Donald P. Vilmar

Donald P. Vilmar

Donald Vilmar Obituary

Published by Post Star on Jun. 20, 2008.
CENTER RUTLAND, Vt. and BOLTON LANDING, N.Y. Donald P. Vilmar, devoted husband, loving father and grandfather, died unexpectedly on Tuesday, June 10, 2008. Born on Sept. 9, 1933, in Ridgewood, N.J., he was the son of the late Frederick T. and Elizabeth Vilmar of Mahwah, N.J. Don graduated from Ramsey High School in 1951, and Nichols College in 1954. After college, he served in the U.S. Army in Europe as an MP, reaching the rank of sergeant. His working life took him through a host of experiences starting as "Gandy Dancer" supervisor for the Erie Rail Road. He spent two years as sales liaison for the Ford Motor Company followed by several years in sales management in the airline industry. He then followed the dream of owning his own business. He opened a travel agency in Mahwah, N.J., which he ran for sixteen years. Upon selling the agency, Don dabbled in real estate and became a school bus driver in Mahwah, N.J., as well as Vermont. At the time of his death, he was employed by The Sagamore in Bolton Landing as a Captain on The Morgan as well as a bus driver for the city of Rutland. In addition to his career Don was also involved in a great deal of volunteer organizations. He was a member of the Mahwah, N.J. volunteer fire department for 52 years during which time he served as fire chief and was a county fire instructor. In addition, he was also a member of the volunteer ambulance corps and heavy rescue squad. He served on the Mahwah Planning Board, was on the Board of Health, a charter member of the Mahwah Lions Club, president of the Chamber of Commerce, director of the Ramsey, N.J. Rotary Club, coached his son's little league teams and was 1982 Citizen of the Year in Mahwah, N.J. After moving from New Jersey to Vermont, Don joined the Free Masons and was elevated to the Shriners of Mount Sinai No. 3 reaching the pinnacle in The Royal Order of Jesters in Montpelier, Vt. He is survived by his loving wife of 51 years, Dorothy Snow Vilmar; his son, Donald and wife, Pam, and grandsons, Brian and Kyle of Diamond Point, N.Y.; his son, David and wife, Kathy, and granddaughter, Emily of Glens Falls, N.Y.; his daughter, Debbie Vilmar, of Glens Falls, N.Y.; sister, Jane Vilmar of Ramsey, N.J.; and sister, Sally Shawley of Orofino, Idaho. A private memorial was held at the family camp on Lake George on June 13, 2008. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to Mahwah Fire Company No. 1, 100 Miller Road, Mahwah, NJ 07430 or Shriners Hospitals for Children, 516 Carew St., Springfield, MA 01104. Arrangements are under the direction of Regan & Denny Funeral Home, 53 Quaker Road, Queens- bury.

This obituary was originally published in the Post Star.

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July 25, 2008

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Jeanie (McIntosh) & Steve Coutras

July 25, 2008

Dottie, Don, David, & Debbie:
DV was a wonderful part of my life, an integral part of our summers at the lake. I can still hear his booming voice and laughter, and can see him tossing toddlers Donald and David in the air, driving the Ark, and doing manly maintenance stuff with Dad. Mom and Dad always looked forward to their social evenings with Dottie and DV, and later to the "toot" at sunset from the tour boat. He was larger than life and had a heart to match. Love to you all.

Jan Ross

June 23, 2008

Dear Aunt Dorothy, Don, David, Debbie and families -
Brad and I are so saddened to have lost such a dear friend. Although many years have passed, you all are still my family. Salmon egg spray, orange juice and pizza. DV's big smile and bear hug will always be close to my heart.

Jenn Deepe

June 23, 2008

Don & Debbie:
So sorry to hear about your loss. Your Dad had a way of lighting up the room, and it was always a joy to see him!

Brooke Clark Nemec

June 22, 2008

Don Pam Debbie and Family
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. He was a wonderful man and may your memories carry you through the hard times.My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.

Herb and Shelly Sady

June 20, 2008

Dave & Kathy
We are so sorry to here about the loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Barb French

June 19, 2008

Don, i am so sorry to hear about your dad, he was such a great man, always had a hug for me when ever he came into the transportation office, i will always remember him with that smile .

Jim & Barbara Varner

June 19, 2008

Dear Dottie and family
We were very sorry to hear of Don's passing.
He was a great friend and we will miss the
mountain man forever. Our prayers are with you. Please keep in touch

Dawn Elder - Sylofski

June 19, 2008

Dave, Kathy and Debbie,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Dawn (a.k.a., your crazy spin instructor)

Bob & Barbara LaMontagne

June 19, 2008

Dear Dottie and family: How shocked we were to hear of the passing of Don. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. As I look back and remember all the great times we had together, I appreciate the privilege of having Don as a good friend. God Bless

Charles Vuolo

June 19, 2008

Dear Dottie, My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Don will be missed by us all and remembered as a fun loving great guy and a good friend. Chuck Vuolo

Tom DeWan

June 18, 2008

To the Vilmar Family,
Our deepest sympathy and condolences from the DeWan family.
Don will be missed.
Tom and Jane

Todd and Debbie Stiles

June 18, 2008

Don and Family,
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our prayers are with you.

