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for Ronald Winchester
our dear 'ole friend
Frank & Frannie Luisi
September 2, 2020
thinking of our dear Ronnie today, sending hugs & kisses to him in Heaven, and sending hugs & kisses to Mama M and and Papa R and sister K with all our love, Frankie, Frannie and Ollie Luisi
Oscar and suzie Del mazo
May 25, 2020
God bless Ronnie a true hero will never be forgoton
Marianna Winchester
May 25, 2020
Memorial Day weekend 2020
This weekend there are no parades, no memorial services, no Mass for you, so many changes due to the corona virus. Even though, you were not forgotten. I still made my visit to you and will continue today stopping at church to thank you for our freedom but more important for being my son. Ronnie you are missed more and more as time passes. Nothing seems to ease my pain. I live wanting this nightmare to be over. I hold on to all our days together, the last phone call you made to me in the middle of the night from Iraq, and your last words to me love ya mom. No one could ever understand and I dont expect them to, only this mother does. God bless you, son. Love ya,mom
Kathi Ochs
May 24, 2020
Memorial Day 2020....We will never forget your sacrifice for love of country...we will never forget you, Ron.
Marianna Winchester
April 18, 2020
Happy 41 st birthday today my son, my hero. Does not seem possible, but you will always be 25 yrs old in my heart. Its been awhile since I wrote in your guestbook, but a day does not go by where your with me 24x7. Time may pass but it only seems like days that you were taken from us.you are NEVER forgotten, your legacy, spirit is so much alive in so many places. You continue to give me the strength I need, and continue to watch over your sister and nephews who love and miss you so very much. The boys have so much of you instilled in them, that at times I feel Im reliving your childhood all over again.
Ronnie, please continue to look down on us and help us get throw these difficult times. I love and miss you more than I could put into words....mom.
Marianna Winchester
September 3, 2018
Ronnie, 14 years ago today you were taken from this earth, a day that changed this moms life forever. A proud Marine, serving his country, died for our freedom and now shares a place in heaven with so many hero's. I often think at times how unfair life seems, but I remember what you told me " if I'm going to die, let it be for my country" and you did just that.
Maybe I'm just selfish when I think or say, I want you here on earth with me, your sister, your nephews. God had other plans.
My heart aches each and everyday, you send me your signs, I know you are always with me. You're are love and missed by so many. God bless you my son, love mom.
Marianna Winchester
April 18, 2018
Happy birthday in heaven, my boy. This morning, I thought of this day a million times, holding you in my arms for the first time. A miracle from heaven was given to me and I was so proud to be your mother.
Than on sept 32004, to returned to heaven. A heartbroken mother, changing my life forever.
For the 25 yrs you were on this earth, you achieved so much in such a short time. Loved by so many, best friend to so many, honored by so many, and now missed by so many.
I hold on to each and every memory I have with you, Ronnie. I can still hear the chuckle in your laughter, the winks you gave me, the bear hugs and your beautiful smile.
I know someday I will see and have those all again. Your sister and nephews love and miss you so much. They got cheated in life not meeting the best uncle on earth. As we celebrate this weekend in your honor, I know you will be looking down and smiling......love mom.
Marianna Winchester
September 3, 2017
Sept 3, 2017
It's been thirteen years, but nothing has changed, time may pass but the moment I heard I lost you feels like a few minutes ago. My life changed at the moment, it will never be the same. Knowing you did what you loved and so proud of all you achieved in such a short lifetime, I still feel so much pain knowing my son was taken from this earth. Today, I will visit you, go to Mass, and remember the wonderful times we had together. I look at all your picture, seeing your beautiful smile, trying to hear the chuckle in your laughter, and feeling your arms around me with those bear hugs.....your signs continue to come to me. I know it's you.....
Your nephews and sister miss and love you. It breaks my heart when they tell me uncle Ronnie is in heaven or they wish they can meet you.
They want you to be so proud of them. Your legacy lives on in each and everyone of them. They have been cheated not knowing you or having cousins.
We will be together someday, I know you will be waiting for me. Until than please continue to take care of your sister....give me the strength I need to get though tough days, watch over RJ, Anthony, and Brian....they love you....God bless you, my son. Love mom.
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S. Cohen
August 29, 2017
Last month, on a nice sunny NY day, I went out for a bite in Bryant Park. As I sat down, I noticed a sign covered with leaves. I moved the leaves and found a memorial for 1st Lt. Ronald Winchester. Being a veteran if Israeli Armed forces, I felt an obligation to learn about him. I have found many pages on the internet talking about the wonderful young man he was. Though I never knew him, I know the gift he has given so many of us- the freedom to live and love and sit under a tree in Bryant Park. This note is just a thank you letter for his sacrifice and an honor to his memory and his family.
Marianna Winchester
December 25, 2016
Christmas Day 2016
The morning began with my visit to your grave where we spent our time together as we do each week. I asked you to continue to watch over your sister and her family. I told you how much I miss and love you. I starred at your picture, than closed my eyes no imagine you were sitting beside me. Oh, what I would give for that once again. To hear your voice, your laughter, get one of your hugs......
Than I had to open my eyes and face the reality again.
No amount of time makes anything any easier if anything it gets worse.
One day we will be able to celebrate all our holidays together. I know you will be waiting for me. In the meantime, continue to give me strength, love your sister and nephews, because they all love you.
Merry Christmas my son, Marine, hero, friend and protector.
Love, mom.
August 29, 2016
A wonderful tribute to Ronnie on Facebook, seen by so many. http://bit.ly/2bxSUBp
May 30, 2016
Thinking of Ron today, and all the others who sacrificed everything for a greater good. Praying for peace for the families who are hurting today and every day. Thank you is not enough, but I thank you.
Marianna Winchester
May 30, 2016
Memorial Day 2016
I just returned from your Mass at St Agnes. The priest gave a beautiful homely on the meaning of today. As I sat there fulled with emotion I could only talk to you and tell you how much I miss you and thank you as well. My heart aches today and it does each and everyday missing you. At the conclusion of the Mass they sang America the Beautiful. I could not hold back the tears. Ronnie I know as people tell me you are in a better place not suffering, but this selfish mother thinks otherwise.
