Mel Ferrer

Mel Ferrer

Mel Ferrer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 3, 2008.
LOS ANGELES (AP) - Mel Ferrer, the tall, darkly handsome star of such classic films as "Lili," "War and Peace" and "The Sun Also Rises," as well as producer and director of movies starring his then-wife, Audrey Hepburn, has died at age 90.

Ferrer died Monday at a Santa Barbara convalescent home, his son Mark Ferrer told The Associated Press on Tuesday. He had been in failing health for the past six months and had recently moved to the home from his nearby ranch in Carpinteria, his son said.

Ferrer's most impressive film role came in 1953 in "Lili." He played a crippled carnival puppeteer with whom a French orphan (played by Leslie Caron) falls in love.

He also won critical acclaim as Luis Bello in Robert Rossen's 1951 depiction of the public and private life of a bullfighter in "The Brave Bulls," based on a Tom Lea book, and starred opposite Hepburn in 1956's "War and Peace."

In later years, he turned more to directing and producing for movies and TV.

"Acting, at times, depresses Mel," Hepburn once said. "Directing lifts him. He's so relaxed at it that I just know it is the job he loves."

He and Hepburn became engaged in 1954 when they appeared together in the New York play "Ondine." They married later that year in Burgenstock, Switzerland.

The pair divorced in 1968 and Ferrer married his fourth wife, Elizabeth Soukhotine, in 1971. She survives him.

Ferrer and Hepburn costarred in a television version of "Mayerling," and Ferrer directed Hepburn in the 1959 film "Green Mansions."

He also produced one of Hepburn's greatest film triumphs, 1967's "Wait Until Dark," a terrifying thriller in which she portrays a blind woman terrorized by drug dealers who break into her home.

Born Melchor Gaston Ferrer on Aug. 25, 1917, in Elberon, N.J., Ferrer was the son of a Cuban-born doctor and a socialite mother. He grew up in comfortable surroundings, attending private schools and Princeton University.

He originally planned to be a writer.

"I don't think he ever really wanted to be an actor," his son said Tuesday. "He had kind of a stunning face and it got him typecast."

After winning a playwright's award in his sophomore year, Ferrer left Princeton to write a novel in Mexico. Instead he wrote a children's book, "Tito's Hats," which was published by Doubleday.

He spent a year as a book editor in New York, then began his acting career as a dancer in Broadway musicals. He acted in plays and on radio and directed a Hollywood movie, "Girl of the Limberlost."

Back in New York, he starred in the play "Strange Fruit," about a lynching in the South, and directed Jose Ferrer (no relation) in "Cyrano de Bergerac." His first major film role was in 1949's "Lost Boundaries," playing a light-skinned African-American doctor who passed for white in a New Hampshire town.

Ferrer's commanding presence and well-modulated voice made him ideal for characters of certitude and decision. His films included "Rancho Notorious," "Scaramouche," "Knights of the Round Table" (as King Arthur), "Born to Be Bad," "The Longest Day," "The Fall of the Roman Empire," "The Sun Also Rises," and "El Greco," which was made in Spain with Ferrer as co-producer and actor in the title role.

In all, he appeared in more than 100 films and made-for-television movies, directed nine films and produced nine more.

Ferrer was married and divorced three times before Hepburn: to Frances Pilchard (one daughter); to Barbara Tripp (a daughter and son); and a remarriage to Pilchard.

He is survived by his wife; his sons, Mark, Peter, Sean and Christopher; daughters Pepa and Mela; and several grandchildren.


Copyright © 2008 The Associated Press

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Delores Adams

November 23, 2019

I will always remember Mel Ferrer the very most in the Movie "Lili" I have watched that last scene over and over I think that it was the sexiest scene ever, and in such good taste A was a Good Actor, but "Lil" was the best for me

Dee Adams

August 16, 2019

I have seen Mel in several movies. I liked him it War and Peace, but my favorite of all was "Lili" with Leslie Caron. I have the movie, and have watched it so many times. I loved the ending. It was so sexy without sex. May he rest in peace. God Bless Mel Ferrer.

Roberta Schiff

August 1, 2019

Watch "Lili" all the time and fell in love with him. Sorry he's gone.

November 15, 2013

Richard Owen

March 3, 2013

Rest In Peace, Mr. Ferrer. You Were A Fantastic Talent. See You On The Other Side Some Beautiful Day, Kind Sir.

March 19, 2010

For Mel...

WEEP NOT FOR ME


Do not weep for me when I no longer dwell among the wonders of the earth; for my larger self is free, and my soul rejoices on the other side of pain...on the other side of darkness.

Do not weep for me, for I am a ray of sunshine that touches your skin, a tropical breeze upon your face, the hush of joy within your heart and the innocence of babes in mothers arms.

