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for James DiMartino
Marion Joy DiMartino
October 20, 2009
It is one year ago today that your life was cut short. I love you James from the deepest place inside of my soul. I miss your warmth, hugs, dimples and your dynamite smile. Life without you is a loss of indescribable proportions. Each and every day I am on this earth I will feel a void without you ............. Until we are united again in heaven, your loving mother
The Mannino Family
March 6, 2009
Our paths with Jim and Diane crossed for the first time in 1995. We had just purchased the property next to their new home, and our journey began…
Rob and I are both 44 years old, and between the two of us, we have had many people enter as well as exit our lives. It never occurred to either of us that Jim would not be there. He was a part of our lives every day whether it be a wave from his driveway or a dinner out. His daily presence for us, taken for granted, which is what everyone tends to do with people in their lives. There is a sense of comfort from seeing your neighbors drive past you on their way to work or taking their children to baseball or volleyball. That sense of normalcy, and comfort, and security changed the day Jim died. He was a great friend to us and our children. Our memories of him are many. They run the gamut from funny to unbelievable. We miss him very much.
Anyone who knew Jim could see that he was not a man who did anything half-heartedly. He could become obsessive, to be quite honest. He could drive a person crazy, just ask Diane! His ambitions were great, he always thought BIG! His Christmas displays were unrivaled. He painstakingly took weeks to complete them. He fueled our son’s interest in creating a display worthy to stand along side his. He and Chris would start early on Saturday morning, getting bagels and juice (Jim didn’t need coffee!!), and get to work, often times until 10:00 in the evening. Jim wore a path to ACE Hardware in the time leading up to Christmas. He was patient as he taught Chris to wire the strands of lights together. Who could forget looking outside my bedroom window and seeing Jim’s face staring back at me from the cherry picker on our front lawn? He was thinking BIG!! 25 foot illuminated Christmas trees! The lights were so bright we used to tell Jim that we had to go to sleep with blindfolds on to block the brightness of his handiwork!! Or when we thought we were going to have to take him to the hospital after he got hit on the head from a piece of plywood that fell from his hot-air balloon display? Especially at Christmas time Jim will always be in our hearts. Christopher will always have admiration for Jim and his unbridled enthusiasm.
Enthusiasm usually is a good character trait. However, in Jim’s case it could get him into trouble. He had the not look before he leaped kind of enthusiasm. Everything was done in a rush without the hint of potential danger ahead. This was most definitely his thought process on that infamous winter night many years ago when he had to go to the hospital for hypothermia! Who does NOT know of the satellite dish story? This was classic Jim. Who else would go out on the roof in an ice storm all for the sake of the reception of a basketball game? Who else could be stuck on a roof in an ice storm and throw snowballs while yelling “hello?” instead of yelling “HELP I’M STUCK ON THE ROOF!!”? Our one and only Jim DiMartino. Again, because of one of his bright ideas, we had an enormous truck on our front lawn; only this time to pluck Jim off of the roof!! He did have an audience though, all the neighbors drove down to the court to watch the extraction of the man without a coat or socks stuck on the roof! Someone even made popcorn! Even though Diane warned him she would not help him if he got stuck on the roof (she didn’t, but she did video it), she did follow the ambulance to the hospital and refrained from calling him ***** until after she knew he was alright. Unbelievable, yet classic Jim AND Diane.
We have many memories of Jim, some funny, others not, but memories just the same. All of these memories are stored away. He taught us all life lessons whether he was conscious of it or not. He was a great friend and left an impact on our entire family. We loved him and we miss him enormously.
Joseph Costa
February 1, 2009
Dear Donna
I've just learned of James' passing.
I'm so very sorry for your loss,my
prayers are with you and your family
Bruce Rubino
January 22, 2009
A wonderful man farther, Son , husband ,brother to all and a good person was Jim. Rest in peace Jim and all that read this peace to you all who loved him. With all respect. Happy birthday to you . I write this to you on my birthday . While in heaven say hello to my mother she died on my birthday. Peace to you all. Your friend Bruce
January 17, 2009
Steve, Joan and Charles Fradella
January 17, 2009
We'll never forget James in his apron and chef's hat, cooking eggs for the wonderful Christmas brunch. Our fondest memory is of James riding our jet ski with a grin so big that his dimples had dimples. James, we will miss laughing with you. Our hearts and prayers are with your family.