I only wish God gave you back to me. But know that you and he had other plans. So as I often tell you, we will meet again some day, I want to see your beautiful smile, hear your laughter again, have you give me one of your strong hugs, put my arms around you again.......
Take care and watch over your sister and the boys. They miss and love you so very much.
God bless you my son...love mom.
Kathi Ochs
May 28, 2016
Thinking of you Ron this Memorial Day Weekend and the tremendous sacrifice you and your family paid so that we could live in a free country. Kris is on his second deployment...keep an eye on him as he flies through the sky and help him return home safely. You are almost always in our thoughts and we talk about you often to the Midshipmen we sponsor..lots of stories to tell about the USNA Class of 2001 !But mostly we tell them what an awesome man and Marine you were.
Marianna Winchester
April 18, 2016
April 18,2016
As I sit waiting to attend your Mass this morning, I think back thirty seven years ago when I held you in my arms this morning.
Those were the greatest days in my life. Giving birth to my son and daughter. A mother establishes a special bond that no one understands except a mom.
Ronnie, I know God took you from me, at times I still question why, and still have no answer. All I know is that as time passes I miss and love you more and more. I'm selfish because I want you here on earth with me, your sister, your nephews. RJ! Anthony, Brian have missed out on knowing the greatest unclle in the world.
I pray to each day wondering how you are and if you miss us as much as we do you. Someday, I will have all y answers and know you will be waiting for me . In the meantime continue to watch over us, protect those amazing nephews who love you so much.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY In heaven. Love mom
Chris Steiner
February 11, 2016
I am only learning of this extraordinary young hero taken from us too soon from an article today in Newsday. In the letters to the editor section someone made a recommendation to rename a complex in Hempstead Lake State Park after Ron. We can never repay our debt to this brave and honorable soldier but this seems fitting. May you rest in peace and know that no matter what, your service and sacrifice will never be forgotten.
Marianna Winchester
December 25, 2015
Christmas 2015
It's 6:30am Christmas morning and as I woke up this morning I had flashbacks of seeing you and your sister walking very slowly down the stairs from your rooms as you held onto her hand with your
Santa hats on peeking over the handrail to see if Santa had come.
In a couple of hours I will visit with you at your grave and know that you are looking down on us from heaven today.
As as piled the gifts up for your nephews and sister I cried because of two reasons. One, because you are not here to enjoy this day with us and how much I miss you, secondly I wanted the boys to share this day with their cousins and uncle. This hurts so bad, to think they never had the chance to meet or know the grestest uncle in the world. When they use the expression "life is not fair", it's not because not having you here on earth with us hurts more than words can say.
Ronnie, no days, weeks, or years get any easier. My heart aches each and everyday without you. Your memory lives on with your sister, RJ,Anthony, and Brian. Never forget them, take care of them. They love you.
Merry Christmas son. Love mom
PADDY Gearon
October 14, 2015
SEMPER FI. REST EASY BROTHER.
Marianna Winchester
September 3, 2015
Sept 3,2015
Eleven years have passed in time but it only feels like a day that I lost you.
Hour by hour today I relived that horrible day. I could only imagine what had happened no what pain you must have been in. I wish I could have wrapped my arms around you to protect you. Ronnie, you have touched the lives of so many. Today, I received phone calls, messages, text messages, voicemail, Facebook, from your friends, buddy, men that served with you, and strangers who read about you.
As usual I had such pain in my heart all day missing you so much. So many told me they would do anything to have you back with us.you are loved and missed by so many. But, most of all by me. A mother loves her children beyond what could be put into words. I know you are waiting for me, and I know I will se that amazing smile on your face and hear the chuckle in you laugh. God Bless you son, continue to give me strength and continue to watch over your sister and your nephews. They love you. RJ will be wearin 73 as he begins playing football this fall. Everything is about his uncle Ronnie. Anthony told me he wishes he could meet and see you, and Brian walks around the house holding you picture. You are loved.
Maggie & Joe Guarino
September 3, 2015
Remembering Ronnie today and always. With all our love, thoughts and prayers.
WInchester Marines 2015 RVCBL
Marie Healey
June 15, 2015
Marie Healey
June 14, 2015
Dear Ronald,
My son Shane had the privilege and honor of wearing your name on the back of his RVC baseball uniform this 2015 season. Shane and his teammates played hard all season. Yesterday they played in a playoff game against the 1st place team (they were 4th in regular season) and gave it their all. Your lovely mom gave them an inspiring and heartfelt talk before the game and I truly believe it motivated the boys. After a hard fought game, the WInchester Marines fell short by 2 runs. Although they may have lost the game, they played with heart, gave it their all and supported each other throughout. I am sure you are proud of them!
Your mom is amazing and I am so glad to have finally met her. She raised an awesome son and continues to share your courageous life.
I will gave my Shane an extra hug tonight and send my thanks and prayers to you and all those who serve this great country.
I attached a picture of your "boys" with your mom.
With thanks and gratitude,
Marie Healey
May 25, 2015
Remembering Ron today, and all the other brave service men and women who sacrifice so much. May your families find peace in the knowledge that a grateful nation will never forget your sacrifice. We remember you with love. Your cousins Karen, Rob, Lizzy, Aunt Babe and Uncle Steve.
Kathy "Stems"
May 24, 2015
May the memory of Ron continue to give you strength, Marianna, this Memorial Day. You are blessed to have had such a handsome,remarkable, and courageous son. We are blessed by his ultimate sacrifice to be able to continue to have our freedom.
