boarded that plane to head back to Pendelton. God's grace. Call me for support for we are family. My son's name is Sgt. Lea R. Mills and I am Dee Mills. My son gave me a message from heaven that I carry with me like a treasure. "Momma, Keep your eyes on God and when your mission is over you are coming home." With a mothers love, thinking of you. Momma Dee Mills

Alyson Krogh

December 17, 2008

I listened to the story on The Today Show this am and had to find this condolence page. Never having done this before, I was moved to tears watching John's family honor his memory. Your respect for his memory and love for him are felt through the airwaves.

Mike Gordon

December 17, 2008

I saw the stoy today on the Today show. I am sorry for your loss. I want you to know that we will never forget those who have given that ultimate sacrifice. We here at www.honorandremember.org are determined that we always remember those who have given the ultimate sacrifice.

Mary Russell

December 17, 2008

Dear Penich Family,
I saw the story this morning on the Today show and my heart stopped. My sons Ryan and Christopher grew up in the neighborhood (Kingsway Estates) with John and have many happy childhood memories of hanging out together. We are all deeply sorry for your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Ali Chahine

December 16, 2008

Ali chahine & family I saw the story of your son on the news
and wanted to offer my simpthy to your family and hope to god or allah blessing and comfort him in paradise in heavin
and may god comfort your harts of his memories take care

God Bless

Brian Nosek

December 16, 2008

Dear Penich family,
I was very moved by the story about John on NBC Nightly News this evening. He was easy to admire, and so were you. The thoughtfulness of your comments about him, the difficulty of war, and how you remember and live with his memory provided a wonderful demonstration for the rest of us to live up to when wrestling with loss.

Gary

December 16, 2008

A true American hero.God bless John and his family.

GEORGE C. RUDOLPH SR

December 16, 2008

TO THE PENICH FAMILY I SAW YOUR SON STORY OWN NBC NIGHTLY NEWS IT REALLY TOUCH ME SGT.PENICH IS A HERO. 70VIETNAM71

Glenn Meeks

December 16, 2008

To the family of Sgt. John Penich, I saw John's story on NBC Nightly News tonight, and was deeply moved by it. It's got to be the worst thing in the world to lose a son or brother like John, and I can't imagine what you're going through. It's heros like John that fight for the freedoms we all enjoy in this great country of ours. I saw that he loved Harleys and motorcycling-me too. I will be carrying a picture of John in my tool pouch on my Harley, as a reminder and a thank you for his sacrifice for my freedom I enjoy while riding and will continue to think about him-God bless you folks-Glenn.

Patricia Belanger

December 16, 2008

Dear Mrs. Penich: I live in Michigan and saw a report about your son on the news today. I just wanted to write a note of thanks to you and your family for sharing your story about your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this Christmas season. God Bless you and your family.

Emilio Chaviano

December 16, 2008

I never knew John, but I offer him my SALUTE...As a nation we've lost a heroe. My prayers are with those who loved him.
Chaplain, Col. E. Chaviano, USAF (Ret)

T. Marchesi

December 16, 2008

Just saw your story on NBC news. I wanted to tell you how deeply sorry I am for your loss. May you be comforted by your memories of John. He seems like he was a great guy.

patsy adams

December 11, 2008

Im so sorry for your loss, My prayers are with you. My son served with John in afghanistan and said he was a Great Friend and a true Hero.

Kenna Larra

November 20, 2008

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For the Commander, Carroll R. Michaud

November 15, 2008

The Final Salute

“Brothers in Arms”, Military men and women down through the centuries, have traditionally exchanged “Hand Salutes” as a sign of recognition and as a way to render courtesy and respect one to another.

This “Hand Salute” is the last that we shall render to Sgt John Penich our Brother in Arms. To his family it symbolizes the love and respect that we have for John. And to John it is rendered as a symbol of honor and gratitude to thank him for the ultimate sacrifice he made in combat while serving the U.S. Army and his country. No greater love is shown than a man lay down his life for another. John, you are a brave Warrior, a true Patriot and a national Hero. With your passing, our Country has lost a National Treasure. We bid you a sad farewell. You will be dearly missed from among our ranks. Be at ease. Rest in Peace.