Brother & Sister, bonded together for all eternity
Donna DiMartino
January 16, 2009
HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN
Dear James, by dear, sweet, baby brother. You are my only sibling, and I miss you so very much. I carry your memory in my heart always. Sunday is your birthday. I will never forget you, you will always be with me. You are my special Angel, watching over us all, the ones that you love. We will be together again, some day. I love you, Love, Donna
Diane Rechner
December 26, 2008
Dear Diane and Children,
When I called cousin Kenny recently, he told me about Jimmy's tragic death. My heart goes out to you and the children. If you need a break and want to visit me in Tamarac, FL, youi can use my home while I work. I'm so very sorry to hear of your shocking loss. You are in my prayers. Love, Diane
Joanne
November 22, 2008
Although I did not know James personally, I feel that I missed someone special. All of the kind words and happy memories are a tribute to is short life. I'm sure he has left all of his good qualities in each of his girls and his life will live on in their smiles.
God Bless you and your family.
Jennifer
November 19, 2008
I did not the pleasure to know James DiMartino, but, I feel compelled to express my heartfelt sympathy, thoughts and prayers to James' wife and daughters, his mother, sister and all those that so love him.
May James rest in peace and may you all know that James is now your special angel.
With heartfelt sympathy
Catherine Ruinsky
November 19, 2008
*Uncle Mingy*
You held me as a baby. You heard my first two words. You rocked me in my cradle. You sang me right to sleep. I threw flowers at your wedding and made sure to steal the cake. You watched me at my dance recitals, you even saw my school plays. Me and Amanda would play dress up and we laughed the night away. We’d eat popcorn on your favorite couch while you watched the Yankee game. You’d take Amanda and Ashley down to grandma’s and watch us run around in all her clothes. We’d have sleepovers and eat ice cream before bed, I’m sure those nights you hate the most. We’d jump and scream and wake you up in all hours of the night. But, even though you got no sleep you’d run out and get us bagels. As the years went by you began to multiply and now we’re up to four. Your girls are beautiful and share your smile, it’s something we all adore. I never really appreciated all the things you did for me. You were always there when I needed help and could always comfort me. You tried to do so much for your family, Your children will always carry with them a piece of you in their hearts. We will see that loving smile of yours plastered on their face. I promise to be there for them as you have been for me. Never will we be far apart, Uncle Mingy, I will never let go of all the love, that you have given me.
I love you for everything you did for me. You are an amazing person and i will always remember the good times I had with you. You are a wonderful father and your children are going to grow up happy and wonderful. They will always be loved and will never be alone. There are so many people in this world who love your children, your wife, and your entire family who will always offer their support and love. You are in my heart everyday and I promise I will always do what I can to be there for your girls. I promise I will always make you proud.
Audrey Lopez
November 16, 2008
Diane,
I just heard about your familys loss. I am so very sorry. If you need anything just email me or call me. Liz has my number as well as my email address.
Disney Cruise
November 14, 2008
Jim loved his corn. His 6th one that day!
November 14, 2008
Chuck and Mary Ward
November 11, 2008
To the DiMartino Family,
My wife and I want to express our deepest condolences to your family for the tragic loss of an extraordinary young man.
We fondly remember June 23, 1989 like it was yesterday. Marion held a celebration at the Courtyard in Garden City, New York to celebrate James receiving his Juris Doctorate. As usual, James lit up the room with that million dollar smile. His excitement about entering the practice of law was contagious and we all felt immense pride and had a glorious time on this perfect night of celebration.
For those who don’t know, I worked with Marion for many years and there was never a meeting when she neglected to update everyone on the many achievements of James. I first met James in person during his undergraduate freshman year when Marion brought James along for a business lunch in New Jersey. As Marion and James walked through the parking lot of the restaurant I noticed that James stepped around a puddle from a recent rain. I commented to Marion that based upon her previous comments I was surprised that James could not walk on water. This light-hearted, teasing comment defined each subsequent meeting and perfectly epitomized Marion’s feelings about her son. Over the next 24 years it accurately represented my feelings about James as well. He was a loving, caring individual and whenever I was fortunate to see or speak to James, my spirits were always lifted by his great sense of humor. His eternal optimism, friendly nature and that great smile were just a few of his gifts to the world.