James Gatzonis
May 24, 2015
Ronnie,
Thinking of you this weekend...your sacrifice will never be forgotten. May God stengthen your family with everyday that passes. Marianne your words bring tears to my eyes everytime I check to see Ronnie's message board. God be with you and your family always. Someone once told me that God sometimes chooses the worlds brightest roses for his rose garden. Ronnie was surely one of them. -James Gatzonis- Chaminade class 97'
Angela McLaughlin
May 24, 2015
Every Memorial Day I read the guest book here. I read your posts Marianna. I find it therapeutic to read your words. We must find God's Grace for your sacrifice as a mother. You are an inspitstion
Kathy Szucs
May 23, 2015
Thank you for your service Ron and May you always be the angel on your mothers shoulder. Gone but Never Forgotten.
Marianna Winchester
May 23, 2015
Memorial Day Weekend 2015
Today, begins a weekend that once again is filled with memories, emotions, hours spent today just thinking of all who gave the ultimate sacrifice and giving thanks.
RONNIE, I was alone all day just thinking of you, at times I broke down in tears, and than at times I listened to music you had on some of your CDs.
Needless to say it's rough.at times I still cannot picture my life going on without you. Your absence has left such a huge hole in my heart.
Hearing people say" enjoy your weekend" or talking about parties, beach goers, BBQ, shopping for sales, have lost the true meaning of what this weekend is all about.
Just gives me a knot in my stomach when I hear this. My flags are flying outside in your honor, tomorrow I will give another vet a Vetdog in your honor,Monday your Mass and a parade to honor you......this is my meaning of this weekend......all about YOU and all those Gold Star families. Why do people think as time goes by, it gets easier? If anything it gets worse, at least for me. I miss you more and more each day. You are my boy, always had a special place in. My heart. We had a special bond. Only you and I know this. I am so thanking for that. No one will EVER understand.
Telling me you love me up until our last phone call is something I hear each and everyday.i
I would only hope that everyone just takes a minute from their party time this weekend and gives thanks to the real hero's.
There are no words what I FEEL.. I love you RONNIE, miss you, you are my hero, protector, and best friend always. Mom
Kathi Ochs
May 23, 2015
I think of Ron a lot during the year but especially on Memorial Day. Traditionally I have been watching the Memorial Day concert broadcast on PBS and the first person I think of when the actors play tribute, is Ron. The second person I think of is his mom, Marianna. May she find the continued strength to make it through each and every day. I can't begin to imagine how hard it is to lose your son. My arms are reaching out and sending a big hug just like Ron used to do when he saw our family at a Navy Football tailgate. We continue to sponsor Midshipmen...almost 20 years now, and each and everyone has heard our stories about Ron and what an amazing person he was. We are so blessed that we knew him and I know all that ever knew him feel the same way. Peace and prayers on this Memorial Day 2015
Marianna Winchester
April 19, 2015
Sunday April 19, 2015
Happy Belated birthday, RONNIE. A minute. Did not go by yesterday that you were not on someone's mind. So, so many people, your friends showed up for you Walk of Honor pub crawl. Every restaurant was packed to capacity and those who could not get inside filled the areas outside. The temperature at the start was 73 degrees. Why does that not surprise me?
I thought yesterday morning after attending your Mass of all the wonderful times we shared together. I sat at the kitchen table and cried, laughed , cried. I could not imagine living without you and even though it's been 10 yrs. it all seems like yesterday that my life changed in seconds.
My heart still aches, I love and miss you more and more as time passes.
Everyone felt your presence here yesterday. They knew that your party would be awesome and it was.
You have inspired and touched so many people in such a short life time. Your Marines that attended had such respect for you. I was able to talk to them and get answers that I needed to know on what happened.
Your with me 24x7. I thank God that you were my son. You are and will always be my hero. God Bless you, son.
Lois Gareis
January 2, 2015
Ma, that is so Ronnie! He loved the NYC night life!
Marianna Winchester
January 1, 2015
January1,2015
Happy New Year, my son in heaven. Another year without you.doesnt seem possible. I thought back last night, how you loved going into the city during Christmas week and New Years. I would be ready to go to bed, and you were ready to catch a train.
So many memories......love you son....mom
Merry Christmas, son. Love mom
Marianna Winchester
December 27, 2014
December28,2014
It's not that I forgot to write you on Christmas but just could not find the right words to express what I was feeling that morning. After I visited your grave I found it so difficult to keep my emotions together. I cried for hours just thinking of what the day would be like if you were here. I wanted just to hug you, and say Merry Christmas maybe to your family as you and your sister would share happy times together.. Not so......
For hours, I sat alone that morning just thinking. Looking at your pictures, reading your letter, walking around your room. The clothes still hang in your closet as your uniform does as well on the door exactly as you left it.
The phone rang throughout the day. So many of your buddies miss you. Emails, text messages I received from men in your platoon just telling me you are never forgotten. Ronnie, you may have left this world, but not the hearts of so many.i received family photo Christmas cards from your football buddies. As I do each year I add them to your scrapbook.
As a New Year is about to begin,time may pass but you are always with me 24x7. You have given me strength, and continue to watch over your sister and nephews. They love their uncle.
Janette Bennett
September 4, 2014
3 September 2014
Mrs. Winchester: To you and the rest of your precious family, God's grace and comfort. I remember you all today, especially. God bless you all.
Kathy Szucs
August 30, 2014
On this weekend Ronnie we will remember you and all those fallen all tho I only met you a few times I no you loved being a soldier and especially a Marine So God Bless You, thank you and may you rest in peace. And keep sending mom those signs that you are at her side
Semper Fi
Marianna Winchester
August 30, 2014
Ronnie, even though September 3rd. Is the actual date that my life changed forever this is the weekend that it was 10 years ago. No matter how much time has passed this nightmare lives on with me each and everyday. I relive that day when I arrived home only to see the Marines and priest in my driveway. The news of hearing you were gone, was the worse news a mother can hear. I wish I can can turn time back, and wash that day away, but I can't.
My emotions play games with me. Now as your nephews are getting older all they want is their uncle Ronnie. As RJ said one day " uncle Ronnie can you come down from heaven just once so I can meet you and play with you". Broke my heart to hear him say this.