Garry Cook

June 16, 2008

Dear Vilmar Family
We are sorry for your loss. We enjoyed many happy hours with the Vilmar family as kids in Mahwah.

Jean Creighton and Garry Cook

Bob Iannacone

June 16, 2008

To the Vilmar family,
I have lost my best friend, but I still have his fantastic family to help me through my loss. Don was a lucky man to have all the love that you gave him. Dottie, kids I love you all.
Don I will miss you and the busting that we did on each other.

Mark & Kim Koenig

June 15, 2008

To The Vilmar Family:

We are so sorry to hear of Our Friend Don's passing. Our Thoughts & Prayers go out to the Family.

Jim, Bev & Reta McIntosh

June 15, 2008

Dear Dottie, Donald, David & Debbie,
We are all so sorry to hear of DV's passing. We have been talking about all the wonderful memories of recent years and I have shared some of the more memorable moments from my childhood. All are of a kind and loving "Giant" of a man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

I love and miss you Grandpa

Emily Vilmar

June 15, 2008

Dearest Grandpa,
I miss you so much. I am so glad I still have the "grandpa bear" you gave me with your voice on it. Graduation this year will be sad without you but I know you are there in spirit with me.

Love Emily Rose

Maryann Koupash-Dunlavey

June 15, 2008

Mrs. Vilmar.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know all too well the pain of losing a loved one. I will always remember Mr.Vilmar and David playing golf in the Brandon Dunlavey Golf Tournament. It meant a lot to our family. I'll be seeing you soon. The Dunlavey Family

June 15, 2008

Dear Mrs. "V", David, Kathy, Emily Rose & Debbie,

We're so sorry to hear about Mr. "V". We are glad that we got to play golf with him at the Brandon golf tourney and enjoyed trading stories with him. If there is anything we can do to help during this time please let us know. We are here for you. You're in our thoughts and prayers. The Koupash Family

Mitch and Ina Monroe

June 15, 2008

Dear Dot and Family,
We are so sad to hear of Don's passing. He was one of the most kind,loving and truly sincere man that we knew. I hold dear to my heart times that I was able to sit in the wheel house of the Morgan and just talk about everything in life with him. He had a heart of gold! Heaven is rich with an angel like Don!
May you all find comfort in knowing how many people loved Don.
Love and Prayers, Mitch & Ina

Paul and Gail McIntosh

June 13, 2008

Dear Dot, Donald, David, Debbie and family,
I am sad to hear about the loss of the 'Jolly Green Giant" whose memory we all cherish.
It is our heartfelt prayer that you will feel the Lord's comfort during this very difficult time. You are in our prayers.
Paul and Gail McIntosh

Ed & Susie Simms

June 13, 2008

Dear Dottie,
So sorry to hear of Don's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Bill Tokos

June 13, 2008

Don, Dave, & Debbie,
So sorry to hear of your loss. It was always great to meet with "The Captain" for informally little chats in the Sagamore Transportation Office. A truely great man, full of life and joy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.

Butch Bowman

June 13, 2008

So sorry to hear of Don's passing; we go back a long way in Mahwah.
Our prayers are with the family.

Janet Hughes

June 12, 2008

Dear Vilmar Family,
My heart goes out to you for your loss and my prayers are with you. What a gift to have such a rich bank of loving and lively memories to draw from. He'll always be with you on the lake breeze and the rustle of the trees.

Mariann, Rick & Mackenzie

June 12, 2008

Deb, Don, Pam, Brian & Kyle,
I am so sorry for your loss. I will dearly miss Don Sr.'s grand entrances with that huge smile and equally large personality. What an incredible spirit he possessed.
The Guests on the Morgan will also miss the opportunity to wave to your mom while Don explained that it was his beautiful wife.
Bolton has truly suffered a great loss. God Bless you all.

Teri Ross

June 12, 2008

Mrs. V, Don, Dave, Debbie & family,

We were so sorry to hear of Don's sudden passing. I bet Susie is mixing him a cocktail right now. He will be missed.

Love,
Darren & Teri Ross

Maranville Family

June 12, 2008

Vilmar Family,

We are sorry for your loss and hope that you are strong through all of this. God bless you and your family.

Mike, Becky and Michelle Carpenter

June 12, 2008

Don, Pam, Brian and Kyle we are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts go out to you during the time of your sorrow.

Betsy Robinson Jaquith

June 12, 2008

Words cannot express our sorrow. Although we know there is now a party and DV's contagious laughter in Heaven, it's such a loss for all of us here.
Our blessings to the entire family.

The Jaquith Family
Betsy, Doug, Drew, Bethany & Wizard
Lancaster PA

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