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mom and poppy Ilardi
November 1, 2009
Good Night Son, This will be the last entry as the book will be over tomorrow Nov. 2 Stay well and be happy Love Mom and poppy
Mom and Poppy Ilardi
October 31, 2009
Good Morning Son, Today is Halloween and I am sure we will have a lot of kids coming to the door. Son I have not gotten any pennies from you, are you still sending them to me.?
This book is about redy to close and I will not be writing to you but you know I always talk to you anyway during the day. You have no idea how much we miss you. Wish there was someway I could have kept you here on earth with us. I guess our Lord needed a special Angel and he decided to take you, even tho you did it the wrong way. No one will ever know WHY.
We loved you so much in life and now more so in death. The memories of you will never fade neither will our love for you.
Rest well and be happy. Love you forever. Till we meet again. Love and Lots of Kisses Mom and Poppy
mom and poppy Ilardi
October 22, 2009
Hello Son How are you ? It has been a long and lonely year with you being gone. I still dont believe it. I look at your pictures and see how happy you were. I wish I could see you one more time. I see you pulling up to the driveway smiling and asking what smells so good. I'll never hear you speak those words. I'll never hear you say hello mother hello father.
Its been a tough year but you know we love you still. Have a happy and blessed day today. Love mom and Poppy
Till we meet again know we miss you very very much.
October 15, 2009
Good Morning Son, Today is your birthday and the first one in Heaven. I hope you are sharing your birthday cake with your family and frienda. I wish you were here sharing it with us. Well we are pretty much settled. still going thru some boxes. Sal and your sister Pat have been a big help as well. your Poppy sends his love and kisses ss well as wishing you a Happy Birthday.
Love u till we meet again, Keep throwing those pennies down to us.
mom and poppy
mom and poppy Ilardi
September 29, 2009
Hi Son, Just thinking about as always, I still love u very much even tho my heart is broken. I am wrapping your things M * M motorcycle and picturers and I am so sad that u are not here. I Just had to write today and tell u how much I miss you. Love and kisses never to be forgotten. Mom and Poppy
mom and Poppy Ilardi
September 22, 2009
Good Morning Son, How are You doing today? It has beeen 11 months and the pain is still as strong as ever. Anthony, You always said the Lord closes one door and opens another, why didnt you wait for the other door to open?? cannot tell you how much we miss you,we
loved you inlife and now in death
Everything is going ok for now
just remember we love you anow and forever. Till we meet again stay well
Ann & joe Ilardi
September 16, 2009
Good Morning Son How are you doing? We are ok. Had a busy week spent it by Joe and teris in Islip. Paul and Angela got married. Joe and Teri put us up me Dad Aunt Chubs and the 3 boys.
It was great seeing Joes boys cant beleive how big they got 2 joe and Mike have girlfriends too. Paul and Angela were married this past weekend and the wedding was great Wish u had been there. Russ and Lisa were there too. We are moving again and I am packing again. I am tryig to write whatever comes to mind. You have no idea how much we miss you. Every day goes by and I am talking to you. I hpe you hear me. I still cant beleive what happened. I have part of you with us but it still is not enough We wish you were stillhere. You are always in hearts. Well I guess that is all for now. I will write again. Till we meet again always remember we Love you very much. Love Mom and Poppy
mom and poppy Ilardi
August 23, 2009
Hi Ant, The first time I wrote didnt come up. it was written in the AM of Aug 22 10 months since your gone. I still cannot believe your gone. No more whats for dinner or it smells so good in here. No more lov and kisses from you No more anything from you.
Just know poppy and I loved you dearly in life and moreso in death love and kisses always
Mom and poppy rest in peace
mom and Poppy Ilardi
August 22, 2009
Hi Ant, I wrote to u early this am not sure why they didnt release it yet. but we love you in life and now in death Will write again
mom and poppy ilardi
August 9, 2009
Hi Ant, Thinking about you all the time. I just cant get over what happened. It is still not real. I talk to myself all day wondering what happened. I wished you would have called before you did this. Any way the hurt just gets stronger every day will it ever ease up. Know we love u so much in life and in death. Till we meet again Love mom and poppy
mom and pop Ilardi
July 22, 2009
Good Morning son, how are you doing? are you looking at us? we talk to u everyday sometimes 2 and 3 times asking he same question and you knw what that question is. I dont have to repeat it. it is 9 months today and soon it will be a year that I have not talk to you in person that is. I hope you are ok. Please send me a sign so I know all is ok and that you are happy. Again we miss you more and more each day. and still wondering why?????????????Love and kisses are sent to you everyday. Love Mom and Poppy
Mom & Poppy Ilardi
June 22, 2009
Good Morning Son, Yes today is the 22 8 months today, I still can't believe it. I still have no clousure. I guess I never will. I wish I knew why and if there was anything we could have done to prevent this. Again we will never know. We miss you more and more each day. Time does not heal for us. It only gets worse. Love you very much. Sending you love and kisses from me and daddy. Till we meet again.