Anthony says he's " going to be big and strong like uncle Ronnie".
They have been cheated by not having an amazing uncle. Their love you you is beyond words. Your sister continues as I do to live with pain, knowing she lost her brother and best friend.
This weekend for many mark the end of summer, camps, Pools, beaches, but for me it's a weekend that I hate, knowing I lost you.
No matter how much time passes the memory of the bond we shared never leaves me. Our last phone call just days before and your last words to me " love ya, mom" I will never forget, and son " I love and miss you more and more each day".
Ronnie, please watch over Ronnie, Anthony, and Brian, and your sister. Keep them strong with your love and inspiration.
I will see you again some day, and see you with that beautiful smile waiting for me. Promise, I'll give you the biggest hug and kiss a mother can give to her son. Love ya, mom.
Jessika Rosen
June 13, 2014
Those who die still live in Your presence, their lives change but do not end.
Thank you for all you have done. Thank you for being brave.
I will always have love for your family.
May 26, 2014
On this Memorial Day, we remember your life and your service. We will never forget your sacrifice, and we remember you with love. Thank you.
Karen, Rob, Elizabeth, Aunt Babe and Uncle Steve
Marianna Winchester
May 26, 2014
May 26th. 2014
On this Memorial Day weekend,with parades, barbecues, air shows, store sales, beach parties the only true meaning of the day is to give thanks to all our hero's that gave us our freedom. People like you, Ronnie and so many others. So many forget the true meaning of this day. I will never forget.
My thoughts the entire weekend have been of you. As I sat by your grave yesterday and just looked at your name etched in stone and look at your picture glued to the stone, I asked again the question
Why?. Still no answers. All I know is how much you loved your country and your Marines and would die for it. And so you did. The sky was clear and blue as the planes flew over preparing for the air show. Quiet and peaceful, I thought to myself but still my heart ached with heartbreak knowing that as time passes nothing seems to get easier. I looked at your amazing smile, listened for your laughter, and just tried to hold onto every fond memory we shared together.
As the day continued you would have been so proud of your nephew RJ. The Blue Angel flew over and he practically jumped out of the car to see them. Filled with such emotion in seeing them he began to cry. It was breathtaking as I held back my tears watching him. They both love you so much. Your spirit is so alive in everything they do. Continue to watch over them and your sister and soon to be new nephew or niece.
Your Mass was said this morning, and now parade will begin honoring you. Dedications will be made in your honor. You will never be forgotten, my only wish is that you look down on us today and give me a sign. I know someday you will be waiting for me, until than you know how much I love and miss you. You are with me 24x7. God bless you, son. Thank you for giving so many their freedom today. Love mom
Angela McLaughlin
May 26, 2014
Thank you Marianna for allowing us to be part of your son's life. We are forever thankful for his service, for Ron's life of courage as well as your family's sacrifice. May God love you and keep you.
Marianna Winchester
May 25, 2014
May 25,2014
Oh Ronnie where do I begin. This weekend once again makes me give thanks to all those who gave their lives in war. As I knelt by your grave this morningI looked at your picture on your white marble stone and asked again as I do so many times Why?? The tears running down my face knowing how much I miss you I knew the answer you would say to me" mom I love my country and would die for it" and so you did. The clear blue sky with the planes flying over preparing for the air show was a perfect setting, knowing you were looking down and enjoying the show as you watched you mother tell you how much she loves you.
Tomorrow, another day of services in your honor. Parades, speeches, all for what. I listen to them year after year but they don't ease my pain. I know you are a hero, but you are also my son, my baby, my boy, my man who shared a special bond that only a mother knows.
I sit here smelling barbecues, hearing load music and laughter as people celebrate the beginning of summer but forget the real meaning of the weekend. Why would anyone say "Happy Memorial Day"? what's happy about it? Lives were lots.
Ronnie you would have been so proud of your nephew RJ today. Most 5 yr old would want to be at the park or beach your goes to see ships in the city, and today he practically jumped out of the car.
He got so excited as the Blue Angels flew over. He got so emotional that he started to cry. All he talked about was you.
I see so much of you in him. He loves you so much. It was difficult for me not to cry with him.
You are missed by so many. I receive so many emails from men that were in your company and tell me what an amazing leader you were and how they all looked up to you. I appreciate their words of kindness and would expect nothing less of you.
As the parade colors passes tomorrow I'll remember that day you stood tall at attention in your dressed blues on the corner three days after your graduation from the academy. Your were so proud.
Thank you son. You are with me 24x7. Take care of your sister and your new nephew or niece, as well as Anthony and Ronnie.
until we meet again. Love mom.
Kathi Ochs
May 25, 2014
Ron,Thinking of you and your family on this Memorial Day weekend 2014. Keep an eye on Kris as he gets ready for his first deployment.
God Bless the USA !
Marianna Winchester
April 20, 2014
I sit here this Easter Sunday morning scrolling down your Guestbook only to find that the message I wrote to you on your birthday this past Friday was not entered. I don't know why because the first thing I did after I woke up was write to you my son. I tried to tell you in so many words that on that day 35 yrs ago was one of the happiest days of my life when I held you for the first time.I cherished every moment with you, recalled so many of our conversations right up to the last one when you called me 4days before you were killed. Your last words to me we're Love you mom. I replied love you too. I look at all my pictures of your beautiful smile, listen to the chuckle in your laughter, and feel those bear hugs you gave me. Life is never the same.you will always be my boy, my prince, my friend, my protector, my hero.
On this Easter Sunday, I know families will be together and wish you could be with me. I feel your spirit with me always but it's not the same. I often wonder where and what you would be doing today. Having play dates with your sister and her boy's.I know they love you. Only wish they could have met you only if it was for one time. Your memory lives on in them.
