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Jeffrey Ossen Obituary

OSSEN--Jeffrey Peter, Esq. of Mansfield Center and Singer Island, FL died peacefully with his beloved family at his side Sunday (September 16, 2007), at Beth Israel Deaconness Medical Center, Boston, MA, from complications of the kidney cancer he had so courageously fought with superb humor the last three years. Mr. Ossen was the son of the late Harry and Jessie Ossen of Torrington, CT. He was a graduate of Torrington High School, the University of Connecticut, and Harvard Law School. He also held a Masters Degree in political science from UConn. Soon after graduation from law school Jeff returned to eastern Connecticut where he became active in town and state politics, practiced real estate and family law and became a well known developer, mobile home park owner, and philanthropist. Jeff had been in the manufactured housing business for 35 years and was a recognized leader in the industry. He was the founder of the Connecticut Manufactured Housing Association and served as its first president and continued as a member of its board. Previously, he was president of the New England Manufactured Housing Association, which was terminated in 1995 by agreement of all so that individual state associations might take its place. His term as president of NEMA was the longest of any person ever serving in that office. Beginning in 1967 with one 13 space park on a gravel road in Mansfield Center, Jeff built a manufactured housing company with communities in three states, composed of almost 900 sites. Prior to his decision in 1981 to devote full time to manufactured housing, Jeff practiced law in Mansfield. This followed a stint as Assistant Professor of Business Law at the University of Connecticut in Storrs. In prior years, he was a member of the Mansfield Town Council and also Mansfield's Deputy Mayor. He later served as chair of the E. O. Smith High School's building committee at the time it became independent of UConn and was designated Region 19. Subsequent to that, he was a member and chair of the Windham Region Transit District. A believer in community service, Jeff was a longtime member of the board of Windham Hospital in Willimantic, currently serving as Treasurer and chair of its finance committee. School children in the Windham and North Windham school districts benefited from his generous music programs. He was a strong patron of the opera, C.A.R.E., and numerous other charitable and political organizations. Mr. Ossen leaves behind his wife, Eileen (Moran) Ossen of Mansfield Center, CT his children: Carolyn Ossen of Stamford, CT, Jacqueline (Ossen) Berkowitz and her husband Mark and beloved grandchildren Haley and Zachary of West Hartford, CT, Elizabeth Ossen, her partner John Hebert and grandchild Marissa of Enfield, NH; his joyously anticipated grandchild; his sister Harriet Zomback and her husband Robert of Highland Park, NJ; a devoted nephew, Neal Zomback and wife Travon, children Harold, Aaron, Jason and Hannah of Cheshire; a cousin Neil Ossen of West Hartford, CT, a cousin Regina of Baltimore, MD; and Leslie of Beverly Hills, FL; two stepchildren Sara Godere of Mystic, CT and Eric Godere of Willimantic, CT; as well as several important sisters and brothers-in-law, friends, and acquaintances too numerous to list but all of whom he thoroughly enjoyed. Funeral services were held Tuesday, September 18th at Temple B'Nai Israel, in Willimantic. A Memorial Service will be held on Sunday September 30 at 1pm at Windham Hospital, main entrance, Shea building in the atrium. Reception will follow. Memorial contributions may be made to the Kidney Cancer Association, 1234 Sherman Ave. Ste 203, Evanston, IL 60202-1375, Windham Hospital Foundation, Inc., 112 Mansfield Ave., Willimantic, CT 06226 or the Jeffrey P. Ossen Family Foundation, PO Box 215, No. Windham, CT 06256. Arrangements entrusted to Weinstein Mortuary, Hartford , CT.

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Published by New York Times on Sep. 23, 2007.

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Harold M. Bates

September 23, 2007

I never met Jeffrey Ossen, but yet I feel that I've known him for years; he was a truly wonderful person. His sister Harriet and brother-in-law,Bob, are members of my Temple (Anshe Emeth, New Brunswick. (I never met Harriet or Bob, but maybe I should!) I saw Jeff's death announcement on Anshe Emeth's website and I immediately researched him and found that there was something very special about him. He was definitely, without doubt, a first-class, top-of-the-line, extraordinary MENSCH. He was an outstanding human being. He was "one of a kind." A truly unique person. I admire Jeff, because he got what he wanted in his magnificent life by helping other people get what they wanted in their lives. This philosophy worked for Jeff, and it has worked for me. And it is working for many young people that I have been mentoring. I am writing a lengthy essay on how to be a Mensch and change the world in a positive direction. I will include Jeffrey Peter Ossen in my essay.
For those who want to know the definition of a Mensch, here is one that I picked up in Rosten's "The Joys of Yiddish:"
A Mensch is someone to admire and emulate, someone of noble character. The key to being “a real mensch” is nothing less than character, rectitude, dignity, a sense of what is right, responsible, decorous.

alfred demasi

September 21, 2007

jeff was a classmate at north school in torrington and also a member of my 1958 graduating class at torrington high school..while planning our 50 th high school reunion we were so happy to find jeff in our searching of classmates.unfortunatly we were sadden to find that two days later we learned of his passing...from the class of 1958 ,THS, our depest sympathy to family and friends.
signed a.j.demasi

Martin & Lucille Guzauskas

September 20, 2007

Until we meet again, "Farewell old friend".

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