Mom & Pops Ilardi
June 13, 2009
i did it again, Wanting to wish you a happy name day. and the message always wipes out. Hope this one goes thru. Today is St. Anthony and we are wishing you a Happy Name day. Missing you a whole lot more as every day goes by. The pain in my heart is never ending. Love you so much wish you were still here. Love Mom and Pops
6/13/09
Mom and poppy Ilardi
June 13, 2009
Good Morning Son How are you today?? We are ok. Today is your name day, Happy name day. You are not here to share bread but Iwill have a piece for you. We are still missing you and time does not heal for me. It is so terrible that you are not here and we are still wondering why why why, I have no answers I want you to know we love and miss you so much. Till we meet again Happy name day. Love mom and poppy
ann ilardi
May 22, 2009
Hi Son, Today is May 22, 7 months and my heart is still falling apart. And it will never mend. Missing u so much. Rest in peace my son. Love mom and poppy
mom and poppy ilardi
April 22, 2009
Good Morning Son, another month has passed and it still so unreal that you are not with us. 6 months u are gone and I still cannot figure out why why why? Daddy and I talk about this situtation and neither one of us can find a reason. . I think of you every monment and know we love u dearly. Rest in peace. till we meet again love mom and poppy
Mom & Poppy Ilardi
April 12, 2009
Good Morning Son, Today is Easter Sunday and it is another day without you.
Praying for you every day and hope you have found peace. We love you and always will. Happy Easter in Heaven.
Love Mom and Poppy
April 3, 2009
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ann Ilardi
April 2, 2009
Hi Son, JUst to keep u updated with Daddy
He walked 20 steps with his new"legs" Hoping he keeps up the good work. Keep smiling at your Dad and we love you. If there was a giant bean stalk I would come and get you. Love mom and poppy
Ann Ilardi
April 2, 2009
I am Tonys Mom and I saw new picturers of Tony, Do not know who put them in the photo album, But thank you from the bottom of my heart. He looked so happy in these pictures
Pat Ilardi
March 22, 2009
It is hard to believe it is already 5 months since you are gone. It is still so surreal.
Big Sis
Mom and poppy Ilardi
March 22, 2009
Good Morning,How are you?
Are u riding your bike with Glenn?
Everything good here, nothing to new.
Of corse you know we are still missing you very much, if there was anyway I could bring you back I would.
Today it is 5 months you are with our Lord. Stay in peace and i will write again Love Mom & Poppy
Mom Ilardi
March 15, 2009
Good Morning Son, How are u doing?? We are fine just missing u more each day. I dont know if the pain will ever go away. And of course the big question is WHY WHY Why?
Well we finally moved and are in an apt. I am comfortable here
and so is Daddy. I can walk to the stores and of course i t is your favorite store who carrys boars head.
Wish u were here and then we could go shopping together.
Glad to have Sal and Joe nearby
Well I will write again. Be happy and peaceful with the Lord.
Love Mom
mom ilardi
February 23, 2009
Good Morning, son Just sending you sad news, your freind Glenn died Sat in a car crash by a drunk driver. I know he will be by your side. in heaven now you have someone to go riding with/ Love You. Mom
Mom and Pops Ilardi
February 22, 2009
Hi son, this is the 3rd time I am writing to u dont know why it is not coming thru. Today is 4 months u r gone and I wanted to write again to let u know that any
way Joe was here this weekend and he went to the drs. with me and daddy. dr. allen explained to him in a different room what is going on with daddy. Now Pat and Joe are on the same page.
we are missing u more each day. They say that time heals all wounds, not in this case. The sadness grows more each day. We are missing u so much. Stay in the arms of the Lord and know we love and miss u very much
Mom & Pops Ilardi
February 22, 2009
Good Morning, It has been 4 months since you are gone and we are missing u so much. They say time heals however it is not true in this case.