So I write you again today Ronnie, to tell you that I miss and love you more and more each day. The pain never goes away.i know you are looking down and still watching over me. Someday I will see that smile again...love you. Mom
Rosalie Westenberger
April 18, 2014
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Marianna Winchester
April 18, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Marianna Winchester
March 23, 2014
Ron, yesterday we had the Rockville centre st Patricks day parade. In your memory many turned out to March and thank you for your sacrifice. Hearing the clapping and cheers of so many people saying "thank you" made me realize that you have not been forgotten. Seeing RJ and Anthony wearing your walk of honor sweatshirt and talking to the Marines about their uncle Ronnie was priceless. They love you......and miss you., as do all of us.
Marianna Winchester
March 21, 2014
Tomorrow, the RVC St. Patricks Day Parade will take place. Once again, you will be honored Ron by friends, families, and strangers who appreciate what you did for us. People of all ages,families with infants and toddlers will attend to honor our town "hero". Your memory, spirit lives on. You are missed by so many. It's so difficult to believe the years have passed but the pain still remains so strong in my heart. I know you will be with us tomorrow, Ronnie.
Barbara Schwasnick
March 18, 2014
I have never had the honor to have met you LT Ronald Winchester but I feel like I've known you forever. Thank you for serving our country. May God bless you and your lovely family, always.
Kathy Szucs
March 15, 2014
will always be remembered
Marianna Winchester
December 24, 2013
Christmas Eve....2013. A morning that I sat and watched DVDS of you . I watched you on Parent weekend at the academy. Looking right at the camera giving me thumbs up and your beautiful smile.the events, parades, you were so proud to be part of it. I am so happy I video everything, hearing your voice on the tape, watching you march, talking with your buddies....all brought back so many memories. I had to wipe my tears so many times but for hours could not shut off the TV. The joy of Christmas is gone for me since I lost you. I hate the holidays, it just going through the motions of doing whatever your suppose to do. Not having you in my life has changed my life forever. You were "my boy" always was and always will be. My heart aches but I know you look down and take care of me. Someday we will be together again....Merry Christmas in heaven my son. I love you. Mom.
November 11, 2013
Thinking of you on this Veteran's Day...Thank you.
Marianna Winchester
November 10, 2013
A weekend with many functions to honor our veterans and the Marine Corps birthday. You my son celebrate both. A proud Marine, who fulfilled a dream and than paid the ultimate scarifice for his country.
As I attend a Mass in your honor, visit your grave,wish all your fellow Marine a Happy Birthday, I cannot stop thinking what you would be doing today.
I can only imagine. Seeing so many veterans this weekend and thanking them for their service, I just want to give you the biggest hug and say thank you, son. I would do or give whatever I have just to do this. Nothing can or will ever replace my son.
Your memory remains alive in your nephews who love you so much. Your sister is an amazing mom and her boys are her life.
Take care of them. They all miss you.
Semper Fi my son.
Love mom
September 4, 2013
Dear Marianna,
Thinking of you all and hoping that you have some comfort from your wonderful memories and all those who love and remember Ron. Sending our love to you all.
Karen, Rob, Aunt Babe & Uncle Steve, and Lizzy
Marianna Winchester
September 3, 2013
September 3,2013
Dear Ron:
Today,marks 9 years that you left us here on earth. Whoever used the expression "time flies" had no idea of what they were talking about. To your mom, it feels like 9 minutes not years.
Reading so many messages posted by your friends it's unbelievable how many life's you touched in your short life time. They all miss you so much. I read each and every passage, looked at every picture of you that was posted and at times my heart just dropped. So many emotions were felt. Even you Mass this morning was so different . At 8AM the church bells rang loudly throughout the town, the organist played beautiful songs and when the priest announced your name from the alter I had to take a deep breath and ask you for some help.
I sit here just looking at your pictures , that beautiful smile. I'm thinking of some of our talks we had here on the couch, or on the phone from California and Iraq. Your voice echoes in my head. I could hear your chuckle laughter.
I hope tonight I close my eyes and see you in my dreams. Your spirt is with me 24x7. I pray for the day when we are together again. I love you,son. God bless you. Mom
September 3, 2013
Can't believe its been 9 years, seems like just yesterday...miss you everyday brother. Thanks for keeping an eye on me while I was in Afghanistan, I know it was you who got me out of all those tough times. Love you brother!!!
Angela Abend
July 18, 2013
Forever in my heart ~
I will never forget you ...
ronald sordillo
July 5, 2013
Ronnie: As America spends another Independance Day - 2013! Your sacrifice has made our country's independence possible > You stand with all the other great armed forces people that have given their lives to let "freedom right"! Thank you and be with God Forever and rest in peace. thank you!
marianna winchester
July 4, 2013
Thank you son for our freedom today. No pimic no fireworks for me just thoughts of you. So many forget. So many of your friends say
Thank you and miss you.
Kathleen Ochs
May 27, 2013
Memorial Day 2013. Thinking of you and your family today. Kris gets winged in Corpus Christi on June 14. Keep an eye on him as he flies in the sky !
Marianna Winchester
May 25, 2013
My dear son:
As the Memorial weekend begins on this cold, rainy Saturday all I hear on the radio is how disappointed people are because they cannot go to the beach, enjoy cookouts or view the air show.So they advertise all the sales in various stores and the malls will be packed.
The "real" reason to celebrate this weekend is totally forgotten. Its not a celebration its a weekend to give thanks to all those like you who have given us our freedom and paid the ultimate sacrifice for us....by giving your life.
Ronnie, why dont people realize this? Why have so many forgotten the true meaning on this Memorial Day weekend?
In away I am glad that today and tomorrow will be cold and rainy and not days for everyone to have parties and celebrate the beginning of summer. I will be spending my days remembering YOU. The services I attend in "your" honor will be far better than any barbecque.
Memorial Day is everyday to me. Life without you will never be the same for me. At times I feel so much anger, hurt,that I lost my best friend, prince, protector and other times I cry in pain and heartbreak knowing you are taking care of me and giving me the strength that I need to go on. Tomorrow and Monday I will Honor my son once again at special events and ceremomies. I know I honor you everyday no matter what day it is.