Although we must acknowledge the void that James leaves, particularly in the lives of his young family, we also need to acknowledge the joy that he brought everyone during his too-short life. I will spend the rest of my life with the firm conviction that James did indeed “walk on water.”
Our prayers are with you.
Nancy (Moleti) Petschauer
November 4, 2008
My sincerest sympathy goes out to your family. I remember James from Hauppauge High School as a great, fun-loving guy. I hope you have wonderful memories that will always keep him alive in spirit.
Terry and Jerry Coleman
November 1, 2008
Dear Marion and family,
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Both Jerry and I love you and will be there for you, always.
Much love,
Lisa Adams-Fradella
October 29, 2008
My heart aches for the family my cousin left behind; his loving wife, his four beautiful girls, Mom, sister, and the list goes on to include you who are reading this.
My earliest memory of James was him dunking me under the water in his pool in the backyard. I'd known him since birth, and though we did not share the same blood, we couldn't be more "family".
When I close my eyes, I remember his dimples, his baseball uniform; and his ability to have a conversation in under a minute.
We'll miss you cousin; more than any words can say; but we will meet again; therein lies my hope.
May the grace of God comfort all who mourn.........
My love and prayers,
Cousin Lisa
Lorraine Visco
October 29, 2008
Diane and girls,
We wanted to let you know that we were thinking of you. We are so sorry that this happened. We are glad that we got to know all of you through Jean & Glen. Glen means a lot to our family and you mean a lot to his! So you are family to us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls. I wish we could do something or say something to help make this better for you and the girls but know that we can't. God bless you all!!
Gerard, Lorraine, Thomas, Nicole & Lauren
Thomas & Jacqueline Healy and Family
October 29, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Steve Black
October 28, 2008
DiMartino family:
I Remember James from 2 differnt times in his life-1st as a student in my physical education classes in Hauppauge, then again as a baseball player in the Hauppauge public schools.
As a student/athlete in gym class, he was a joy to have-respectful, well behaved, personable, and a good athlete. As a baseball player, he was very hard working, and a starting player. I always found him nice to be around, and a credit to his team with good work ethic and team values. I am very saddened by what happened, and will never forget him as he was definitely a class guy. I wish I could have had contact with him as an adult-and seen what a terrific adult he turned out to be. My sincere condolences to the family.
Maria and Ray Ufret
October 28, 2008
To the DiMartino Family,
My husband and I want to express our deepest condolences to your family. Although we did not know Mr. DiMartino personally, our grandaughter, Alexia is best friend to Alana. Alexia has been welcomed into your home many times and has spoken very well about your entire family including Mr. DiMartino. I pray that you find the peace during this stressful time. Just hug and love your daughters every day and take one day at a time.
Faryn Solomon
October 27, 2008
To the DiMartinos,
I know that this must be very hard on you all. I will always be here for all of you for anything. We can get through this.
Love always,
Faryn Solomon
Gina (Bamonte) Ayasse
October 27, 2008
Dear Diane and your beautiful girls:
I am so sorry for your loss. May the love and memories of Jimmy give you the strength to get through this difficult time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Sam Ziegler
October 26, 2008
Dear Dimartinos,
I am so sorry for your loss. Amanda you are a great friend and we have some pretty funny times together! I hope you feel better and my family and I are here for you.
Darlene Williams
October 26, 2008
To the DiMartino Family-
I worked for JPMorgan Chase in our Woodcliff Lake Branch for Subprime Mortgages. I spoke with your husband almost everyday, He was such a kind guy and funny and always had a upbeat attitude. I was the person who would transfer his money to him, so he was always excited when I told him good news. I must say he worked hard and spoke of his family often. I never met him in person, but I do recall him because he was kind. May God Bless you & your family during this time and put your faith in God that he will bring you comfort.
Frank Fradella
October 26, 2008
When I was a kid, maybe eight or nine years old, I was on a show called Wonderama (with your host, Bob McAllister). I was there with my cousin and maybe one or two other people whose names and faces elude me.
At one point, Bob came around with the microphone, asking us on live TV who we'd like to be when we grew up. It all happened very fast and when the microphone was thrust in my face, I said the first thing that came to my mind. I said, "My cousin, James."