On behalf of the 1,409 members of Lowe-McFarlane Post 14 of the American Legion in Shreveport, Louisiana, I extend our sympathies and our condolences to John’s family and loved ones.

Dennis N. Engdahl, Commander, American Legion Post 14
5315 S. Lakeshore Drive, Shreveport, LA 71109

MacDaniel

November 14, 2008

To the Penich family,

I know there are no words to say, except how sorry I am for your loss. May you hold Johns' memory in your heart and please remember he shall never be forgotten.

...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.

But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.

Suzanne MacDaniel
A Proud Aunt
Sgt. David M.Fisher
KIA 12/1/04

Shelley H - Blue Star Mom

November 13, 2008

From our military family to yours, we would like to thank SGT John Penich for his service and sacrifice to this grateful country, as well as send our deepest condolences for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Gary Allain

November 13, 2008

Sgt John Penich
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever

Sandy Bonesteel

November 13, 2008

My condolences to the family of Sgt. John Penich. May they know that there are many, many people who are grieving with them; and that care very deeply about them.

RIP PFC Aaron J. Ward 4/28/89 - 5/6/08 (KIA)

Gary Tolle (Proud Uncle)

November 12, 2008

John, God bless you soldier and thank you for your brave and honorable service to a grateful nation and for paying the ultimate price for our freedom.. You are now in great company with God and so many other fallen heroes before and after you. On 5/6/08 my nephew PFC Aaron J. Ward was killed in action in Iraq and my final promise to him was to never forget him and our fallen heroes, we will never forget the commitment and sacrifice of our American Heroes. To the Penich family, words cannot express the pain we now share, but our families will forever have a bond and we will be thinking of John and your family and will keep you in our thoughts & prayers. Please accept my heart felt condolences and my prayer that god help you cope with this tragic loss and may the memories of your HERO carry you through each day. From one Gold Star family to another!

Gale Poindexter

November 12, 2008

I am writing to offer my deepest sympathies to you and your family over the loss of your HERO Sgt John Penich. I lost my son in Iraq on May 6/2007, so I can well understand your pain of losing a loved one so dear.

I pray you will be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength in this time.

Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
GOD Bless you and your family. Your soldier was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of his service. He will not be forgotten!


(Proud mother of Sgt Joel W. Lewis, 5/20, 3-2 SBCT /Ft Lewis
KIA 5/6/07, Baqubah, Iraq)
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Garnet Jenkins

November 12, 2008

Please accept my Deepest and Most Heartfelt Sympathy regarding the loss of Sgt. John Penich, with So Much Gratitude for your Fine Young Soldier's Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.

May John rest safely now, in God's Care and know that he is a True American hero, that shall Never Be Forgotten.
May the Peace of the Lord be with the Penich family.
There will Never Be Enough Ways, to Humbly Thank these Young Heroes, for their Sacrifices, my brother among them. Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.

"And God shall wipe away every tear from their eyes,
there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying,
there shall be no more pain.
For the former things have have passed away."
~ Revelations 21:4 ~

May you find peace in knowing the love and memories you have, will remain in your heart forever and that this Country Will Remember the Sacrifice John made.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sgt John Penich

November 12, 2008

Sgt John Penich

November 12, 2008

Janice Oswald

November 2, 2008

To the family and friends of fallen hero SGT Penich....I am so deeply sorry for your loss. May God bring you peace and comfort during this very difficult time. He will not be forgotten. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless You.

George Cates

October 30, 2008

Jim & members of the Penich family...
I didn't know John, but Jim, being our Postmaster here in Bergman, you so often told me stories of you son John and his brother Jeff, how united they were as brothers. Those were all good stories and the love you have for your children. It was a very sad day for me and my wife Marilyn when we heard the tragic news of Sgt. Penich's lost of life in Afghanistan. He's a true hero, who sacrificed his life for the Country he loves and for the freedom we strive for. Our prayers shall continue for the Penich family and for all our service men and women who serve in harms way. I submitted a memorial photo of Sgt. John Penich to the memorial book, and truly pray that it appears of Sgt. John M. Penich, An American Hero.
God Bless.