Its still all so hard to believe.I look at your pictures and your smile and eyes are looking right at me.You send me so many "signs" that I feel your presence around me constantly.
I love you son.I cherish the conversations, hugs, smiles, kisses,we shared right up to the last phone call just afew days before you left this earth. We never said goodbye, just "later" and you told me you loved me. I will NEVER forget what we spoke aboutthat night and how much you worried about me.
God Bless you, Ron. Thank you for being "my" son. love mom
Marianna Winchester
April 18, 2013
HAPPY BIRTHDAY,SON
I woke up this morning thinking of that mroning when I held you in my arms for the first time. My heart is heavy today knowing that you have left us forever.
Seeing so many of your buddies last weekend at the "Walk" in San Diego knowing you are missed by so many.
I prayered this morning at your Mass for the strength to go on, and asked you to watch over your sister and nephews.I know you will but it still does not make it any easier.
This Sat. so many will attend you Walk of Honor in RVC to honor you once again. Ron, your memory, spirit is so alive.Your room remains as you left it and I talk to you everyday when I go in your room looking at your pictures hanging on the wall or in frames.
I know you are looking down on me today knowing how I hurt. I close my eyes and see your face and that beautiful smile....
My love is everlasting for you son.We will meet again someday.I know you will be waiting for me.
I love and miss you...mom
mariannna winchester
April 12, 2013
Son today I am heading out to San Diego to attend your west coast Walk of Honor.
I will be spending the next two days wi th your buddies and their families, meet some of your fellow Marines and academy friends.
Next weekend we celebrate your Walk of Honor in Rockville Centre.
Your memory remains in everyone's hearts. You are truly missed and never forgotten. Love, mom
Jacob Amey
February 27, 2013
I found your memorial Page a few years ago. I have had it bookmarked for a long time now not really knowing what to say. I served with LT. Winchester, He was my Platoon Leader. The Lt. had a certain Strength and presence about him that made you want to do well by him. He was a strong man always assertive with his actions. Never wavering in what needed to be done. Although gone you are not forgotten. I and your fellow Platoon members carry you in our hearts and minds. I try to live my life the best that I know how hoping that when we meet again you present me with a nod of approval. You are forever missed Lt.
Steve Hong
January 24, 2013
Hello I'm a lifeguard at sandy beach I found a memorial bracelet with 1st lt Ronald Winchester name on it I would like to get it back to who ever lost it
Marianna Winchester
December 25, 2012
Dec.25th,2012
Another Christmas, another year without you, son.As I knelt by your grave,I took a deep breath and asked you so many questions. The rain feel slightly upon us but did not matter because my tears feel heavier. Last night I sat and read so many of the last emails you sent to me each ending with "love ya,mom".
This morning as I placed presents by your picture in the living room for your nephews and sister I could feel your presence right there beside me.
Ron,my heart is half alive. No matter what I try to do nothing can help the pain I feel each and every day without you.
I can only invision what today would be.... you, your sister and the grandkids together. Its all a dream.
The how's and they why's still remain unknown. The only thing I do know is how much I love and miss you.
You left this earth way too soon. So many miss you but no one greater than your mom.
I cannot bring you gifts today, only my love. The only gift you give me is strength, thank you.
Remember continue to look after your sister, RJ and Anthony. They "love" their uncle.
God bless you, Merry Christmas in heaven.
love, mom
Chad Trubilla
December 24, 2012
Merry Christmas, Ronnie.
ronald sordillo
November 12, 2012
May God take Ronnie a brave man into the great company of angels and saints in Heaven. Ronnie's sacrifice will always be remembered on this special day - Vetrans Day! Thank you Ronnie! > for what u have done for your country and for all its people > Rest in full peace.
Brian McMenamin
September 8, 2012
"No greater love than this..."
God Bless you Ronald Winchester, may you rest in peace.
Angela McLaughlin
September 6, 2012
Marianna, your strength is an inspiration to all. God Bless you and keep you.
Debby Wimsatt
September 5, 2012
You're bravery and sacrifice wil never be forgotten~
James Smith
September 4, 2012
RIP brother
Linda Grantham
September 4, 2012
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
September 4, 2012
While I'm not a Marine .....my father in law was and the respect I have for them is huge....the reason we sleep soundly in our beds at night is because brave men like LT Ronald Winchester stand at the ready to protect us at all means.....including their lives....thank you Sir!
1stLt Denis Oliverio
September 3, 2012
Today I celebrated the life of a brother Marine. "Winchester" and I tee'd it up and afterwards hoisted a cold lager in your name brother. Semper Fi!
September 3, 2012
The Grecco family remembers you daily in thought and prayer
Marianna Winchester
September 3, 2012
Dear Ron:
Whoever used the expression" your life can changed in a split second" is absolutely right. Eight years ago today, it did...and remains the worse day of my life. A sight no mother wants to see. Seeing a priest, a Marine coloniel, and staff sargent waiting in my driveway, only to hear the news that I had lost my son....
From that moment on, my life changed.Nothing mattered other than knowing that my son, my best friend,my hero was taken from this earth.The pain I feel each and everyday cannot be put into words. I re-live that horrible day everyday.This morning as I drove to church for your Mass, I looked down at the dashboard and had to laugh because there it was #73 as the outside temperature. That number followed me till I arrived home. I knew it was your way of telling me that you were with me. Your "signs' to me give me strength to go on. Finding coins, hearing one of your favorite songs,or your cell phone lighting up with your picture on it, knowing it has not been charged in eight yrs. I can feel you presence .Looking at your video's today and seeing that "smile" of yours looking right at me made me want to hug the TV while fighing back my tears.
Your sister who is still in so much pain wanting to have her brother here with your two beautiful nephews who miss and love you. Your namesake, Ronald talks to you and tells you he wants his uncle Ronnie here to play with him. Anthony hold on to your picture as he marches around the house.
They come with me to visit you and kiss your stone and tell you they love you.
I know you are with loved one's-Pa-pa, Shari and many fallen hero's as you look down on us. You also know that so many of your buddies miss you.