Now, I'm sure that I looked up to him and all, but even in the scant seconds after it happened, I looked at him like, "Yeah, I have no idea where that came from. I choked." We had a good laugh about it and the ribbing from that answer lasted me through my teen years. I think I'm the only one who remembers it now.
A few minutes ago my father called to tell me that James was dead, leaving us at the ripe young age of 44.
I saw James just a few months ago and he gave me a big hug. We talked for maybe five seconds before one of us had to leave. It had always been like that with James. Since we'd hit high school, it was always hit and run.
We're a long, long way from Wonderama.
My deepest sympathies to his family, and to all of us who feel the loss.
Kerin Grisanti
October 26, 2008
DiMartino family,
I know how hard this loss must be on your family. I am so sorry, and hope that the memories will allow you to continue to heel. I will always be here for anything you may need in the future. lots of love
michele lamberg
October 26, 2008
To Diane and your beautiful girls,
Our sincere and heartfelt sympathy go out to all of you! May your found memories always be with you!
The Lamberg Family
Jenna Santoriello
October 26, 2008
DiMartino Family,
I am terribly sorry about your loss. My family and I will always be here for you. Amanda your a great friend and we share so many memories. I will always be here for you and your family if you need me.
Amanda McGuire
October 25, 2008
Dear Dimartino's,
I want all of you to know that I am here for you and you are in my prayers. I am sorry for your loss and anything you need you can ask me. Amanda you are my best friend and you always will be.
Andrea DiMartino Norris
October 25, 2008
Uncle Joe, Janice, Donna, Marion, Diane and kids
My greatest memory of James was the way he said “Uncle Andy” when we were kids. We were new to New York and his accent impressed me at 13. Although I never got the opportunity to know James, the man, I know the place he held in all your hearts and in the spirit of the family. Sometimes we get such a short time with the ones we love. Our hearts go out to you.
Andrea
Roger Grothmann
October 25, 2008
Please accept my condolences for your loss.James was a great friend.We played together all the time.He was like a little brother to me.He always had a smile and loved to be adventurous.We hope you will find support in all who loved him.
Ray Pesante
October 24, 2008
To the entire DiMartino family, I wish to express my deepest sympathies and most sincere condolences to you all. I knew Jimmy as a co-worker, a teammate and a friend. May God's strength and His guidance be with you in this time of sorrow. As Jimmy's friends, we are here for all of you. God bless you and yours.
Nancy DiMartino
October 24, 2008
Dear DiMartino family,
Your loss must be unbearable. James had his whole life ahead of him. His daughters have now been robbed of their father - how senseless is that? I can't even imagine what his wife is going through. Although I lived nearby, briefly many years ago, you have always been in my heart and thoughts. And now my heart is heavy for you, all of you. So, Aunt Marion, Uncle Joey, Donna, Diane and your girls, I will keep you in my prayers and hope the time will come soon that you will be able to remember all the good that came from loving James in the short time he had on this earth. What makes no sense to us makes perfect sense to God. May God bless and keep you. My thoughts, prayers and love are with. Your niece and cousin - Augie's other daughter.
Stewart Haug
October 24, 2008
Dear DiMartino Family,
I was shocked and sorry to hear about James. I grew up with him and enjoyed spending time and hanging out with him when we were younger. We all had many great times together and all got into a lot of trouble together; I remember him fondly. I just want to express my deepest sympathy at your time of loss, I will remember him fondly always and know that my prayers are with you all in your time of grief.
Sincerely,
Stewart
RAY & TINA FRADELLA
October 24, 2008
Dear Marion, Diane, Donna & Children
Our loss is too great for words. We
are so very sorry we could not be there with you. James will always be in our prayers, as well as all the rest of the family. ALL OUR LOVE RAY & TINA
Elizabeth LoPue
October 24, 2008
Diane,
I am so sorry for your loss. If you need anything please call me. I mean anything...Even if it is a shoulder to cry on or someone to watch the little ones for a few hours...