Wendy Cordts

October 28, 2008

Kathy,

So sorry for your loss and your family's loss. May God hold you close.

Barbara Mismash

October 28, 2008

Kathy,
Your are the important center square in the quilt of John's life. I am so proud to have known John and I am in awe of his love of country and family and his dedication. I thank you for your strength and I am blessed to have been part of John's Quilt of life.
God bless and keep you and your family. You are blessing to all who know and love you.

Ty&Vi Armstrong &Family

October 28, 2008

To John Penich"s Family

Our hearts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow.

Kristie Marquardt

October 28, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the family. My heart and prayers goes out to all of you.

Kristie Marquardt

Greg / Sharon Davis

October 28, 2008

Our daughter Nicole attended Zion-Benton H.S with John and remember him visiting our home. We mourn your loss and extend our heartfelt condolences, and hope that the kind thoughts & prayers from family and friends will ease the the burden of your sorrow.

Sincerely,
The Davis Family

Jessie Long

October 27, 2008

To all of the Penich family:

I am so sorry for your loss. I know that mere words will not lessen the pain but know that you all are in my prayers.

Larry&Betty Lawrence

October 27, 2008

Although we did not know John-he is still family...A Hero...A man of Faith...A Great Person...A Great Son...A Great Brother...A Great Guy and a Great Soldier. He fought for our Freedom. He was taken far too soon from this earth.
May you rest in Peace!
God Bless you John!

patty tuft

October 27, 2008

im so sorry kathy

October 27, 2008

I would like to thank John for fighting for all of us back here at home. You are a true hero.

Carroll White

October 26, 2008

My deepest respect and sympathy go to the entire Penich family. God Bless your son for his service to our country. Brave men, women and their families make the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom and we are truly grateful.

The White Family

Dawn Malkowski

October 26, 2008

Our Deepest Sympathy to you and your family, our Mark is in Afghanistan since July 2008.
We know you are so very proud of your John as we all are. We can not even begin to imagine the loss you must feel.
Our Deepest Sympathy,
Gregg, Dawn, Megan, (Mark) and Matthew Malkowski

Bruce A. Clark Sr.

October 25, 2008

John was a fine, respectful, hard working football player. I am offer my deepest sympathy to You and Your Family for the loss of this Great Young Man. Coach Bruce Clark Zion Benton Jaguars - 1996.

Missouri Myers

October 25, 2008

Mike & Mary Penich my heart goes out to you and your family at this time, may God be with you, for I know he is the head of your household. I pray with you as God takes control and holds your hand.

Darlene Bell

October 25, 2008

Kathy, my prayers go out to you and your family. May God be with you.

Diane

October 25, 2008

Our prayers and sympathy goes out to John's family. He is one of our Nation's true heroes.

Don't cry for me
Don't shed your tears in mourning for me
Be joyful for the times we spent together in happiness
Remember me for what I was and not as I am now
Take the strength I have given you through the years
And support those that have not enough
Take my light to guide you through the darkness
Don't cry for me

Don't cry for me
Shed instead tears of joy for out good times we have had
And the bad times we made it through together
Shed your tears of relief for you know I am in no pain
Know now that the only hurt I feel is for leaving you alone
Don't cry for me

Don't cry for me
Only in body have I gone from your sides
In spirit I will always watch over you
I am your warmth on a cold day
And that cool breeze when the sun gets too hot
I have never gone from your side nor will I leave now
Shed no more tears in sadness
I am here
So please
Don't cry for me.