I love you, son. God Bless you.mom
September 3, 2012
Well buddy, it's come to that day again. Most of the time, when I think of you, I smile and chuckle, thinking about some funny thing you said or a good time we had. But I will always hate this day.
I know you're watching over all of us, and so I don't have to tell you that I'm getting married next month. What I do have to say is that the hardest part for me will me trying to not get choked up when I dance with your Mom. The only thing that will save me is the knowledge that you will be looking down on me and telling me I'm a $%&#^#* if I cry while I dance with your Mom.
I miss you everyday, brother. This year is especially hard for me because I want you at my wedding. I want to see you get a couple beers in you and tear up the dance floor like you used to. But, I know that, while I won't be able to see you...you'll be there.
I miss you. And I love you. Thank you brother.
Finley Deb
August 16, 2012
I've been thinking about you a lot lately. Another marine lost from our town. It makes me feel better believing that you met Greg at the pearly gates. Ronnie, please know how often people think of you, miss you.......
August 13, 2012
Dear Marianna,
Passed by the Buckley's home in Oceanside last night - many people keeping a vigil in their driveway, the Marine Corp flag displayed on the front of the house - their tragedy is just beginning. Made me think of Ron, his amazing service at the Cathedral, and of your family's sacrifice. I hope that they receive the kind of love and support that people have shown for Ron, and that he will be there to comfort Greg and the other young Marines lost that day. Thinking of you all with love.
Karen
May 27, 2012
Ron
Thinking of you and your family on this eve of Memorial Day 2012. Kris is in flight school now...please keep an "eye" on him.
Kathi Ochs
May 24, 2012
Dear Marianna,
I just watched the "Fallen Heroes" segment on Ron on News12. What a terrific piece, and what a positive and beautiful tribute to his memory these wonderful service dogs are! I'm so happy that you are working on this and I will share the information. We will be thinking of you all and remembering.
Love always,
Karen & family
Rob Hock
April 19, 2012
It's still your birthday here on the west coast...no wonder I can't sleep. We're all looking forward to honoring you this Saturday. I miss you brother. And, as always, I'm very proud of you. Love you buddy.
Marianna Winchester
April 18, 2012
4/18/12
Happy Birthday,son....
Does'nt seem possible you would be 33 today. In my heart you will always be my little boy and 25years old.This morning, as I do each year I sat and thought of the morning you entered this world and I held you for the first time. So, so many wonderful memories we shared. So many conversations, phone calls, your wonderful strong hugs, that smile that could light up a room....than as I attend your Mass thought of the tragic day you left this world. So many things ran through my mind as I sat there. The pain, suffering you must have experienced only to know so many of your Marines told me that you were so well respected as thier platoon commander.
Ron,as I have said so many times before the pain never leaves my body, my heart aches each and everyday. I love and miss you more and more as time passes. I asked you once again, this morning to take care of your sister and her family. The "boys" know and love their uncle Ronnie.
Saturday is your Walk of Honor. I know you will be looking down on all of your buddies, friends who will be honoring you here in NY and also in San Diego....God Bless you, Happy Birthday.
Love, mom
marianna winchester
February 9, 2012
Tomorrow night I will be at the football banquet at the academy to present another senior with your "unsung hero" award. Over the past six years these young men have been so touched and gratful to have received this award. Some of which have kept in touch with me.
It certainly will feel strange not to have Shari sitting by my side.The only thing is knowing that she is with you once again and will both be looking down on us. She loved you like a son and I am so glad she was part of my life all these years. Ron, Shari I love and miss you.
Chad Trubilla
December 25, 2011
Merry Christmas, Ronnie! You'll always be a part of our family on this day and every other.
Marianna Winchester
December 25, 2011
Merry Christmas son: 2011
I just returned from visiting you. I cleaned up around your grave, placed my rose in your wreath and told you how much I love and miss you.
Its been seven Christmass without you. It feels like a day that I lost you. As I drove home listening to Christmas music and hearing songs like "All I want for Christmas is YOU...I thought to myself so true, but impossible.Just thinking about opening gifts today with "your" family and you sisters made me feel oh so sad, angry,thinking my boy should be here today not in heaven.As I said so many times" God had other plans".
Last night, I sat for hours watching videos of you. The last football banquet at the academy, the 2000 Army/ Navy game, dinner at the Charter House...God I thought you were so strong, handsome, so big and stong. Your smile was radiant looking right at me.
Listening to Brian and Brads speeches, mentioning your name gave me chills.Seeing all the seniors stand side by side who ever thought you would be the one missing from your buddies today.So many smiles and good times. The memories I hold on too.
I cannot say holidays are more difficult than any other day because with each day that passes I miss you more and more.
Look down upon us today, son and know that we ALL miss you....
Love, mom
December 23, 2011
Dear Marianna and Family,
It's Christmas time, and my thoughts always return to the days at Nana and Grandpa's house, with all the family together, when we were kids growing up. Your parents, Uncle Roc, the cousins...we had such a good time. Who knew washing dishes could be the high point of a holiday?? I know these times are difficult ones but our memories of times past can help us get through - Ronnie brought so much joy to everyone who knew him. Let your heart be filled with memories of all the love he brought. We will be at my mom's on Christmas Eve if you want to stop by...your family is thinking of you and yours, and wishing you a Merry Christmas.
Much love,
Karen
Darlene (HS friend from SHA)
December 22, 2011
Dear Mrs. Winchester and Family,
I cannnot tell you how many times I think of Ronnie and recently my sisters and I were telling a story about a high school party at had at my house and my older sister came home and was yelling at everyone to get out or help clean up...and Ronnie jumped right up and said to her "honey, sweetheart tell me what you need?, dont worry, I got it" and from that moment on my sister had a special place in her heart for him and when we think and speak of him we have to smile and get sad all at the same time. I hope these stories help and bring some peace to hear of the Ronnie we all knew and loved and thought I should write it to you. He was a great friend to me in the high school years and I cannot tell you how happy I was whenever I saw him all the years after. I know he is giving you lots of love and strength and doing everything he can to look out for his family and all his brothers still fighting.