Joe was here this weekend and he went with us to Dr. Allen After Dr. looked at daddys stump and said he looks great, he took Joe into another room and explained Daddys case to him. Of course Joe will not tell me what he said, but at least Pat and Joe are now on the same page. we miss u like crazy and hope u are doing well in the arms of our Lord.
Stay in the grace of our Lord. Love u like crazy Mom and Pops
mom ilardi
February 21, 2009
hi son Pat found them I got them back
Love you Mom
mom Ilardi
February 20, 2009
Hi Son, I deleted your guest book that everyione signed by accident. Pat is trying to get it back for me.
Love Mom
ann ilardi
February 20, 2009
Hi Son, I think I deleted all the entries in guest book by accident
I will keep searching for them.
Love Mom
AnnMom Ilardi
February 15, 2009
Good Morning Son, How are you doing??
Well I found an apartment guess where At your favorite store Loews grocery. I can walk to the stores. It is right across from the complex. Big shopping Amiee or Joseph will take me to Walmarts. I just hope I am happy in an Apartment complex.
Just wanted to keep u updated/ Will write again, Missing you so much
Love Mom
Ann & Joe Ilardi
January 31, 2009
Missing you more and more each day.and still wondering WHY WHY WHY
Hope you are doing ok. Love mom and Poppy
1/31/09
ann & joe Ilardi
January 22, 2009
good morning son, 3 months have past and of course we are still confused about this ordeal..i wish there was somthing we could have done tokeep u here. missing you more each day. knowing you are in peace now and in the hands of our Lord
love mom and poppy
January 13, 2009
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Mom and Poppy Ilardi
January 7, 2009
Hi Anthony, Mom here, Just wanted to let you know that we have given up the 2 dogs together to one family. Dont be mad but when I go into an apt. I will not be able to walk Oaklie it is better for the dogs. The family has a female who looks like oaklie and she is fixed. So they should be happy. I miss him also but I need to take care of daddy. Love from me and Poppy.
January 1, 2009
Mom and Poppy Ilardi
January 1, 2009
Hi Son, Happy New Year, Wish u were here. This coming year will be hard without you walking into the house. I wish there was something we could have done to kee u with us.
I know u are in good hands and I should know by now that you are at peace, Daddy and I are still trying to make sense of what happened. OK son, Keep the hands of our Lord wrapped around you and say hello to all that are in heaven with you.
Have a blessed year.
Love Mom and Poppy
LoriAnn Childers
December 31, 2008
Cuz,
Another year over and a new one just begun. It has not gotten any easier for any of us. "Why" is still the question. They say time heals all wounds. I guess we shall see. I wanted to say Happy New Year to you and let you know even though you're not here to wear one of those silly hats my mom used to make us wear every new years eve, I'll still be drinking a glass of cheer to you. Rest in Peace.
LoriAnn
Pat Ilardi
December 25, 2008
Merry Christmas Lil' Bro...
I hope you having fun riding your bike today celebrating Christmas-Heaven should be even more of a beautiful place today.
Love Big Sis
Mom and Poppy Ilardi
December 25, 2008
To our dear son, We are missing you more each day. We wanted to wish you a very Merry Christmas as you spend the day with the Lord and all your relatives and friends..
We think of you often and pray you are now in peace.
Love Mom and Poppy
Nancy Magro
December 24, 2008
My nephew Anthony,
I want to let you know how hard it is to deal with the fact that you are no longer here. The tears I shed for the pain my sister and her husband are going through are never ending. This holiday season will not be the same but in my heart, you will always remain. Love Aunt Chubby
LoriAnn Childers
December 22, 2008
Hey Cuz,
It's almost christmas, the time to share. It won't be the same without you here. A Silent Night it surely will be as I pray for you my cousin Anthony. l'll never know why he took you away, I wish I had the chance to make you stay. The memories I have of you and me will forever be in my heart, they will never leave. I hope the stars are brightly shining upon you. With Love,
Cousin LoriAnn
Mom and Poppy Ilardi
December 22, 2008
Good Morning Son, I cannot beleive it is 2 months since your gone. I still think you are going to walk in the front door. You are safe in the arms of our Lord, and we are still saying why why why. Stay in peace and please watch over Daddy. I know how much u love him. Our pain will never leave us.