Written by a Soldier currently in Iraq

WANDA EMERSON

October 24, 2008

DEAR JIM.KIDS AND FAMILY:

JIM I DIDN'T KNOW JOHN.BUT IF HE IS ANYTHING LIKE HIS FATHER HE WAS A GOOD MAN & YOU AND HIS MOTHER,DIANE & HISSTEP DAD AND ANYONE ELSE WHO HAS ANYTHING TO SO WITH JOHN'S UPBRING DID A VERY GOOD JOB. AND WE ARE ALL PROUD OF HIM FOR WHAT HE HAS DONE FOR ALL OF US WHO ARE STILL HERE, I KNOW IT'S HARD BUT TAKE THE COMFORT IN KNOWING THAT HE IS UP WITH ALL WHO HAS GONE BEFORE HIM & HE WILL LIVE IN OUR HEARTS & PRAYS FOR EVER. WILL SEE YOU WHEN YOU GET BACK HOME. ALL OF US IN BERGMAN ARE THINKING ABOUT YOU ALL & YOUR ALL IN OUR THOUGHTS.
MY LOVE TO YOU ALL OF OF YOUR FAMILY.
WANDA EMERSON

Jenny Dupree

October 24, 2008

John was a great guy always honest and a hardworker I worked with him for four years at Midlane. He will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

Jennifer Bolton

October 24, 2008

I want to send out my deepest sympathy for the family and loved ones of Sgt. John Penich. I'm serving overseas as well right now, and also stationed out of Fort Hood, and I will be sure to keep the family members in my prayers.

God bless,

Tatera Family

October 24, 2008

Always Blessings, Never Loses.
May your warm memories of John give you comfort and peace.
Those we love are never gone.

Brian & Teri Usher

October 24, 2008

Wanted to express our deepest sympathy at the passing of John. It is hard to accept his loss. I know how proud you were of your brother Jeff, and how much you both cared about each other. Please know that in this time of loss, you are in our thoughts and prayers. I am sorry we can not be there for you. Please extend our deepest sympathy to your family.

October 24, 2008

I'm very sorry for your loss. John died a hero and I am very thankful for soldiers like him who are willing to sacrifice themselves for the safety and freedom of others. My deepest sympathy.

Marge and Bill DeWolfe

October 24, 2008

We don't know John or his family but we thank him for his ultimate sacrifice and may God Bless him and his family.

Jeannette

October 24, 2008

I would like to express my deepest condolences to the family and friends of Sgt. John Penich. It takes a lot of courage to fight for your country and only a few are up to the challenge. Thank you for your sacrifice John!

Sharon

October 24, 2008

I did not know your son but we live freely becuase of men like him. May God confort you in your time of grief.

For God so LOVED the world that he gave his only SON and men like JOHN!!!!!

The Bochenek Family

October 24, 2008

Our Family would like to extend our deepest gratitude for the ultimate sacrifice made by this Courageous and Outstanding member of Our Armed Forces. It is with great sadness and heavy hearts we send our love and prayers.

Lynessa Rissell

October 24, 2008

I did not know John but I will remember him because he fought for our country and he gave of himself . Thank you for sharing your son, brother, loved one with the world. I found the following poem and I know it gave me great comfort when my husbands grandfather passed away recently.
- Lynessa Rissell




To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Ray Caddell

October 24, 2008

Heros like John are those who keep us all safe at night when we go to sleep and protect the everyday pleasures we all have come accustomed to without thinking about it. The legacy of heroes is the memory of a great name and the inheritance of a great example.

He will be deeply missed but never forgotten.

October 24, 2008

I WILL BE WITH THEE
I WILL NOT FAIL THEE
NOR FORSAKE THEE
JOSHUA 1:15

Kim

October 24, 2008

For those who knew and loved John:
I didn't know John or his family and friends but I do want to express my deep thanks to someone who paid the ultimate price for my freedom and our country. May he rest in peace and feel nothing but joy and calmness now. God bless all of his loved ones at this time.

John Thompson

October 24, 2008

I did not know John nor any of his family members but I wanted to extend my thanks and my condolences to his family. I know that my freedom in this great nation came, and continues, due to the selfless contributions of the countless soldiers that have given their lives for us. In my eyes, your son is a hero and should be honored as one. My deepest sympathy and prayers go to his parents and friends who have loved and lost.

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