I am the hope in a darkened night. And, in your hour of need, I will be there to comfort you. I will share your tears, your joys, your fears, your disappointments and your triumphs.

Do not weep for me, for I am cradled
in the arms of God. I walk with the angels, and hear the music beyond the stars.

Do not weep for me, for I am within you;
I am peace, love, I am a soft wind that caresses the flowers. I am the calm that follows a raging storm. I am an autumns leaf that floats among the garden of God, and I am pure white snow that softly falls upon your hand.

Do not weep for me, for I shall never die, as long as you remember me...
with a smile and a sigh.


© Joe Fazio
~
[email protected] /Joe Fazio,
Beverly Hills, California

Lorna Ingram

June 19, 2008

Thanks for the memories of the life and acting that Mel Ferrer shared with us ! I first saw him in "Lili","Scaramouche", and "Knights of the Round Table"! Then as a teenager I wrote to him when he was doing "Ondine" with his soon to be wife, Audrey Hepburn! He graciously answered my letter with a short typewritten note! Then, later, I thoroughly enjoyed "War and Peace". I pray God,s blessings on his wife and his son Sean!

Deloris Williams

June 11, 2008

I'll always remember Mel Ferrer in "Lili", in particular, one of my all time favorite films, which I saw many years after it's release, when I was a pre-teen. I had such a big crush on him at the time, he was one of the most wonderful actors in the world. The world was blessed to have known you, Mel. May you continue on in Glory With God.

Andrea Smith

June 9, 2008

I am so sorry to learn of Mel's death. I pray that God will wrap you in His arms & comfort you. I really loved watching "LILI" and it is a beautiful gift Mel gave everyone. Thank you! Andrea Smith

Marni Seramur

June 8, 2008

I loved Mel's work in "Lili" and "Born to be Bad". What a great talent which we were fortunate to have. My prayers are with you.

Marlene Marranca

June 7, 2008

One of the all time greats! Sincere condolences, to his family. Rest in peace, Mr. Ferrer.

timothy Dieken

June 6, 2008

If life is a journey, the greatest tragedy is not having enjoyed the trip. You had a good one Mel.

ray interlandi

June 6, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Sandi Watkins

June 5, 2008

Dear Family of Mel Ferrer,

I want to express my sincere sympathy for the loss of your loved.
Comfort and encouragement can be found in the pages of the Bible.
Revelations 21:3, 4 tells of the promise GOD made of a time when there will be no more tears.
What a wonderful hope! Please take care of yourselves. Sincerely

Beth Lopez

June 5, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the Ferrer family. What a classic film giant. His legacy will live on forever. And I will keep on watching his films forever. He will be missed.

Katie Wood

June 5, 2008

My sympathy goes out to his family.
Mel Ferrer was an excellent actor and director. I really enjoy watching him in the old movies. We don't seem to have talent like his anymore.
He will be greatly missed.

Michael Ballou

June 5, 2008

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Nancy McNeil

June 5, 2008

He is now an even brighter star in heaven.

Jenny T

June 5, 2008

My condolences to the family of Mel Ferrer. Surely his person and talent will be missed. May you find comfort in the promise offered to us by Jehovah God in Revelation 21:3,4: "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away". May the hope of seeing your loved one, and never having to experience pain nor death ever again bring comfort to your hearts during this difficult time. (John 5:28,29)

Daniels Family

June 5, 2008

We offer our condolences to the Ferrer Family. May you find comfort in your memories and in solace in "the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort."
(2 Cor 1:3,4)

Diatchenko Andrew

June 5, 2008

I was extremely sorry to hear of Mr.Ferrer's dath. He was one of my favourite actors.

louis carwell

June 5, 2008

he was a very good actor and a man of many talents.rest in peace mel, your work will not be forgotten.

Sheila Smith

June 5, 2008

He lived a long and full life. Rest in Peace Mel.

Dorothy Smith

June 5, 2008

So sorry to hear of Mel Ferrer's death.He was an excellent producer and actor.I remember him with Jane Wyman on Falcon Crest.He will be greatly missed.My deepest sympathy to his family and friends.

Beverly Krause

June 4, 2008

Although the loss of a beautiful diamond - his brilliance will never fade.

D.L. ZIMMERMAN

June 4, 2008

REST IN PEACE, MEL FERRER

Harry Simpson

June 4, 2008

Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.

sheri stich

June 4, 2008

You lived a long life...see you on the other side some day...my prayers are with your family

June 4, 2008

I am sorry to hear of Mr Ferrer's
passing. May he have peace and may the Lord's blessing of comfort be with you.

David Packer

June 3, 2008

I am so sorry to learn of the passing of Mr. Ferrer. He leaves behind a great legacy through his work. My sympathy to his family. Rest in peace, Mr. Ferrer.

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