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Joan Miller Obituary

MILLER--Joan, age 56, on October 23, 2007, passed peacefully at home after a long illness surrounded by her loving husband John, daughter Erin and son Zachary. Daughter of Mortimer and Shirley Feinberg, sister of Jay and Larry Feinberg, she defined her life with a relentless commitment to her family. Hers was a rich life filled with many loyal friendships. She will be dearly missed and never forgotten. Funeral services on Thursday, October 25, at 11:45am at Riverside Memorial Chapel.

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Published by New York Times from Oct. 24 to Oct. 25, 2007.

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Adrian Hirsh

October 27, 2007

John,
I am devastated by Joan's passing. I had no idea of her illness or death until I read the obituary.
As a kid from the Bronx transferring to The Franklin School that freckle face was the first that greeted me. We were inseparable from then on. It was also the first face I saw at my Dad's funeral which sadly was in the same room as Joan's funeral on Thursday. She flew in from Boston shy of 19 years old to be there.
By the time I arrived on Thursday I was told over 350 people were in the main room and when I entered the ante room there were over 150 people there.
My regrets of over close to a decade of separation are insurmountable.
I speak to her now and tell her I miss her and I am sorry.
John, you were always one of my favorite husbands. The last person to deserve this torture.
I mourn along with you and Zach and Erin.
I'll call you in a couple of weeks.
much love,
Adrian

Jojo Landow

October 27, 2007

An incredible role model, the most generous caring person. Joan's unique selflessness and ability to care for others will never be forgotten. We feel so fortunate to have had Joan in our lives. We will always be here for John, Erin and Zach. We love you. Love, Mona, Gary, Jojo and Katie

Kristin G.

October 27, 2007

Erin, Zack & Mr. Miller,
Through Erin I have seen Joan, and everyone at MTV is praying for you all, and for her spirit. We saw it on Thursday, the grace and courage you all showed was the most touching thing we've ever encountered. Our hearts go out to you in this time and may you rejoice in her memory.

Stephanie Allen

October 25, 2007

Dear John, Zach and Erin,

The Tichners and by extension, Feinbergs, Millers and the rest of your magnificent clan have always been the epitome of FAMILY to me. Seeing you all together today at Joan's service, deeply feeling the love you have for one another is a tonic of hope for the world we live in today.

Joani's life raises the bar for the rest of us - to love a bit more, reach out a bit more, give a bit more - be present with each moment of our day, but especially with each person in our lives.

My heart opens to you and all who are dear to you.

With love and respect,
Stephanie Allen (Jane Birnbaum's daughter)

Harriette Kanew

October 25, 2007

John, Zach and Erin,

Our deepest sympathy ---
It is a major loss to all of us who were lucky enough to have known her even peripherally.

Our thoughts are with you...

Harriette & Justin Kanew

Andrea Pannelli

October 25, 2007

Dearest John, Erin and Zach,

My heart is broken for each of you.
Today was an exceptionally beautiful tribute to an exceptionally beautiful woman.
My many memories of my friendship with Joan are some of the fondest.
She will always remain in my heart as a person of love, loyalty and strength.
May God love you and keep you in His care always.

Peter, Barbara, and Clementine Shelsky

October 25, 2007

John, Erin, and Zach,

Our hearts are very heavy on this day for you and your whole family. We will miss Joan for the amazing person she was, and will always remember her for the great friend, wife, and mother she was committed to being. Our heartfelt love, sympathy and condolences.

Linda/Alan Melnick/Hirschhorn

October 25, 2007

Our deepest sympathy to the family of a very special woman. Our thoughts are with you at this very difficult time.

Alan Hirsh

October 25, 2007

John, I am so sorry to hear about Joan's death. I remember our times together and I know how very sad and shocked Adrian is.

Mike Altschul

October 25, 2007

John & Family,
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

Janet Fisher

October 25, 2007

Dear John, Zach and Erin:

My deepest sympathy to the family. I remember sharing times and laughing with Joanie on all the wonderful days we had watching Zach and our daughter Morgan grow up together from nursery through college. You will be missed and thought of constantly. Our thoughts are always with you. Love Janet, Robert and Morgan Fisher

nathan apfelbaum

October 24, 2007

my deepest condolences are sent to joan,s entire family. i remember her sitting next to me at my bar-mitzvah in 1963.nathan r. apfelbaum(boca-raton,florida)

Eileen Aluska

October 24, 2007

Dear John and Family:
My hearfelt condolences go out to you and your family. I worked very closely with Joan in the building in which she resided that she loved so much. I will have many fond memories of her.

CAROLE GLICKMAN

October 24, 2007

OUR THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU AND THE FAMILY AT THIS VERY SAD TIME - WE WILL FOREVER REMEMBER BEAUTIFUL JOANIE
LOVE
CAROLE AND HERB GLICKMAN

Stacey Mandel Milton

October 24, 2007

To: John, Zach and Erin,
I am deeply saddened by Joan's passing. She and I went to the Franklin school together. I have many fond memories of her. I can see her standing in her blue and white Courreges dress and white boots in the 60's. A group of us would go to a dance almost every Friday and Saturday night. They were wonderful times. She will be missed. She will never be forgotten.

Gloria Katz-Amoroso

October 24, 2007

To Joan's Family,
I was so very sorry to hear of Joans passing. We both went to Franklin school and thats where I know her from. Although we weren't
close, I have wonderful memories of her. She was alot of fun.
Sincerely, Gloria Katz-Amoroso

Pamilla Blue

October 24, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy is extended to John, Zach and Erin on the passing of a beautiful, loving wife and Mother. Your family was a part of my life for 28 wonderful years and I will always treasure the memories. She will be missed.
Pam and Greg Blue

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