Till we meet again, Love Mom and Poppy
December 16, 2008
Gina Stayton
December 5, 2008
What does one mother say to another who has lost a child. There are no words. I haven't written until now as I can't imagine the pain. What could I possibly say. There aren't any words in the world that could even slightly, for one second, make any of this less tragic. Talk to him everyday and hope that one day you will receive a sign or a message to allow you to somehow understand, at least a little bit, why this tragedy happended. The only comforting words I can offer is he is now your guardian angel watching over you. I hope as a mother you one day will understand why and be able to find some comfort for you and your family. With all our love, Gina, Nicole and Danielle
Ann Ilardi
December 3, 2008
Hi Son, How are you tonight? Daddy had surgury dec 2 and he is doing good. His pressure as always gives him a hard time. I know u are watching over him. Missing you more and more each day. Till we meet again,
Love Mom
Mom and Poppy Ilardi
November 27, 2008
Good morning son, Just missing you so much and I hope u are having turkey with your grandparents and aunt and uncles.
Happy Thanksgiving We Love you and miss you. Till we meet again love Mom and your Poppy
Mom and Dad Ilardi
November 22, 2008
To our dearest son, I stil cannot accept the fact that you are gone. Never to hear your voice or hear u laugh or to hear u say Mom what smells so good. We are hoping you have found your peace and we hope someday we will understand why,
Love Mom & Dad
Pat Ilardi
November 21, 2008
Exactly what we are all thinking Lori...A whole month...unfortunately no closure for any of us....especially my poor parents.....we can only pray as you say that his pain is gone...although ours will never be.
Always be the Big Sis.
LoriAnn Childers
November 20, 2008
Well Cuz,
It's almost a month now since you've been gone. I just want you to know that not a day goes by that I don't think about you. Tears still flow even as I write you this note. The pain will never go away for me and I hope your pain is gone forever. Rest in Peace my cousin, rest in peace.
November 8, 2008
Dear Aunt Anna, Uncle Joe and everyone, How truly, truly sad. What an incredible loss for you and your family. It would just be nice to have "Antny" back. I have such vivid memories of playing house down our basement and Anthony would always be the pet monkey swinging off the rafters. I remember the box after box of devil dogs eaten. It was always one for Anthony and one for the dog. Time and distance and life circumstances separated us but family is always family. I am deeply saddened for your loss. I can't begin to imagine what everyone must be going through but please know that you and Anthony are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you the ability to somehow eventually find a place of peace amidst this horrible chaos. As always, I am thinking of you and send all of my love as does the rest of my family. Love, Jenean, Doug, Alexander,Sophia and Olivia
Charles Magro
November 6, 2008
Why???? How ???? The memories are too many to list . At times the brother i never had , I thank you for it all . Tonite i toast to you . My Cuz , My friend I will miss you . I will never forget . Aunt anna Uncle Joe , Pat, Joseph , What to say ? We have all lost . Cathy ,I am sorry.
Busy at work
November 6, 2008
Diane Hepsen
November 6, 2008
To My Family,
There aren't any words to express my saddened feelings. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
To my cousin Anth, I will always remember the great times growing up. I think of you everyday and you will always Forever Be In My Heart.
I only hope you have found peace.
We will miss you and love you very much.
Love Di
John Ariale
November 5, 2008
I was very saddened to learn of Anthony’s death. Although
time, circumstances, and distance have separated us
through the years, please know that you are in my
thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
When I heard of Anthony’s passing, I was immediately
brought back to our days together on Long Island and the
good times we had growing up. I know that he will be
missed by you all. Please pass my condolences along to
Pat, Joseph and the rest of your family.
Peace, John Ariale
Big Sis Pat
November 5, 2008
To all our Friends and Family:
Please visit the Photo Album..as we scan more pictures in we will upload them. Feel free to upload pics of your memories of Anthony to share.
Salvatore & Uncle Tony with Sponge Bob
November 5, 2008
Brian Bialik
November 5, 2008
Mr and Mrs Ilardi, Joe, Patti,
I can't imagine how you all feel.