Love, Liz
Lee Ann Sentochnik
October 24, 2008
Diane - I am a friend of Diana Whiting - we met at the Summer Run this summer ... I can not tell you how sorry I am for your loss - I can not even imagine what you are going through - but please know that my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your entire family - may God Bless you all...Love, Lee Ann Sentochnik
Susan Joynes
October 24, 2008
To the family of Jim DiMartino,
I am so sorry for your loss. Girls, I am there for you if you need to talk. This is such a senseless, brutal end to what was obviously a wonderful life. God bless your family.
Bryan Frankel
October 24, 2008
Jim was a great person to work with at legal aid society. Energetic and personable. I am so sorry
Brenda Hertzendorf
October 24, 2008
Dear Marion & Family,
Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. May your happy memories of James comfort you.
Brenda & Jay Hertzendorf - Brooklyn, NY
Gene Sarchiapone
October 24, 2008
sorry Jim. ( Joe is my son.)
Donna DiMartino
October 23, 2008
James, I saw you today so still and quiet and that is not how I remember you. Always full of life and smiling with your dimples.
God took my sweet brother too early, we don't know why. There is a hole in my heart forever. An innocent superman, a loving husband and daddy, a terrific son and brother and a friend to so many.
We miss you already, keep smiling up in heaven, until we meet again.
God bless Diane and the girls. I love you, your loving sister Donna.
Joan Lacy
October 23, 2008
To the DiMartino Family,
Your pain must be unbearable. My prayer for you all is that the pain of this tragedy be brief and that soon when you think of James it will be of the good times.This world has gotten crazy, and what has happened is so hard to process. I pray for those four little ones and for their mother too, they are the real victims and this will never make sense. sincerely, your cousin Joan
( Augie's oldest daughter)
Gene Sarchiapone
October 23, 2008
All of Joe's friends at the Legal Aid Society are deeply saddened.
David Dixon
October 23, 2008
Dear Marion & Family
Please accept our deepest sympathy
to you and your entire family.You are
in our thoughts and prayers. May you
feel comfort in knowing God is with
you at this time.
David & Sally Dixon (Hamden,CT.)
chet doxey
October 23, 2008
to the dimartino family sorry to hear about james went to school with him as well as worked with him was a very fun person to talk with made everyone laugh may god be with you through this time and for ever
Patti Putko
October 23, 2008
Dear Marion, and Family, My Deepest Sympathy to you and the Family. May God surround all of you at this very sad time. You are in my Prayers. Much Love, Patti Putko
Michelle Labuski
October 23, 2008
May happy memories ease your pain during this difficult time. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest sympathies on your tragic loss.
Brenda Hinshaw
October 23, 2008
To the DiMartino Family,
Please know the thoughts and prayers of my family are with all of you during this time. May God's Love & Peace surround all of you.
Many happy memories of Hauppauge, Kismet & Oklahoma.
God Bless,
Brenda (Kelly) Hinshaw
Marlene & Sid Saltzman
October 23, 2008
We remember all the Sunday dinners at your parent's house and the wonderful Xmas breakfasts that you worked so hard at... All our fond memories of you and your sister being with our boys. May you rest in peace, James. Our thoughts and prayers are with your wife, daughters, mother, father and sister. Love, Aunt Marlene & Uncle Sid
Christine Puma
October 23, 2008
We are so sorry to here of your loss. Know our thoughts and prayers are with all of you, May God be with you during this very difficult time. May your memories bring you comfort.
With great sympathy,
Christine, Christian & Christian Jr.
Jennifer & Ben Lessner
October 23, 2008
Dear Uncle Joe & Aunt Janice,
Our deepest sympathy's for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Much Love,
Susan Chiuchiolo
October 23, 2008
Dear Diane & Girls,
My deepest sympathy to you and your whole family. I have wonderful memories of James from childhood that will last forever. May your memories of him help you get through this difficult time. Diane, unfortunately I know what you are going through. I am here for you if you EVER need ANYTHING. My prayers are with you all. God Bless! Susan (Dacey) Chiuchiolo
Jeanette Henderson
October 23, 2008
Dear Joe & Family
Our Deepest Sympathy to you and your entire family. Please know that you are in our prayers. May the Lord give you what you need one day at a time.
Your Friend
Jeanette & family
Irene & Don
October 23, 2008
When you were a little boy with beaufiful dimples in both cheeks we loved you.When you scraped your spoon in your cereal bowl we loved you.May you rest in peace.We love you.
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