Wishing you a happy holiday - enjoy your grandchildren - thats what life is all about!
marianna winchester
November 24, 2011
Thanksgiving Day 2011
Dear son:
I think of you this day as I do each and everyday. Giving thanks to all those men and women who cannot share today with thier families and to you Ron for giving your life so that so many families can share today together.
An empty chair remains at the table for you today, son. Your spirit is with me 24x7. I sat and watched part of the parade until Santa arrived remembering how you and Kris sat in front of the TV waiting for that exact same moment. When the commentator thanked all those who serve our country, I cried only thinking solely of you.....Years pass, but the pain remains forever. I love and miss you, son..mom
marianna winchester
November 11, 2011
November 11th, 2011
A belated Marine Corps Birthday. Yesterday, I met with two marines and shared stories. There were plenty as you well know.
Today, my son I thank you and all the veterans present and past who served our country and give us the freedom we take so much for granted. "Freedon is NOT free" as I well know because of your sacrifice. Miss and LOVE you...mom
November 10, 2011
Dear Marianna and Family,
Thinking of you today when I saw all the tributes on facebook for the Marine Corp.'s birthday. People truly do honor these brave men and women and their proud tradition. Tomorrow is a day for remembrance and we will be honoring Ronnie and all those who fought and are fighting for us. Love and prayers to you, always!
Karen and Family
September 11, 2011
Ronnie,
Couldn't make the 10 yr (too much work and not enough play lately) but Navy came to Western Kentucky yesterday (both brothers went to WKU) and I made it down there with Emily, my brothers, and parents. I was sporting my Winchester #73 Navy Football shirt which my youngest brother had embroidered for my last birthday. Needless to say, I had several people stop me with questions and comments about "Winchester #73" and we spent a good portion of the tailgating telling Ronnie stories. (Side note: WKU had nothing on the trips option...40-14).
I think of you and your family often. You're missed.
-015646
Adrienne
September 11, 2011
I stayed awake until 5am this morning reading absolutely everything I could about you. I remember riding the train with you into the City and there was a group of brand new policemen that got on. They were so young and you explained that there were so many new recruits because so many had died on 9/11. Our country will never forget everyone who died that day. Likewise, your memory will never fade. Ever. I pray for you, your mom, your sister, all of your family and friends everyday. It is a new school year and I will introduce my kindergartners to you soon enough. They're going to love you like my last class does. You will live forever through all of us.... You are our hero.
Peggy Childers
September 3, 2011
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Ronald Winchester:
Please accept my remembrance of Ronald on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Janette Bennett
September 3, 2011
Dear Mrs. Winchester,
I wanted you to know that Rickey and I are thinking of you today. This day is always one of the hardest days of the year for me. You have been on my heart for quite some time and I just pray God's peace and comfort will surround you and your loved ones.
Blessings,
Janette Bennett and LT Rickey Bennett, CHC USN (former 1/7 Chaplain, honored to have been with Ronnie on 3 September 2004)
Marianna Winchester
September 3, 2011
Sept.3,2011
My dear Ron:
When someone used the expression " your life can change in a split second"I know exactly what they ment. Exactly this time just around 5PM I came pulling up the driveway when my life changed FOREVER. Thinking at the time seeing two Marines in dressed blues knowing that Newsday was to come and do a follow up article on your second tour. I never thought that this would become the worst day of my life.
I can still visualize papa standing by the side door telling the marines to come into the house. I in the meantime made small talk with them until after I saw the third person with them--the priest. Than I thought "Oh dear God NO".
My son was injured I thought only to find out in a split second that I was completely wrong. You were gone, gone forever.....
Ron not a day goes by that my heart does not ache. I re-live that horrific moment day in and day out.At that moment and for the rest of my life I knew I would never be the same.
I lost my"prince" my son, my hero, my friend.How could I go on without you I thought? Than to know I had to relay this information to you sister in a short time after. Her life also changed in a split second as well.Knowing you have two beautiful nephews and not being able to play with them and share your family makes me angry at times.
Today, as I write this entry your class at the academy is celebrating your 10 year reunion since graduating.So many of your buddies have emailed and called me telling me your are in thier thoughts. A memorial service was held in your honor.I know you are missed by so many of your buddies.
One never know "why" things happen. The "unknown" is a mystery. One thing is certain this mom loves and misses her son more than any words can express. I would give or do anything to have you back here with us. Unfortunely, God had other plans for you.
Just know that no matter how many days, weeks, months or years pass it all still feels like today. I know you are looking down on me and give me strength to go on.I close my eyes and see your beautiful smile and hear that chuckle in your laughter. I miss and love you son forever and ever.....until I see you again, please watch over your sister and her family. God Bless you.
Love, mom
Deb Finley
September 3, 2011
Thinking of the Winchesters today with a very heavy heart.
August 11, 2011
Dear Marianna and family,
Just a note to let you know that I am thinking of you, and Ron. Just read the CNN iReport tribute written by the son of the pilot of the Chinook chopper that went down in Afghanistan, and of course thought of you. The boy is only 10, and worried that the world would forget his dad. I left him a comment, telling him that the world will always remember and honor his dad, just as Ron is remembered and honored.
Love to you all.
Karen Leonard
Marianna Winchester
July 4, 2011
HAPPY 4th of July , son:
The "real" meaning of today is ecause of people like you.Our "freedom" and independence is made possible because so many gave thier lives for us...
So today, while so many families only think of fireworks, barbecques,and festive celebrations, I think of you...and thank you, son.
My visit to you I told you how much you are missed. It's days like today we should ALL be together. Your family spending the day with a nana and their counsins. But, like I always say" God had other plans".
I will think of you this entire day no different than any other, play my patriotic CD's, watch the festivities from the Capitol tonight and know that you are watching over us. Today, you and papa can celebrate together....
I love and miss you, more than any words can express....mom
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