To this day, I still have vivid memories of Anthony wanting to play with the older neighborhood boys. Whether it was baseball in your backyard or in the street, touch football running behind the cars parked in front of our homes, or in your yard playing basketball, Anthony always seemed to be there with us.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. God bless you and all our best from Jacksonville.
Brian
Lori Meyers
November 5, 2008
Kathy,
My heart weeps for you. Be strong and feel comfort that one day you will be together forever. If there is anything I can do, please call. God Bless you and your family.
The 6 Amigos
November 5, 2008
Paul Chiarella
November 5, 2008
RIP uncle tony.... you are missed and stilled loved by everyone..
we will always have the memories. thanks for everything... Dont know what else to say. still so surreal!!!!!!!!!
Paul
LoriAnn Childers
November 5, 2008
Dearest Cousin Tony,
Remember the car ride we took to Maine? Me and you in the back of that old station wagon, wow we thought we would never get there. You ate the entire box of devil dogs and left me with the empty wrappers. Oh better yet, remember the time we ate dinner and could not find you? You were sleeping under the kitchen table. Wow, we sure had some great times. Memories like these will always be in my heart. You will truly be missed. I pray for God to rest your soul.
Dearest Aunt Anna & Uncle Iggy,
May God give you the strength to carry on in this time of tragedy.
In my heart always.
LoriAnn
Mary I Marchese
November 4, 2008
To my brother Joseph and sister-in-law Ann:
My heart bleeds for you. I am sooo sorry that you are going through this horrible pain. There are no words of comfort right now but only to say that my prayers are with you constantly and that you can find some measure of peace. Love you.
Mary I Marchese
November 4, 2008
To my brother Joseph and sister-in-law Ann:
My heart bleeds for you. I am sooo sorry that you are going through this horrible pain. There are no words of comfort right now but only to say that my prayers are with you constantly and that you can find some measure of peace. Love you.
Linda Gehres
November 4, 2008
Dear Kathy,
I was so saddened to hear about Tony. I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time.
Love, Linda
Carol Achtziger
November 4, 2008
Dear Kathy,There are no words that can heal the pain you are feeling. My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you. If you need a shoulder, mine is available any time.Love, Carol Achtziger and Family
Debra Falcone-Pedicini
November 3, 2008
To The Ilardi family, We are deeply saddened by the tragic death of Anthony. Our prayers are with you at this time. Love to all of you, Falcone & Pedicini Family Melbourne florida
Phyllis Rowsell
November 3, 2008
Our hearts go out ot all of you in this unbelievable time of sadness. Words cannot begin to heal, but it is always a comfort to know that all of our time here on earth is a blink of an eye compared to the eternity we get to share with those we love in Heaven.
With Love The Rowsell Family - Russell, Phyllis & Girls
Patricia Savarese
November 3, 2008
Dear Kathy
I was saddened to hear about Tony. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. If you should need anything, please call me.
Salvatore O'Neill
November 2, 2008
Thank you everyone for your prayers this is a hard time for everyone. We all loved him and still do. We will miss you very much.
Love You
Sal
Elaine Trisotto
November 2, 2008
To the Ilardi Family:
My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know the pain your family is feeling at this moment as I recently lost my mother in July. Always remember the good times and know he is now in a better place and is home with GOD.
The Trisotto Family:
Elaine Trisotto, Roger & Beth Trisotto and Jamie & Jerry Martin
Patricia Ilardi
November 2, 2008
We want to thank everyone for their prayers and sympathy in the loss of my brother Anthony. Words can not express what the family is feeling. Please remember.....cherish your family & friends always....one day without warning.... they are no longer with you....like my brother Anthony.
We will always love you-
Your big Sis
Janet Bernzott
November 2, 2008
Dear Kathy
I was so saddened to see that you lost Tony. I am thinking about you and all the good things I remember of you, as well as Tony. Please contact me if you need anything or just want to talk.
Love, Janet Bernzott & Family
Ann & Joe Ilardi
November 2, 2008
our dearest Son Anthony, Words cannot describe the pain we are feeling at this time. We will pray for you every day .
You will be greatly missed
Love Mom and Dad
Ann & joe Ilardi
November 2, 2008
To our darling son anthony, I wish we could bring you back . You will be greatly missed. We will feel the pain forever. Our prayers are with you always
Love your
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